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>>18266630
You express your intentions, there's no shortcut to it. Ask her for a date, if she rejects and that deteriorates your existing relationship, you most likely dodged a bullet.

>>18266640
Is there any specific wording I should use? I've asked and have gone on things that I thought were clearly lunch/dinner dates before, but recently I've realized how many orbiters in my university do the exact same sorts of things with girls and never get anywhere.

>>18266653
>Is there any specific wording I should use?
There's no single correct answer here, but you have to show her that you're in it for real. How long have you known/worked together? If you've recently met, take your time, observe her for hints, but do not hesitate when you have the chance to ask.

>I've asked and have gone on things that I thought were clearly lunch/dinner dates before, but recently I've realized how many orbiters in my university do the exact same sorts of things with girls and never get anywhere.
Don't be afraid of this, you just have to make it clear what you want from the date, and judging by your posts there shouldn't be a problem with this.

I got myself a date for tomorrow after being in a somewhat similar situation as you. You won't lose anything if you tell her you want to date, just say fuck it and dive head first. That's how I went.

Sorry for being an idiot. I just want to do this legally if it happens. I'd love to just say "here's my car I'm dead I won't need it", on paper it won't hold up

Saged so I didn't bump thread

Oh good, then they can seek it to cover half of your funeral expenses.

You want a good gift to leave behind? Get some life insurance.

>>18266655
I meant to say *sell*

Waste of am almost get

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>>18266551
You're a male, yes?
Your post makes me fucking sick. I can smell the reek of your victim complex.
Get it into your pathetic skull, noone gives a fuck about male problems.
You are a male, you are supposed to deal with it by yourself and never whine no matter how unjust something is.

Feel like the world is against you? It is.
Feel like other people have it a hundred times easier than you? They do.
Is that unfair? Yes. Does it matter? NO!!!
There's nothing you can do about what has happened, you are wasting your time, which is the only resource you have.

I know how you feel bro, but bitching and crying only pushes EVERYONE further away from you.

>>18266567
>I can smell the reek of your victim complex.
>rest of the post "hurr durr im a guy what i think or feel doesnt matter hurr nobody loves me"
The irony is sweet

It's literally in the past, dude. You're acting self-righteous as fuck, pretending you've never done anything shitty to someone, or something you didn't really intend to be shitty that came across the wrong way. If someone wanted to look back on the past five years of your life and nitpick, I'm sure they could.

We all grow up and learn from our experiences. It's silly to think we should dwell on them and forever feel the burden of their guilt if we have used that experience as a lesson to become a better person. Or, you're making a mountain out of a molehill, and in your newfound search to be more "assertive," you're dwelling on things that could be more constructively dealt with. This is especially poignant because you're only 18, so the best ammunition you can have to point to anyone's faults is literally in the most formative time of their lives, when everyone is dealing with a cocktail of previously unexperienced hormones that prevent them from acting rationally.

Part of growing up, you profound 18 year old "adult," is learning to move past what you can't fix.

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>>18266528
If something similar has happened to me? Like LIFE?
Death is the most natural thing in the world. If you have existential difficulties right now it's probably due to your philosophy not being able to give you a decent explanation for your feelings and thoughts. Nothing lasts forever, nothing. Never. You can either be okay with that or do something about it.
In this case, you need to realize that you too, some day, will be lying in the corner struggling to breathe, and in the next moment you're nothing.
To keep ignoring (postponing) this stuff, you can either get a time machine and go back to a time before you got those pets or you can kill them yourself right away.

>>18266543
To keep ignoring (postponing) this stuff, you can either get a time machine and go back to a time before you got those pets
You read my mind, anon. Sometimes I regret having pets because I know I'll have to deal with what I wrote in OP.

And yes, it's how you said it. The thing is that I suffer a lot when I know they're in pain. It's very difficult to me to laugh or enjoy something when this is a possibility. And I also think that I'll have to watch them die one by one.

>>18266543
>To keep ignoring (postponing) this stuff, you can either get a time machine and go back to a time before you got those pets
You read my mind, anon. Sometimes I regret having pets because I know I'll have to deal with what I wrote in OP.

And yes, it's how you said it. The thing is that I suffer a lot when I know they're in pain. It's very difficult to me to laugh or enjoy something when this is a possibility. And I also think that I'll have to watch them die one by one.

>>18266527
She is rejecting you.

>>18266527
Have you tried asking her to pick something? What are her hobbies?

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>>18266527
> night time
> everything fun is closed

What the hell kind of a place do you live in??

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>>18266524
Have you tried talking to the donor that shared his HIV with you? He's probably in a gang with more people like yall

>>18266524
Hang in there bro.
Friends who don't support you in your time of need aren't real friends. And don't let the haters get to you; hate is usually based in ignorance.
Have you tried going to a support group and finding people in the same situation as you?
Cheer up OP. Every cloud has a silver lining.

>>18266524
And there i was, thinking that you can keep taking pills to make hiv dormant to the point where you cant even spread it to other people and live a long life.

Also what have you done to get such cool thing?

>find new friends and dont tell them you aids

you must be at least 18 years old to post on 4chan.

Dont lose hope fag.

>>18266531
but ive been on here for 3 years now

>>18266482
Don't be a cunt, but if your friends stupid enough to fall for it then it's their problem, and don't be surprised when they get the shits with you.

Hilarious.

What better way to solidify a relationship with somebody than earning their trust, and then playing with it.

I'd recommend going with something less destructive, and more creative. Kids used to make those infinite pop-up loops, and they're pretty easy to make. No risk of destroying critical data, and easy to reverse.

>>18266482
Calling something mean a prank doesn't make it any less mean

Move to Britain.

I have one knee that is considerably darker than its counterpart. This weighed on me when I was growing up because apart from being a couple shades noticeably darker, it has a lot more hair on it for some reason. Growing up I always wanted to wear short shorts (just a few inches above the knee) but my insecurities stopped me. I tried bleaching them naturally with lemon juice. Eventually I decided it really doesn't matter. People are going to think what they will of my appearance. I started wearing shorts I have always wanted and put that ugly knee on display. Nobody has ever said anything and most only notice it when I mention it myself. I think I've caught some people staring at it occasionally but I'm beyond the point of caring.

What I hope you learn from my situation is it ultimately doesn't matter. I have straight teeth and I never notice someones teeth when I talk with them. Even if I did notice their crooked teeth I wouldn't think anything of it. You look the way you look and crooked teeth, like a dirty looking knee, means nothing.

>>18266450
Thanks. I get what you're saying - I suppose only people who are self-conscious about the same thing will notice it, but I think teeth is something that is much more noticeable.

I suppose not giving a fuck about it is the obvious solution, but it's harder than it sounds for me.

>>18266408
Take advantage or be honest with yourself.

You weren't okay with their bullshit back then and you arent now.

You can give it an honest go, you have nothing to lose unless you put a ring on something. But take it all with a grain of salt, since they might be looking to just milk you for what you're worth.

This is what women are, I'm shocked you haven't learned this by now.

If you want sex it should be fairly easy. If you're not interested then stop talking to them. Those sycophants don't deserve your attention.

>>18266417
>This is what women are
This is how TWO girls from his high school are, not how ALL women are.

Run back to /soc/. Your kind isn't appreciated here.

>>18266402
Cut it out with that half grin, its not doing you any favors. Even if your teeth are a bit crooked or you have braces, that looks better than a smirk that all child molesters seem to share.

Style you hair, try growing it out a bit

stop wearing t-shirts with bad designs on them

start working out and wash you face at least once every two days

You have nice eyes

>>18266412
Thank you sir

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>>18266385
Fart in your hand and let it go in her face.
She'll most likely wretch, but if she thinks it's funny, she's actually a keeper.

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>>18266392
Actually, Girl B thinks my farts are hilarious. I've farted under the covers, right next to her, in the shower, she does this cute and funny 'WHEW' sound and does a waving motion with her hand in front of her face. It's really funny.

>>18266385
Talk to girl A and explain you arent happy with the relationship and are going to start seeing other people.
Tell her she should do the same for her own sake.

Thats about it.

You cant make someone else take a breakup well, they will handle it however they handle it. Just don't be a dick and be direct and honest.

>>18266367
When was the last time you insulted somebody?
Go try play some video game and call somebody asshole.
Practice makes perfect. Then after a while go find that bully and tell him how weak useless faggot he is.

Easy.

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>>18266367
Take up a combat sport. Boxing/muay thai/ BJJ/ etc. dont fall for the aikido bullshit. After taking a few classes at your local gym for a while begin sparring. Sparring changes how you view yourself and as a result will change how others view you. After you have fought a man and thrown yourself into that arena you understand what part of being a man is all about. Knowing you can handle yourself and the pride from the work you put in does a man some good.

>>18266422

I figured I'd have to risk brain damage just to not feel like a bitch, thanks.

That's not how brownies work.

Did you follow the recipe?
Was the oven calibrated properly?

>>18266362
My whole body shaking byt this made me laugh so thanks. Also fuck hiro and stupid captcha, this is hard as fuck high

clearly put way too much sugar in them. Next time try using artificial sweeteners instead. Oh and you need to let the rise not rot.

post your liabilities.

what is likely to make them say no.

>>18266321
>I have to help out with the mortgage, pay for the insurance for my car, phone bill etc.
>it doesn't ask for that on the applications though

>>18266327

i meant job liabilities. are you young, a felon, have no car, now work experience?