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This is a different one; I want to be scared again.

I used to love games like Silent Hill. I used to love horror. I still like it, but it cannot scare me anymore. Ever.

When I was about 17 I had an adverse reaction to some meds that caused me to have a hallucination and since then I lost all "irrational" fears to things I know can't hurt me; movies and games and such included. And it fucking sucks. The only movie that's ever scared me since was "Dark Skies" and I don't even know how good that was.

How can I get the fear back?
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drop >300ug lsd in an abandoned building
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Take DMT.
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>>18060899
>hallucination
oh, it's story time! tell us OP, it seems interesting. What have you seen?

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I feel very stuck and I am losing my fucking mind...

I am jobless, completely depressed, empty inside and homeless

I look thru craigslist for a job nothing appeals to me whatsoever, feels like I'm living in a nightmare. I look for things I want but nothing stands out.. What the fuck do I do.. I'm 23 living in socal and out of ideas. I have no idea what the fuck to do at this point.. file for social security?? what? because I am completely gone - I have been doing the same thing for 2 years nothing has changed and I want things to fucking change.
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sounds like u have ocd, i would recommend you file for social security now so that you can reap the benefits within the next 2-6 months they tend to take a long time with that stuff. also do you have any savings at all?
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>>18060906
Yes I have some savings (~5K) but I have to spend it wisely. I have thought of getting a room but they wont rent to a jobless person so I thought of getting a camper to live in and can't decide on one I do have horrible OCD even in life threatening situations.

I heard that about social security I filed last year around this time and would have had it by now if I didn't ignore their calls .. I never followed thru with it because of the horrible process.
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>>18060910
> I look for things I want but nothing stands out

there's your problem. apply to any job that is available for now and then once you've got an income and a place to stay you can find something that stands out and make the switch.

I'm an extreme introvert and can barely talk normally to people I dont see almost everyday except family members (for some reason).
But there is a girl I am really in Love with (She looks pretty, but that isnt why I like her so much)
I got her to meet and take a walk with me. (I said I wanted to talk with her and she agreed, said she was looking forward to it)

Now I want to do something like this again, but I cant ask her out in a restaurant or something (I just cant).
What should I ask her to do with me? Just walk with her again? I kind of want to do something more. I should also mention that she is a very shy person.
Thank you for ANY advice /adv/
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Ask her out ffs man, don't let the opportunity slide dude! You will feel even worse if you don't
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>>18060584
I thought about it, but I feel like this is way to straight forward.
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>>18060574
Real women are a meme anon.
Stick with 2D or you'll regret it.

Been seeing a girl for a few weeks and was just dumped. She wasn't feeling it.

How the hell do I deal with this rejection?
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>>18060450
Like you deal with any other rejection.
Focus on your life, meet new people, find someone better, date them.
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>>18060452
I'm just not sure I really understand why. We wanted the same things in life, had come to the same conclusions etc.

I'm not bad looking, and am pretty fit, but cannot help but feel inadequate still.
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>>18060458
I just turned down a guy that was ticking my boxes and yet it left me cold and my pussy dry as the sahara. I couldn't find a flaw, he was tall, blue eyes, dark hair, but it just didn't cut it.

Just wanting the same things out of life isn't enough. At some point, I need to want to bone the guy. Maybe it's smell or hormones or something, I couldn't explain it, but I realized I was taking more time to reply, I was letting other things be more important and rescheduling dates and I realized I was just not interested.

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What exercises and diet should I make my girlfriend do in order to make her body look like pic related?

Right now she is average rectangle shaped with large breast but a complete flat butt.
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>What is genetics?
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>>18060255
Exercise plays a part as well
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>>18060271
Can't alter bone structure.

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When I was 10yo, I got an N64 and fell in love with video games.
I played a lot until I was 15, throughout this time, parents made me feel shitty for doing that. Saying stuff like I'm wasting my life, that it's the reason for me having a headache to a stomachache, etc.
At school also told the same, girls made fun of us, etc.
I hid that "part" of me and tried to move away from it.
I discovered programming/hacking through video games and it was my newfound passion.
Fast forward, focus on that, be a CS major, graduate, get job right away making good money.
Love job, love what I do.
Develop general anxiety disorder outta nowhere, see a therapist that suggest getting back in contact with the child version of myself
Start playing video games again, but every time I have this guilty feeling happening.
I meet a girl through playing online.
She's the dream girl of my 16yo self: Gorgeous, funny, loves the same weird shit I love.
We broke up months afterwards, but in the meantime I was rediscovering myself.
No longer feel guilty for video games and anime
Now I feel left alone to do so, and I can't do stuff like watch Breath of the Wild trailers without almost tearing up

I feel like now that I'm successful, and have money, I afford to be a child again in a way?
But now I feel alone as fuck... Like I'm never gonna find someone I can share this experiences with
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>>18059909
There are enough fish in the ocean to fill that hole she left, Anon.
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video games are normie as hell now, im sure you'll find some dyed-hair attention whoring gamer gurl if you put your mind to it
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>>18059909
I'm not gonna sugarcoat it bud women rarely like the same shit as men and girls who genuinely like video games are uncommon and in high demand. You're gonna have to work your ass off the be a high enough value male to compete in that market. Honestly trying to find a girlfriend who is also your best friend is usually such a fruitless endeavor that I would say it ain't' worth it. Really man it's like looking for a needle in a hay stack it's ridiculous.

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Is this a guy thing or JUST my boyfriend ?

I always ask him about stuff going on in his life, to me that is taking an interest and remembering enough to care to ask.

I hurt myself or I go some where or I give up smoking and he never asks if I am okay or how was it where I went or how are you doing with the no smoking. It makes me fucking mad.
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I sent him an e card and he forgot to even look at it until I reminded him but if I send a pic of my tits, he would have NEVER forgotten to look.
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I as a guy admit, I don't tend to get too wishy-washy or emotional in my conversations with either sex. Even in a long car ride with some guy friends sometimes we'll go long periods of time without talking.

It's probably not that he doesn't like you. Guys simply don't talk as much as women and this has been proven psychologically. In fact, some of us find it annoying sometimes when somebody's too interested in our personal lives.
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>>18061486
I can understand that but he is quite an emotional type of guy who is comfortable with feelings etc and likes to tell me everything etc etc so it would be nice if he also made the effort. I have said before about this to him when I feel it was something that I would have appreciated him asking but yet he still seems to forget. I know he loves me but blah blah blah. Just moaning.

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Am I a perv /adv/ or eating cunt really taste good?
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>>18060953

some people like it. some don't. for many its an acquired taste.

people think beer is disgusting the first time they have it, but later begin to cravei t.

im the same way about eating butts. granted it has to be clean, but the first time i went for it it felt pretty gross.
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come is the nectar of the gods
don't even shave
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>>18060980
No, your thinking of ambrosia you cuck

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How do I get rid of my body hair permanently? It always gets in the way and I know it's hurting my chances of going on dates etc.
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>>18060866

even lasers are only temporary, and very expensive.

if women coudl permanently get rid of their body hair easily dont you think they'd do it? do whateveryone else does: shave.
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I'd kill to have a hairy body, I look like a fucking twink even with a nice fit body
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>>18060877

post pics

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So, /adv/, my brother is a Chemical Engineer. Although he likes his career, he hates that the university that he did it wasn't as remarkable as he wishes it was (it is still a good one).
I got into the same university, but I will be entering Environmental Engineering, and he is extremely biased against it. He says that I should study another year to try for something else and that that's not a true type of engineering (and mainly if I'm doing it in the same university he graduated).
So, /adv/, is that an actual type of Engineering outside of my shithole country? Is it really a worthless course, like he says?
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No. It's not a real type of engineers. It's shit, it's useless and won't get you a job. Either work hard and be a proper engineer or find a rich husband that you deny sex so he sticks around.

>environmental engineers
Give me a fucking a break
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>>18060648
Wait, how do you know I am a female?
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>>18060653
Cuz you sounded retarded. Try gender studies instead yo.

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I feel very lonely, what should I do?
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Happy Birthday Anon!
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>>18061334
Thank you anon
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You should remember that things could get much worse.

Alright, i fucked up bad and now i need to make as much money as i can as quickly as i can. I dont care for Legality
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You can't. Get fucked.
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Suck dicks
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>>18061054
go to juarez and start asking random people on the street for a job smuggling cocaine across the border. eventually you'll find a connected person that will get you on the path to making millions.

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I've decided to switch courses in university but I cannot decide whether I should study math and physics or math and philosophy. Plz help
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>>18060968
Physics and philosophy
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well it depends what you care about
from a career perspective physics is probably better
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You know what is best for you. You're wasting your time here.

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Girlfriend told me she had weekend off a few weeks ago. Told her last week to let's do something Saturday, Ok sure!.

Bring it up Thursday to reconfirm. Oh no, I can't, I forgot my relatives birthday was rescheduled to that day. What about Sunday? Oh (her girl friend) invited me over for dinner blah blah

What bothers me is that this is turning into a common occurrence. Friends are taking a priority while she says we don't much.. Well why the fuck don't you invite me along? Am I supposed to invite myself? It seemed like you didn't want to go!

Only when she feels like she can lose me she unfucks herself, especially when other women start taking interest in me

Is this a case of bad communication? Getting comfortable? Just wants a partner so she's not lonely?
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how long have you been together?
is she a control freak?
has she ever cheated on you physically or emotionally?
are you a control freak?
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>>18060848

known each other for a couple years now. started dating/relationship maybe 6 months ago?

i'm not a control freak. she really isn't either, only when it comes to certain things like cleaning the kitchen. that's her thing so whatever

im starting to see that she feels like she has to please her friends, be accepted by them. i personally only like a couple of them because I can see right through their shitty catty attitudes.

it just bothers me that she's more enthusiastic in doing things with them than me. yeah, sure, i have my own friends and life but I'd like to go places with her. I bring it up and we have to plan for it. They bring a trip up OMG TOTALLY WHEN ARE WE GOING??!!

if anything, ill stick around for the sex and let it die
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>>18060863
I think you have some issues, bro.
Any psychological disorders that you have?

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I don't even know if the word slob applies anymore. It's beyond that. A little rundown:
I live with my family, which consists of my 16 year old brother, 12 year old sister and my parents. I share the top floor with my siblings and we share a bathroom
Everytime I step into my brother's room it's literally a dumpster. Food, trash, drinks everywhere. And today was the last straw, as I saw he had hid cups in the bathroom a few weeks ago and there was actual mold in them. My parents don't see the fact that mold growing is a problem, and they let him continue to be like this. It's unhealthy for all of us, me specifically since my room is the closest to his. I know I don't have a right to complain since I'm 19 and living with my parents but this is absolutely repulsive.
Any help would be appreciated.
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kick his ass

and have a fucking talk with your parents about your brother because if they dont think a cup that is growing mold is a problem they need to GET HELP asap
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>>18060834
just beat the fucker up until he cleans, that's your job as an older sibling.
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Just found out he also has impetigo from lack of bathing and will probably spread it to all of us
And, he burned 2 cords, one to a fan and one charger but spilling a drink on them and not cleaning it
So he's a fire hazard
And a biohazard.

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