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I don't know what's good or bad, I don't know what's right or wrong, I don't know what I like or dislike. I simply don't know anything anymore.

A boring life plus spending 10 hours per day on the internet for 10 years has completely eroded any sense of self, if I even had any before. I feel like I'm divided on every issue imaginable if I even have an opinion on it. I don't know what to think anymore. Not just about issues where there's left or right, good or bad, opinion A or opinion B, french fries or pizza, skating or skateboarding, but whenever I come home and sit in my chair, i can't even think of anything to do. I just sit there and wait for the night to come, and then I go to sleep.

I've become like a machine who goes through the motions without any concern for the things that make me "unique".

What is this and how do I get rid of it? How do I get back my individual thought?
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>>18264875
You need to get off the internet and start doing some writing. It's that simple.
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>>18264904
What does writing have to do with this?
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>>18265042

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bfDOoADCfkg


not the op but writing has helped me allot as of late.

just a get small notepad. make sure its cheap.

start simple and if you find yourself just staring at the blank page then write, just write. once the pages are filled up you can always work yourself back from complexity to simplicity.

the problems you have put them in small bubbles. the things you need to immediately do too. what you want from today and tomorrow. it will layout whats in your head before you.


please try it. also watch this.

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I like a girl who is 29 years old but she has the hots for a 45 year old man. Why are some women into men so much older than them? Teach me about an acceptable age gap in a relationship please!
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>Teach me about an acceptable age gap in a relationship please!
The older you get the less it matters, because your can find more common ground about having had similar experiences in your pasts.

Basically the only unacceptables are when you're 30 and the partner is <below drinking age>, because then you're just seen as someone providing them with booze. After that most ranges are totally fair game.

Women in the 25-30 range will always be desirable to any male age grouping since they're fertile and there's some years to develop an actual relationship in there before the baby making parts need to be taken off the shelf.
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Because women are more mature than guys their own age so they prefer someone older who is more secure in who he is and what he wants.

So tell me why do old guys like much younger girls instead? Because they are stupid and fall for their crap being so young
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>>18264921
>women are more mature than guys their age
I hope you just mean physically.

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My mother let my 5th degree cousins from a 3rd world country to stay here, one at her house and two (forcefully) at my house which I fucking OWN. They work as a maid. I don't like them because they can't do things properly despite the intense training I gave to them and it seems like they're leeching the house like a refugee would do. I'm running out of patience and if I ran out, my mom would disown me. I'm an adult, I have a job, and I don't give a fuck if she disowns me. The only thing that bothers me is that I don't understand why she cares more about my cousins than her own son? Any advice on how to make my cousins kick out of the country would be deeply appreciated.
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>>18264837
File a deportation request with the DOJ? What country are you from OP?
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>>18264837
>I don't understand why she cares more about my cousins than her own son?
I don't think that's the case, I think she's trying to care about all of you. The stakes are different. Your worst-case scenario is that you're inconvenienced by an unwanted houseguest. Their worst-case scenario seems to be homelessness or deportation.

You own your house, but did you earn the money to buy it yourself? Or was it given to you/partially paid for by family?
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>>18264837

>why she cares about my cousins more than her own son?

who said she does? caring about someone doesn't mean letting them live a dainty life style at the expense of someone else, you are saying that her love for you should be so much that she doesn't care what happens to her cousins? thats some fucked up sense of love you got there.

and no, disowning you (theoretically) isn't proving she loves them more, its called tough love, where you try to make someone realize their wrongs with punishments. its showing you that when you treat family like they can just be thrown out, then you will also get treated like you can just be thrown out.shes trying to shape you in to a good person who helps those in need (in her own mind at the very least)

that being said if you don't care, let them inconvenience her in her own home.

What university are you attending?

What's your major?

Are you enjoying your experience?

Any tips for incoming freshman?

>pic related, where i'll be going next year to study business
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>>18264796
Meant to put >/uni/ general as the subject, oops.
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Rutgers

Genetics

It's alright, Rutgers is very clique-y, so the friends you make during your first few days are the ones you keep for the rest of your time there. Also, if your high school squad goes to Rutgers, you'll end up spending a lot of time with them as well.

Business school is very easy, so you need to get an internship ASAP. Start looking for an internship now. Join clubs to get more opportunities and meet like minded people. If you want to get into a party without paying, you need to get atleast 3 girls to come with you, so start talking to girls ASAP, so that you can get into parties.
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>>18264802
I'm going to the campus in Newark because I heard that it has a better business school. What do you think? I'm a bit sketched about dorming so I'll probably end up commuting. I may even look at potentially transferring schools in the future, hopefully someplace like Columbia or NYU.

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I want to bum it in order to collect most of my disability for personal use rather than giving it to a landlord. A storage unit and YMCA should cost under $100, whereas rent is $600. I guess I'd be changing clothes in the storage unit. With my income and disability income, that puts me at about $1000 a month for personal use, so I wouldn't really worry about food. I could maybe even get out of this with the cosmetic procedure I need and a car.

"Why are you doing this?"
I don't like craigslist people. In the best housing scenario a few of them are very unpleasant, and in the worst housing scenario they are all call-the-cops bad. I also have a tattoo that an undesirable botched on my wrist, and I want to get rid of it.

The question is, where would I sleep? Do you guys have any ideas on that? Maybe, a sleeping bag in an office space? I don't know anyone who would want me to stay with them without paying rent. My friends are all stress-prone, and I think seeing me every day would also wear on them, considering I am not a loved one.

So yeah, if you guys have any ideas as to where I should crash, let them out.
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>>18264776
Get a car to sleep in man. In college I just slept in my car and my gfs house lol her family hated me
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>>18264868
just a junker to plant in front of my friend's house? that would be cheap.

actually using a car could end up costing me $400 a month, thus defeating the purpose.
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>>18264776
why don't you stay in the storage unit?

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I took a solo vacation by myself to the beach and I feel like I can't actually relax. Even though I'm 25 years old, I've NEVER been around so many young people in my life. Not only that, but I've never seen so many attractive girls before that it's creating me a lot of anxiety. Since I graduated high school, I've just been working on developing myself professionally and personally. (Gym, vocational studies, work). But over the past 6-7 years, I HAVEN'T seen or been around many young people, especially girls. During my daily routine the past 6-7 years I've primarily been around people who are 10-20 years older than me. So, I feel seriously overwhelmed. I don't know how to talk to people my age. And the girls? Holy fuck do I feel out of my element. My blood pressure skyrockets whenever I go down to the beach and see all of these bikini clad women.

Fuck me. I'm suppose to be relaxing, not being fucking stressssssed. What the fuck I do
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Stop being such a fucking faggot? Holy shit dude
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>>18264688
Here, purchage your own gf today and work on your social skills
>>18250471
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>>18264693

Dude you say that because you're used to being around women. I literally haven't seen an attractive girl IRL in years..

>>18264698

No. That is all bullshit. I tried that in the past.

Open to all suggestions
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>>18264686
L and G are cool people who just dont want to fuck you.
B are basically all horny teens by definition.
T are mentally ill people deserving any help we can give them before they inevitably suicide anyway.

Use your anger as power to improve your own life, not to harm others.
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You have to go back.
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>>18264686
Step 1. Literally kill yourself
Step 2. The rest of the world lives and lets live
Step 3. ???
Step 4. Profit

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I met some fucking dumbs children today. I was walking trough the city when the fattest kid walked up to me and said "Do you want my number?" i said "no" and he said "ew, why do you want my number?" *laughter in the background*

Then i walked into a store with two entrances. One of the fucking dumb kids held a door open, i walked trough the other one and he said "Why didnt you walk trough this door? is it because you are a racist?". *laughter in the background*

It was so fucking dumb and i dont even know why i put so much tought into this. I know they were just little shits being little shits but im still fucking mad.

What to do?
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>>18264685
That is very tame.

Ignoring them is the safest option.
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Well, why did you want his number?
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>>18264685
Just ignore it; they are jut terrible children.

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I am a muslim male and I really want to meet girls from my religion as I am most attracted to them.

but man this cant happen naturally it seems. everyone is a prude.


what are some place I can meet muslim girls? have you guys dealt with this problem before?
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Tons of Muslim women in the streets and they won't mind a fellow Muslim I think
Also shootout to you for being attracted to them, because they are not attractive in slightest to me
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>>18264653
In sewers or subways.
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>>18264653
Volunteer at a Koran school.

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Guys I got a big fucking problem.

I can't masturbate - because of the hair on the shaft of my penis.

How the fuck do I get rid of it? I'm scared that if I shave, I might cut an artery or something, and it seems pretty dangerous.

When I masturbating, I end up brushing against the hairs and this causes the under part of my dick to bleed.

Masturbations a pain now, and when I shave, I can still feel the hair roots on the shaft when I wank, and it feels really weird.
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>>18264634
Use a small beard trimmer and finnish up with an electric shaver. Pull your pecker while doing this so the skin is stretched and less likely to cut yourself.
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>>18264640
Wait, should I have an erection while I shave, to expose all the hair?
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>>18264634
>bleed
You WHAT?

How does one start bleeding from skin contact on his dick??? What?

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This is it, anons. I am nineteen and my dick is basically dead. No erection, no desire, nothing. There is a feeling of hollowness between my legs and under my penis. I tried to jerk off on porn and I still get no desire and erection, so I forced, cum fountains but felt absolutely nothing, with flaccid penis. Fucking crying right now. After one week of abstinence nothing changed. I once woke up in the middle of the night having a headache, and noticed immediately that my dick is dead, I thought I would have a heart attack, however, a few hours before that moment it had been working as intended.

What could it be? I have to visit an urologist?
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>>18264631
Are you on any medications?
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>>18264650
No. Only vitamins.
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>>18264631
Go to doctor.

Your testicles might be dead. You may have hormone imballance. Your puberty might fucked up. Your vitamins can be something else.

Go to doctor. The sooner the better.

Go to doctor.

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Why do lesbians come on to me?

Multiple times, self-proclaimed gay women have made moves on me.

One says "I'm a lesbian, I've never had sex with a guy before, but I want you"

Another will make out with me, fuck me, and then say "so I'm gay by the way..."

A very lesbian leaning bisexual woman fucks me, prefers women but blows up my phone

And I was at a bar when a woman with short hair pulled me aside and said "I'm gay, but you're adorable. I just had to say it"

of course straight mainstream "girly girls" do not approach me or are forward at all

I'm 6ft, 200lbs muscular. Is it because I'm feminine and remind lesbians of women? Is this normal? Or are these women just confused?
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>>18264623
Imagine it was men that was attracted to you like flies to a turd regardless of their proclaimed sexual orientation ... Count your blessings OP
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>>18264623
I dont see a problem. If you dont want sex, just dont stick your penis in them.

If you want rating, post your pic.
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>>18264623
>>18264667
POST PIC

Gf not in town, relationship not good.

The only gril i talk on the offside, 6/10 read and ignored my messages. What do?
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>>18264608
Break up with your """gf"""you enormous fucking faggot
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>>18264677
I tried... she does not want...
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>>18264702
Bait

>>18250471

I'm a ugly ass kid and I want cancer.
How to get cancer?
I'm serious.
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Read what you just posted. That should help
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You can't get cancer from reading some 4Chan text.
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Smoke for about 20 years minimum

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My ex-gf and I broke up a couple of months ago, and the girl we had a 3-month long ménage à trois with a few years ago is now aggressively and publicly pursuing my ex.

This is obviously quite hurtful, and I think it'd be pretty disrespectful of my ex to hook up with her, given I haven't pursued any of the other women we slept with, even those that have flirted with me. It's hard enough dealing with this breakup without having to think about that shit going on behind my back.

Would I be out of line to politely ask my ex if she could not sleep with/date our shared ex? Like am I being completely unreasonable here? I mean it's disrespectful enough to me, that someone who was supposed to be a friend is now trying to fuck my very recent ex.
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>>18264375
>My ex-gf and I broke up a couple of months ago


That is the only relevant part of your post. It is over. You have no property rights over her any more. ANYTHING that she chooses to do, or that anyone else chooses to do with her, is absolutely 100% None Of Your Business.
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Ex is an ex. I know it's complicated because I do threesomes to, but you can't stop either of them, no matter how much it hurts.
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What the others have said. Yes it would be hurtful but you cannot tell your ex, who owes you nothing, that someone is out of line to date or sleep with or whatever.

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