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Like I know people get relationships and everything and sort of look after each other like that, but that's not an option to me and I don't think there are many alternatives.

>>17806829
>that's not an option to me
It is, you're just forcing yourself out of that option through self-loathing.

Anyways: No. There's a reason maternal instincts are so appealing in a woman for a man, and why protective instincts are so appealing in a man for a woman.
Everybody wants somebody to have their back. You never truly grow out of it. Even when you're 80 years old and your spouse is 6 feet under, you're going to wish they were there in case you fall and break something or to help you with every day activities.

The lone wolf may look cool, but he dies cold and alone never having enjoyed the warmth of love.

>>17806858
I'm too stupid to get a job in a city big enough to have enough dating options to find someone even vaguely compatible.

And even then, why would he settle for me?

i dont have an answer for your question but if you're dealing with self esteem issues, try working out. it seriously builds a lot of confidence.

>>17806799
You are probably significantly older than me, but I've learned from an early age that no matter who is in your life, the only person that matters most is you. Fuck anyone else. They are all fleeting temporary strings that flit away while you build up your own inner pillar.

Life is a construct of pillars, all supported by the one pillar that they extend from, which is your inner self. Think of it like a domino effect. When one topples over, the others follow through, and the stronger ones will support the added weight, until more pillars are constructed.

Having a great circle of friends is a great pillar to lean on when your self pillar is toppled, but I like to think that all of your connections are supported by your own pillar, and the best way to reinforce your pillar is by never allowing the other pillars to topple yours over.

Friends, family, lovers, money, careers, they are all fleeting and temporary. People die. Management changes. Politics and money change. The only constant that is left is you. As long as you breath and have blood pumping through your veins, you live. As long as you are alive, you are always here. You are the one true constant.

>>17806799
Take up yoga. You need to spend alone time with yourself. Do some major introspection. Gain mental strength and independence. The fact that you wrote that your ex was able to shatter your self esteem means that your self esteem was built upon shallow shit that doesn't matter.

>>17806758
wow you really slurped down that marxist cock, didn't you?

>muh cult
>cult cult cult
If you really thought they were bad you'd have no problems telling them you're not interested. You'd also have no problems cutting these apparently insane cultists from your life

>>17806758
Just don't go.

Why does it matter? When they call you, tell them you don't want to be a part of it.

>But my friends

If they were your friends, it would be of no consequence not participating in the cult and continuing to be friends with them.

Likely they just want to recruit you and that's why they're acting like your friend.

Kind of like a fraternity

>>17807710
What does Marxism have to do with anything?

Be a drug dealer

>>17806688
Be the town rapist.

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>>17806688
Lie: find ur passion
Truth: ur interest follows what you give time to

Fucking study. Fucking get the cs job. Fucking be happy. Librarians are being replaced by computers. Ur blind to the writing on the wall. Troll.

Cut it's balls off

>>17806709
This, you fucking dummy.

>>17806672
Cat...sprays..what does it mean?

hahahahahahaha

OP is it some shitty game like Dota or League? Please don't throw your life away on that kind of trash

I'd only have respect for you if it was some kind of fighting game and you were actually good at it, otherwise it's just trash

Lol this is the new "i want to be a famous rapper thing", except more pathetic.

Get real.

utilities and rent

>>17806632
Not Applicable at the moment. I'm staying with my parents. This is temporary.

>>17806634
Then dont spend it.

>>17806591
>Should I keep going with this only using what I have made and if at any point I break even I don't go back, or should I just keep the 300 I made and forget about it?

It really depends on what you are playing, and how much value you get from the entertainment. If you can't count cards with 100% accuracy then there is nothing you should be playing at a casino to make money. Over the long run you will always, and i mean always lose. Stop, take your money, you're up more than 99.9% of anyone who leaves there.


If on the other hand you enjoy gambling, like going to the movies, then id say take 20 from your winnings and play with that until you want to cash out again or you lose it, then stop, thats it, you paid for an hour or two of entertainment. Do not buy in again.


I repeat, unless you are rainman/savant with counting cards you will absolutely, without a doubt, no questions asked end up losing all the money you made and more than likely more. It comes down to simple probability.

There is no game in the casino which is even a little in your favor.

And by the fact you have to ask means you definitely can't count cards and will likely never ever ever win this much money at a casino for the rest of your life.

No I'm not trying to count cards or anything like that haha. We basically decided to go do this instead of go to the bars one night and here I am. As far as enjoyment I do think it's fun, id honestly rather waste 20 bucks there then at some bar. Plus the fact that I have made 300 bucks so far and I'm only taking in part of that profit helps too.

>>17806620
>id honestly rather waste 20 bucks there then at some bar.


Totally worth the 20 bucks then. Go for it mate. But stop there, no more. Dont continue to dip into funds, otherwise you'll find yourself with no profit or worse in debt.

Know that the chances are that you will absolutely lose that 20 bucks, and any else you might bet. So limit how much you lose and enjoy the time you have to play around with it.

Also even if you can count cards you can only take advantage of poker and blackjack, and even then not as much as you would think. If you're a fucking pro you can break even at craps. Every single other game is 100% guaranteed to be in the favor of casinos. From roulette to slots to etc....

Enjoy the entertainment but know casinos have been designed over many hundreds of years with one simple goal, to make you lose money.

>>17806581
Are you sure that you're subpar and not just average?

Besides, the approach is pretty much identical; improve on the basics, add valuable skills, have fun. Only the amount of effort required is slightly larger.

>>17806587
I am genuinely subpar at anything a normal person can do.

I can't even do what other stupid men can do and just get a wife who'll settle. Most women will settle for someone who's stupid or someone who's gay, but not both.

>>17806596
The fuck you'd want a wife for if you're gay?

Prostitutes don't want to do anything that implies emotional connectivity. They're selling sex!

Look and see if there are cuddle parties in your area. Or hell, go on a dating site and say you want a cuddle buddy, someone out there might be up for it.

>>17806585
Or, see if you can find an escort/prostitute that sells the "girlfriend experience"

>>17806592

They all say GFE, including the one I called....

How many penises do you have?

>>17806584
50

>>17806571
I'm a DBA, ask your answers

Nothing, just close the page and stop wasting your time. It's not worth your time.

>>17806568
Just say you are doing your own experiment with women and post results (you can probably lie because it doesn't really matter).

Then when they try to call you on it say "I think you don't actually respect that this is a thing, and it happens a lot"

>>17806568
Tell em to put on more weight and men will move out of the way 9/10 times.
They dont stop because they arent the ones who are going to fall over by walking into something bigger than ones self.
Or bring up how their experiment is completely anecdotal and worthless.
Or just any random insult.


Its a losing battle because regardless of what you do or say, your wrong and she is right.
Stop using Facebook alltogether is the best advice i can give.
Its a retard echochamber.

>>17806522
So I havent had a date in half a year untill yesterday. We immidiately hit it off and she kept on talking and talking and talking. Then we went out for drinks and after a while it just got to my stumach and I got kinda sick. I had this before but it was when I was very young. I'm almost 30 now so it's gay as fuck. Then I kinda said lets get out of here while my beer wasn't even finished and we went for a walk and the cold really got to me but luckely I managed to save myself and I think she didn't notice I wasn't feeling well.

it came a bit in shots of feeling happy/normal/joyfull and feeling nausiated.

What do? This is obviously gay as fucking fuck and it kinda ruined the night for me

>>17806573
Try vodka.

>>17806522

Date more. You will get better at it and more comfortable, the more you do it.

and if its worth anything, i am doing most things i set out to do on my return. i'm really organic agriculture so basically did my whole housemates/landlords backyard for free. i'm basically doing most the stuff i set myself out to do when i first returned to Aus. im feeling i don't have any community support/participation from my friends and family, and i'm lacking the motivation to go and meet new people. i reckon its what i need to do but blurghh

>>17806469
Oh my god, Jesus Christ, dear fucking lord, oh for fuck's sake, just go to the therapist and get put on a high dose of some drug.

>Boo hoo I'm fucking depressed because I'm not on vacation any more!

Fuck off. There are people with actual mental disorders out there right now who are actually suffering. You're just bored and self-isolating, you spoiled bitch.

>>17806560
i have seen a therapist, they don't think anything genetically wrong with me, even though throughout my life i have suffered from melancholy/deep depression. plus i do not want to be drugged out.

if you have nothing constructive to say, please say nothing at all.

people are liking my other thread more
>>>/trv/1186454

go shitpost on /pol/ where you belong, I'm sure they'll have ideas

>>17806415
The point of it wasn't really political, I don't mind tans people, the big problem is that I know this guy and he's lying he just really needs to feel like a victim all the time and get some attention and he found the fucking goldmine when he discovered trans people, he's literally using the whole thing to manipulate people into getting what he wants

>>17806405
>the depths of his mental instability started showing
>he keeps convincing people of how much of an asshole I am.
>I want to kill him, I want to strangle and gut him

Sounds like you're the one needing mental help, bruv.