Me and my gf are bored to death latelly. Thankfully there's nothing wrong between us, but we realized how boring we have become after our income lowered considerably. We have been doing what we can to save money, so leisure resumed to what can be done on a 0$ budget, like netflix, watching movie, playing vidya and so on, but it's taking a toll on us
We have our own personal hobbies, but I'm actually looking for something we can do toghether, preferably that doesn't depend on weather and long preparations, but anything goes. Also something that can be done cooperatively, because when it's competitive I usually beat her and it gets boring, but honestly, anything goes.
>hard mode: something that allows to meet new people in flesh and socialize
>inb4: have sex
Thankfully we have plenty of that
>>18267829
There aren't really any cooperative hobbies. The best thing to do based on what I've experienced is for you both to have different hobbies that you can still do while in the same space. Then you don't get competitive and can talk to each other about what you're doing.
>>18267829
Hiking depends on the weather but is a great activity. You can meet other people too.
>>18267935
I meant as, something that both of us could do, help each other, help the other improve and so on. Like I said, we have our own things, for instance, I've got into modding for Skyrim and she does crochet, but it's like speaking two different languages
>>18267936
Thing is we live in a region where it rains frequently, and it would probably take at least a long drive to actually reach a "hikeable" place from where we live. That's the problem with the weather constrain.
Besides that, it's something we can look into, we definitly could use the fresh air and exercise.
Does this watch make me gay? It is a lady's watch but I think it's cool. So can I wear it without being harassed by gay people?
Its lame
Clearly a lady's watch
>>18267814
Sorry to break it to you anon but it's absolutely gayest watch I've seen. Even $5 watch looks better than this
Me and my girl are going to have sex for the first time. We want to not just have sex, but make love.
I would really, really apreciate any tips on how to make it very romantic so that we can have passionate sex and remember it forever. I was thinking about a good playlist and some sex games like strip poker or something, do you guys know any? Are there sex game apps or something?
>>18267644
Nigga how is strip poker romantic?
>>18267644
You sure have high hopes for the first time.
None of that stuff matters. Passion comes from feelings + taking the time for each other, being relaxed enough to truly enjoy each other's body and not both go through the motions of what you think sex should be like. It sure doesn't come from some sort of prop. And you cannot force it to be amazing, you always have to grow used to another person's preferences (if for either of you it's the very first time, chances are you will need to learn your own preferences as well!) and that will usually take a few times at least before you get it right and it comes really natural.
If you love each other and it's the first time you won't need to look for any objective standard for it to be memorable. Just make sure you have privacy, you take your time, maybe go do something fun together beforehand (like eating out or whatever) to prolong the tension before you can get to the good stuff.
Apparently I was mailed about jury duty for January 19th. Because I don't really check my campus mailbox, I never realized. I never got any calls or anything after I missed it. How fucked am I?
You likely have a warrant out for your arrest, should you return to your city of residence.
>>18267853
I've been in the same location since January, wouldn't they have done something at this point?
>>18267925
Pretty sure that anon is fucking with you. The laws vary from state to state, but I'm pretty sure they all just charge a fine. Which sucks, but you're not going to jail over this.
You might be able to get out of the fine, too, if you can provide a valid reason why you missed it. There should be a phone number in those jury notices, call them up and explain your situation and ask what you should do. Don't wait for them to come after you
Anyone know what are some places to find some weed in Austria? Feeling like shit, wanna smoke.
Fuck, kind of retarded not to say which city from me, Wien.
Sers. Geh doch mal zum Praterstern oder zum Donaukanal
>>18267478
War schon zum Praterstern, aber habe nur Polizeiwagen mit Kameras gesehen. War aber noch nicht zum Donaukanal. Danke!
Can anyone relate?
For the sake of time I'll greentext
>virgin 1 1/2 years ago
>find a girl that I feel is perfect and fall deeply in love
>we start dating
>year later, wanting more sexually
I really do love her and I find her very attractive but lately I have been fantasizing about other women probably because of my lack of experience.
What do /adv/?
>>18267360
>wanting more sexually
so do you have sex with her regularly?
Sex is a large component of any working adult relationship, and anyone that says otherwise is wrong.
if you want to fuck other people and you do have sex with her, then have more sex with your gf until you dont regularly fantasize about others.
If you havent had sex with her, then your relationship WILL fail sooner or later. You should talk to her if you're just eternally blueballed by your gf.
>>18267360
>only have had sex with one girl
>shes perfect
She's the first so you have a warped perception of what she is. It's time to try some different flavors. Get out there and explore.
>>18267430
We have sex quite regularly (1-3 times a day)
It's satisfying but I want more...
>>18267443
This is very true
I'm still attached to her though, I wish I had gotten all of this energy out before we started to date.
How do you stop feeling lonely without socializing?
get a dog
>>18267350
Humans are social animals. Its part of your instinct to socialise. Lonliness is the instinct going "hey you need friends or no one gonna help you when the wolves come for you... Also we aint makin babies thats kind if a problem too" so...
>>18267362
Pretty much this.
>>18267362
I'm barely able to take care of myself; making a dog dependent on me would be cruel. I suppose it's a good idea long term though.
>>18267366
>Its part of your instinct to socialise
clearly not or I'd be doing it
I'm friends with this woman at my job and she leaves tomorrow. I don't speak to her outside of work but I really want to because I would like to be her boyfriend someday. How do I do it without seeming needy? If it helps we're both 18 and live in England.
>>18267347
Get her number immediately and call her in a few weeks to check how shes doing and ask her to meet up to talk about her new life/job.
>>18267347
Ask her asap on date.
i want your phone number because i might not feel safe
I'm somewhat new to instagram but there is a girl who follows other people I follow and she followed me for maybe two days, then she unfollowed me. Now, a week later, I noticed she is following me again. I've never followed her back because her profile didn't interest me. Why would a person do this?
The questions on this board get dumber by the day. Could be to get your attention. Could be because she wants you to follow her back. No one here can know for sure. If you're interested then just DM her saying hi and initiate a conversation.
>>18267333
Why would a random girl want to get my attention? I'm not a guy, I'm a straight girl. And the girl following me has a boyfriend and I assume is not sexually attracted to me. What gives?
Social media is fucking cancer. Get to know someone for real. The most tech you should use to aide this is fucking texting. God I fucking Hate social media.
I am currently on a 6 month break from university, and I really need a job - I am weak physically, cannot commute (due to no car or lisence) and don't appear to be able to get a job in retail due to the catch 22 situation (need exp to get the job, need the job to get exp ect ect)
I am currently on the edge of completing online courses to try and make income from freelance cyber security or software development - What I need help on is understaning if this is even remotely a viable path, and could really use some advice or direction - I really want to do something in cyber security moreso than software development.
>Pic unrelated.
Any advice in terms of getting started in either would really help me out.
>>18267286
>no car licence
What about public transportation? Bike? Why not get licence?
>weak
Start eating and going to gym? Swim? Run? Walk?
>cyber security
Yea, no. Go back to your uni you sleazy lazy neet.
>>18267338
6 month break is due to the years work being done, not being lazy.
a gym requires income, which i obviously dont have.
if you are just shitposting why the fuck are you on /adv/
I have this girl in my life that my friends tell me I'm an idiot for. In the past, she was completely different person. She stole $400 dollars from me 4 years ago, but she was only 17. How do i make my friends see that she's different now, and that I love her and they should just support us? Please help. Thanks. She's super hot too.
Sounds like you are infatuated with what you imagine her as. It doesn't matter if she was 17 when she did it, you will always have that part of you that is on edge and worried she will clean you out and run off.
But i am just some random fuck on the internet, what do i know?
This is what being desperate must look like.
>How do I stop my friends from looking after me and just blindly support my horrible decisions
people dont change and once you get fucked over because she likely has no morals you'll realize it. It's quite ridiculous what a man will allow simply because she ha s a pretty face
Not to de-value your love, but please have some self-respect. I mean this in the kindest way possible, but please. Move on to someone who has never, and would never steal anything from you other than your heart. (and I don't mean that literally so stay away from creepy chicks)
As my wedding date grows closer and my fiance is about to move in, She keeps talking about how she is going to enjoy spending time during the day sleeping in, watching Netflix, and taking care of the house and household stuff that I don't want to do.
I'm scared she is going to become a lazy landwhale that I can't respect after we we'd.
Does every chick do this? Should I be having second thoughts?
>>18267251
Ask her to get a job to help ease your financial burdens. If you're well off with just you working tell her you want to start saving a nest egg for your kids and it would help if she was working for at least a few years until it gets to a decent size.
>>18267260
We're both very well off financially. I've got a 350k plus I make about 100k a year and that will grow.. She was medically retired so she gets a free 30k a year anyway.
I'm worried about her character. It's easy to slip into becoming a lazy shitbag. I'm not sure I want a "dependent".
Am I being too picky? She is a woman...
>>18267269
Looks like you're gonna have to pull your own weight on this then.
You have to take her to exercise classes like kickboxing, crossfit etc on your own time to try to get her hooked on something. Use the guise of wanting to try new things together. You could also tell her you want to go on a health kick and do your best to find the best tasting /health conscious meals and hope she gets into it as well.
Hey guys i need some help it's regarding sex life in my relationship.
I love my GF and she's no more into sex. During earlier days we used to have sex like 2-3 times a day while now after 2 years she doesn't feel like having sex. She enjoys masturbating and does that quite often. We both really love each other and I feel really bad about this sex thing and No she's not cheating on me and she's not a lesbian.
What do I do to spice things up. She's quite lazy and we don't do anything other than missionary if we even have it anyways.
>>18267228
Tell her that you find her lazy and that you want to whip her pussy.
I would start by getting kamasutra and trying new position every day / session.
You can also try to forbid her masturbation and when she feels like making one, you can finger / lick her yourself instead. Basically just make new protocol for her:
>she wants to fap
>she has to tell you
>if you dont comply, she can go fap herself
>if you comply, you have to follow her orders
Also
http://mojoupgrade.com/
Just assert yourself, make her submit, slap her ass and start improving your sex life. Start by learning how to properly suck her clit and after that make her to suck your dick.
Be creative!
how often do you guys still have sex tho?
>>18267531
Once in every 2 weeks.
Hello,
I come humbly and respectfully... I'm not a "tech person" but a writer who's currently working on a novel. One of the characters is immersed in the "deep web" (running a web-cam site that features Detroit crack whores, etc.) and is working towards hacking the televised broadcast of a college football game. I've read books on the subject; now I'm here to observe the modes of communication and to learn anything anyone will tell me about organizing a hack.
Thanks for your consideration. I'm grateful for any advice whatsoever.
Humbly, DeLillo
>>18267204
Just watch Mr. Robot. Can confirm many of the non-dramatic things they picture are how real hacking gets done.
Thanks... I did watch Mr. Robot... any suggestions for a place to observe authentic "web board" vernacular. And any advice on attempting to write about a network television hack? Thank you very much.
>>18267204
>>18267204
Instead of crackwhores make them people who have been trafficted into the sex trade. More realisitic. They could be Russian or some shit
Hi guys, i'm a 19 yr old male. I always feel like im in some kind of daze, I can't think clearly, and my emotions are hard to control (i get angry but never physical easily). I also constantly overthink problems and a small problem can paralyze my mind to the point where I can't even think of anything else until it's fixed. This has made me hate myself a lot and i've neglected my body because of how much I hate it.
But I have taken LSD before (on my own, im a loser with no friends to do it with) and I felt 'awake'. I could see what my life is like clearly, how wrong I am to get angry quickly, how most problems aren't worth worrying over and I should just try my best and no more. I look at myself and realise my body is weak and fat, and I could be so much more. But once I come down it goes back to the usual way of thinking and living like a flawed robot.
Somebody please give me advice. I have been seeing a therapist for 2 weeks but I didn't know how to explain my problems so I just said im depressed and anxious. I don't have much therapy time so I need to figure out how to get the best help soon before it runs out. Do you guys have any suggestions for what I could do to wake up out of this mental slumber and start fixing my life like I want to do when I am on acid?
>>18267131
I have been in your shoes, except I never took acid, and managed to fix myself, still working on it. Sadly there is no general way to get out of this ,it's up to each individual, there are some universal things though : physical and mental exercise, pursuing a passion, contact with humans.
I'm glad you're aware of this and you want to get out of it.
>limited therapy time
Where do you live ? In some countries you can get free therapy.
Anyway, good luck.
>>18267164
I am in the UK and we have a big strain on mental health resources now. I am a low priority case among thousands of addicts, schizo, bipolar, ASPD people who genuinely need fast help and still have to wait because our government is cutting money from all the wrong places.
I have either 4 or 6 more sessions left with my therapist before im released from therapy, they tried to convince me to take online CBT which i said no to but made me wait longer for that.
I constantly seem to have slow cycles of this mental awareness where I will realise my life is shit but then over the future i suppress my self and become a lazy depressed guy again.
I need to know how to keep this awareness and keep going forward instead of sticking my head in the sand like always.
>>18267188
You need to be actively aware of this. Try. don't let yourself drown in the sluggishness. It's really, really hard. But it's possible !
How's your environment ?
How is your sexual identity / orientation ?
Why do you hate your body ?