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When does it get creepy or weird? 2017-05-11 07:25:05 Post No.18306553
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When does it get creepy or weird?
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I am a male in my late 20s. At what point does it get weird or creepy to not have been in a relationship? I feel really behind because I have friends who are married with kids and shit. I am unmarried and live in a studio apartment.
Is that weird? I think I have this aura around me that repels women. I don't feel attractive. I always wonder how these celebs can cheat on their wife so easily. When you have women throwing themselves at you, the game plays itself.
I guess what I am asking is... how much time do I have left to experience relationships before it turns into a shit show?
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Dude you're too old to be still having these insecurities.
Just accept your fate as an incel.
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Same story. Late twenties and live alone in a studio. I have had a couple relationships with women who didn't respect me and walked all over me freely because of my emotional need for intimacy and lack of self-respect. Honestly, I'm way more bitter about women and relationships now that I've had a few than I was as a virgin in my twenties. Doubt I'll ever try again. Here's to dying alone.
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>>18306558
I can't accept that. I feel like loving and being loved is a part of being human. To swear It off is to swear off my humanity.
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Hey /adv/,
my problem is that I have a very low self-esteem and I've been trying to do something about it for ~6 month (dressing well, taking care of my skin and hair...) plus I've been going to the gym 3-4 times a week for a good month now. But it dosen't seem to work. I always feel bad about my appearance.
Do you guys have any advices ?
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>>18306534
the way you perceive your appearance is a lot different from how people actually see you. you need to learn to stop giving a fuck
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>>18306534
Maybe get gf and let her judge your body, achievements and character?
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>>18306550
Yeah, it would be great, but I have no idea where i could find a girlfriend
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What am I supposed to do when someone calls me "privileged?" Like, what's the effect that the person is looking to get from this?
Honestly, it feels like a personal attack, like I'm being immediately judged, and my entire self-worth and value and everything I've ever done dismissed with a "well you're white and heterosexual and attractive, it is impossible for you to have ever struggled." Like I'm a bad person, solely for the way I was born.
Am I being asked to either not talk about success, or apologize for success? What's really the goal?
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use it against them
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>>18306500
the goal for them is to shut you up. to basically say that 'your opinion doesn't matter because your skin color/gender'.
i remember talking to some girls about how hard it is to be a girl, and i disagreed and they said 'well you're very privileged'
im a homosexual who grew up on a catholic island.
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>>18306500
More importantly, why are you even talking to someone like that?
These same people who talk about privilege always shit on people with autism, so fuck 'em. They're hypocrites.
They only go after shit people can actually see. Skin colour, gender.
They don't know shit all else about you, yet claim to be tolerant and deep and like they don't judge people based on their fucking looks.
They're also incapable of seeing the fault in this.
If they were robots sent back in time to destroy society (THEY VERY WELL COULD BE), you couldn't confuse them with a logical paradox because they have logic inhibitors stuck in their heads that makes them go "Well, 2+2 does equal 5".
You can't argue with them, you can't point out hypocrisy, so the only real solution is to isolate and alienate them by removing all contact with them and hoping everyone with a brain cell, at least one, does the fucking same.
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Alright guys, need your help. 2017-05-11 07:04:41 Post No.18306490
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Alright guys, need your help.
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Alright guys, what should I do here? I met a chick on a random chat site a couple nights ago. We talked for about an hour or so. We talked about everything under the sun: music, politics (I'm an Alex Jones fan, she hates him), and hobbies.
And then - sex. She told me she was into BDSM and Hentai, which surprised the hell out of me. I went along with it. Ecchi is more my thing, but I pretended and told her I like BDSM too. Anyways, she ends up showing me her tits and ass on camera. She's the classic "hypersexual" type. Had hickeys everywhere (not sure what to make of that) Not gonna lie, they were perfect. I forgot the power that a woman's body has until now. I gave her my number, and we've been texting back and forth talking about topical shit. Not the same energy as the other night. It doesn't feel the same.
>Here's the kicker - she said she was drunk and high the other night, but I doubt it.
Is that just a cheap way to absolve herself? I want to talk about sex more. How do I turn her on through texting? How do I keep the conversation rolling?
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Ask her on date. Buy condoms. Ignore her chat about being drunk and dont intentionally bring subjects which you know will make her uncomfortable.
If she will stick with you, sooner or later she will let you whip her pussy.
Ask her on date in person asap. Be nice friendly dude. Dont fall for ldr trap.
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>>18306517
ldr trap?
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>>18306582
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=LDR
>long term relationship
Basically if you cant see each other in person, cut contact with her so you dont catch feelings for her. Happens all the time when online chatting with qties and it brings only great misery in 99% cases for both sides.
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I'm 24 and just finished 4 years in the military. I do not want to continue living in the shithole that is my last duty station, and do want to pursue a 4 year degree.
I have basically no idea what major to go for or where to go to school. I would think that nailing down a major would help me choose schools, but if I decide on CS or data science or something, how many schools across the country would have programs for that? probably literally hundreds.
where tf to begin? any advice on useful major vs something I would enjoy? should I even go for a STEM degree if they are lmao so hard to get and now apparently all flooded job markets?
Any comments or thoughts are high appreciated my friends
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what was your job in the military? could always just do civilian contracting through the military and get paid big bucks with WAY less bullshit compared to being enlisted.
Basically do the same job with less stress.
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why didnt you go into the military as a technician or something? you could have a degree by now
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>>18306419
I was a linguist and unfortunately the language I learned has very very few civilian / contractor billets...the ones I have been able to find list a bachelors as a basic requirement along with the prior mlitary experience.
while I think I would enjoy one of these jobs, I still really want the experience of going to college and think I might prefer to do something more technical involving computers or engineering...but on the other hand what I REALLY wanted to do before the military was something involving wildlife management such as forestry or fisheries science
I just feel like there are a million different options at this point and any one of them could amount to being a hidden trap full of regrets and wasted years and money
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Drinking, Ow and well fuck..... 2017-05-11 05:08:08 Post No.18306208
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Drinking, Ow and well fuck.....
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>19
>drinking my self to death
>do nothing with my life but play video games
>meat a girl on overwatch
>we play OW for a few weeks together
>be extremely drunk one night that I don't remember any thing
>wake up and she tells me I told he most of my life story
>don't remember any of it
>she wan't to help me not be fucked up
>not sure what to do
>someone who actually gives me a reason to live
>really like her
>shes 16
Don't know what to do, also first time writing on here so sorry if it's badly written.
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Damn, the innocenct believing everyone can be saved. Saddening.
OP, don't burden her. If you can be saved, a naive girl isn't going to be the one to do it - do her a favor and leave her out of it.
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Well at least you have a woman who cares for you and aren't addicted to smack like myself.
My advice : she wants to set you straight? Let her do it in her own way since it seems like your way isn't cutting it.
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>>18306208
Maybe stop drinking, man up and solve your life problems?
Go to school? Apologize to parents? Ask them for guidance? Get a job? Keep in touch with the girl?
You know you have the power to save yourself. Maybe use her as motivation to do so?
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Why do I feel super sad and depressed for no reason 2 days in a row
Everything is normal in my life, nothing exceptional happening, but also nothing bad, just normal life
Yet I cannot even force myself to genuinely smile
Like I take the subway and watch people interact and laugh sincerely and only think "wtf is wrong with them, why are they having so much fun over trivial things"
Wtf is happening to me?
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>>18306203
A brush with Angst, I guess. Not the teen stuff but the broader existential form.
Unless you're prepared for a multi-decade detour, probably best if you just go back to sleep.
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>>18306213
What do you mean?
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>>18306227
As in, experts are working on all the worlds problems including existential philosophy; the apparent lack of ultimate meaning to things which tends to throw people out of whack if they pay attention to it is being attended to, as best we can. You don't have to look at it full in the face
If you do, well, a search for meaning can consume decades of your life. And you won't even end up with a book worth adding to the canon for it.
That is, if you have indeed had a brush with Angst.
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Any tips on dating them ?
I tough they would be easier then the regular type
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>>18306176
Patience? A lot of it?
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>>18306176
>I tough they would be easier then the regular type
So much wrong to unpack here.
1) Assumption and generalizations: Get to know people, don't try to figure them out beforehand.
2) Easy? Someone that doesn't open up is not that easy to have join on a social interaction (dating).
3) Regular type? Come on! Treat them like an easy freakshow even before you talk to them, lets see how interested they become.
This might be bait, but sometimes it's hard to tell.
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didnt mean it like that i swear : /
And she only like's texting
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>29yrs old
>very happy with my life
>good job, great relationship, try to eat healthy and exercise regularly, close family and friends
>suddenly out of nowhere - MAD
>I feel like I cannot compete with other people, like I'm the ugliest in the room, like it's only a matter of time before my partner leaves me
>everything makes me mad, being mad makes me sad and feel like a terrible person
>makes me feel worse
>makes me madder
It's a cycle and its ruining my life. On the drive home now I just got super furious about nothing and started bringing up loads of shit from that past just to make me sad.
Why the sudden change of mood?
I feel less happy and I'm worrying this is our relationship failing, when really it's because I'm being such an ass and I hate myself for it.
How can I improve my mood and enjoy life again?
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>>18306092
Could be a brain tumor, sudden changes in personality is one of the signs.
Get yo'self checked.
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>>18306092
Have you had any additional stresses or change in circumstance that may have been a trigger for it?
have you had any time off from work? holiday or something like that - recharge the batteries etc
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>>18306092
>suddenly
Are you sure it doesnt have any deeper meaning? Has somebody in your family history of mental disease?
>cycle
What do you mean cycle?
Are you boy or girl?
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Is it wrong I called her out on shenanigans? 2017-05-11 03:42:01 Post No.18306017
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Ok, long story short, I invite my gf to smoke on multiple occasions. She turns me down saying she is applying for jobs. I respect that so I let it go. Later I find out she is smoking and hitting dabs. Am I in the wrong for calling her out for this? She's always complaining that I never invite her to do stuff anymore.
P.S.
I'm newfag so excuse my ignorance if any.
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She's lapsing whilst trying to quit. No big mystery.
If she green lights sessions with you she definitely isn't going to succeed, so, don't press. Not hard to read.
Or, she just fucking hates you and wishes you'd die already.
It's one of the two.
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>>18306017
Why dont you have a conversation about instead of posting it online for everyone to see? Seriously what purpose do people have airing out their own dirty laundry on social media..
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>>18306025
Not pressing. I was honestly proud to see her quit to get a job but being honest about lapsing would have been nice. Essentially all of my friends (and hers) snitched her out.
She probably already wants to kill me for the screen cap.
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>be me
>18
>never had a gf
>have had sexual contact once
>have barely/never kissed or made out with a girl
>meet 14 year old curvy girl
>girl want some to smoke with me
>want bj, don't know how to initiate
>sit down n smoke
>tell her to suck me off
> says no i don't want to do nasty stuff
>ireallywanttobesuckedoff.jpg
>don't get a bj, smoke entire blunt.
Wtf did I do wrong?
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>>18305991
You didn't neck yourself like you should've done years ago you disgusting fuck.
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>>18305998
Serious inquires only plz
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You did everything wrong lmao.
If you want to get laid that kind of shit won't work u less the girl is really slutty.
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My boyfriend asked me a question once out of the blue when we were in his car. "What would you do if I was bisexual''. I didn't see that one coming at all. I told him ''It won't change anything for me, it wouldn't matter'' and he told me ''yeah, ofcourse, it wouldn't matter...''. I never forgot that moment because he asked it so spontaneously.
Few weeks later he had a conversation with me on the phone about how his friends tease him by saying the things he does is gay or weird. And one his male friends told him 'you have turned out to look very beautiful nowadays'. I don't think he 'acts' gay at all but that doesn't mean a thing. I told him this conversation made me think of that one time in the car and repeated again 'i would not think bad about it, it won't matter' and he said 'that's nice, ofcourse it won't matter'. After that a long silence......he broke the silence after a while and we continued our conversation nothing is weird between us or anything. Should I just straight up ask him or wait untill he tells me himself? Maybe he's giving hints so the conversation goes a certian way and he can tell me in a casual way.
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just ask him and get to the bottom of it.
sounds like he wants to tell you but doesn't know how or doesn't have the nerve
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Just ask him, I told my girlfriend I'm Bi but it doesn't mean I'm about to go out sucking 50 dicks
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>>18305900
I didn't even think that hahaa. It feels weird asking it somehow. I'll ask him directly if a similar moment arises again.
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So my boyfriend and I have been exploring different positions during sex, but the only position that makes me orgasm is missionary. Not so much traditional missionary but I have to wrap my legs around my boyfriend, or the higher my legs or pelvis go up in the air, while hes on top of me, the better. I want to be able to orgasm in doggy style or when I'm on top but I dont really feel anything, or sometimes he just slips out. So far reverse cowgirl has been ok.
Is there something wrong with me? Why is missionary the only position that really gets me off?
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>>18305742
In missionary when you wrap your legs around him (esp high up) you are opening yourself up to clit stimulation. During doggy style ask him to lean forward and rub your clit from behind, or you can plant your face to the bed and reach down to pleasure yourself while he thrusts. Vibrators work too!
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>>18305742
>I have to wrap my legs around my boyfriend, or the higher my legs or pelvis go up in the air, while hes on top of me, the better.
That's hot. That's a hot way to live. I don't see a problem here.
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>>18305742
You need stimulation of your g-spot obviously.
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In the past two weeks there have been 2 arsons resulting in total destruction of the asset on/near property I'm supposed to be protecting. Should I be worried about this? Niether were assets of the company I work for.w
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Oh and I'm a security guard at said property.
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>>18305653
Maybe. It might have been a personal issue between the arsonist and those assets, or it might have been random. Always a good idea to evolve with the threat though.
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>>18305685
The first case matches that pretty well. The second was just weird though. A car parked randomly on our streets. Then ten min later it was flaming. There was no one in it at any time. Oh well I guess I'll just have drive away really fast before some tried to drop an IED ujder my security car.
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My parents have been together for for almost 30 years.
They've recently started having a huge falling out, which will likely lead to huge consequences. They don't talk to each other, we no longer eat together and now sleep in separate rooms. I've given her my bed and I sleep in my car or in the lounge.
I may not have a home anymore, and I can't afford a place of my own because its too expensive in Australia.
I am studying and currently hold a part time job, with a current application pending in the army for a graduate program, but I need to get good grades.
I pledged to give most of my savings to mum, if she chooses to leave to give her some liquidity for her to settle.
I'm starting to struggle to keep the peace.
I make sure I am home before mum finishes work, and I try and keep the peace.
What can I do /adv/?
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You could try and get them to attend marriage counselling
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>>18305611
>helping your mom cuck your dad
Disgraceful
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>won't talk to the person you vowed to spend your life with
Pride is a motherfucker.