This is the shortest way I can tell this long ass story. Summary: I'm a 21/m, been in an almost 4 year relationship with a 21/f. Had a crush on a coworker, one night I acted on it and my life has obviously been a mess ever since.
Got closer with a coworker over 6 months until I started hanging out with them outside of work (in mutual friend groups). She was the best skiier of the group, so I ask to go just the two of us for an advanced ski day. Shenanigans. Ended up making out with her back at her place. Then came over again the next weekend, get boozed up and...kind of(?) half-asssedly(?) have sex. We have the super 50 shades of grey hots for each other, but I still have a gf who I'm NOT EVEN UNHAPPY with (obviously sex has gotten meh, but I like her...like a sister? Idk). Gf and I live together, share a pet, lives are connected so I feel like I'm a crazy idiot for wanting to throw it all away to dick down a sexy coworker. What now?
>This is the shortest way I can tell this long ass story.
You could have told it shorter by leaving this part out.
You right though.
>>18025069
You should tell the truth.
tell her so she can get a better man
>>18025061
Suggest a threesome with your gf. Start the conversation. Sexual attraction is not love
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