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I need help, hopefully from someone who has been in my situation.
My gf and I both have never been in a relationship before and are both virgins. We have been together for a while (getting close to 2 years), we are both 23. I am extremely attached to her and like being around her.
However, due to the fact that she is my first, I am starting to have an issue with lusting after other women. She is not a sexual girl, and I thought I could deal with it since I am happy with her. My friends have said I'm dating a bit below my league. I don't believe in leagues, so I didn't care.
I've been really curious and into bdsm and really rough stuff, but my GF is not into it. I keep fantasizing with being with kinkier and hotter women. I am afraid this will only get worse with time, as I'm afraid I'm wasting my youth on holding out for my gf.
I have no way of realizing what I have, because I have nothing to compare it to. I am much happier now than I was when I was single, but how do I know that my gf is someone I should settle down with?
If I mention opening up the relationship I could scare or off, and the urge for me to cheat has just gotten stronger.
I have talked to her about not having sex, and she isn't budging. That is just how she is. Since we have been together for a while, I am in a situation where we are both dependent on each other financially. So I cannot just up and leave if (even if I wanted to)
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>but how do I know that my gf is someone I should settle down with?
By having sex.
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>>18025019
Like I said, she's not a very sexual person. I've been pushing it. Even then I have no way of comparing it to a typical girl.
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There is no such thing as truly sexless. Just truly unattracted to the person in front of them.
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>>18025012
You clearly shouldn't date her.
You want a sexual relationship, she doesn't want it. She doesn't want to become more sexual, you want to have sex.
You either ask her to get the sex elsewhere, or you break up.
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>I dream of playing all kinds of different videogames.
>My LAN partner does not believe in playing videogames.
>My social contract prohibits playing videogames with anybody else.
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>>18025012
Congrats, you're her beta provider.
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>>18025036
She provides more for me than I do for her.
>>18025034
From what she has said, her lack of wanting sex is due to her body image issues.
>>18025028
I believe she is attracted to me. She chased after me like crazy during the begining of the relationship.
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>>18025035
Yeah, playing games with another person doesn't risk bringing viruses and newborn LAN players into the mix.
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>>18025042
>body image issues.
She fat or ugly?
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>>18025045
She's a bit chubby. She is more concerned with her skin color. She is mixed and her private areas are darker than the rest of her skin.
It's doesn't even look bad, yet she's worried about it regardless with what I say.
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>>18025042
Then she can go to therapy and fix her mental health, or fix her physical appearance.
Anyway - you want to fuck, she doesn't give that to you.
Either ask her to open the relationship or dump her.
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>>18025048
Don't know what to tell you. I'd say try to make her feel sexy, but I wouldn't know where to start.
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>>18025025
You need to convince her to give you sex. Your going crazy sex deprived. Turn her on. Get her to understand that your needs are important too
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