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well it was 7 years ago, you have 7 years of a good relationship, i mean honestly it's been too long, i say fuck it
>inb4 cuck

>>18267386
I've felt this way on a couple occasions, then the whole
> muh pride - morality shit gets in the way... fuck

Go to marriage counselling or at least go to counselling alone. Work through your feelings for it and decide what is best. Don't make rash decisions to leave and don't force yourself to stick it out if you feel it's not right.

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Also wanted to mention that of course I've been thinking that it may be better to give up 2D, even though I do like it, but I'm not sure if it'd be easy for me considering I have a few friends into and I'd feel like I'd have to ditch them as well if I wanted to truly give it up. And I've also done artwork of it so I feel like I'll have that interest forever branded to my art, and I don't think I can give up art that easily at all.

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Why give it up when you enjoy it? I would never think about this especially when you are nobody hurting.

If you don't like 3D then that's that no matter what some people say otherwise. Why even care about what they say when they have no insight?

I've known I was a pedo since around 14 and came to terms with it when I was 19-20. Maybe it's just projection but I can't see how people can be into loli/shota hentai and NOT be into the real deal at least on some subconscious level.

i mean sure hentai has stylized and exaggerated features, but if youre absolutely 100% not into something irl, then it doesn't matter how much better it looks in hentai, you're still not going to jack off to it.
like poop is disgusting, and hentai isnt ever going to make it fappable to me no matter how cute the anime girl is.

you have been on r9k too long. You need to pick a better role model.

>>18266157
Elliot Rodger was a loser. I don't mean that because he never got pussy. He was faced with the trial of adversity and sadness and he fell to it. Rather than face sadness and let it wash over and accept him he decided to throw a fit and kill people.

He had a victim mentality and apart from being an emotional midget, he had a horrible taste in fashion. Yes, stop reading his manifesto. You aren't being filled with strength and cultivating fortitude. What you're doing is what women do when they cry and bitch to each other then feel better after. Weather this storm and surround yourself with art and literature. Read books that fill you with positive ideas and develop you. Stop crying about being short and make the most out of this life.

>>18266164
so? i have autism and cerebral palsy and i don't think i will ever be accepted. there is not justice in the world and reading Elliot rodgers manifesto makes me much happier at the end of the bad day

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I can't stop overanalyzing things. I wish I wasn't so introspective and obsessive when I'm in love, it's pathetic. Got so much stuff to do but all I can do is think about this girl from my uni

> be me
> above average looks, quite tall
> socially autistic and overly serious when with cute girls, but 'chill' enough to pass as a normie and have normie friends
> fall in love with shy, nice girl
> we ask each other for help with studying, she talks about herself, some eye contact, compliments me, smiles often, laughs at joke attempts
> she's way more at ease and talkative with other more extroverted guys, I guess it's fair though since I'm not the "playful" type, I'm more relaxed and reserved sadly
> she tells a mutual friend with whom I'm close with "there is someone who seems to be very interested in me, but I don't want anything to happen".
> oh shit that's me, no one else is going after her and she hasn't been texting anyone that I'm aware of
> notice that when we go out or hang out as a group she barely cares about me and sticks to her own friends (borderline ignores me)
> realize that all the "good signs" I mentioned a while back are things she does to basically everyone else, not just me in particular
> lost all motivation to keep going, try to give up on girl and start feeling like shit
> a month later she starts paying a bit more attention to me, suspicious eye contact comes back
> starts fidgeting a lot when I'm around, even moreso than before
> whatsgoingon.jpeg


I wanted to give up and end this stupid obsession but now I have a little bit of hope. More than likely this will just make me suffer even more but I feel like telling her how I feel. Is this wise? We're part of the same friend group more or less, which could make things awkward between all of us, and of course there's that thing she said about not being interested (literally 99% sure she was referring to me.

Please tell me there's someone else out there who has struggled with Apathy and Anhedonia. These problems have taken so much out of me. I'm only 18, but they're practically ruined my last few years. I do exactly what the advice says, but exercise and a proper diet only fix your body - not your mind.

There's so little information on these issues out there that I feel like I'm screwed for good.

>>18264775
I don't know anything about those illnesses, but what I can say is definitely keep taking care of your body. A healthy body and a healthy mind go hand in hand, even though having mental disorders may make you think otherwise. The holy trinity of eating well, working out, and sleeping a lot did wonders for me when I was having a rough time. Have you been sleeping enough?

I'm definitely not the right person to help you though, I hope someone who is able to comes along eventually though. Hang in there anon

>>18264299
Oh yea, green text isn't me showing off. I'm just saying on paper I'm really just a normal average guy

>>18264299
Game playing is sadly fairly normal.

What people look for or find attractive in partners is not a logical thing at all, hence that somewhat old dating adage "attraction is not a choice". Though it sounds weird to say, many people look for partners who remind them of their parents and how their parents made them feel emotionally. So if a girl grew up with a distant father, she wants a boyfriend or husband who is similarly aloof and uncaring because that's what is familiar to her. And when you tell them you like them and would like to get to know them better, this turns them off. They don't know why, so they chalk it up to just not feeling attracted or you being "too nice" as if that's somehow possible. This has been my experience anyways, I meet chicks who are interested, get to know me, then run into the arms of another asshole who's more likely to abandon them.

Before anyone shits on me for being a woman hater: I'm not. I realize guys have daddy issues too, but this is a guy asking for help with women, so the proper gender pronouns are used here.

>>18264299
If a chick likes you she'll get with you.

If you fuck well and click she'll ask about making it exclusive.

Stop turning down sex to "get to know" chicks. If you fuck well the chick will want to keep seeing you.

Not OP.

I am male and I am fucking killing it on Tinder. If anyone wants some tips/advice/examples of how to increase their conversion rate, just go ahead and ask.

I made a tinder hack thread a week back.

Women are are pretty shallow on tinder. Hell, most of them aren't even ON tinder looking for anything in particular. They are there because they are bored. To them tinder is just a boredom killer. They swipe guys they find appealing and play the "is he really that charming?" game. Others use tinder for a go to sex. Girls can get laid at any time and for the most part the largest challenge a girl has to fae is choosing the right partner. Many guys over complicate stuff by playing "the game" so girls go for the short, direct, and attractive looking male they match with.

In ALL of my tinder encounters, I've always got their attention by messaging their names first with exclamation marks.

Second, I set a basis by asking them, "what on earth are you looking for on tinder?"

Their answer to that typically tells me what they are on tinder for. Some will say for relationships, others will say they don't know, or they just downloaded the app, or say some shitty joke about looking for a pizza eating buddy, and sometimes they will just say "going with the flow."

In any case, if you match with a girl and she tells you she's on tinder because she is seeing what's out there, she's looking for a dick. Girls want attention on tinder, and they mostly get it instantaneously. So when you have an opportunity to talk with a girl on tinder, you have a short window.

Girls are never LOOKING for a relationship, not unless they are really serious about that stuff. I stay away from those kind of girls. They are immature, want a fairytale fantasy to come to reality, and will essentially make your life a living hell.

Here is my status today:

>15 matches
>8 messages sent
>5 responses
>3 numbers
>1 hard date set
>1 vague date set

Not my best day, but a decent haul for a Sunday night.

>>18268750
OP here. continuing a segment that might be a big hint. when she came over the next day before she had to leave, ive met her mom before since my cousin dated this femanon like 4 years ago, she told me her mom asked who i was and remember after she told her, and she says i was the polite one. assuming that means its moms approval?

>>18268750
If you haven't kissed her or done anything intimate it's not going good. You're just her friend and you're getting friendzoned. Make some moves.

Also "Mom duties" are not an excuse. If she honestly thought anything of you she'd invite you over and have the date at your place.

Some of the best advice to have when evaluating a woman is to always keep things immensely simple. If you were her number 1,if you were a prospect to her, she would treat you like it.

>>18268901
>your place
Her place

>>18268681
Sire, thou art a cuck

>>18268715
So why you say I shouldn't?

>>18268681
No.

>>18268715
kys

Making a major life change, effectively killing the self and starting a better life as a new person.

Helium.

>>18268668
There is no painless suicide even hanging yourself or overdosing on pills/drugs are pretty painful. Shooting yourself will most likely just give you brain damage. Been there done that.

Start a new life anon. Go get some help or talk to someone.

As if I'm going to wait and find out...

>>18268509
I don't watch porn but sometimes I binge masturbate, other times I don't jack off for two weeks.

>>18268501
I've had it all over the place, anywhere between 1 day and weeks

It's weird but most commonly around 4-5 days.

>>18268465
You must be 18 or older to post

>>18268510
Pls reply w Mac lyrics or else it's not relevant.

Next time use protection. #Fails

I like to fantasize about killing people.

>>18268418
Laugh at the idiocy and do your part to push the world to burn

>>18268418
What exactly is going to get worse?

Lol you know he's fucking the shit out of your sister already.

>>18268428
As far as I know all they've done was kiss and go on a few dates. It's almost inevitable. If they do I feel like they have to get married. If they break up I lose a best friend, if they have arguments they'll come to me, If I take sides they turn on me.I can't gain from this just lose.

>>18268474
Just cuck your sister if anything happens

There's nothing wrong with having a gun in your car.

He just had a gun in his trunk who gives a fuck. My roommate also carried a pistol in his glove department. Just because someone has a gun and brings it with them doesn't mean they're going to shoot up a school. Fuck off

My friend has a hammer in his shed and knives in his kitchen! HALP!

>>18268377
All of these yes except the last one because if you're smart you don't really have to pay for sex, just use tinder

>>18268377
1. Up to you to decide.
2. It is a good idea, but it's up to you.
3. Yes. Might be cheaper (MIGHT), no pregnancy worries, almost no STD worries (unless you fuck trash), can fuck a 10/10, can fuck a different person each time, can realize your fantasies, will never get your properties taken...

>>18268389
If i'm handsome enough to have casual sex on tinder, i'll not have to care about not being interested to women in first place.