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> Got in a relationship for 1 year + with a girl.
> I broke up with her because she wanted to be polyamorous.
> We've stayed friends with benefits, but we love each other. She wants to be with me too.
> I can't get sex other way than with her; my surroundings are just full of men (I'm str8).
Should I never talk to her and die with endless sex desire / sentimental anxiety ?
Should I keep fucking her and kill my feelings about her ?
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> I broke up with her because she wanted to be polyamorous.
Oka...
> We've stayed friends with benefits, but we love each other. She wants to be with me too.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
>[inhales deeply]
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
You fucking cuck. You are an emotional tampon. Shes getting the D right now and you are thinking about her. You whipped faggot. She wants your love and another mans dick. I swear I just told some other faggot the same thing.
Whats wrong with you faggots. Never have sex with a girl you dated if shes sleeping with other people.
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>>18074083
Sadly, this
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>>18074083
LUL your honesty made me laugh, thanks for your advice anyways
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My best friend has an instagram stalker who continuously deletes their instagram page and makes new ones but still harasses her daily. We thought about making a blog and possibly tracking their IP address that way but neither of us are overly computer savvy. Is that the only way to find out who this individual is or does anyone have an idea on how we can figure out who this person is?
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Why not just ignore them...? Or delete their account and start a new one?
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>>18074001
Even if you have their IP it doesn't guarantee anything.
They've probably used more than one access point so you'll have multiple IP's from varying locations. They may have used a VPN as well.
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She deleted her instagram account and they started posting on my page and they tag a close friend in everything. It's hard for her to escape them when so many of our close friends have instagram. It's been going on since September
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Girl dumped me, now bringing bf to work party 2017-02-23 05:51:59 Post No.18073972
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So I liked this girl, we dated for about four months but I told her form the get go that I was a virgin and wanted to wait. She was fine with that(Or so she said). Then I heard from a friend last week that she was dating another guy, and didn't even bother to tell me. Now this girl and I also work together and we're having a company party; and today I saw that she wrote this new boyfriends name beside hers for the party. We talked on Sunday about what she did and she cried crocodile tears and said she cared for me. Is this girl manipulative or just bailed out because she was scared to commit to a long term relationship? And should I go to this party or not? I feel like she's being a royal bitch.
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Are you sure you were even in a relationship?
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>Then I heard from a friend last week that she was dating another guy, and didn't even bother to tell me.
Why would she? Were you two still "in a relationship" when she did?
>Now this girl and I also work together and we're having a company party; and today I saw that she wrote this new boyfriends name beside hers for the party. We talked on Sunday about what she did and she cried crocodile tears and said she cared for me. Is this girl manipulative or just bailed out because she was scared to commit to a long term relationship?
I don't fucking know. What do you think about her personality? You're the one who knows her.
>And should I go to this party or not? I feel like she's being a royal bitch.
You should do whatever you want to do. Do you want to go to the party? If so, then go and don't let her shit on your fun.
If she makes a Big Deal™ out of your prior relationship, then she's being a cunt. Just leave the party if that happens.
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>>18073973
I don't say "dumped" in that sense, no. Just that she told me she wanted to be with me, loved me and we always spent a lot of time together alone. In everything but sex, yeah. I told her what she did was messed up and cruel today, she got really angry about it and obviously blamed me for everything.
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How do I know which girl to choose? 2017-02-23 04:10:59 Post No.18073757
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How do I know which girl to choose?
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I'm at a loss, anons. I'm just sick of being single, and I don't want to fuck up by picking the wrong girl out of a possible three that I think I could realistically date.
>be me, Christian gurofag punk rocker comic geek, solid 6/10 average guy
>girl 1: never spoken face to face, only on Messenger, not sure about religion or how to find out (deal breaker for me), gurofag, goth, listens to same music as me and knowledgeable of dank memes, might not be single 8/10
>girl 2: Christian, highly offended by gore/rekt humor, don't know her very well but 7.5/10
>girl 3: I think Christian, laughs at gore/rekt, listens to shitty edgy music, also don't know her very well but likes memes, nice ass, 7/10
Sorry for the wall of text, sorry if I come across as a huge faggot guys
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girl 3, no debate to be had.
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>>18073800
Dubs is convincing, but I think I'm going to need to see trips before acting on it
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you don't see any of them very often so i'm guessing you're going to strike out on at least 2/3
ask them all, starting from the bottom, give each one day to think about it
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>have a 5 year long relationship
>become engaged
>she moves to other country, wedding is one month away
>before I move there we break up
>we can't stop talking to each other, get skype sex often, but we block each other on fb at times on a weekly basis
It's been over a year and honestly we have such great chemistry to the point of probable co-dependence but she has a contract in her country for 14+ years and I'm a broke NEET in the USA. We're not in a relationship, not even an open one because then we'd just break up....She broke up with me in the beginning and over a text. I'm still hurt desu from the entire thing and though she regularly tells me she loves me I have only said it once probably since we broke up. This past Valentine's day I was away and received a message from her telling me she'll always love me no matter what and that she misses me and was crying etc. I was busy at the time and have an excuse about being away for a few days so I have yet to respond even though I've been back for almost a week(we're not friends on FB so she can't tell if I'm back, since we broke up so often for so long we don't even add each other anymore). It feels like drug withdraws not talking to her...Like real physical pain even though we're in this situation. I talk and flirt with other women but it's not the same. IDK what I should do, I know I'll probably cave in to sending her a message next week or something. Any helpful advice on the situation?
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What's so special about this woman that you can't find anyone as good as her?
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>>18073734
Why the fuck did you break up?
Why did she move when your wedding was so close?
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Use this as an opportunity to learn how to let go. Use this as an opportunity to get a (better) job. Use this as an opportunity to stop being a NEET.
You love her and she loves you but be real. Neither of you are getting what you want. Truth is you two weren't meant to be. Yeah talking to other women doesn't help because it's rare to find chemistry. You will, eventually.
If she messages you, BE THE MAN and tell her that this shit is not good for you or her and that while you can be friends (if you even are cool with that) it's best to keep the lovey dovey stuff out of it or even cut each other off temporarily for healing purposes. Your future self will thank you for this.
Hey /adv/ I was coming here to seek relationship advice, but i've gotten kind of tired of writing long threads that no one responds to. Let me know if you would be willing to help me/listen to me and ill type it all out.
I will tell you that the themes involve neediness, trying to break old habits, forming a healthy relationship, not being possessive
heres an abstract painting of my ex girlfriend
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post but include a tl;dr, i'll tell you what you need to do
actually i'm going to guess right now that what you need is something fulfilling going on outside of relationships, let me see if i'm right
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>>18073752
yeah thats probably true, I just met a new girl ive fallen deeply in love with and she loves me too, but im slowly starting to repeat negative behaviors of the past by becoming suspicious and controlling and I dont really like that.
Id agree though you're probably correct, still....
I feel like there must be an easier way to try and fix the behavior?
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>>18073771
You realy have to be careful with those lessons. I was so posesive with one of my gf she dumped me and i cried blood so i learned my lesson then with the next one i was so liberal that i even let her go out with her xbf first i start pretending that i didnt care untill i really got used to it and really didnt care ... But it was too much she was insecure about what i really feelt about her ....women
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I've been trying to hook up for 3 years
I'm still a virgin
what am I doing wrong?
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>>18073711
You r ugly and boring
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post bio
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>>18073718
Yeah this, show us what you got
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>meet new dude on tinder
>one night stand, great sex
>keep fucking
>catch feelings for one another
>bf/gf after a month
>guy is unavailable due to law school, law review and job
>I'm unavailable due to my full time job and other hobbies
>not getting the sex I wanted originally
>not getting the emotional fulfillment of being in a relationship
>can't fuck other people
>can't go out and find guys and gals who can actually spend time with me
Fuck me. I mean really, someone please fuck me. Or hug me? Something. He seems like a guy worth waiting for but then again it's only been a couple of months. I'm feeling starved for physical and emotional contact. What do I do?
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>>18073645
Go back on tinder and get your puss ate out
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>>18073651
Jesus this guy crushes puss like a champ though.
There's a whole other issue happening there:
I'm petite and he's a big guy, so it actually sometimes causes us both pain. Even injury. He's got this tiny tear on his foreskin now because of how tight it is.
What to do about that?
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>>18073651
And just to be clear, I want to stay with this guy unless he pulls some really weird shit. I just don't know how to cope with this. I went from sex whenever I want it to sex once every couple of weeks which is painful half the time.
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This "sexual compatibility" thing is new to me. When someone descrobtes it, It always sounds like an excuse to slut around before settling down. Seems like an alien concept to me. I guess I don't live in the west. Can some one more precisely explain it rather than a saying "test drive before driving" which sounds really dehuminizing?
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>>18073618
Sexual compatibility has nothing to do with sleeping around. It just means you and your partner have the same ideas of sex or similar at least. Meaning you have similar sex drives and you like similar things. Agreeing to satisfy each other's kinks and so forth.
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>>18073649
>It just means you and your partner have the same ideas of sex or similar at least.
I was told you wouldnt know if your compatible if you dont have sex, that a chaste couple will never know if they are compatible.
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>>18073618
It's the same as any other point of compatibility:
Do you both have the same religious/spiritual beliefs/worshiping habits?
Do you both have the same physical level of fitness habits
Do you both have the same or similar reading habits
Do you both have the same or similar political leanings and beliefs?
etc.
Having different ideas on things can be good and foster growth, but having ones that are complete and totally at odds creates points of friction and frustration that results in arguments, resentment, and a mismatch in wants that undermine the potential success of a relationship.
How to be a better housewife advice?
If you were married what little things would make a difference to you? What would make your day if you came home to them? Basically how can I up my housewife game?
I don't find much info on this that isn't kinda sexist or from the 50s. This isn't a kink or dominance thing and I'm not looking for misogynistic comments, no I don't want a daddy dom or to be told I'm worthless.
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Hug as soon as he gets home, try cooking something before he arrives, he should do the same sometime, just love him.. and be good to him, cuddle at night, shower together at times, dry yourselves, dress yourselves..take care of one another..take reasonable advice from one another but respect boundaries, help each other with chores, make life easier for one another not harder.
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>>18073551
I think that's great if we were both working but I prefer he doesn't have to do anything once he's home.
Showering together would go a lot better if I ever showered and we sleep in separate beds. I may have to start cuddling him til he falls asleep then swap beds.
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>>18073566
Why would you sleep in separate beds if you're married?
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Hey, what do you 25+ guys think of someone young as 18 having a crush on you?
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Not a guy but honestly, other than differences in life goals and maybe maturity levels, I wouldn't see anything wrong with it.
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An easy fuck. Not relationship material though.
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>>18073394
pretty much this. I'm 24 and actually have 18 yo having a crush on me. She's nice and have some potential, but she lacks some knowledge and experience. Want's to fuck me badly, so I can't really complain.
I guess some parental issues may arise. I mean, unwanted kid with a mature, intelligent person you like is still better than unwanted kid with someone nearly a decade younger (not that I ever had one though). So protection needs even more emphasis
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American wanting to Europe... what countries would even take me? 2017-02-23 12:45:37 Post No.18073352
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American wanting to Europe... what countries would even take me?
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I want to get out permanently and I'm really serious. Any thoughts on country, /adv/? My options seem to be the Czech Republic and Poland.
Age: 36
Citizenship: USA
Education: BA English (Rice), MA English literature, PhD English literature (UChicago)
Experience: 11 years of teaching experience (4 in high schools, 7 in universities and community colleges); also, certified High School English teacher in US state of IL. Rock solid evals.
Languages: Fluent English, Spanish.
I have one dog. I also lived in the Netherlands for a year in high school in the 90s.
Anyone have any ideas how I could do Europe?
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>>18073352
Just look for open uni teaching positions in English departments in countries you might be interested in. I study English as a foreign language in uni atm and we have a few lecturers from different anglophone countries who come from similar backgrounds as you. If you have a solid job offer to back your visa up, you'll get in with no problem.
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>>18073352
We don't want Eurocucks like you around. Enjoy your European socialism and likely permanent unemployment
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>>18073362
my problem is that I don't travel to the EU until two months from now, and can't yet really compete for a job offer, which seems a prerequisite to any further action. Any thoughts? Thanks, by the way
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I'm probably in the wrong place to ask this kind of questions, but - would you consider normal to perform sexual acts on your gf while she is asleep?
A few points have to be clear :
> the point of it is precisely the gf being sleeping/unconscious/unaware of the acts performed
> the acts include : rubbing your dick against her face, cum in her har / on her face and body, fingering her, and recording the whole act on video
I know this idea can be a turn on for some people here or otherwhere - I just fell like this is not something you should do to your partner and that it is a form of sexual assault.
I am very shocked to learn my partner performed such acts on me and feels unrepentant - thats it's just clean fun for him.
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As long as your partner is okay with it and you consulted before hand, I think its fine.
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>>18073256
in this case, I learned everything afterwards and the whole point of it was me being unaware of what was going on
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OF COURSE this is assault.
I don't think you can press charges if you don't have any evidence but at the very least you gotta break up with him asap
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-02-22 11:59:58 Post No.18073247
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, that guy who says monogamy is dead and fart guy
Fuck off
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>>18073247
Movies are a terrible place for a first date. You cant get to know the person because you cant talk. Unless youve been friends before and just want an excuse to makeout.
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How do I even flirt with people without knowing if they're gay? I feel like girls always say stuff like "you're cute" regardless of whether they're actually into you. Confusing as fuck.
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Is this a stupid thing to do?
I was gonna message this girl something along the lines of asking if everything was alright, as she hasn't responded to my message and its been over 24 hrs. She always responds to these messages typically. So this is kinda odd, and a bit worrying. I may give it to Friday before I send it. (It would be 3 days then)
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Should I give up on my ex? 2017-02-22 10:38:32 Post No.18073029
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Should I give up on my ex?
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When do you know it's time to give up on trying to get your ex back?
I haven't really been "trying" but I have made attempts to reach out.
>Date for 4 years
>Turn 23
>Start focusing more on career. Just finished school and devoting a lot of time and effort to getting a promotion I need to be financially stable.
>She is upset that I'm not being the boyfriend she expects me to be
>Doesn't understand I have to do what I have to do to BE that kind of boyfriend.
>We break up. Kind of mutual. I wanted to work things out but said if she doesn't then I won't beg her to stay.
>One month after break up I get promotion
>Making good money.
>Contact ex to see if she wants to meet up (didn't talk for a month.)
>She agrees then cancels at last minute.
>Find out she's seeing a new guy. complete loser, horrible person.
>Apparently he was emotionally abusive and she dumped him
>Contact her three weeks ago saying I was about to ask her to move in with me, take more vacations as soon as I got that job, but that's all in the past. Wished her the best.
>She read the message, didn't respond.
>Her friend told me she is single and talks about me often
>check her twitter feed...full of "soulmate" type tweets, references to our past in a positive light.
>I'm confused as fuck because I'm getting so many signs that she misses me like crazy, but didn't even respond to my message. I didn't ask her out in the message, basically just said Hey we were about to make it but it didn't last, goodbye
So.....there's nothing else I can do, right? Further contact would just make me look bad and diminish my message that I made sure signaled I was moving on? Since she was the one that dumped me, I assume it has to be her idea to rekindle things....
Should I take a shot and ask her to meet up? or just give up and never contact her again? Thanks.
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Women don't know what they want
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>>18073066
Soo....don't contact her further? Let her figure shit out on her own?
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Sounds like she isn't emotionally ready for a relationship on her own. Makes sense considering she just got out of an abusive relationship. You should give her some time