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What do I thesis about in Computer Science field so I can fucking graduate.

I just need my diploma I don't even care about a job anymore

Pic is my car
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idk anything about computer science, I am a chemist, but I will try

"Development of quantum computers will enable simulation of human brain"

propably impossible to defend, but what do I know
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>>18062049
Thanks for the effort and sorry for being such a
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Sick car, bro.

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Is herpes really that bad?
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on lip? no

on benis? ye
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>>18061753
Yes it is. Worst part is you infect your partner with that shit without warning them.
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>>18061753
Herpes is not bad if you have it. What's bad is when you TRANSMIT IT to someone else.

Hey guys, so my girlfriend and I went out last night, another friend tagged along with us. Her and my friend took some Molly I just drank. We got home and I passed out at like 2am. I awoke at 8am to find myself still in an empty bed, I went down to the spare room to find them laying face to face closer than comfort, though they weren't caught in the act it was still not right. I'm pretty hurt and confused and honestly don't know what o do. They both are trying real hard to down play it,I've now left her place and am at home. What to brothers?
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Is your friend a guy? If so, you just cucked yourself. Psychedelics are extremely immersive and can be a traumatic experience so since they did it together without you, you're fucked OP. I'd recommend finding another bitch
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>not doing molly with your gf
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i had a relationship exactly this in first yr of uni. Heads up, it didn't work out.

You're just two totally different people. She's into drugs and you're not. It's a big life choice. Like whether you want kids or not.

good luck with it but chin up when it inevitably goes south bro.

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I'm a 26 year old woman. I've been going on tinder/OKcupid dates for 2 years now

Not once have I developed feelings for any of them, and yes I tried having sex with them

I know I'm capable of having feelings for people, I had several serious crushes on guys as a teenager and in my early twenties. However the guys never liked me back.

Is there something you can do to develop feelings for someone?
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The people you've met are either fucking plebs or you may be depressed, therefore apathetic, which hinders you to feel somewhat intense emotions. Or try it with talking up guys in the streets if they get your hormones tingling and see how it'll work out.
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You're secretive and withdrawn, at least at an emotional level, because you were rejected in the past.

Honestly it's pretty obvious from your post OP.

So, how do you overcome that? I'm not 100% sure. But the first thing to do is to recognize the problem.

One thing I do know is this: there's no specific trick that will allow you to develop intimate relationships. You will have to learn how to relax your boundaries around the guys you meet.

It's a journey to open up OP, but it's worth it. The feeling of mutual love is worth a thousand rejections :).
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>>18061188
Hmm, I don't think I'm depressed or apathetic. I still feel intense emotions when I think about one guy I fell for (who did not feel the same way). I'm not in contact with him anymore

Talk to guys in the streets? You can't just go up to strangers in the street that's creepy.

>>18061190
Well I guess I've achieved the first step,

I don't think my problem is with boundaries an defensiveness, I'm more than willing to be vulnerable and open myself up to the possibility of being hurt.

But they all seem boring or not loveable to me. They're not intelligent or interesting or have much soul.

But people have had feelings for these guys before since they have exes, so why can't I like them/fall for them? Why must I always develop feelings for only extraordinary people?

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So I was reading through this thread today on reddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/5urecj/whats_the_most_obvious_sexual_advance_youve/

And it got me really confused about how sex happens. There's posts like:

"A girl lost her bra in my room. I went in and found it in my bed and gave it back to her."

"A friend of mine was walking with one of the hottest girls we know to get a textbook from a different class or something. She goes
"I'm really cold"
"Yeah, it's pretty cold out"
"I mean I'm cold because I'm wearing nothing under this shirt. Nothing."
"Haha I'm not cold I'm wearing a jacket""

"Sitting on my bed with her. "So what do you want to do?" She says, looking over at me
"Do you wanna see my guinea pigs?" I reply, killing the mood faster than you can say erection."

The thread is full of this kind of posts.

I really don't understand. These are so incredibly vague and I'd never even consider it was an advance. It seems like normal conversations. Also, if the girl wants sex why don't they just ask or make physical contact?

Am I autistic? I've had sex but only with my gf. It never started out like this. I just feel extremely confused after reading posts from this thread. To vast majority of people in this thread those are sexual advances.
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>Am I autistic?
Short answer: yes. These are jokes/witty responses.
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>>18061104
I understand, but what else would the guys have said?
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PLZ RESPOND to this post

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Me and a female friend used to go out and text frequently. We've doing this for over a year now and we have established a personal connection. Over some time I got hospitalized for an amputation. I wasn't changed mentally or anything. I was basically still me before the amputation. After about three days after I didn't feel like shit. I texted her to see how was everything. She responded and everything and said she was going to visit. She never did, I didn't really care because she might've had things to do. On her birthday I texted her and said "happy birthday", she didn't respond. Again, I didn't really care because she might be out with friends. So I text her another day to ask how is everything. She never responded. She even never texted me again. So I was a little confused. I then found that she had deleted some images of me and her when she and I when we went out in the past. That got me more confused. We weren't dating or anything. And I never made any weird advancements on her. I'm just wondering what the fuck happened. Because I don't know if I should text again or forget about it.
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Maybe she got a boyfriend
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>>18064379
That's sad my friend. Let her go, she'll come back perhaps, but for now it would probably be prudent to just let her go, sorry.
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>>18064382
No, not that I know of.

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Are post pregnancy bodies ugly?

Ive never been pregnant (but hear me out), however because of weight loss I do have saggy boobs with wrinkly loose skin and also stretch marks, like someone who's been pregnant

However I keep reading on /adv/ and other places of women who have had babies but are having sex like their bodies are still attractive? I don't understand it, how can a body like this be attractive? How can their partners still get a boner?
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>>18063269
What's wrong with her? She looks pretty good. And then look at someone like Maria Kang. Actively pursuing fitness and working on your body after the baby goes a long way.

Being young and fit before/during the pregnancy arguably goes an even longer way.
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>>18063280
Ugly saggy boobs and stretch marks and loose skin

I lift weights and stuff but I can never have perky boobs or get rid of wrinkly loose skin and deep stretch marks

I look horrible naked
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>>18063287
I think you're being too hard on yourself

ITT: ask Muslim girl anything
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>>18063071
Would you sleep with an infidel?
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>>18063078
If he's a great guy, then sure.
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What is your opinion on Garfield the Cat?

I'm starting to doubt myself, /adv/
I'm starting to doubt my journey into psychiatric diagnostics and treatments

>grow up in a shitty school where teachers and staffers don't give a shit
>got into fights since probably 2nd grade
>homeschooled in 9th grade and spent 10th grade in 4 different schools
>last day in 9th grade (i attended a few weeks before a fight got so bad the cops got involved
>had 4 teachers sitting on me while the principal literally tried to get them to stop
>cop recommended me to press charges, didn't cause powerless
>never had regular friends, people went in and out of social circles all the time
>i was in the outcast circle most of the time
>did really stupid things like vandalism and harassing staffers to gain acceptance from my peers
>at some point the school and the CPA grouped together and tested me for ADHD, prescribed ritalin
>this was in 4th or 5th grade i think
>made me apathic at day and screaming, sweating with high pulse at night
>mom tossed the meds and refused to medicate me against CPA's wishes
>they even threatened to take me away for that reason alone at some point
>nothing happens, no diagnosis
>alot of bullshit happened like getting threatened with knives by peers at gas station
>fight almost every day and i mean really chimping out
>whenever shit got too real i would lose all emotion and my mind would turn apathetic
>still happens whenever i get into arguments with people, i just become empty inside
>it really freaks me out because people can have accidents or die and i literally couldn't care if i just had an arguement
>everything about school made me so sick thinking about it
>infact i could get physical illness before school just thinking about it
>i still today feel like i might get attacked physically or verbally whenever i go in or near any school
>haven't been able to finish college
>shrink says its not PTSD because it cant be connected to a single event/it doesn't affect me in my home
cont
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>for the last 14 months been tested for ASD
>passed every test but they still think its ASD
>next 4 months is gonna be me getting "cognitive therapy" until i get to see a trauma specialist or something in late May

so a quick rundown on my symptoms today
>dissociation (learned the word today) everytime things gets too heated
>mistrusting of people in general
>constant anxiety in school buildings
>i think im gonna get pounced by peers or they think shit about me
>can't finish college and i'll probably kill myself if I had to try like it is right now
>awkward socially but not with people i trust
im not sure if im conherent cuz i haven't slept for 2 days
give it to me straight, is it autism
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>>18062760
It doesn't sound like autism to me yet I'm no doc. You should really talk with a professional anon. I'm sorry things have been so terrible for you growing up. You're not alone in this even if you feel like it.
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>>18062799
Thanks, but I've already been to a shrink for over a year. I can't see any light at the end of this one.

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>3-4 months ago
>BF accidentally uses too much lube because I'm dry one day
>Huge glob of it
>whatever.jpg
>sex ensures
>ever since then, my vag has not felt like normal wetness
>it feels like lube
>when I get wet, it's like fucking jelly

what the absolute fuck is this, does anyone know
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Probably still excess lube up there.
The fuck you think we are, thot? Doctors?
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I prescribe a healthy dose of diiiiiiiiiiick.

3-4 months is a pretty long time though.
You bathe, right? You should bathe.
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>>18062690
Maybe you've had a dryness problem you didn't know about.
Maybe the lube was waterbased and fixed your sandy ass cunt.

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my boyfriend cares about his friends more than me, we been together for 2 years, should we break up?

he says he doesn't but its pretty obvious from his actions that he does. he hangs with them more than me, his best friend who doesn't like me since day 1 for no reason other than that my bf had someone else to prioritize over him since we startd dating always texts/calls him when were hanging out and my boyfriend answers his calls and stuff, and he will ask him to stop hanging out with me and sometimes he will or he will be rude and be like so do you have homework to do? which clearly signifies to me he wants to go hang with his friends, hes going on vacations with them and spends thousands of dollars for this but cant even take me anhywhere for our 2 year anniversary and btw I'm willing to pay for my costs of it, and he just all in all prefers them over me..it really hurts me and makes me wonder about the seriousness of our relationship, it hurts my self esteem A LOT. I'm 25 and hes 24. I mean I'm looking for someone to do most my important activities with in life (travelling etc) and he uses his friends for that I feel like the only thing I'm here for is for him to have sex and take out on dates once in a while (we don't even do this a lot). he doesn't really do a lot for me or spend much moneuy on me and hes never been there for me emotionally. idkw hat to do.

ive talked to him about it before but he denies it and says no I'm his top prirotity but everything else says otherwise. its been 2 years so I feel like its been a long time to be like this and we're in our mid twenties..
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Leave

I've had to deal with this from a friend recently, quite similar story to yours other than the ages, it's not going to last long term
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>>18062230

yeah I know it fucking sucks...

it just makes me feel so bad like am I not worth it? thers someone else he would be the right person with? its not fair like I deserve more :( it hurts me so much
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>>18062219

Guys need to be with guys. They don't compete with his love for you. His male friends complement him. If you cut them off, he is going to be miserable.

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Went on a date. I thought it went well. Later get a text saying not her type.

How do I stop feeling like shit? Haven't really been rejected after a date before.
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Stop caring about being with another person so much. You should be going on a date when you are confident in your own loneliness and when a potential mate is interesting enough and of high enough 'value' (not trying to espouse a materialistic view of people but I couldn't find a better word) that they would be a welcome addition to your already complete and happy life. You shouldn't be going in, wanted to find another person to fill in some kind of void. Clearly you did not work for her, at least she is open, and she clearly is not a matching addition to your own life. You lost nothing, and move on.
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>>18061241

I get that. But how do I stop feeling shit.
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>>18061241
>you must be happy and fulfilled on your own

I never understood when people said this. If I'm perfectly fine on my own why would I go out and get a girlfriend?

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How do i develop the confidence to approach girls on a party or in the club while dancing?
I'm a pretty good dancer but i just can't appraoch girls because i kinda feel out of their leaugue
I'm still a kissles virgin
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Get drunk, but not embarrasingly so. Gain confidence from drink.
You could also bring a wingman, girls find guys with friends more attractive.
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>>18060471

well do you deserve confidence?
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>>18060471
Club whores only care about tall, attractive Chads, so you're going to make a fool of yourself either way

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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For 29 years, I believed that girls didn't use deodorant. ;_;
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>>18060436
We fart too.
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When fucking I sweat like a priest on trial. I end up dripping all over the girl to the extent that she basically has my scent afterwards.

Are some girls bothered by the sweat?

What does /adv/ think of people with a pee fetish?
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I like it
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>>18060243
weirdos
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>>18060243
I don't understand why they find it hot but it doesn't affect me so I don't care.

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