I'm in college and i need a part time job, give me ideas
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online video transcribing
it sucks and the pay is terrible but you can do it at 4am and dont have to talk to people IRL
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camgirl
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>>18262372
are you intelligent? what are you studying? talk to your professors and see if they need any help
How does being in love feel
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>>18262232
It's great but also terrible.
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It feels soft and warm. As someone who thought falling in love was impossible, I'm glad to have experienced this feeling. It's changed me. I'm happier now. I think about my boyfriend all the time. What he's doing, if he's alright, why I'm not in his arms. Just thinking about him makes me happier.
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>>18262232
There are many different kinds of love, anon.
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Can I just do the shit I like and see where it takes me or should I really start worrying about being able to have paid retirement
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>>18262204
Second option. I assume you are talking about studies.
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>>18262269
Ya I'll do some gen ed courses and shit
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>>18262303
then do what you have to do, don't mess around. You only live once and you will spend your life working on something related to that you studied. You may be asking this because you see other people not caring about it. They don't notice how important this is.
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I'm addicted to Fat Black Women 2017-04-26 11:29:54 Post No.18262178
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I'm addicted to Fat Black Women
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/adv/ I need help,
I'm horribly addicted to sex with fat black women. I don't know what it is about them that turns me into a mindless sex-craved lunatic but nothing gets me more aroused than the thought of burying my face in one of their asses. They receive my attention very well and as a result I've probably fucked upwards of 30 of them since I was 16.
I'm ashamed to tell my friends this because they all date skinny white girls and I've never introduced them to any of the girls I fuck because they're all like this. They're beginning to think I'm gay but I have no interest in pretending to like a skinny white girl when I could be balls deep in a fat girl.
what do I do?
pic related: the kind of girl im talking about
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>>18262178
Nigga cmon what the fuck...
This has got to be a joke
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>>18262180
what?
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>>18262178
If it's your friend's judgement that concerns you, just tell them how it is; that you enjoy plowing fat black chicks.
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I'm having a long distance relationship with a girl. We met something like 5 times total in a bit less than 2 months. We like each other a lot. Last weekend for the first time we spent the night together. We had sex for the first time.
Last Sunday, when she left, she asked me to wait for her to think and decide what's next. The morning after she said she's sorry but I have to be patient and she needs time.
I don't hear from her in 3 days and I start to get worried. The wait is killing me. I'm really forcing myself not to text her. What should I do?
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>>18261940
Accept you fucked her and you're not going to be the only one.
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I've been in a long distance relationship for a year before. There is a lot of trust involved. You must learn to trust each other. If there is no trust then its purely sexual.
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Should I text her? I wonder what's taking her so long. I don't want to look needy but at the same time I don't want her to think I'm not thinking about her.
I told her I understand and she can take her time after last text, but it's really hard now
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-04-26 08:29:16 Post No.18261620
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Why would a girl never initiate a text, but get really into it most times you initiate?
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Girls
What is the longest you've gone without getting laid?
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What can this mean?
Why did she go to read up further on what I mentioned?
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How to go from friends to acquaintances? 2017-04-26 07:32:07 Post No.18261497
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How to go from friends to acquaintances?
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How do I go about distancing myself from a close friend without completely cutting ties?
Basically, I've been friends with this guy for almost 3 years now (I'm 23, male). We started hanging out when I was in a rough patch of my life, and, given that I was looking for someone to smoke weed and play vidya with, he fit the role pretty well.
I've since changed, however, and especially since the start of 2017, I've made a big attempt to start progressing in life, and made some big changes. With those changes, however, I realized that this friend isn't probably the best if I'm gonna move forward. Ever since I started showing progress our time together has deteriorated, to the point where these last 2 months we had fought for petty crap pretty much every time we met up.
The situation went overboard 2 weeks ago, when I was 1 week into nicotine withdrawal and I met up with him. I expected him to be supportive, but instead we ended up arguing for the sake of arguing, with him saying pretty much that I'm not gonna make it. This infuriated me to the point of almost beating him up inside my own house, but I ended up blaming my reaction on the withdrawal and changed the discussion. Afterwards, however, I realized that I was legitimately angry at him, both for that specific argument and in general about how annoying he had become lately. I haven't talked to him ever since, although he has tried to contact me (a couple of phonecalls and messages). He doesn't seem to acknowledge that there is a problem with me and him however (he hasn't even mentioned the fact that I'm not responding in those texts).
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In any case, I've burned a bunch of bridges in the past, so I know full well that I can always just keep ignoring him for a bit and he'll just go away. However, since I've done a bunch of that in the past, I'd like it if I found a way to both stop hanging with him, but also not just go awkwardly AWOL for a month until he gets the message. I have mutual friends with him and I even meet his brother every now and then, so I don't want to go into that awkward mode. How do I go about this in a mature way, both this time and generally if I want to cut ties peacefully with someone else in the future without just severing everything common? Every time until now that I wanted to distance myself I simply stopped communicating for a month or two, and the person usually got the message. That's fine and fits the purpose I suppose, but, honestly, it feels like hiding, and I don't like it.
I made a similar thread a week ago btw, just in case anyone stumbled upon both.
Thanks in advance to anyone who bothers to read this!
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>>18261497
Had something similar to me happen when I started to mature.
This kind of thing just happens. Just stop hanging out with them. You can ween them off if you want but you'll find you no longer even like hanging out with them when you do.
They're a friend, you're not married to them, and you don't owe them anything.
Just be less responsive, and always "be busy" when they want to hang out.
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>>18261502
>tfw all your friends suddenly became "busy"
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Is being shy a bad thing? Why do some people look down upon shy people?
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Being shy is usually linked with being a bit insecure or very insecure. Never met a shy person that was completely confident and spoke their mind. It's not a bad thing but its not ideal. Shy people can make people feel uncomfortable.
I'm pretty shy and I always get comments on how I'm quiet. I understand that my actions or lack thereof do have an impact on people which is why most prefer those who are confident and assured in who they are.
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>>18260513
in girls it's cute, but men are expected to have some balls and exert confidence.
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Society is a game of pulling people down for funsies, the smartest learn to pull people down quickly and being shy means you aren't adept at the game, so some people think they have to teach you by bullying you. They call it 'adjustment' or 'hazing' or whatever BS excuse they use to be a shit.
So shyness is naturally the symbol of an ill-adjusted or otherwise nasty person in the groupthink, after all shy guys always hide nasty pepl or serial killers rite? that's why they have to beat you to be right. Never question it, OP. Just take it, or you'll be a weird faggot. You don't want to be a weird faggot, do you?
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>be gay af
>use "Her" app cause like fuck it
>meet really cool person
>visit them last night
>thought it was just gonna be a hookup but instead caught feels and we just cuddled and watched shows while on acid all night
>feelsgreatman
>halfway through the night they have a panic attack because apparently they're like fucking up a lot in school and it really got to them
>manage to comfort them and we fall asleep wrapped up in each other
>wake up, have to leave for work
>get really sad
>realize I'm feeling things for them
>tell each other we want to see each other again
>texting for most of the day after
>last text was about 7 hours ago
>currently freaking the fuck out cause I'm afraid I was too clingy and scared them away forever
>only thing keeping me together is that it's possible they're sleeping or in a mood rut or working on a school thing they said they totally forgot they had to do and seemed to rush into when they mentioned it
I'm kind of heartbroken right now because I feel like every time I open up to someone they just remove me from existence and I get no rhyme or reason as to why and just blame myself.
Am I overthinking this?
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>>18259589
>Them
How many were there?
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>>18259620
One. Nonbinary. They, their, them, they're all useable in a singular format now. Please don't derail as that's not even remotely the focus of the post.
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>>18259636
Singular "they" has existed since Shakespeare's time, anyway. It's not new, nor ungrammatical.
OP, it's probably fine. Maybe just play it cool until you hear back from them.
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I hurt someone very undeserving of the poor treatment I gave them.
The TL;DR of it is that I lead them on for a year.
They're crushed.
I know there's nothing I can do to fix things. But at this point in time, I just want to be as much help as I can be.
I've been told by him that they never want to see me again. They never want to talk to me again. And I respected that. I did not contact them. But over the past few days they've been contacting me, I responded because I thought it might give them closure, I don't know if it's helping or not. Today I am about to send them a message reading:
"What I did was not right by you. And I will never justify what I have done. But right now, I want to do what I can, that given the situation, is right for you. I personally think what is right for you, is to be removed from your life. But yet again, I'm not asking the one person who matters in regards to what the best thing to do is-- you"
Now I just don't know if sending this will even help, or I should just keep my mouth shut.
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>>18263603
You can't make that sort of post without more detail. You lead them on for a year? Woman do that shit all the time, it ain't nothin special.
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why did you lead them on?
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>>18263603
Just stop, leave them alone. They've probably had enough of your bullshit and want nothing more to do with you. There's no way they'll know if anything you say to them is sincere, so it'll only torment them more.
Think I'm going to fall for smoke weed everyday meme. Any help or advices? Haven't smoked in 1,5-2 years.
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Not worth it.
>t. someone who smoked every day for 6 years
Plus don't you want to dream at night? It's like a random adventure every time.
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Since I quit smoking my dreams become more vivid. Ya, I know. What about ocasionally for enjoynemnt maybe let's say one time a month?
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>>18263530
Nothing wrong with that.
Everything in life requires moderation, especially drugs.
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How do you talk about life to friends without being accused of humblebragging? I have a hard time figuring out where I start being a douchebag and where my friends start being jealous.
For example, I'm going to Disneyland Paris as part of a family vacation & visit to see some friends as part of my dad's 60th birthday later this year. I asked my close group if they had been to another Disneyland before and what they liked (knowing at least two had been to one), and got absolutely ripped on for "humblebragging" that I could afford to travel when they struggle to make rent.
I work hard, but my parents are reasonably well off, so I feel like I can never work hard enough. I'm sleeping on a couch for like 60% of this trip.
Do I just keep quiet about everything that isn't poverty?
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sounds like your friends are jealous dude
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>>18263487
I don't think that's humble bragging
Look up examples of humble bragging if you need to see what exactly that entails
Tbh humble bragging is like a meme phrase anyway I've been accused of it, and I don't boast about anything I do at all
>>18263491
They are probably just jealous mate
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>>18263487
Just don't talk about yourself.
Skipping all the backstory to this, over the course of about a week me and a girl were sexually active every day, but every time I wasn't ever "firm" enough to actually penetrate her vagina, so it kept ending with a bj.. it was both of ours first times and she was ok with the whole situation but it really depressed me any idea the cause of this.. take a long break from masturbation ?
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>>18263390
>any idea the cause of this
Sounds like performance anxiety. You just need to get out of your own head, stop being a nervous wreck, realize sex is a messy, imprecise, and unpredictable undertaking that almost never goes exactly how you want it to, and embrace the shit and just enjoy yourself.
Cheer up fucker. Some of us don't even have girls who like us enough to put our dicks in their mouths.
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Normally I'd agree with >>18263407's diagnosis of performance anxiety, but 7 times in a row is unlikely to be just performance anxiety. She's probably also nervous and is tensing up.
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>>18263413
If he's not hard enough to stick it in, that's a him problem, not a her problem.
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This sucks my cock is useless, and no woman will even want me
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Why do you say that?
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>>18263337
Black and only 5 inches, I have no chance
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>>18263330
Why don't you like. Find a relationship with a girl based on like. Personality like the rest of guys with small dicks (;;;
For the part 6 months about once a week my shit comes out like this. Should I see a doctor or am I fine
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I mean you either way beets once a week, have a bleed in your gastrointestinal tract, or colon cancer. Probably.
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>>18263307
Lmao
I take way too much aspirin, drink too much, and eat way too much spicy food and this has never happened to me.
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>>18263318
I mean I ate some skittles today. Would that do it? This is more than usual so I'm a bit worried.