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And here, we find ourselves again, at Monday night's Sex-Education General Thread!

Reporting in as your neighborhood friendly Lezzy-Training-Wheels to kick this thing off with a Bang!

Questions, comments, and concerns in relation to 'Doing It'? Ask away, and ye shall receive advice!
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How do I fuck?
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>>17941445
That depends.
Are you the owner of a penis, vagina, or other sexually-endowed organ?
Are you attracted to the owner pf a penis, vagina, inanimate object of comparable shape?
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>>17941458
I jave a dick and I'm attracted to cunts.
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Is there a most efficient way to finger a girl?
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>>17941443
how do I give good oral? to vag and dick?
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>>17941459
Are you interested in having a relationship with the owners of said cunts? Or are you mainly looking for sexual gratification for yourself for your own sake?
Not a judgment call, just a set of questions designed to help find the right line of action for you.
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>>17941472
The latter
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>>17941465
to vag
>lick the clit
>put some fingers inside and rub gspot (the roof)
>use other hand to rub around/massage labia

idk its what i do and my ex used to come in like 5 mins tops. Took me a while to get the technique and she used to take a lot longer but once i figured out the strategy it was really easy
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>>17941463
Start with cupping the whole vulva, rubbing firmly with your palm in circular motions. Once she starts wiggling a bit, slide your fingers up and down the lips until her juices are starting to flow, then gently prod your middle finger in. Continue to rub her whole body with your other hand, and pay attention to her neck and face. From there, you can add more fingers, if she seems to be enjoying herself. Don't go digging for gold, the cervix is usually not something that is okay with getting scratched.
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Women with beef curtains. What do you like men to do with it? Sometimes I find myself nibbling/pulling on it with my mouth. Is that good or no? I get no reaction from my partner.
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>>17941463
Wet your finger and rub her clit directly with a slight pressure. Use her lubrification or your precum. Beware of her sensivity, make sure she's horny enough and don't make it too fast.

That's the basics
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>>17941480
This guy gets it

Gently suck and twirl your tong on the clit. Suck it exposed like you'd like to have your dick sucked. Clit is a mini dick afterall
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my dick got smashed when i was drunk and i have to piss through a tube now

how do i fuck vaginas
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>>17941488
>>17941484
thanks.
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>>17941494
How many fingers you still have?
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>>17941499
i want to impregnate is the situation
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How do I make a girl squirt? Will it make her grow attached to me?
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>>17941532
You can't. Despite what some people might think, squirting isn't possible and is just fake porn shit. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
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>>17941553
This. Only the underaged believe squirting is actually possible.
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>>17941443
Hey Lezzie Op, I'm the guy who gave you the idea of thise threads a few weeks ago

I was wondering if you could help out with something but it's not exactly sex related. Can I post here or hit you up somewhere else?
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That last time I had sex was in 2010. Is there a chance I have a std? I know I don't have aids because I have donated blood several times.
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How important is cardiovascular health with fucking?
I've recently (2 days) quit smoking and started the couch to 5k program (1 run lmao).

Do you think it will make me a better fucker? Or is it mostly related to technique?
I don't think I'm very good atm.
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>>17941553
>>17941563

>tfw my gf squirted all over my chest

Yes it does involve a bit of pee. No, it isn't a porn lie
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>>17941601
>a bit of pee
She gave you a golden shower. Squirting is not real.
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taking my gf's virginity, what do i do in order for her to enjoy herself
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>>17941617
Go hard and deep.
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>>17941620
This. Put a finger in her asshole too. If she likes it, you're in business. If she doesn't, take it out.
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>>17941605

Excuse me, I'm the one who took it and I know very well the difference between pee and squirt. She pees to the last drop prior to sex and it comes out with a completly different color and smell, not to mention the amount.

Just because you lack the competence for it it doesn't make it any less real, pee involved or not.
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>>17941643
>t. Urinal
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>>17941570
here's fine, I suppose.
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>>17941478
Hire a hooker with good credentials, or go to a club looking for one night stands. Though, I'd actually trust the hooker more, since she relies on her cleanliness and good service to get her repeat clients, she's more likely to try to make your experience enjoyable.
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>>17941487
It really depends on the partner. I know I get self-conscious about mine, and prefer just to get them out of the way; but my ex-gf loved it when I'd lick/suck on hers.
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>>17941511
Honestly, I'd talk to a urologist about that one. I have no experience with injured dicks. Sorry yours got broken, dude.
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>>17941583
There's a good chance you still might have herpes or HPV, since more than a quarter of the population has them and never presents symptoms. If you're outbreak free, I wouldn't worry abut the chance of herpes, but if you're a dude, they can't even detect non-symptomatic HPV in men yet, so I'd say, use condoms anyway.
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>>17941598
Well, better blood circulation means a harder erection. Less nicotine makes for tastier cum(true story). And you'll have better stamina overall, thanks to increased lung capacity.
But it does nothing for technique, so you might not improve at all. It depends on how you use what you've got.
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>>17941617
Don't listen to these 'tards, Anon. Usually, when someone is a virgin, they have a bad time because everyone thinks that the penis in vagina is the important part. But what really make them have a good time is consideration.
Not the "are you okay?" every five minutes, but asking things like "do you like how this feels?" or "is this too shallow, or you you want me to go deeper/harder/faster?" Asking questions doesn't make it boring, it can really add some spice depending on how you say it, and it lets her know you want more than just to get off. If she doesn't know what she likes, try suggesting different positions(not from porn), and let her know that there is no wrong answer and her not knowing isn't something she needs to be embarrassed by.
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>>17941646
kek'd
>>17941722
How would you even know, virgin?
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>>17941722
Also, touch every part of her body, if you can. Women have erogenous zones all over. Back of the neck, ribs, inside her elbows. Pretty much any skin that's soft and pale is going to turn her on if you stroke it or nibble on it a bit.
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>>17941646
>t. Jelly faggot

>>17941674
Thanks, gonna try to keep it short

>Me and gf had a threesome some two months ago, girl from other city, everyone agreed to be FWB.
>keep in touch in whatsapp
>girls keeps saying she loved us and wants to be toghether
>always short texts, never demonstrates what she says
>we keep quiet for a while, she rarelly texts us first
>in one occasion, sent semi-nudes as first text and good night message
>other then that, everytime we text her, she says she missed us for not doing it more often
>we do more often, becomes indifferent

Tl;dr: chick says she's all over us, but is indifferent if we keep in touch. If we don't, gets sad that we didn't

I know it's, well, different from lesbian territory, but I could you a perspective from a girl, specially one who likes girls too
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>>17941732
So do men you mong
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>>17941729
Oh you sweet, sweet child.
I've been making the ladies scream since you were in diapers. And yeah, I've deflowered quite a few virgins. That's what happens when you're a considerate lover.
Word gets around.
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>>17941735
>things that never happened
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>>17941734
Not the men I've been with. They've pretty much been all about the cock.
But then again, everyone is different. I'm speaking from personal experience.
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>>17941733
Honestly, I've been in her shoes.
What happens to me is that my hormones affect how much attention I crave, so every month after my period, I want nothing more than to drown myself in sex. But then in the week leading up to my period, I want nothing but to be left alone.
I think that might be a factor to consider.
But, if not, then it's most likely that she's reaching out when she feels lonely, and once she gets her fix, she detaches and wants to do her own thing. She probably has a very cat-like personality, yes?
Here's the thing to keep in mind: not all people like to have steady relationships. She might be one of those 'pick up and play' people, who likes to know there's something on the back-burner if she gets bored, but otherwise does her own thing.
I've had relationships with a few of those people, and if you don't expect more out of her, and talk about what all three of you want out of the relationship, you might be able to work something out. But it'll take time and energy that might be draining, so be advised.
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>>17941765
Yeah I think your diagnostic is spot on. She does have a "cat-like" thing to her, and she owns a cat too.

We were always very clear about what we expected of the experience, which is nothing more then a fwb really. We don't expect her to be loyal to us in no way, and we give her all the space. We asked before if we we're being inconvenient keeping in touch and she said not at all, that she missed us too and she was there for us to contact and etc.

I mean, we're completly fine if she wants us as her play thing, it's kinda hot actually lol. But she could at least be honest about it.
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>>17941839
Yep. Pretty much just tell her that. Tell her you're cool with being the booty-call, and that you're not offended by it, but to not expect you guys to be mind-readers for when she wants attention. Tell her it's okay to just come out and say when she feels needy.
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>>17941859

Yeah I think we're getting close to this point. We try to avoid having "relationship discussions" because we're trying to keep it as casual as possible and with a "no strings attached" feeling, specially given the distance and that we are a solid couple. But those mixed signals are driving us mad. We do like her as a good friend, but she doesn't seem to give us the same status, even though she says she does. It's odd as hell, in NYE she said "we were a gift to her", but when we said we we're thinking about paying her a visit she said "oh nice".

When the opportunity shows I'll definitly ask her if she just wants us as a booty call. This will save a lot of effort from everyone.
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>>17941480
Yeah I've figured out that the clit is the best place to focus on. Play with it, flick it with your tongue, suck on it for a little, and get ready for a very wet ride
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>>17941443
Do women like it when their boobs are groped? Consenting obviously.
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Ok so this is a weird situation and I've tried looking around for a solution.

I can't get past semi-hard. Like when we're foreplaying I can precum easily but when she's giving me a hand job or blow job if won't get past semi and it really worries me.

I'm reasonably fit, don't have an STD or any health problems. Any ideas?

I've considered taking some Horny Goat Weed/Maca supplements, maybe it'll help.
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Women
What is your reaction to a 3 inch penis?
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>>17942244
awwwww
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what does eating out pussy taste like?
this is important.
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>>17942617
Sort of metallic. It's pretty bad honestly.
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>>17942217
Talk to a legitimate doctor.


Regardless, not a huge deal.
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>>17942649
Not really how pussy should taste (though im not an expert on pussy taste), that is unless in full throes of a period.
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>>17942617
My gf is horribly shy when it comes to oral and always run to the bathroom to rinse before we start. Without the piss, sort of sour, tangy taste. Although there was one day where she ate something different and it was sweet.

The first lick is the hardest. It gets less pungent as you get used to the taste or your saliva saturates the area.
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>>17941443
Is it wise to give the old lickaroo to a ONS? How big is the chance to get STD from cunnilingus?
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>>17941465
So the women I fuck with is still a virgin and has had no prior sexual experience. I took things slowly and tried to make her feel good. Now we gradually do more stuff, but I didn't fucked her yet. She seems to be incredibly tight even when fully wet. (One finger is okayish, but two are too much.) Also she seems to be somewhat ashamed of her own body and doesn't talk much.

How do I get her into talking with me more? I want to learn more about what pleases her and what doesn't. Up until now, I just used instinct and watched her reactions carefully. Does it just takes time for her to open up to me? Should I push her a bit more?
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>>17942753
>Never had sec before
>Tell you what she likes
Choose one
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>>17941699
Thanks, I'm a man. Are you sure I can't transmit hpv using condoms?
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>>17942183

Depends on the girl, I'd say most like to be grabbed but the only really sensitive area on them are the nips
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do any girls here use menstrual cups? what's your experience with them?
i just got one and am using it for the forst time. it feels a bit strange. i don't know if i have inserted it wrongly (too high?).
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Anyone know of a like a porn video tutorial that shows you how to give girls orgasms via oral, fingering, and other methods? Written tutorials and infographcs aren't really helping
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>>17943919
I can't look it up right now, but there's one with two lesbians, being a milf showing up anatomy of a pussy on a younger girl. It has a red-ish background, like the walls are red or part of the decoration, I don't remember. This one is very good for starters.

But don't think anything there or anywhere else will teach that. Varies too much from girl to girl.
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How do you stick it in when's she's flat on her back in missionary? Legs are flat

Srs, the angle seems off
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>>17944599
I always bend my knees, so my feet are flat on the bed, and spread my legs for him. It's even better with a pillow under my ass. This position will usually start with him upright, and end with him leaned over me and with my legs hooked behind his back.
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>>17944613
How's your bf getting that low to put it in though?assuming you're both on the bed, I'm 6'6 gf is 5'2, is it a height thing or am I autistic?

I've only done missionary standing and her on the bed, but I want to be on top of her and hold her badly
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>>17944625
Huh. You're right. It doesn't really make sense. I'll have to look at him carefully when we fuck next. I'm pretty sure he's on his knees on the bed. I guess he's sitting on his feet? He'll grab my hips and pull me towards him, and I think he might lift up my hips a bit.
I'm 5'4" and my boyfriend is 5'9".
My ex was 6'4" and we did have some height related issues, but we didn't have sex much and I was pretty much exclusively on top. You two do have an intense difference, so you're probably going to have to compensate for it. My boyfriend can fuck me up against a wall (with some tip toeing and slouching), but my ex and I would never be able to do that.
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>>17944650
Yeah standing doesn't work either but I just pick her up and fuck her.

I just want more lovey dovey intimate positions. She rides me and we hold hands and it's amazing ugh. I want to say I love you during but idk
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How do you last long in bed?


I can't help but cum inside a woman 2-3 minutes of sex later. I want to make a woman feel good too.
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>>17944677
>I want to say I love you during but idk
How long have you been together? I don't think there's anything wrong with that, as long as it isn't the first time.
Try the pillows under her hips. That might help.
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>>17944681
Edging, training pc muscle, masturbating prior or simply moving ahead for the second round
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>>17941443
How do I get a live in gf that will trade sex and company for free food/place to stay?
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>>17943639
They can be tricky to master, particularly if you're unfamiliar with your anatomy. I tend to have trouble getting it far enough back for the back rim of the cup to get behind my cervix. It'll take a few tries and some exploration with your fingers until you can easily guide it in.
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>>17943572
it can be transmitted if you mix any juices, and there are a few strands that can transmit via touch, but those are some of the non-aggressive strains.
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>>17941443
Cool I'll embarrass myself here. I haven't had sex in five years but have a good reason that will end soon, got any tips? I'm a penis seeking vagina.
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>>17944763
Find someone who shares a few hobbies or interests with you(especially geeky ones), and work from there. There will almost always be a sub-set of those people who are also looking for sex with someone in control of a penis.
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>>17944775
And where do you find this people?
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>>17944780
I find mine at conventions, and other weekend activities like that. I play D&D with a few groups, I go to Renaissance Faires, I find online groups that have get-togethers.
I once met someone at a laundramat, and we had the same House MD tee-shirt.
It'll depend on what your interests are.
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Do I need a bigger dick to fuck a fat girl? Secretary wants the d but I'm not sure it's long enough.
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>>17945107
Good question m8, bump for interest
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>>17945107
>>17945773
Good samefag m8
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>>17945798
Too bad m8, keep trying
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>>17945815
>what is posting from your computer then posting from your phone
Nice try m8
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>>17944677
Work on your flexibility. Make sure you can make enough of a middle-split to get low enough.
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>>17942217
I had the same problem. I think it was just because I was nervous, and obviously the fact I couldn't get hard made me more nervous. What happened was after a couple of weeks of this something changed, might have gotten more comfortable/penis got used to staying hard for longer and I was good to go. So don't worry about it, it'll resolve itself. Meanwhile just use finger/tongue
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Ill paste here since my thread is ded:

I'm currently fooling around with a girl, she is very hot and really into me, BUT, I literally cannot get hard with her.

Last girl I had sex with was a highschool friend (for holidays, one time thing, good looking) and I went about five times without losing my erection.

Why is this? This has happened THREE times with this girl and she is very understanding, but I don't fucking get it. I've had sex with 5 women in my life and never has my dick failed me like this, what the fuck is going on ?
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Not sure if this belongs here or not but I'll ask anyway

Every now and then I get an itchy bump on the edge of my lip. It seems like there might be 3-4 places it tends to develop but I'm not totally sure. It's always just one bump, never a cluster, and it typically doesn't last for more than about 24 hours.
Now, I know that I do have herpes but I'm skeptical of whether these bumps in particular are cold sores, since they are never clusters and everywhere online says cold sores take weeks to heal. It's just be nice to know what it is.
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>>17946117
It is herpes, just a milder infection flare up. Try to keep it away from any other skin during the outbreak and for a week after it clears up.
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>>17946071
Taking any medication?
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>>17946117
Do you have any other symptoms when the bump comes up? Does it pop and scab over?
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>>17946071
Ask her to talk dirty to you or start it up yourself and maybe she will follow. Maybe there was something about the context in past sessions that's not there with the new girl.
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Not exactly a questing regarding sex, but not a question worthy enough to start a thread...

I'm 18, do older women (30+) like dating/having casual sexual encounters with guys my age? and where do I go about meeting some of these older women?
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>>17947640
No other symptoms, but >>17946919
Is probably right. Just wired because I've been getting them really often lately (probably due to stress/anxiety) but haven't had a full outbreak since the initial one years ago(which was in a totally different place).
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>>17947694
Oh, it does scab though (idk if it pops before that) the same way zits do.
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>>17942617
>>17942727
bump for interest on cunnilingus. gf's too shy to yet which makes me so much more curious about it.
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>>17942217
>>17946043
>>17946071

Wowzers, I don't normally post here but it's weird how there's a lot of this going around on /adv/ just when I'm experiencing it as well.

My self diagnosis was that it's been a while since I've done it, so the first time I was unused to the sensation so couldn't stay hard. Now after that I'm nervous of it happening again.

It's also a bit shit that before we did she told me she pretty much only orgasms during sex... I think she might be less experienced than she's letting on but the idea that there's no backup option worries me as well.
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