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>>18308736
Not at all, it seems.
Take another test in a couple of days of period doesn't arrive, consider to use more reliable birth control methods if you have sex regularly.

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>>18308736
Maybe it is time to start using condoms.
Maybe it is time to buy engagement ring.
Maybe it is time to realize that 2D girls cant get pregnant.

>stay cool

>>18308736
dont sweat it, it's probably fine. also depends on how regular her period is, mine can be weeks late sometimes...

>>18308721
i genuinely believe the book Gorilla Mindset will help you

>>18308721
I understand how you feel anon. Have you spoken to your best friend at all? He should easily be able to help you out to do with this type of stuff.

Just in case I'll offer my input. The only thing that is holding you back from starting a conversation is yourself, I understand how intense that feeling can be but you have to push through it, the worst case scenario is that you just say hi to each other and that is it, nothing horrible can come out of this.

The best thing to do is have good general knowledge like the latest news, most popular sport etc. this way you can talk about this type stuff without trying to think of a way to carry on the conversation.

To do with Tinder it's just a hookup app, speak for like five minutes with teasing and tell her to come round yours for sex, first time in a long time is scary but just do it.

>>18308733
I'll definitely look into it. Thanks.

>>18308743
I've complimented his ability to speak to anyone without hesitation. He told me something similar - what his worst case scenario is, and I just realized how different our worries are. I asked him how he's able to approach any woman and ask her out, and he told me "The worst thing that can happen is she tells me she has a boyfriend", but I can think of a million worse things that could happen.

And I don't know how to turn this off - how to look at it from the same perspective as he looks at it.

Yeah, like I said, I generally don't have problems speaking once I'm there, it's just the start that's tough for me.

As for Tinder, I live in a small country, and Tinder isn't looked at as a hookup app for most people, especially girls.

>>18308720
Guess that rape is the only option then.

>>18308720
Mate you finally found someone that enjoys your fetish as well, don't throw it away because you finally found that.

Sooner or later it will get better, just stick it out you faggot frog poster

>>18308720

So...you want to inflict something upon someone that they do not like? There are words for that anon and they don't oftem show up in a non-criminal context.

>>18308700
>Should i have more money?
Nah you should just keep living with your mom forever.
What kind of stupid question is this even?

>>18308715
i just feel insecure about it i guess. i just feel unprepared for my future i guess. but ive been okay not being rich so far so i guess its not a huge deal yet

>>18308700
>>>18308715
>not being rich
Please stop, rich you say.

If I where you I would start saving up some money and work harder, you never know what financially is going to hit you... But that's just my opinion

>>18308664
Fap to anime?
Do online dating?
Multiplayer videogames?
Shitpost on /adv/?
Talk to my parents/friends?
Heroin?
Go to gym?

You are asking strange question. Are you perhaps lonely? Like
>tfw no gf?
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>>18308664
No, if I do social stuff it's usually planned at least a day in advance. Say it's like 8pm at night, is there anywhere you can just head out to and be social? Not interested in close relationship, just general small talk and stuff. Must be in person not online.

Look for any concerts, plays, or other such happenings that are happening in your town tonight.
Personally gonna go see an improvisation theatre group that I just read about.

Until such time as I am no longer employed by this firm, I am to be referred to NEVER as "Hiring Manager" but only as "Captain Grizzly." All incoming employees and applicants are to be made aware of this and if I am ever referred to incorrectly, it will be their supervisors, and not them, who are held responsible.

>>18308659
Complete your first two years at a local community college then transfer over and finish the remainder of your education at regular university. Search for scholarships also

>>18308659
Professor writing here.

The simple answer to your questions is "Ask the university."

Generally, you wouldn't have to start all over. Unless the university has a time limit, the hours you have should count toward your new beginning, and the specific classes might meet requirements. This is where talking to the admissions office comes in.

Check if your employer has a plan for underwriting school costs. Many do, especially when it will increase your value to the company.

If you do have to catch up on introductory classes, take them at a cheaper CC, making sure first that they'll transfer.

Ask the uni about scholarships and grants. Some have programs specifically for older returning students like you.

stop stalking your ex you creep

>>18308654
take that back, we're friends on social media and i see her sadtime posts

>>18308662
The fact that you know how someone you haven't talk to in 9 months is doing is pretty weird, you have to admit. Maybe it's her fault for posting all her personal life on facebook, but I think what's happening here is that you're obsessing over her posts and reading too much into them. I might be wrong, of course. Either way, the fact that you think it's your job or your place to "help" her is creepy. If she's not a complete shut-in she has other people to talk about her issues, she doesn't need an ex she haven't spoken to in so long.

>I don't know what to do
Do nothing. Again, however she's doing is not your issue. The fact that you don't see it this way and the fact that you even noticed she's going through some hard times suggests you haven't gotten over her and deep inside you do want to interact with her again. If that's the case sure, contact her, but at least be honest with yourself. If that's not the case I see no reason to butt in her life.

I'm really curious though, what exactly she posts on social media that makes you think she's in a bad place? I don't think I've seen any posts on social media that claim or even imply that.

>>18308633

She sound like a multi-problem wreck and it will probably only escalate from there. If you're already thinking about breaking up, it might be wise.

How old are you two?

At any age, she sounds pretty unstable. Leaving her would probably fuck her up even worse. I would try to help her make some friends first.

Also, tell her these things bother the fuck out of you. Explain why.

>>18308640
Thanks man
>>18308661
I've attempted to help her get friends, she dosen't follow through and commit herself and I guess they just stay as
acquaintances

become a casual alcoholic, no really.

Ive been doing it for the last 2 months and ive gotten laid more times in these 2 months than my whole life before.

>>18308660
How shit about yourself do you feel when your sober though. I feel like I'll go from casual alcoholic to hardcore alcoholic very quickly.

>>18308617
do you have logs of what you say to her when drunk

it's mostly context sensitive but poring over what you say when drunk can help you out

>>18308507
>Is this the start of something unhealthy?

Sounds like the potential for a problem is there, but since you acknowledge it, you can probably control it. One good way to avoid drinking in the evenings is to arrange something to do early in the next morning.

its not a start
when you miss it its already a habit
dont go further down the line

>>18308515
Well I have a regular job so I don't really have to arrange anything. And honestly, alcohol helps me sleep better so that wouldn't help

>>18308446
You'll get use to it eventually son lol

>>18308446
because it's easier to.

if it makes you feel any better anon, i wouldn't ghost you

>>18308446
Because people have egos and never want to own up to their fact that some of their desires might paint them as assholes and jerks if they were to vocalize them, so to protect themselves they go the passive route which skirts confrontation and curbs putting in real effort. You want things to change? Don't be like them and honestly end things even if it means being judged, and surround yourself with like minded individuals.

>>18308417
People have hard requirements to even consider you as dating material and if you pass them, then you are evaluated as a package and of your overall rating pass certain value, they will keep dating you.

For example my hard criteria for partner is:
fertile
biological female
not disabled
lools like human
wanna have kids
not fat

And if you are midged, chances of girls willing to date you are low. And they wont tell simply because nobody wants to be seen as shallow person. But in reality everybody is kinda shallow. You wouldnt date girl who has ass instead of face too.

Now go try to find girl who doesnt care about heigth or go back to >>>/fit/ spam manlet memes.

Why are you so worried about it? Height hasn't restricted me at all when it comes to women and I'm only 5'9. To answer ur second question its so they don't seem shallow

>>18308417
I'm 6'4 and never had a gf so obviously that's not true. My wang is 5 inches. We all have stuff we're insecure about but don't blame something you can't control as your reason for not achieving something. That's the easy way out

I'm no IT guy but I would guess it's the same as being an artist: you create a portfolio. You work or create something in your field which you can show to a future potential employer that shows that you have the knowledge to complete the tasks he will give you.

>>18308370
How old are you?

>>18308370
>>qualifications: at least bachelors degree must have at least 10 years of working experience in java,c++,html5,css,javascript,sql,php,photoshop,illustrator,networking,video editing
I know this is an exaggeration, but lots of the jobs in any field want a ton of experience like this. There are two tips I can give you: first of all, approach people when you look for jobs. Don't wait for them to come to you, go to them. Secondly, build up work experience while you're studying. And not just work experience, do other things too. Being a well-rounded person makes you more employable than someone who has more experience but only in a narrow area.

op had same problem after i worked in a bakery icing cakes for about 3 years probably did thousands I think i fucked the nerves

>>18308384
Did it go away tho?

What position are you sleeping in? You could be pinching your nerves, I have it too from time to time where I can't feel or move my entire arm for weeks.

well?

asking for permission is an awkward act on it's own.

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>>18308271
What do you mean "is it okay"...?
Legally? yes.
Is it going to still be awkward? Likely.
Should you still do it? yes.