TL;DR: just found out that my husband cheated on me before our

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>>17809185
KEKED

>>17809190
Is that all you have to say?

>>17809185
You know the drill
Poison in coffee cup then cover it up

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>>17809198
Good job getting used for 4 years

>implying he's only fucked these 3

Man, fuck life. I want to be a house hubby.

>>17809185

dude, cheaters lmao

but seriously. lets break this down

>he said he was pressured and drunk

forgiving him is saying that its okay for him to cheat anytime as long as hes pressured or drunk. if thats an 'excuse' then hes saying 'I LITERALLY CANNOT CONTROL MYSELF WHEN DRUNK'. and if he doesnt deserved to be punished for that, then he can do it again and again. think logically here.

>he regrets it

does he regret it? or does he regret getting caught. sure probably both. btu the REAL issue is he regrets getting caught. thats what made him upset. in 4 years he didnt show guilt until now.

also

>drunk and pressured

THREE times? thats not a thing.

>>17809226

you apparently have to be beautiful enough that three women would proposition you in one night

>>17809185
Did you have ANY inkling of this kind of behavior when you were dating/married??

This is my fucking nightmare. And that I'll have NO indication...

>three times
>I-I was pressured

yeah he is a cheater, leave that loser anonette

>>17809185
Divorce the loser before you bring kids into your shitty, non-trusting relationship.
It will never be the same.
Did he ever intend to tell you?
It wasn't even him, it was his stupid friend who couldn't even COVER for him, like the idiot he is.

Yeah, divorce and alimony rape him. Enjoy your free financial ride through life due to the fact he can't keep his dick in his pants.

Unless he's hot, in which case you'll forgive him, because you're a cuckold (female version).

>>17809356
As well as that, he's probably cheater on you IN your marriage, but his non-too-clever loser friends obviously don't know.
He's had no problem lying to you for 4 years.

That's half a decade man. He isn't guilty at all, just that he got caught.
And even if he didn't fuck anybody else (or says he didn't) you would never know and you can't trust him due to the fact that he lied to you so easily for 4 years.

Also, "pressured" into it? What kind of man is pressured into fucking 3 women? If his friends made him do it, then that makes it worse. A man is as good as the company he keeps, after all (a woman too).

>he coated some sluts' insides 4 years ago
>this is apparently enough to destroy a marriage with the person you were planning to spend the rest of your life with
So glad I never fell for the relationship meme.

>>17809356
>>17809366
Me again,
I assume you're still in your 20's.
Move on quickly - you've already wasted the best years of your life on somebody who obviously doesn't give a shit about your feelings. You'll never ever get what remains of your youth back.

Just make sure you let him know who told you for the lulz

>>17809368
>cheating while engaged

Come on, marriage means fidelity. He agreed to the "marriage" contract which means life long fidelity and he broke it thus should get a divorce.
At least OP is a chick so she can rekt him financially.

>>17809370
Youth is overrated.

>>17809368
the fact this is your reaction/thought process means you're 100% right in avoiding monogamous relationships. Forreal, as long as you're upfront with people, continue on.

>>17809375
If she's a doctor and he's unemployed not even being a woman will save her from alimony.

>>17809378
Not for women. Men maybe.

>>17809381
We'll see.