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Seems logical op. I wouldn't worry about it. It's only fair that you've tested out some other pussies too.

>>17648473
Maybe you're just a dog who likes cheating OP. Took me years to figure out that's just what I like doing and not feel bad about it. It's up to you, your own self image and what you like is what you gain.

It is what it is.

Perhaps you needed to go out and do shit for the relationship to work. Perhaps it won't work in the future. Either way, it wasn't working.

Admit it, break up, spend some time apart. Maybe come back together again at a later date.
It mitigates the act of cheating if you don't try to deceive the other person.

I've been in almost the exact same situation, except I broke up with my girlfriend to do it. Ego is not a concern for people who have a strong ego, so she just didn't understand. Hasn't taken me back, but I haven't made too much of an effort and that was never in her nature.

Hold back lp lp back lk standing hp

That should do the it.

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>>17648399

Fingering is meant for foreplay.

Your average woman is not going to cum from finger work. Accept that.

Do it briefly, then move on to other things. Be gentle, her vagina isn't a whack-a-mole. If she starts moaning when you do something, keep doing it.

Also, it wouldn't be ridiculous to ask the girl you're fingering what kind of things she likes as opposed to asking a bunch of strange faggots on the internet.

Goomba

>>17648391
BigBrother

>>17648391

Krillian

>>17648374
Suck a cock, you'll regret not doing when its too late later in life.

>>17648389
Fuck you

>>17648374
Ask out every girl from highschool you were even mildly interested in. At my class reunion, after I was married, I had about 10 chicks ask me why I never asked them out. One even flat out said she wanted to have sex with me in highschool, but was too shy to even talk to me.

>>17648333

>Help?

Nothing you do in life will last forever. Everything will come to end some day. The possibility of failing at something is a piss poor excuse not to try.

>>17648333
Your not scared of commitment you're scared of rejection.

You long for commitment but the idea that your commitment might be rejected frightens you.

You need to decide if being alone makes you more happy than the possibility of being rejected.

>>17648375
>you're not scared of commitment, you're scared of rejection

I can vouch for this not being true. O.P definitely has intimacy issues, but not of the type you're interpreting. I can say this because I suffer from a very similar pessimism towards relationships, and I know it's not fear of rejection, because I'm the majority of cases I knew I wouldn't have been rejected

if you're simply fucking; no. anything else; yes. why? because if they're retarded they can't hold a decent interesting conversation

>>17648303
Not if the guy himself isn't smart. Keep in mind that most people consider themselves 'above average' intelligence though

Its that old chestnut of wanting to fuck the dumb beautiful bad girl but not wanting a smart ugly good girl.

This is why bigamy is a thing in some cultures.

Do you have tutorials? Those are often a better place to get to know people

Im a senior and never made any friends from classes. I did make a few friends from a club i joined though, try that.

>>17648281
Yeah, I do, and I agree it's probably better for making friends than lectures. But again, after tutorials, people just dissipate and do their own thing. The problem seems to be that almost everyone knows someone and I don't, so they go off to meet people and stuff and I just have to go to the library, which is pretty humiliating, since high school wasn't like this for me at all (so this kind of isolation and social loneliness is really pretty new to me).

If I could get into a casual context with these folk, out of classes, at parties etc. I could make friends easily, but it's getting to that point without forcing myself into people's friend groups, you know?

Any advise for this?

If you want to fuck her, you aren't friends. You sound immature as fuck so im assuming she is even more so. Ask her out and if she says no, you'll have your answer, simple as that.

Is she flirting with you or is she just being friendly?

>>17648254
Honestly it's like half and half. She's introduced me to her parents and they seem to really like me, she's always play fighting me and she's ways asking if I'm going to join x or we should do x together

be the best barn loser you can be.

By making yourself not a loser

>>17648239
how do I do that?
>>17648234
I already hit rock bottom.

>>17648198
Youre scared of socializing with strangers

>>17648213
Not really. I don't mind socializing. It's just the logistics of everything. Gotta drive to the pub, then gotta deal with drunk scum all night while being sober because I would have to drive back.

Ontop of that, I get no satisfaction in drinking or even being in a pub. I don't mind talking to people. I just don't want alcohol to be involved. Turns everything to a shit show. Got nothing against parties or people who bar crawl. I just don't want a part of it. >>17648213

>>17648232
Kay, you can delete the thread now.

buy a wireless card or dongle for like $3 and stop worrying about it.

Try changing channels and experimenting with that. Also, mess with the positioning of the antennaes. Supposedly the best way is to have one standing straight up and the other pointing horizontal.

I had an issue where I needed to keep testing my bandwidth but I needed to be AT the router while doing these tests. I ran the speakeasy test after every little antennae tweak and determined the best positioning.

>300 Mbps down but only get 60 down

I think you and your roommates may be confusing the theoretical speed of the AP with your actual provisioned bandwidth from your ISP.

Who is your provider and what is your internet package? I rarely see ISPs offer above ~150mpbs unless they're super, Goku EXTREME packages.

>>17648103

You're being a baby. If you get into the habit of throwing a hissy fit and yelling "I'LL SUCK AT THIS FOREVER" just because you're a young goofball who hasn't figured out how to adult yet you're going to stunt yourself for the rest of your life.

Getting laid is harder for some than others. Everything is going to be awkward and dumb until you're like 30. Stop being such an edgy faggot and accept failure as a part of your life.

Give up if you want. No one cares if you spend the rest of your life fucking a fleshlight. You have nothing to lose from sucking it up and getting over your own feelings of frustration and inadequacy.

>>17648103
nah, tinder is shit. girls on there have retarded standards because they know everyone matches with them.

>>17648103
honestly, yeah.

>>17648081
cont.

When I pulled my hand out to readjust, she stopped me and said that she just wanted to see how far I would go, and that she was actually on her period. We got up and that's when I told her up front that I actually like her, and have for a while. Thing is, I would have been taking her out more but she would always put off us meeting so she could tend to other matters (typical placeholder excuse stuff). She pretty much said to me that she had never seen this side of me before and that she thought it was really cute, but she was taken back because she had already started dating someone else, and she made it obvious by body language she was torn over who to pick. I had no idea she was talking to someone else, and made that clear. We continued making out for about a minute before she said she had to go take care of some chores, so we hugged and she left. Fast forward to last night. Today she invited me out to lunch with her and a friend. We went out but on the way back she started feeling pretty ill, so I took her to the hospital and was with her for about 3 hours. On the way back she was ecstatic to see that the guy she had been talking to "finally" sent her a snap on Snapchat. Then she said that she feels bad because she knows I like her and all.

to be cont.

>>17648082
cont.

For the most part, I want to stay out of being between her and this guy as to not come off as the asshole forcing myself into her life, but at the same time I want to try to win her over. This guy is currently deployed in Korea and had left just a few days ago. They had been on just 2 dates and had only had sex once (while drunk), and she admits that they were never anything serious before he left yet it's obvious she likes this guy. I feel like if I just keep it casual with her she will eventually want to be with someone closer to home, or the guy overseas might end up doing the same.

tl;dr Girl I like likes someone else but has not shot me down. She seems like she doesn't know who to pick. Other guy just deployed to Korea.

I want to win this girl. What should I do?

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>>17648086
This isn't difficult. Make your presence more known to her without being a git about it. Put that other guy out of mind COMPLETELY. When you're with her, function as if he does not exist.

Last bump.

After re-reading I didn't mean this seem like a humble-brag, just wanted to include any relevant details/signals since I can't seem to interpret them.

If he is a good bro, at least square things with him first. After that yolo nothing ventured nothing gained.

Look at it from the opposite point of view. Might as well keep the connection if it's available. You don't have to push it. Who knows? Maybe you meet some of her friends and find someone you really like.

Never drop a chance because of "but my bro" bullshit. I held myself back because of stupid thoughts like that and it's not worth it. In the end, you'll be the one with harbored resent because you chose to have ancient morals.

Tl;dr version: bro code is dead. Go for it.

Like attracts like

Not so much anymore. Fat ugly girls are hard to get now too.

>>17648023

For the same reason high school athletes are losers in later life while high school nerds are successful - you're a fucking idiot making dumbass generalizations.