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Just fuck him

>>18073376
Do it

>>18073970
/thread

>>18073371
what the fuck are you talking about dude? just do the same thing you did before you got into a relationship.

>>18073371
You know you're drinking too much, but you're doing it anyway.

That has "loser" written all over it.

Stop wallowing and engage with life. That's not a guarantee to get over anything "quickly", but you should WANT to be a decent person leading a life that you can respect. Emotional pain will lessen when you stop picking at the wound and leave it in the past, and the easiest way to do that is to have other things on which to spend your time and energy.

>>18073371
I was on the same spot lucky for me i found another woman wich i spent 3 years of my lofe with. And got over the whore but b4 i found the other one (wich relationship just over a 2months ago) was feeling sad and hang out with pals thats it leave it to time also eliminate her from every aspect of your lofe such facebook twiter etc good luck with that bro if you need someone to talk to just let me.know

>>18072664
Talk to them. Try not to sperg out. Don't be afraid of being intrusive, just do it. Worst they could do is give you weird looks and act annoyed at you. 90% of people are generally nice enough to do you the common courtesy of talking to you.
Unless you're wearing a Trump hat and they're wearing a Hillary shirt, I doubt anyone would act any differently.

>>18072681
Well I'm a Brit, but thanks for that perspective- I guess people don't really care enough to think about others too much , and just casually talking to people shouldn't come off as weird.

>>18072664
Just calm down. If you are studying STEM, don't go to the lectures with the purpose of making friends. You come to learn, and if during learning, you happen to chat with the guy/girl next to you then great (happened to me with this Dutch girl)
If your school has activities and events related to your course, make friends there. For math we have weekly tea session where people talk and solve problems together. It's almost impossible to go to one of these and not make any friends. Find something similar in your program.
About assignment, if it is a norm to share the workload or it's absolutely required to form a group, then it's your perfect excuse to just go to the nearest group or the group with the hottest chick, and ask to join them. They can't possibly be all close friends before the course, some groups will have new people, some will need new people. Even so, I once take a Statistics course with around 150 students and it's a norm that we form a group of 4-6 people for assignments, but the grade is shared, and one of the projects was a machine learning competition so I decided to solo because I didn't want to carry other people (one of the caveat of taking courses from other departments). Joining assignment group should be very easy.
Housing is also a great excuse if you want to talk to random people in your class, just walk up to them and tell them you're looking for roommate, ask their name, number, fb, just like that. I never did this before but some other guy asked me to share an apartment during a lab.

The solutions are right in your problems.

>>18072504
read what you wrote to yourself and then write it out again so that it makes sense.

>>18072504
open it and find out.

an anime figurine i bet lol

spend more time with them

>>18072658
>spending time
>with other people
epic meme
id rather stay home

>>18072856
Might be a meme but I think that anon is right, besides of my childhood friends that I had to leave behind I haven't made a close relationship with anyone ever since.

>>18075489
Is this bait?
If not, you should kys whore.

By killing yourself.

>>18075515
>>18075499
lol....... not helpful.

Correction

She made me aware of that on the second date*

>>18075171
This shit isn't written in stone bro. Every girl is different. Every date will be different. Sometime you just need to decide when the time comes.

>>18075177
Some girls just want to be their own woman, as corny and gay as that sounds. If she didn't like you, she woulda had you pay for her shit.
> her: top kek, freebie because vagina

>>18075119
and the brother that's at medical school keeps asking me money to go to their parties or buy stuff for studying and i'm so embarrassed because i have nothing!

All my high school friends look like theyre so well, a lot of them are out of the country studying and others are already certified professionals.. i feel old and dumb :(

>>18075119
>8am till 19pm
>(i make 300 us dollars/month)

pfffff you are not working that much. You're 21. Get your shit together and stop sponging of your parents.

>>18075136
>sponging of your parents.
what do you mean by this?

>>18074720
She's telling you that you're boring her and she wants to do more with you. I don't know why you have the attitude of "that's not how it goes" but it is precisely how it goes for some people and she knows it. If you don't change real quick, she's going to find someone who is willing to do these things and depending on how attached you are to her, you're going to end up heartbroken and wondering what went wrong. Then you'll come here wondering what went wrong.

>>18074720

Spending time with your significant other is quite important for a relationship. If you don't spend time together you'll just grow apart and lose interest in each other. Making it special rather than just hanging out is what it makes it a relationship, rather than just a friendship with benefits.

>>18074720
She wants to take a trip stupid. A vacation.

Too bad she's a stupid bitch and puts it all on your shoulders.

Dump her and find a girl who is mature and can comunicate.

>>18074660

Yes and no. You can't choose who you are attracted to, or who you have good chemistry with. But "love" is more than "attraction". To love someone, you have to be willing to be there for them and they have to be there for you. You get to choose to make the effort or let the relationship disappear. So my answer is "kinda".

>>18074660

You can't choose to love someone unlovable, but you can choose who to spend your time and put your effort into until you come to love them.

My argument: being in love with someone is something that occurs despite your will and you can choose to walk away from them but love still remains. In the same sense you cant choose to be in love with someone despite all the love they provide you. Staying with someone or choosing to walk away does not mean choosing whether or not you love them.

>Choosing to leave means youre choosing to walk away from them or to ignore the feelings but theyre still there.

> The love is still there regardless of you choosing to not be with someone,choosing to ignore the feelings.

>Sometime it goes away, sometimes it dims but as long as youre in love with someone you arent choosing to love them youre simply choosing to walk away from them or your feelings.

Get started on suckin' them dicks after your gigs.

>>18074657
Find a co-signer or get a card and start building credit. Yes, it is this fucked, no, there are no real ways around it outside of moving to bumfuck areas where you can get loans a lot easier. The only true way to have the freedom to move where you want and get loans where you want is to build your credit. Renting does not really do dickall for you. Sorry to say anon, I agree with you wholeheartedly, but at 30 I'm finally getting my first credit card to begin building since I refused up until now and I wish I had just given in and done it earlier.

>>18074665

Jesus fucking christ. So someone is actually going to look me straight in the face and tell me that my options are:

1. Get a credit card you don't want or need so that you can apply for debt you don't want or need
2. Pay rent that is more than twice the amount of a reasonable mortgage, essentially paying someone else's mortgage plus a few hundred more dollars
3. Continue living in your parents' house

It defies all fucking logic

>>18074519
>Why are video games consideted as illegitimate as a hobby?

Dude its 2017, video games have been considered to be a legitimate hobby for years now. If you believe that they aren't you might very well be autistic.

Its not a cool hobby to have, yes but so is are shitton of other legitimate hobbies.

theres a decent sized segment of the population that actually doesnt out of spite because they end up being on the losing side of the is it acceptable debate. but in general your good and as long is not the only thing you do.

>>18074520
>Dude its 2017, video games have been considered to be a legitimate hobby for years now.
Then maybe I'm thinking of traditional conservatives

>>18074417
Bitch don't wanna be limited to one dick, throw it out there that if she's gonna be chatting to other guys you're gonna do the same with other girls and slowly you become less of a cuck and you end up in an open relationship

She seems immature and emotionally disconnected.

The fact that she feels betrayed by you seeing her do something is moronic, If you don't wanna get caught doing something distasteful then the obvious answer would be to not do it when someone else is with you.

Obviously, I think you're entitled to feel upset about her continuing use of the online dating particularly when she's supposed to be spending time with you. But this feels like it's a problem with communication, you should really talk to her about how she feels about your relationship as well. Just because you've told her how she feels doesn't mean she feels the same way, and her fucking about with dating profiles while you're around may have been intentional (in a really slimy pathetic way) to get you to realise that she's just not that into you.

>>18074434

Fuck.

>told her how she feels

Supposed to be 'told her how you feel'

just call it stupid?

OD autistylated

>>18074218
I feel like stupid is to soft but retarded is too much. Like something being autistic is very niche.

how many hours a day do you have to devote to this?. I think one of the KEY elements of having a dedicated fan base is to be committed and be constantly available with new content. If you are only streaming for an hour a day every other day people will go elsewhere to someone who is more dedicated. If you are spontaneous with it then people won't follow you but will be available when you are just like forum or 4chan.

I personally believe dedication as a twitch streamer will get you far.

Be entertaining. Play games you're interested in. Be something people want to watch, but don't stop being yourself. The views will come.

>>18074149
Honestly, I was going to set a two hour standard throughout the weekdays. But I wanted to know if there were any communities out there to kinda co cast with. Even if I'm not streaming being a presence is helpful.
I just get really disheartened after an hour and a half an no views, you know what I mean?