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>>18071773

If you aren't losing weight you're still getting the calories you need. It's unnecessary to eat several times a day if you eat calorie dense foods.

most likely cancer

>>18071773
If anything has upset you recently, maybe have gotten you stressed or a bit anxious then that can bring you to lose your appetite. Or, despite physical activity, you may have come across depression though you didn't mention anything else that would suggest that it is so. It's up for you to theorize what it is but I'd say it's one or the other, maybe even both if something has you stressed out.

>>18071771
Have you ever been close to a female that isn't a relative?

>>18071783

I like it, some don't/ thread

>>18071771
I heard it's comparable to someone attempting to jam a cucumber into your urethra, I'll let you guess how that probably feels.

Only one way of finding out.
Go outside.

i dropped out as well man and am in the same predicament as you and honestly i just give up and dont care enough all i want to do is lay down and drink

>>18071754
i don't want to drink really

i enjoy studying psychology and psychiatry desu even though it's far too late for me most likely to make it

>Girl becomes depressed (lots of family things happen, cancer and someone died in a car accident) and meets another guy2, dates him
And then he rapes her.

Define rape? Every girl i've ever fucking talked to (at least 5) romantically or personally all have told me they were raped. So either the truth is being stretched to manipulate others emotions, or every man except myself is a closet rapist? Also, speaking from experience of being "guy3" in these situations nothing could hurt him more than finding out you still are desperately in love with someone else. You need to cut off ties with guy3 or any other man for that matter till you can come to terms with this feeling you have towards guy1. Otherwise your just going to poison their soul. I know from experience. Don't be like Hanabi.

>>18071706
Definition being I told him no and to stop several times, even tried to push him off. It's kind of hard to start wailing on someone you had feelings for...

I haven't started talking to my inner child yet so I don't think I'm Hanabi yet...

>>18071692
What do you mean by "loves" when you write "girl loves guy3"?

If guy1 were a possibility, would you discard guy3 to try to be with guy1 instead?

Because if that's the case, you should break up with guy3 and let him go find someone who really wants to be with him.

I think you should really think about this carefully and consider how you actually feel about guy3 as a person and whether or not you value being with him for who he is, not because you don't want to be lonely because you can't be with a guy you want.

A long time ago I realized that I don't just want to be with someone who is smart, funny, attractive, or whatever. A huge part of what I want in someone else is that they want to be with me and they treat me well. If those two things aren't there, the rest doesn't matter.

>more time passes, i ask her if she remembers when i confessed to her. she said yes and acknowledges that there's always "a little something" between boy-girl friends and i basically told her that as long as she stays the way she is, the balls in her court (mid 2016)
>catch feels for another close friend of mine in the meantime, but its a fairly toxic crush that brings out insecurities in me
>learn with some talks about her crush that hers is toxic as well and brings out insecurities in her, but she keeps trying with this guy
>according to her brother, appearently they go through this pattern of randomly getting mad at each other, not talking for a bit, and then talking again (for more than a year)
>shes confessed to him a couple times and he's not interested but "is pretty adament on staying friends", even though her brother and friends try to warn her that hes toxic since hes insecure about himself and generally uses people
>learn through her toxic crush that my crush is toxic, move away from my toxic crush (but remain friends with her) and share this with my crush, while also letting her know that i think her crush was toxic
>that conversation didnt really have any conclusion but i gave her the food for thought but also let her know that my experiences =/= her experiences
>at one point she told me that her and this crush will probably stop talking after an argument and she's had enough but haven't heard any update in regards to him ever since (late 2016)
>much more time passes, she's still definitely the one person i'd date if i had to choose just one
>since meeting her, have drastically cut down on my marijuana habits, matured a lot generally, became much more mentally healthy, cut some toxic friendgroups out of my life and have a pretty established career direction
>she says she sees huge improvements in me and is proud of me
>in a car ride once with some friends she was saying "for example, "X" friend has nice hair, and (me) has nice eyes and beard"

>her brother (that im now pretty close with and actually have talked to him about this) has said that she's told me that im very mature for my age and he agrees with me
>some other female friends in our friend group tells me that I'm a very good looking young man and definitely one of the more attractive, if not the most attractive of the boys in our group (they have boyfriends so didnt have a problem telling me that)
>went out for wings once and kind of impulsively wanted to play l4d2 with me and some friends, even though she spends most of her time studying for nursing and this was even around exam time when it was crunchtime for her (she later pulled out)
>her and/or her brother must talk to their mom about me a a fair bit because their mom was able to reccomend a kdrama to me (im white, they're asian) which had a storyline relevant to my interests (Healer)
>despite her regular school+workload a while back she asked me if i wanted to play video games with her
>she got me for secret santa and got me chopsticks (they were on my wishlist) as well as these asian candies "from her childhood" and a masterball lanyard (she knows i love pokemon but given its a masterball and i have feels i cant help but be autistic when i think about what it might imply because i know girls can be cryptic)(Dec 2016)
>that night when we were eating at a resteraunt we made eye contact across the table (we were sitting at different ends of the table and across) and we did like this cute cheery facial expression to each other
>went iceskating later, did a few laps with arms latched to each other and when we unlatched it was kind of slow and lingering and our hands were even touching for a couple seconds
>recently had my birthday and the friend group got together to surprise me with karaoke, KBBQ, billiards and bubbletea

>she buys me this cute cat-dressed-as-a-maid keychain (Sassyfran from neko atsume because we both have that game on our phone)
>normally when we hug goodbye its like my arms are over her shoulders but this time she went for her arms being around my shoulders, this was cash cause i was able to get a hand up to her head and stroke her hair
>later posts ig photo of "happiest of birthdays to anon!" with a heart and cake emoji in it
>in the group chat that night i let em know i was hella thankful of them are for a dope birthday and she says "D'aw. Anon, we all love you senpai!! Never forget that xoxo :B you deserve it"

So I think that there's definitely something there, i mean she even admitted herself indirectly that there's a little something there, though there's always that bit of physical attraction between boys and girls and normally we just stay friends anyways. I know she thinks I'm attractive looking and definitely loves having me as a friend.

I know she's busy with her own grinding schedule and I'm honestly the same way too, I don't think girls are by any means a priority or anything and our friendship the way it is is still pretty something. But clearly I'm interested in maybe trying dating out with her. I'm thinking of maybe asking her to hang out one on one to perhaps lunch or dinner where i can ask her if she's ever though about back when i said that "the balls in her court", or maybe just casually asking her that the next time the friend group is hanging out and we happen to be walking side by side or anything like that. Would that be an appropriate way to go about this or do you guys think that I'm in some friendzone that I can't recognize? Sometimes I can feel a little insecure over the fact that she's older than me and as such might see me as a boy instead of a man, even though she knows that I've got my life in order and have demonstrated more maturity than a couple other boys in the friend group.

(Long-ass story done)

Tsundere isn't real

>>18071096

robot here. I wish. I'd name myself [anon] the pussyslayer and cuck all my old bullies and fuck their mothers and sisters too. Get fucking real.

All it means is that she's a cunt and you should move the fuck on.

>>18071096
Emotions are good, shows some kind of connection. Indifference is not good.

Be casual, don't try to force conversation just let it come naturally. Try finding out something you're both into and before you know it you'll both be chatting up a storm about it

>>18071052
ask her about her day, and when she finishes talking about that, ask her again. guarnteed to get you laid.

>>18071052
and if she tells you nothing happened, ask her about nothing that happened.

Get fully dressed, stay fully dressed all day till you know you're ready to sleep. Get dressed as soon as you get out of the shower. Go outside, walk, drink water.

>>18070947
It's weird, because when I broke the porn addiction my sex drive took a nose dive, like decreased by about 95% and I don't know if this is normal, non degenerate sex drive, or if I'm just fucked now. I remember being hornier than I am now, before porn. But I was horniest during the porno years. It's different for everyone, but that was my experience.

I've been a depressed lonely fuck for a while and would fap twice or three times a day. It was awful and I would feel disgusted with myself afterwards.

Now I've fallen in love. Not in a relationship, just fallen for someone else. Not for their physical appearance but rather just who they are as a person. And I've found that my desire to masturbate has died off. My depression is ebbing away. I have a new passion to fight!

Take that as you will.

>>18070895
>This is why on crowded trains I avoid contact with every female on the train.

No that's just your autism. Stop thinking everyone is going to attack you, unless you're actually planning a sexual assault, in which case, fuck you.

>>18070913
wait so I'm retarded for doing that? I didn't want to accidentally touch anywhere and create any awkward misunderstandings. don't worry I'm not into attacking anyone, I'm kind of a pussy anyway I can't do shit

>>18070919
Yes

Come on /adv/ must I beg for every advice?

>>18071559
No one's answering because not only is this another mundane 'does this girl like me' thread, you also need to go back to another thread to find out the backstory. No one wants to deal with that bullshit

>>18071594
Isn't that the point of /adv/?
Fuck it, I'll go ask robots then.

>>18070682
you can spread it even with a condom, unfortunately.

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>>18070682

0/10

standing by for redpill meltdown

>>18070682
Herpes is no big deal

why isn't she the one you can spend your future with? You said you love her, what's standing in your way?

>>18070680
need more context anon

>>18070683
>>18070683
She has a lot problems, like being excessively clingly, problematic and controlling. We have been dating for over 2 years now and ever since the beginning, she has changed not only mentally but physically. She was very attractive when we first met but has let herself go to a point that is aggravating, especially when I'm the exact opposite with staying in shape. I just feel there is something better out there for me.

>>18070594
Don't eat carbs/sugars.

>>18070595
Someone give this guy a medal

That picture makes me feel uneasy.

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>>18073454
>hey guys what should I do on my date with this girl that I know and you don't

?

>>18073463
thanks faggot, every bit helps
i meant like shit to talk about or ways to get somone to open up

>>18073454
Start off with her job? the roastie can't want to lifeguard for kiddies forever

>>18073061
You can't just disappear and expect them to take the hint, they probably thought something terrible happened to you. If you really want this then when your mother called you should have said you've decided to leave the family and you never want to talk to or see her again.

>>18073061
why would you do that to your parents?

There's probably a way to lookup those changes if you know how. Or your financials.

You should go join the French Foreign Legion. Then you'll really be away and have a new name, a new passport.