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>take chem test on thursday
>walking out
>girl behind me who finished at the same time asks me what I thought about it.
>talk about the test, then talk about school for a bit.
>after talking for like 10 minutes, I ask her for her number
>she gives it to me
>she also mentions that she might need help with calculus (idk if this is relevant but whatever)
Ok so how do I progress from here?
Maybe relevant fact: she's not super hot, she has a nice face but she kind of has a pot belly, I don't THINK I mind it but I only saw her in a relatively dark place.
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>>17648787
Invite her on a coffee and calculus date.
True story: this is actually how JFK ended up fucking Marilyn Monroe.
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>>17648791
Like just text her?
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>>17648895
Absolutely not. Ask her out in person. If you won't see her within a week, call her instead.
Under no circumstances should you ever text (or Facebook message) someone to ask them out.
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How do i tell her to fuck off in the nicest way possible?
This girl i'm 'friends' with always ignores me and seems to forget all about me for weeks or even a couple months before replying something like, "anon!!! I miss you!! I'm sorry for being such a bad friend, i've just been so busy lately!" When she does that, i'll talk to her, we'll usually make plans to hang out, maybe we will, but then she just does it all over again.
She claims to be terrible at getting back to people and told me "just text me a million times until i answer". Well i texted her 5 times over the course of about 3 weeks and all have gone unanswered.
Last time i saw her was about 3 weeks ago, we met up at a music festival. She was blowing up my phone as i was driving down, asking when i'd be there, saying hurry up and shit bc can't wait to see you. We met up, she hugged me like 4 times, we watched a bit of a band's set together and i saw her for probably 20 minutes before we split and agreed to meet up again later. Well she never answered my texts or calls and later on said her phone was on airplane mode.
I'm tired of it. I do miss hanging out with her, we always had fun. But she isn't putting in any effort in being my friend, and seriously, it's not that hard.
What should i say when she inevitably texts me again sometime in the future, without seeming butthurt about it? I don't have time to wait around for someone who only gives a shit about me once in a blue moon.
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>>17648771
desu it sounds like shes just using you as a last resort if all the people she actually cares about are too busy.
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>>17648771
>How do i tell her to fuck off in the nicest way possible?
Before you do that, have you, I don't know, talked to her about her behavior and told her how it makes you feel? Have you tried setting her down and discussing how to work your friendship in a way that both of you can be satisfied with it? Have you made any attempt to make things better, or have you just sat there like a whiny bitch, letting your frustration build because you're too much of pansy to confront her?
What she's doing sucks, but you don't even sound like you're willing to give her the benefit of the doubt.
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Just tell her you don't think she values your friendship and when she is ready to put effort in give you a call otherwise don't bother me I've got shit to do and assholes to lick.
Honestly I would just let the friendship die, when she asks you how you are or invites you to hang, just ignore her or say you're busy.
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I'm sick of working retail and want to get a factory job. There is a really big and well known factory in my city and they are currently hiring. The entry level positions call for 3-6 months general labor experience. Does retail count as general labor.
>Experience I Have:
-1 year working at Best Buy as a Home Theater Sales Consultant.
-1 year working Walmart as a dual-coded Electronic Sales Associate and an Inventory Management Specialist (unloading trucks and taking inventory).
-1 year working at Kroger as a courtesy clerk (also unloaded trucks there).
Do I meet the requirements to work there?
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>>17648762
Walk into the office. I don't mean apply online, I mean no shit WALK into the office and ask if they're hiring full time. If you're willing to work 9/10 they will hire you. Dress well when you walk in
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>>17648773
Willing to work, open availability, can pass drug test, no criminal record, high school diploma, and I'm hungry for real work. Also what's the proper way to dress when going to a warehouse interview if I get a call back? Dress shirt, slacks and shoes or polo shirt, dickie's (I got a really nice pair of their black khaki work pant that fits perfect and looks professional) and work boots?
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>>17648789
if you're really serious about the job you'd wear a tuxedo
When should I, if ever, come out to my conservative family as being in poly relationship?
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Bumping for.... something.
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Why is your relationship poly
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>>17648755
What business is it of theirs?
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My dad is an utter douchewaffle, so I blocked him on facebook. I figured this was a better approach for dealing with someone who is at chronic avoidance of his issues. Instead of fighting with him, and having the bs constantly shoved down my throat, and pretending that nothing is happening passive-aggressively.
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>>17648748
So you're avoiding him?
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>>17648748
>utter douchewaffle
He can't be as bad as the son he raised.
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>>17648759
Well he isn't as bad as an judgemental internet troll, for sure.
Almost a year ago me and my friend were texting each other. I was asking her for advice on how to get together with a girl I like. We eventually began talking about fetishs and she asked if I have anything, I responded by telling her I have a fetish for girls in tights or stockings. About a minute later she replied with this photo of herself. I didn'the really acknowledge it and we never brought it up again. At the time she was dating one of my friends. I don't know why but it's just been clawing away at the back of my brain for a while now so I thought I'd ask if I should ask her about it.
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A year ago? No, you're a fucking creep. If you can recreate a similar conversation and go from there, sure, she's still into you.
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>>17648723
Haven't talked on a long while. How would I even get to that point?
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>>17648728
Talk normally for a few days-weeks, talk a bit more like you did a year ago for a few days-weeks, talk familiar like you did for a few days-weeks. Rekindling "friendships" isn't hard.
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Guys are confusing
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So okay this is ridiculous. Does he like me? Is he good enough for me? Is this a bad idea? Am I a massive bitch?
I've been friends with this guy for several months now. He's currently going through the absolute worst divorce imaginable and is staying with a friend. I've been over at his friend's place a few times to hang out and we keep ending up alone the hot tub. And I'm wearing less and less clothes as things go on, because friend says laundry detergent fucks with it and he has to clean it. Last two times I ended up completely naked, which is fine. We have a good time in there and have long depressing discussions about how life is hard and lots of other things. This last time he was going on about how the worst part is being alone and how it's like torture for him to go so long without sex. Kinda got the impression he was asking as politely as possible for a blowjob, and I just shut him down with something like, "I think you'll live without sex."
We've been sleeping in the same bed over there because it's the only one available, and he gets really cuddly after he falls asleep. Which is also fine. It's confusing though that I can't tell if he wants me or not. Wish he'd just tell me.
He and I are probably moving in together soonish, once he gets some money saved up. And this part is worrying because I'm sorta afraid to make that weird with sex. Also I guess I'm not looking to have a serious relationship with him, but wouldn't be opposed to sex sometimes. Is this a bad idea?
I think I'm better than him and he's not really bf material as he is, but could be if he made some big changes in his life. He seems really sensitive too and I'm afraid of hurting him a little. Told him tonight about a relationship I had with a married man and I can't tell if it bothered him or not. I want to be completely honest with him about things without hurting him.
Idk I'm so confused about what's happening and what I should do or why I should do if. I'm horrible with relationships
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Yes, you are horrible with relationships.
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>>17648666
>Good enough for me
Stopped reading there. Are you some new breed of superhuman no one has heard of yet?
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>>17648670
I mean clearly. Do you have advice for me?
>>17648674
Why would you stop reading there? He's kind of a mess from this divorce thing and doesn't make a lot of money or work out much. And I'm ofc basically perfect (not really though)
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My brother "converted" to Christianity. He has been sitting in his room meditating and praying the rosary or some other shit for hours every day.
He stopped drinking or smoking weed, gave 90% of his belongings and saving to charity, and he's completely stopped talking to his old group of friends. It's making me worried that he has changed so much.
He just isn't the person I grew up with. It's difficult to be around him. he is very quiet and reserved and doesn't really talk to anyone anymore, just reads, prays, and whatever else he does in his room or at his new church (it's an Orthodox church btw). He might even end up becoming a monk or joining the seminary.
What do I do?
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Stop making this stupid fucking thread.
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>>17648649
This is the first time I've made this thread. Is this a common issue or something?
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>>17648645
>What do I do?
Stop making copypastas, for one. There was a Buddhist version of this some weeks ago.
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Recovering addict here.
What do people normally do to occupy themselves when they are quitting something? I literally have too much time on my hands.
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>>17648641
do you have any old hobbies that you'd left by the wayside? take baby steps towards reinvesting in them
the fact that a person can start anywhere and choose anything can seem discouraging, it was for me, but it's also a blessing, even if it's something as simple as sinking a few hours into a book every week
take up an instrument, read, explore old music, look for new stuff, look into cooking, hiking, collecting things
you didn't come to love the things you used to going into them with expectations of what they once were to you, let it be new, even if it's scary to depart from old shit and get back on track, it's the furthest thing from impossible, and will always remain that way
hang in there, shit gets better
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>>17648641
Build things!
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>>17648669
I second building things. I'm a musician and when I quit caffeine booze and weed, I learned a shitload about guitar amps and then built some from scratch.
Also why is wayne all over /adv/ now?
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I really really felt like getting an asian massage tonight, but I went to two places and they werent accepting anyone after 9:30pm despite their closing hour officially being 10:00pm. I have a feeling that there is some sort of lingo or whatever to get you in past these hours, I mean, late night is when most guys would want to get a happy ending, right?
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The girls are tired at the end of the day.
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>>17648642
i'm tired at the end of the day too but I still do my job until the end of my shift. All they're doing is rubbing some dude's back and then jerking him off for a few minutes and getting paid a hundred bucks cash. Fuck, where's the work ethic?
I'm just frustrated. Sorry /adv/. I'll jerk off and go to bed or something.
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>>17648663
I don't think you are getting the hint...
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Why do I get a boner every time I hug my girlfriend? How can I make it stop?
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Why is this a bad thing? At least it shows that you think she's hot
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>>17648556
It's embarrassing trying to hug somebody when you have a boner.
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>>17648558
Not that bad if it's your girlfriend
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So I just turned 21 a month ago or so, and finally got the license after some address bullshit. Here's my question, how does going out work?
Namely, do you just go to bars by yourself in the hopes of bringing ladies back? I have my ma's place to myself for the weekend, and I tried getting my buddies to go to a post comic con rave, but nobody was down. What do?
It's not that I don't go out, I go to parties and stuff, I'm just not familiar with bars.
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>>17648551
Bars are not going to get your laid any more than a coffee shop is the first stop to your dream girl's heart. Most women at bars are either with a boy or guy friend to get away from creeps, with a group of girls to get away from creeps, or solo because they're just as fucking jaded as the older men there and don't want to talk to your stupid fucking face.
Just a friendly heads up.
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>>17648562
Ok...so...where are you going with that? Never go to bars?
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>>17648566
Bars are just a lazy fallback when you have nothing going on and you have a few friends to go with you and shoot some shit and/or not a lot of money. They're not usually worth the expense because you can do that at home or a friend's house.
If you want some fun, you can go out and drink while you go bowling, a lot of small town theaters even in major cities will offer alcohol, etc., so you're actually doing something while you're drinking if you really want to go out.
If you want some fast hookup sloppy sex, clubs are shitty but alright, even solo, but it's best to have at least one buddy with you.
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does porn exist of women who are not soft bodied like most pornstars, and not ripped like bodybuilder pornstars, just inbetween fit women, slightly toned? everytime i search for it, it only shows bodybuilders
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Rule 43, then tile 34. Try dancers. Swimmers, old women. Widen your scope.
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>>17648534
I think you're looking for something so specific that no one gives a shit about it.
Browse and hope for the best, desu.
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>>17648544
a fit woman who is not a bodybuilder is not really specific is it?
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Sometimes I get off to the moans of my sister having sex with her boyfriend (am also female). Is that gay?
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>>17648500
Had a female friend with exactly this issue.
Could you post your breasts with a timestamp? :) Then I will take out as long as you want to type out everything I told her.
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That depends, which idea do you find gets you off:
>the idea of your sister being fucked would be gay
>the idea of her boyfriend being fucked would be straight
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>>17648500
It just means you are sexual.
Sexuality is fluid. Gay and Straight are meaningless labels. It is like calling somebody Good or Evil. Some people are mostly Good but then have some Evil about them. Some people are Evil scum but do Good things from time to time.
How are online classes? Good or bad? I been struggling to learn my math class and I just dropped it since I have no chance of passing. Most of all the math classes are an hour long.
So next semester I'm going to try out an online class witch I have not done before. Worth it?
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Only worth it if you have the discipline to regularly do shit for them. So many people put them off because 'they'll be there later' and fall behind. If you're lazy and lack motivation, don't do it.
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>>17648482
IMO learning math online is more frustrating than in person.
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>>17648482
Im taking an online cs course and its pretty fucking dope. No class, just turn in a series of basic programs at the end of the week and you get a grade. Hardest part about it is managing doing the programs while ive got other homework throughout the week but its not bad.