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>>18070380
Stop being so self absorbed and interact with people.

>>18070403
I'm ok with interacting with people, I just don't know the social etiquette, and I prefer to ask before doing anything weird

Any real help please?

>>18070380

The employee at the fitting rooms likes to check what you take in there (so they know if you come out missing something, it's to control shoplifting). Also, if you have a piece of clothing you like, but in wrong size you can ask this person to fetch you a size you think might fit better, without having to leave the fitting room. Just ask then for help if you need any, that's what they're for.

As for the shoes, yes you're supposed to ask for the right size and both shoes. In better stores there's always a helpful staff who come ask if you need help, bit if you don't see any, just find one and say you'd like to try the shoes on. They'll get what you need. And then they'll probably let you try them on kn peace, while they loiter near by kn case you need a different size or might want to try another pair. Ask them for help if you need any.

There's also no need to worry about your accent. It's London, there's shit ton of people with various accents and also plenty of tourists all the time. The staff can handle whatever you toss their way, it's what they get paid for.

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>>18070353
What I think, personally, is that you already posted the answer in your picture.

The shit you listed is not really normal for a GF to do, any girl would really think this is obsessive, manipulative behaviour. The relationship WAS toxic. It seems like she is quite insecure about herself.

My advice is to block her on FB so you don't get reminders of her all the fucking time. You COULD try and just listen to what she has to say when she calls again, there are always two sides to a story. But be sure what you get yourself in.

>>18070353
Cut her out of your life.

Block her on all social media. Delete her number.

She CLEARLY doesn't give a shit about you anymore. She will only hurt you.

>it was toxic
You already know this person is bad for you. Deep down inside under the loneliness you KNOW you need to cut her out of your life.

Cut her out of her life so she loses you forever. You aren't losing her, she's a piece of shit (as you've clearly shown), she's losing you.

Do it.

Cut her out of your life.

Block her on all social media. Delete her number.

She CLEARLY doesn't give a shit about you anymore. She will only hurt you.

>it was toxic
You already know this person is bad for you. Deep down inside under the loneliness you KNOW you need to cut her out of your life.

Cut her out of her life so she loses you forever. You aren't losing her, she's a piece of shit (as you've clearly shown), she's losing you.

Do it.

Cereal with cashew milk. 10x better than soy or almond imo

>>18070342

Oatmeal. You can chance it up with fruit or berries or something else.
Omelets. Add extra protein and veggies to make it more filling. Takes only few mins to cook.

These are what I usually eat. Relatively healthy, easy and quick to make and can be made differently each day depending on what you add to them.

Milk and cereal are the best!!!!!!! But the healthiest people I know eat yogurt and muesli for brekkies.

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First of all, bro: breakups suck and I'm sorry to hear that it happened in such a bad situation.

But DON'T let it mess with your interview. It is definitely okay to wallow in self-pity for a short time, that's okay, but you said it yourself: the interview is what you worked so hard for. If this is what you really want to do, then you should try and focus on that.

Be sure, heartbreak is a bitch. It's been almost a year since my GF broke up with me and I still think of her every day, just hoping things will get back to normal, but they won't.

I really hope you will find the motivation to finish your interview, because you will fucking REGRET it if you let this opportunity go, I guarantee you.

Take a day off to cry, bitch, talk to friends, whatever you need to do. Give yourself 1 day to be a complete total feely fucking idiot, I did that too, and try to pack your shit together afterwards.

Good luck, hombre.

>>18070346

Thanks, man. Really. I live close to the woods. I think I'll head there tonight and just cry and shout.

>>18070466
Going somewhere secluded is something I did, too. Take a walk for a couple of hours, listen to sad music, cry your eyes out, tell it to your friends, they will support you. Focus on letting your feelings go today, doing something productive has no use anyway.

Just this day, do whatever the fuck you want to do yourself. But grab yourself by the balls the next morning, really do.

Good luck with your interview, buddy. Ace that shit.

>>18070305
go outside.

>>18070319
I go outside nearly everyday, though.

how old?

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>>18070282
Good job, you got a girl to go out in private with you. This does show that, yes, she likes you, but not really if she has romantic feelings for you. What I can say is: RELAX.

Try to see this as a friend meeting, just to enjoy it. Smile, make jokes, generally just try to have a good time together. My experience is that girls see it as a pushoff if the dude tries tooo hard, or is too nervous. But that's just me.

Maybe at the end of the evening you can try to tell her that you would like to see her again, and see if she feels the same. I'm not sure about the '1st date, 1st kiss' thingy. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Try to go best with what you think will work best at that moment.

Good luck, hombre.

>>18070282
You're doing well
Just step it up, be a man
Hold her hand, go for a kiss...
She'll tell you to chill if she's not interested

>>18070282
If she agreed to a date then yes she likes u but dont be a creep

>>18070187
I saw Microsoft was looking for people with autism the other day, so maybe you should go for them.

>>18070187
>used to have aspergers
Lol what on earth. Pretty sure autism is a lifetime thing, you don't just grow out of it

>>18070244
MS does have a program for autism, but you have to sign up for the specific program.

Also, OP, no.

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i've been here 12 years and I totally get what you mean.

4chan (and porn) have completely warped my view of reality. I've tried leaving this place, even gone as far as getting myself long term banned in the past only for my IP to reset without intending to.

Boards like /r9k/ and /pol/ are total mental poison. Even boards which are supposed to be for practical advice, like /fit/, are just endless fountains of memes and negativity.

Chads, manlets, cucks, normies.... it never ends. I just try and remind myself that the vast majority of the userbase of 4chan are teenage losers projecting their own insecurity and inexperience. Not that it stops me coming back for more. I am also, sadly, emotionally attached to this place and have great nostalgia for it. It has only ever caused me pain, pretty much. Yet I have spent so many thousands of hours here over the years, my brain is conditioned to accept it as home.

As they say, you're here forever

>>18070225
27 and that's literally me
Been seeing a therapist the past few months, taking an ssri and doing a DBT class which all have helped dramatically but I'm still way the fuck in the pit.

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>>18070133
Hey OP. I think I am in the same boat as you, but I manage to control it... somewhat. When I arrived here, I viewed /pol/ as a funny place to spend my free time whenever I felt bored. But months passed and saw that some of the posts made complete sense. My type of humour, political views, opinion on humanity, everything changed. I am very self aware person and I clearly noticed this change. Did I regret it? No. Even though 90% of /pol/ is bullshit, there are some true redpills there and they truly changed me. What I did was simple. I started visiting other places. Basically I surrounded myself with opinions from EVERY side. From racists to all love hippies. From Holocaust deniers to useful goy idiots. Do this. It definitely helps. Also it serves as a filter to see through all the bullshit. I also advise you to read the works of the Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius. He is a true genius and it will change your life for better. Good luck in your journey fellow anon.

>>18070047
Try roll20, it ain't local but I like it better. Alternatively, go to game shops and ask around

Idk how rural u r, but the only way I can ever play is to host (hella rural). Talk to coworkers or students or w/e is in ur environment.

Look for aspies.

>>18070047
meetup.com

What was your birthcontrol before?Maybe shes just pissed you still dont want a kid.

>>18069840
>>18069840
Condoms. And I was ok with them.

You know what, that's what I thought about too. Sunday I got really depressed and texted her a lot of shit (including wanting a baby). I know this was a big mistake and made me look like a fucking psycho.

She is 24 and I'm nearly 26 btw.

I wrote a song for her when we got together and she really loved it and would listen to it nonstop. She always wanted me to write her another one so I sent her a new one yesterday. Maybe this will spark some feelings? I just can't believe that she doesn't love me. Because I really got the opposite feeling during our relationship.

>>18069850
Win her back, dude?
You should drop this B like a bad habit for pulling some sht like that. The Valentine's breakup sounds like a ploy for attention.

Come on, my dude! Get a clue!
Do you really think she would react this way over somethig so menial as BCP?

The fact that she doesn't give two fucks about your feelings should have been the indication that it's time to move on to something better. Why settle for anything less?

>>18069823
You break up with her and take all you shit back. If she's gonna to cheat on you, does that really mean she can be trusted with your other stuff?

>>18069846
>You break up with her and take all you shit back.
But there is an emotional side to it. Someone who you really trusted has betrayed you.
How do you deal with the emotions? It honestly makes sense why men used to beat women a few generations back. Not that I support violence.

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>>18069863
You move on in life. Emotions is something that effects you less the more you grow. If she begs forgiveness, you can accept it but tell her that you can still be great friends.

If you really really like that girl, and she's begging to stay with you, you can stick with her but you have to build up that trust again.

As for domestic abuse, I ain't about that shit. I may be a glutton, maybe a sloth, and most likely a moron, but I sure as shit ain't a coward.

>>18069797
Pick up construction.

>>18069797
Don't be dissuaded from applying to positions that require experience. There's no harm in applying even if you think you aren't qualified.

>>18069797
have you ever tried dealing drugs or other illicit activity. the majority of criminals i know always have jobs that need to be done

>>18069746

"it's not the size that matters, it's how you use it" 5 inches may not be porn star measurements but it's better than nothing.

If you're that worried, focus your game on other aspects like foreplay.

>>18069750

Sure, it isn't crippling my self-confidence, but it sucks not being able to see her being "full", she's a sweet girl and has never complained though.

Any less endowed anon wants to share his experience?

>>18069746
Just curious, how muscular and fit are you?

Also how heavy is your gf (you can be vague)?

Cause if you can lifter her up... well you get my point.

>>18069685
Yes. And then I get up and get on with things.

>>18069685
yeah op i go through the exact same, every morning i wake up feeling as if i hadnt slep at all, completely exhasted, cant remember the last time i had a proper night's.
I always wake up with constant thought of loneliness, it feels as if i have a weight holding me down, that im helpless, a disappointment to everyone, and simply pathetic. I don't know what i want to do with my life and am stuck in a shit uni course that im only doing so that i can get a degree, but have 0 motivation to do anything so i fall behind and fail.

There are few people on this godforsaken planet i can actually call a friend, i've been used, abused, lied to, countless times and majority of the time its without reason, because of this i have a unbelievably low expectation from people and couldnt give two shits about how they feel about it, im tired of the lies and the backstabbing that its not worth making the effort of being "friends" when most wouldn't last more than a few months.

My life has become mundane, there is little that can hold my interest for a reasonable amount of time these days so i fall into a constant loop of anxiety, wondering where i will be in 10 years, if i will have my degree, a job, a house, a girlfriend etc. some days i spend just lying in bed wasting the day away wondering what will my life will have install for me next and how i will manage to either fuck it up or let it become another one of the many wasted opportunities.

>>18069704
Well obviously I do the same.

Thanks for your lack of input I guess.