I've spent pretty much all my life enjoying fantastic adventures in fiction. Books, TV, anime, video games, etc
I just watched Diebuster after sitting on it for 8 years and it's put me into an intense rut. How do you deal with knowing that you'll never be or do anything important with your life?
Says who? Do something important with your life, get a job that helps people. I'm an EMT and it's always a great feeling when I've helped someone in an emergency and they thank me for it.
No one person can save the world, real life isn't a sentai. Just do what you can to make the world better rather than worse.
>>17441134
Not OP, but I lament more the fact that it's not worth helping people since most are monumental assholes who get less grief than they're due or causing. Helping them will only make them dodge karma. It won't teach them empathy or compassion, because they wouldn't be assholes if they had the capacity for those things.
And that stops me from helping anyone even though I'd like to ban misery and sadness from the world.
>>17441295
No I don't agree with that. I do deal with a lot of human garbage like drunks, the homeless, junkies, homeless drunk junkies but on a whole I think you're being overly bleak. You've convinced yourself that it won't matter so why even try, but it's based on a false assumption. There are genuinely good people, I help them every day and I'd like to think that I'm one as well. Additionally acts of good will are contagious and it starts with you.
Hey, adv. I need help. There was an anon out there that had screenshots of a thread from /b/ about a guy who knew some kind of formula or recipe for a kind of drink that would induce women's menstrual contractions even if there was a fertilized egg imbedded in her or even a small fetus. Does someone have it please?!
>>17441077
I only know this
>>17441077
also there was a method of abortion with some OTC medication (which is painfully as fuck, but welp, less painfull than having a life ruined) but I cant recall the name for shit
>>17441078
That's not the exact picture but thanks, anon.
Why should I feel bad about cam whore-ing / being a sugar baby ?
Now that I'm in a serious relationship I can't do that because I know my guilt will upset me but the devil on my shoulder tells me it's easy money and what my boyfriend dosent know won't hurt him. Plus what if we don't work out. Etc.
I don't sleep with strangers but I'm pretty poor and and grew up that way so of course it's nice to not have to help my struggling mom with rent/food and be able to treat myself to something nice. Or that's me being selfish.
I wouldn't ever tell my boyfriend about my old ways of income so I definitely wouldn't if I was doing it behind his back.
Let's say I was single, would it still be bad and if so why?
get your boyfriend involved? As much as they like watching you play with your tits and deep throat a dildo, maybe they'd like it better if your boyfriend played with your tits while you sucked his dick?
Serious relationships have honesty. You don't have to tell a boyfriend everything, but you should know that this is one of the things you're obligated to communicate about. Doing it behind his back is clearly a breach of trust. How would you feel if he violated your trust and respect?
There is a certain stigma attached to that lifestyle, and those pics are going to be around forever. On the other hand they will be among a sea of other ones and maybe overlooked by anyone you know. I don't know if there's anything morally wrong with spreading ass and vagoo for tips but if you're doing it without a boyfriend knowing it's dishonest and may hurt him. I'd say bring it up with him and explain that you need the money, might also help if you have a non-"sleazy" job on the side
I'm plagued by suspicions that my gf is plotting to cheat or some shit. She keeps me up to speed on everything she does throughout the day but still I get suspicious. She recently quit her job because her manager was flirting with her and now she drives Lyft and Uber. But now I get paranoid she's going to bring someone to our house while I'm at work or meet someone she likes more or something. Thing is she also has herpes like me so shed naturally tell someone if she were really gonna fuck them like she told me a long time ago. Still I have these shitty thoughts. What do?
>>17441051
It sounds like you have unhealthy levels of jealousy and paranoia. Go see a professional.
Make enough money so she dosent have to work and get a nice house and chain her to it. Put a lot of actives in there that she might enjoy like video games or a knit kit.
Lowkey put cameras by the entrance/exit so you can see who comes in and out that way the pizza man isn't getting two tips.
- if she wants to cheat she will by the way. It's not in your control unless you're a shit bf even then she can just dump you.
>>17441051
Hahaha ultimate cuck. Someone else diseased her up with their dick, and she offered you sloppy seconds and you went in without a second thought?
I'm a dude. And ive been with my fair share of women, however not one has been able to get me to cum, at least without my help (Aka jacking off myself) Question is why. It could be that im getting all the amateurs, or something else.
As to lasting, i stay hard long enough for her to cum at least twice with me inside her (Myself i just go soft after a while, I think its the condom, doesn't let me feel shit), and even so my foreplay game is dope so we usually have no troubles keeping the fun going.
Of course the girls think im not into them because they cant make me cum, but that's not it.
I have trouble cumming, but I'll get super horny spurts where I'll blow in 10 seconds. I've been trying to make an effort to cut back my porn, don't know how much it really helps since I'm hornier then hell within two days.
Find a nice girl on birth control that you're reasonably sure doesn't have STDs. Don't use a condom. I haven't been able to cum with a condom since high school.
I have the same exact problems OP. I think its from death grip, but I cant go like more than 2 days without rubbing one out.
I can't stop sabotaging myself, and I don't know why.
Last year was my first year of college, I met a guy who really like me, and we started dating. He was my first real bf but it only lasted 3 months because I sabotaged it by expressing my anxiety and paranoia that it wouldn't work.
He tried to take me back a few weeks ago, but I refused to see him out of anxiety. I would still call him and tell him how I didn't think he was being sincere and I thought he was just doing it out of guilt.
Here I am, now, weeks later, feeling incredibly empty. I don't have a job, or friends, because I once did but pushed them away/quit. All I can think about is my ex and how happy he once made me. I called him this morning and basically begged him. He told me we could never be together.
I just feel so ripped off. I can't stop thinking of ways I could kill myself. I feel like this is all my fault. I had everything, but I pushed it away because I was afraid.
>>17441025
See a fucking shrink, jesus. Get tested for whatever.
>>17441035
Already done. I have anxiety but I refuse to take the mess my doctors gave me. They make me feel zombie-like
>>17441061
Have you tried a few different options for medication? See another psychiatrist and get a second opinion. None of this stuff is one-size-fits-all. You might be able to find a different medication, or a different dosage, or just new coping strategies that can help you live with your symptoms without intolerable side effects.
Sometimes it takes a little trial-and-error, don't give up on the whole process just because you don't like THESE meds. It sounds like you clearly want to make a change, but your disorder is holding you back. This is the exact moment you should seek professional help
Male here, why am I so paranoid of rape? I've gone to google and searched through 14 pagesof "man raped", most rape stories are male-to-female, but some are male-to-male and they're all brutal... Rape is the worst thing, don't judge me for what I am about to say: Women seem to touch me inappropriately more, but it seems women rape less than men - so I am glad I'm a man if rape is that unlikely, but I still am scared. I'm considering self defense training and having police on speed dial.
>>17440995
Wtf is wrong with you, you a faggot?
>>17440995
A girl did grind on me at work and it made me cry once but my big fear is a girl saying I raped her when she told me she was consenting
One of the reasons is I was threatened with rape by males before - I was sexually assaulted before I turned 18 more than once.
I am frustrated about this, but I'd be happy never to deal with it again.
Also, the males who are rape victims look like me - all good looking between 18-24 y/o.
Posted a few days ago but figured I repost
So I got put on Oxycodone for a few weeks due to getting my Wisdom teeth removed
What I noticed besides the pain dilution was that my depression went away completely
Now I'm not looking to get addicted to Oxycodone, but the depression I have makes everything hard to do. Any suggestions for medication?
And I don't care about becoming a zombie, feeling nothing and being able to work matters more to me than feeling needless anxiety over stuff that doesn't matter
>>17440931
Painkillers help me with depression also. It sucks that oxy is so addictive and over time you have to keep increasing dosage.
I get hydrocodone for depression.
As long as your doctor is legit, just let him know. Once I took an oxy and I felt better mentally, I went to the doctor and inquired as to why.
He was like: "anon, you may just have adult adhd! i am going to place you on hydrocodone! it works the same as other medications for adhd and often works better in some patients! Here's 90 10mg hydrocodones!"
5 years. Still the same 90 tablets. Never once abused them. No real issues. I do blood work every 4 months and nothing has changed in that regard.
>>17440944
So wait, do you take the pills, or no?
>>17440944
Bull fucking shit.
Why do people who are not christian, have christenings? my friend had a christening for his baby a few days ago, i went to support him. However, he doesent even believe in any of it. its like me sacrificing some goats to zeus for a laugh. his family also isnt religious, and its not like he enjoyed the event.
>>17440887
To keep you brainwashed people guessing.
>>17440887
In some countries/communities it is just a ritual to get people together and celebrate the new born.
It doesn't even have a strong religious meaning anymore.
>>17440897
couldent they literally just have a party and say "yeah, its to celebrate the babys birth". its not like you can talk with people during the christening. i think its pretty stupid desu lol. if they are going to do it, they should at least be religious.
Have decent job as nurse, live in an active area, tall, somewhat good looking, and just starting to feel like the good ones are getting snagged up.
Looking for a normie life.
Where do I find wife material?
And what should I look for when searching?
>>17440866
You seem to have all the resources assuming you arent lying, do you have any friends?
>>17440867
Just work friends
Bump for interest.
How do you make friends outside of work ?
Okay /adv/, I work with this lazy, fat cunt of an employee.
Aside from barely doing any work in a day (shop employee here), he takes his breaks super late in the day so he has less time left to work (supposed to break every 2 1/2 hours but nearly every day he takes his break at an hour until clock out), constantly calls in sick and takes time off for nothing, and is a complete asshole.
The worst thing is that management and all the fellow employees know about him, but he's never gotten and will never get anything more than a verbal reprimand b/c management is shitty and this guy has 20+ year seniority. So please don't suggest "talk to your manager" because everybody in the shop including the manager makes jokes about how bad this guy is. He cannot and will not get fired.
SO what are some things I can do to fuck with him at work? Not severely, like get him hurt/fired, but some subtle things I can do that will just make his day a little worse. This guy is a total cunt tool and he drags down the entire shop when he works.
You sound annoying. Grow the fuck up.
I used to not take breaks during the day so I could leave early too. It made me more tired than I would have been otherwise, but oh well. Someone had to drive my mom to the clinic every fucking day, and I was happy to do.
I only got this approved with management and told nobody.
People gave me shit because I seemed tired all the time and they assumed I was lazy because I wasn't at work for the full shift, although I worked the same number of hours.
After my mom passed, these faggots thought it was funny that I could instantly work a full day and the jokes increased. Finally, during lunch I played a video of my mom telling them how awesome I was for taking care of her and then she told them all to go fuck themselves and stop being such cunts.
Leave this man alone. We don't all need to share our stories at work so we don't get bullied, its really none of your fucking business why he does what he does. Until you sign his check, just shut the fuck up and move along.
>>17440832
>tfw you will never blow your load on her titties
I love you Hannah
>>17440882
Fuck off tripfag.
So I've already got a doctors appointment in 3 hours but I thought i'd kill the time by looking around.
https://imgur.com/a/WcN4e
I found this the night after I had a spider crawling on me, it was about 1.5cm wide small short legs big bodied spider
About me:
Age 22
Sex: Male
Height: 198cm, 6ft 5ish
Weight 130kg
Race: White British
Duration, I don't know but it has given me no symptons or pain.
Location: Right underbelly.
No existing medical issues
No medication
Photo is linked above
Shame Bump
>>17440814
Bump. Good luck on help, anon
What the FUCK is wrong with your finger? Also, just looks like a huge blackhead
I'm 23 years old, no work experience, a highschool dropout but working towards my diploma in a adult high school diploma program.
I've never done volunteer work, is it possible to still write a resume that isn't empty outside of my name and how I'd be a diligent and hard worker? Should I even bother making a resume and just hope the manager will give me a chance via an interview? I'm just looking for part-time/full time work.
Please help
>>17440813
get an entry level job or internship and start volunteering
bam resume
Opie why did you drop out? Yes high school sucks but it's easymode compared to actual jobs. It's just something we all have to endure though it fucking sucks
My girlfriend just walked in on me masturbating and in super embarrassed. What do I do?
>>17440796
Get her to finish you off?
>>17440796
Laugh about it. Ignore it.
People masturbate, unless you masturbate upside down while fucking your butt with a dildo dressed up like a french maid she won't be surprised. It's not really a huge deal.
Blame her for not being sexually active enough.
So there is this girl who wants to have sex with me.
I want to... obviously, but I am extremely afraid. Im a virgin and honestly my greatest fear is getting a girl pregnant.
Im thinking about not doing it but I feel like this might be a chance I wont ever get again. I mean Im not particulary dying to get fucked but it would be nice...
Can someone reassure me that its a good idea or warn me if its not? If I use a condom the chances of her getting pregnant is low right?
Ask her to use contraceptics
Don't have sex if you don't want to, it's literally that simple.
>>17440790
Use a condom. Ask her if she's on the pill.
Pull out, too, if you want to be extra sure.
Make sure you put the condom on correctly, that it is in good conditions and that she is wet when you put it in.