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normies don't want to hang out with people with no friends

not because they are judgmental, but most people who have no friends are way way too clingy and desperate, to a point of invasiveness

>>18310978
Yeah, I guess I can get that.

It just makes it hard. I feel so lonely.

How do I come to terms with the idea that it may not be in the cards for me to have friends?

>>18310961
Don't panic.
Married couples do have lots of legitimate social obligations - family, kids, whatever.
Give it a couple of weeks off and try again.

Meanwhile, what you did worked so do it again. Get involved in group activities, especially something that interests you (so that even if you don't meet anyone you'll still have a good time)

Join a club, take a non-academic class (cooking, art appreciation, etc), do volunteer work, go to music clubs/bars. Everyone there will be interested in the same thing you are, so there will be a point of connection from the start.

>>18310944
Uptight, insecure bird. You dodged a bullet.

This entire conversation reeks of childish.

>>18310944

She's just playing hard to get. Play along and say something assuring like "I'm absolutely sure I'll enjoy your company. That's why I asked you out." or something. She's fishing for complements.

>>18310865
Take a deep breath. Life can get better if you will it.

>>18310898
>Life can get better if you will it.
Yeah, exactly. That's why some people live in squalor and starve to death, because they don't want to live any better.

Idiot.

>>18310911
if you are can post here, you can make your life better.

>>18310761

>Yes

>>18310761
>let's do something on the 21st or 22nd
>flying out the 23rd
>WHAT DID I DO WRONG?

I'm confused, what's the issue?

>>18310761
Play it cool, act aloof but interested, try to get the date for nighttime

>>18310757
before buying a gun I recommend taking a few courses on the basics of guns and safety. Stop at your local gun shop and ask about them in person as you'll get more viable information from more knowledgeable people. They're pretty cheap compared to the gun itself but they are infinitely more valuable.

>>18310770
Make no mistake, some training is on the agenda. I'm not Jamal over here who buys a gun from a pawn shop and automatically thinks he's Carl fucking Johnson.

Buy a 1911 pistol if u can those look cool.
The first gun i brought was a sks. Anyways i took it home and was looking at it pulled on the bolt and it fell in half. Had to take it back the shop guys hadnt assembled it right with the new stock. Just pick something you want then buy the manual and read up how to strip it and clean it. Only way your gonna learn is by getting guns and learning shit about them.

1) yeah, definitely text her tomorrow, but not any sooner, just to see if she's up for it, if she doesn't respond then you pretty much have your answer, you were just someone convenient to talk to.
2) if the date/hangin out does go through, and you see that she is willing to keep in contact, easiest way to open up conversation is sending normie memes that she may appreciate, or you know, asking how she is. pretty safe conversation starters.

just don't act too desperate, or clingy. if she doesn't respond back to a text, don't spam her with three messages after. don't ask to chill everyday or too often, don't overshare as well, and make it out like she's the only thing going in your life (even if that is the case). you'll be fine, my dude, either way. if she rejects you, always thots on tinder lmao. best of luck.

>>18310779
oops, *don't make it out like she is the only thing going on in your life.

>>18310779
Thanks. I'm not too worried about seeming clingy though, because I've sure as hell made that mistake before. I've been deliberately very slow in responding to most her texts and am only texting her every couple of days.

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I had the same exact issue and as fucking dumb as it sounds, it works.

Start faking arrogance. Act confident, but confident to the point it's a fucking joke. For example,
>get a compliment
>"Thank you, I'm the greatest fucking person on earth. Better than you too."
It slowly turns into genuine confidence, girls see it as being an assertive asshole which is attractive in a way and it's funny.

>>18310760

It does sound fucking dumb.

>>18310762
It's basically fucking retarded...
... But it worked. For me at least.

>>18310683
>>18310683

>love of your life
>doesn't know you exist

You're stupid, and deluded. Go ahead and message her, get the awkwardness out of the way so you can move on because you've fallen in love with some pretend, imagined version of some girl you're stalking.

>3 years

You waited way too fucking long for it to not be awkward. It's going to be. And she's not the love of your life, you just wish she was.

>>18310683
It's not real and the second you experience real love that will be clear as day to you. I'd say follow your heart, but it really doesn't matter if it works out. Still, it's good for you to do what you gotta do

>>18310683
no, you should get over her. Cut everything of and about her out of your life. you haven't seen her or heard from her in 3 years, you are devoting way too much time to someone who doesn't know you and its all been a complete waste. This is a bad obsession and you should go see a therapist because its very unhealthy. Someone who doesnt know you cant be the love of your life.

the fact that you worry about this means you're autistic

time for fuck

Just be gym bros?
Snort preworkout with him in the parking lot.

That depends. What do you do for a job?

You write a letter telling them that you're resigning and when your last day will be. Thank them for the opportunities they have given you (even if they haven't given you any), and sign it "Regards, Anon"

No need to stoop down to his level.

Be a bigger person and put in your two weeks. Or you could be an immature brat and do something stupid.

When i* was young.
Sorry, I'm a fucking dumbass

>>18310555
Here's the thing, if you do go into the Army, they will control your life for at least six years, but you can choose what job you do so you don't have to be infantry (nor do I recommend it). After those six years though, you'll get to use the GI bill which will pay for your schooling. If I were in your shoes, I would enlist. Plus, while you're in, you don't make a lot of money but they provide food and housing so it's all take home and you get good insurance.

That's kinda what I was thinking. I have an one of those edgy faggots from school as my friend. You know, the kind of kids that always say theyre going to shoot up the school, and believe in zombies? He says he's gonna enlist, and that i should too, because it'll pay for me to go to college, so yeah.

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>>18310499

Lots of people don't feel bad for being assholes. Thats kind of what makes them assholes.

>>18310505
I wasn't always an asshole though. I became more of an asshole the longer I spent socializing and the more I became an asshole, the better I got with women. They're all assholes too, but they have a pussy and I want that.

I haven't actually cucked this dude yet but it's inevitable. I'm just having a strange feeling because when I met the guy it was like looking at my past self.

>>18310499
Well.... that's tough. I mean, it's not really your fault - it's on the person committed in a relationship. You're single; they're not. So it's on them. But then again, if you know they're in a relationship and you do it anyway, it's pretty inconsiderate to the other person in the relationship.

Sure, you don't know them, you probably won't meet them, but just imagine how they'd feel if they ever found out?

I mean, go ahead if you're either desperate for sex or just don't really care about the person's feelings. They probably won't find out if the cheater isn't completely stupid, so have at it.

>>18310416
unlikely
there are plenty of jobs in labs

Any degree is what you make of it. If you're expecting to get a degree, do nothing else while you're a student and still land a job afterwards, you're a moron. This is true for any field, not just the ones you have listed.

>>18310422
This.

But it all comes down to what you do in college. For ANY major, you need internships. Science degrees, it is even more critical that you have multiple internships under your belt before you graduate. You should have an internship no later than your junior year. One over each summer break, and one during the school year, for at least two years. Employers expect kids to have experience the day they graduate. The paper isn't enough anymore. Do your time in some labs and you won't have any trouble getting a job with a bio degree.

>>18310412

yfw 300k starting salary was a lie. lmao

>>18310467
If you're stupid enough to have believed that, you deserve to be unhappy

>>18310412
Same here. What electives did you take? I took robotics and worked in a cleanroom. Those were exciting. Circuit analysis was pretty dull though.

>>18310403
Well, OP, that's the thing about being an adult and making adult decisions. You deal with the adult consequences of your decision. It's up to you. Risk the punishment of getting a tattoo, or wait to get one until you are entirely self-sufficient. There's a good chance you won't want the same tattoo, or maybe even one at all, by the time you are independent. This coming from someone with a lot of tattoos. The first few I ever got when I was your age--I don't regret them, but I do wish I had used the space the occupy more wisely. There are better things I'd like to do with where they are. But it's whatever.

Anyway, back to the point. If you truly, SERIOUSLY think they'd revoke all of the privileges and luxuries you have, then don't be a dumbass. Don't get a tattoo.

>>18310403

Don't get a tattoo OP


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxhiO2bwUKI

>>18310403
>parents are paying for all my shit
>I want to disrespect them by getting a tattoo with their money for absolutely no reason

yeah you should do it op. sounds like a great idea.