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>>18060513
>that pic
and what about the minorities living in territory that was conquered by Russia and want their own country like Chechnya

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>>18060522
Im not Russian, please answer my question. Thanks!

>>18060522
Slav here, then they shouldn't have been conquered by russia. If they got conquered it was because their conqueror was stronger. If their conqueror was stronger that means the minority was weaker. If they were weaker then who they are, their identity is weaker so really to liberate their lands is to liberate them from weakness and as such good.

Throw shit at it until it leaves.

>>18060501
open everything in the room that it's in, put food at the window

Wait patiently for it to be lured by food (don't appear to be guarding the food and be quiet) then shoo it out with a broom once it's near the window

Get a BB gun and shoot it till it's dead then get a shovel and get rid of it everybody will be happy you killed that flying rat

How about taking her to something more active than a movie? You're just sitting there for 2 hours.
Also, why haven't you made a move?

>>18060504
Making moves is difficult. She told me she wanted to take things slow. Not even sure what that really means but how slow is slow?

>>18060618
Are you paying for her dinners and movies?

There's no way a girl that likes you will spend that much time with you without even holding your hand. Unless we're dealing with a specimen, what's likely is that she doesn't actually like you but hangs around for the free shit. That or she's a weird weird specimen, either way I suggest you pull out and find some other girl

>>18060375
Not sure what this means but i'm saving it because it fits with my folder.

>>18060374
you can learn how to drive but you wont be able to sufficiently hone that skill in 4 hours.

im european and standards for the test here are higher it took me about 20 hours (10 mandatory lessons + private practice )before i felt comfortable enough to do the test.

Oh pffft. People break up all the time, it sucks, it hurts and they get over it. This isn't rape or pulling a loved one out of a bath tub of their own blood- she had some shitty relationships.

Invite her out to do something, just you and her. Throw a few genuine compliments her way (only say them if they're honest and keep them sparse)

>>18060376
I'm considering if I should confess online or not. Don't get me wrong I know it sucks and that I should do it IRL but I will only be able to meet her in like 3 weeks and considering how she is going to some parties until them I am afraid of her finding someone else or something, though I'd like to believe she won't considering her breakup trauma but

fuck this is complicated engineering is easier

>>18060380
Yeah nothing wrong with asking her out online. Start talking to her online, get to know each other.

Also, again, she just broke up with guys- and by the sounds of things is a regular taylor swift. She didn't come out of a 3 year relationship, she dated a guy and it didn't work out. Stop treating her like she break out in PTSD at the mere thought of the word 'boyfriend'.

It's not complicated, it's scary. You're worried that you only have one shot and will fuck up- which is always a hit to one's self esteem.

Look the water is ice cold, but you got to just take that plunge, there's no flawless execution about it. Unlike engineering there is an exact and perfect answer.

>>18060362
Fap ofc, if u don't have a lap rocket use the one of your dad, bro or both

Work your way up to once a week. Try wanking once every two days and then increase the number of days without wanking.

Orgasm weakens significantly when you're doing it regularly.

>>18060367
That sounds like a decent plan, thank. So i should generally aim for once a week?

>>18060327
I also keep coming back to this one interest, but I'm never willing to put in the hours. Why am I like this?

You need to start lifting and going outside, fucking obviously.

>>18060332
desu I have problems lifting because of health anxiety + panic attacks combo. I go to the gym,, lift for a bit, then the adrenaline starts making me feel like I'm about to die. Actually, anxiety gets in the way of most things, including going outside since I live in a violent area. I have seen a doctor for it, but it only worked shoirt-term when I needed a pick me up from my big panic attack. Now I just have a benzo addiction.

I keep promising myself I'll do it again anyway, then I actually do it for like a week but then fall back into the old habits. Everyone who knows me has gotten sick of that act, and have pretty much given up on me.

Go to a quiet room, bathroom works well, especially if you leave your stereo in the bathtub, i creates a nice echo effect, also if you do this at night there wont be much interference.

Find the sound recorder, not the video one as it takes up more room. Open it and press record, immediately after play the song you want,wait quietly for it to end, then stop the recording and save it, and rename it.
Don´t worry, we all had to learn how at some point.

>>18060339
>Pls no bully I'm kind off a computer illiterate...

>>18060342
I´m not? how the fuck else do you get songs on your Iphone? sorry if you don´t own a bathtub or some shit, i just meant any quiet place.

>>18060314

Women don't share the same brain. They like different things and they are looking for different kinds of guys. So there is no formula that will make you attractive to all women. Work on your expectations.

Do EVERYTHING to help raise your testosterone level, lift, go outside, eat good, take supplements etc. Testosterone is the god molecule, the more test you have the more you want to do things and create, and as an bonus you attract women.

>>18060314
Look up game and social market value (SMV)

Wat? I've never experienced this.

Talk about wonky tits, small tits, tits too big, meat curtains, shaved pussy, pussy too loose, fat girls, flat ass, ass too big, shitty blow jobs, girls that just lay there, sluts that have such loose vagina´s they need a giant horse cock to fill it.

Make them feel as you do and then get tagged as a women hating prick and stay virgin for rest of life. good job op

>>18060284
It happened many times on 4chanland

>>18060268
>I am falling in love with a friend's ex-fwb.
>I just personally cannot get over the fact that [they had sex]

Save her (and yourself) the headache of having to deal with your stupid shit and go find someone else.

>>18060281
This

>>18060281
why is it stupid

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>>18060251
Maybe your dick is haunted.

>>18060257
Maybe I should move this to /x/?

>>18060251
Ghosts want you to put cum on them

>>18060231
Well I've been told I'm good looking by some , yet others may not like my looks.If a woman likes your looks that's awesome, but if she don't just think to yourself "Go Fuck yourself". In a way you'll really dont get bothered by it. You know people find attractive and that's all that counts . Fuck the rest anon . All people have a preference

>>18060231
work on your body language

You're not very good at marketing yourself.

The deal is that you get to have sex with her if you provide x other things she wants.

You need to show her that you have what she wants.

A man who doesn't market himslef = probably a really shitty man

>>18060218
Your parents don't want you to be the kind of person who decides to start and then quit things on a whim. Especially if it involves investing a considerable amount of time and money.

If you really want to get them off your back, pay them back for all the money they spent.

You are also not required to play nothing but the same shit over and over again. I would suggest finding out if there is a particular reason that your instructor is having you play the same three songs for 8 months, and if you don't have a satisfactory response, find another teacher.

You can also simply find something you want to play and learn to play it yourself.

Piano is one of the easier instruments; also why are you only repeating one song over and over? There are plenty of piano songs out there.

Literally no real hobby ever will always feel 100% pleasurable. It's like lifting, it's supposed to hurt but the results are worth it. Stick with it, don't be a fucking pussy, git gud at something instead of jumping from interest to interest without being skilled in anything. Every skill-based activity becomes difficult at some point and if you quit every time this happens you will never be good at anything.

It also gets better after a while, I was forced by my parents to play piano and take lessons since i was 7 and I only started enjoying it in highschool, and it's still not fun to drill scales but you still have to do it to git gud, and it feels great to really know you're skilled in something. Right now I'm extremely thankful to my parents for doing this, I would be a much more boring person without this.

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>>18060189
I had something like this too. Your mind sorting through unresolved shit?

>>18060197
Well as far as my waling mind goes its resolved. I mean it was the lowest point of my life, I realised I had hit rock bottom when I considered killing myself and I used it to completely turn my life around. I was a socially awkward, chubby beta cuck before it and now I'm a lot fitter, have a nice job and my social game is way better.

I did never insult her to her face, could that be it?

>>18060197
I can go into the dreams in more detail if you want, but I just can't figure out what's unresolved.