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>>18509608
Girls are less responsive to visual cues than men when it comes to sexual arousal, not completely immune to attractive guys.

>>18509608
>when a betamale tries to pick up women on /adv/
This is pathetic OP

>>18509608
>"get him to open up"
its just a way in OP after shaking their tits and ass in front of him and he didn't make a move. They want him, he hasn't taken their bait so they try another tactic.

If you're never going to see him again, just get to know other people and forget about him. It's pointless to dwell on the past.

>>18509589
Kinda sounds like your looking for betaoribters here

There areenough fish in the sea, OP. You need to get out there and meet someone else to get over him.

>1 year until my therapy slot
>student dinners
>complex personality deficiency that requires long term treatment
>confident in slow progress

Do you live in the future? What is all this stuff?

stick it out, OP, and give this program a shot, MP3 and PDF, the MIndful Way Through Depression, it may work for you too: http://www.mediafire.com/file/stl5ctg1ptogszt/MWTD.zip

>>18509467
>gathering relationship experience
Are you autistic?

Okay some things. First of all you are not obliged to be anyone's friend, fuck pressure, you can't live your life like that. It matters a lot what she lied about, to what extent (lying by omission or telling you stuff that's flat out wrong). And obviously you are both blaming each other.

Having said that OP. I'm assuming for the moment that you are reasonably pissed off concerning the lying. Still, you sound like your standards are sky high - friends don't necessarily include one another in everything going on. Not every friend will lie about stuff either, but it's not exactly uncommon especially as an exception to the rule.
I am less reacting to you being pissed off that you feel lied to, and more to your wording and how incredibly strong you come on in the first part. You'd think she was your girlfriend if not your wife by how much you seem to feel she owes you. It is a more normal/common response for a friendship to break it off right away if you feel she went too far, and otherwise move on with life, not go above and beyond to let her see how unforgivable what she did was including WWII references.

>>18509393
I phrase it strongly because, again, I have trust issues. It took me over two years to trust her.
And I wouldn't mind if she flat out told me "I can't tell you", "I don't want to tell you" instead of leading me on like she did.
She doesn't owe me anything, that's true, but it doesn't mean I can't feel hurt or pissed at her lies (or dishonesty).

And I did wanted to move on straight away, I even tried, but the other friend I mentioned tries to get me make up with her.

>>18509401
Also, about the trust issues -
I told them A LOT I hate dishonesty and lies because of my trust issues and autistic tendencies, and I feel like they completely ignored it which I take as lack of respect towards me. I went out of my way to trust them and tell them the do's and don'ts with me, yet the disregarded it all. I never did shit like that to them and I followed my principles which I set up for myself. When I couldn't tell them, I said "I can't tell you", when I could and I thought they needed to know, I told hem right away.

Don't do durgs

Do drugs

Do drugs

>>18509208
Look bro I know the feeling a couple years ago I left my parents house to going the army, during my deployment I met this Korean girl and it was just perfect, but onE day I received a call from my mother saying that I would not stay at Korea and that she wanted me back, I refused and she said that if I stayed I would not be her son anymore. Even thoe it hurt I decided that if my mother wanted to control my life I was better off without her so I gave her my phone number and said goodbye. It's been 2 years since I stayed in Korea and I don't regret it my mom got back to me 2 months ago saying sorry

>>18509208
Your family will always be there anon. Go now, be with this awesome chick who is willing to pay for your shit and love you. You have some apologizing to do!

>fuck over family for thot

>>18509096
Study philosophy. Start with Plato.

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It's because you aevretly care about it, but the stress of it all gets to you.

Know that some of it is true, some of it is false. Do your own research and filter knowledge through critical thinking before consuming it. If you don't want the group to be about the topics he's bringing up, ignore it or politely ask him to stop making it the group focus.

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>>18509096
I was into alt-right for entire year, then I snapped out of it. (Hint: it's all bullshit). Seriously, people who tell you that this racist/homophobic shit is true are all liars, because it's based on purely anecdotal examples. Studies to confirm racism have been all flawed either.

I suggest you distance yourself from those friends who take that shit way too seriously. It's OK if they say "fag" or "nigger" as an offensive slur once in a while, but it's not OK if they refer to all blacks as niggers, women as bitches or gays as faggots and so on.

>>18509087
You 100% sure the number isn't fake?

>>18509087
It's weird she doesn't text back at all. Usually girls who are not interested at least "nm, hbu?" or tell you to not text. I think it's a wrong number, maybe?

>>18509090
>>18509097

I know it's the real number because I sent her a text so she would have my number in her phone and she received it in front of me

It sounds like it already is infected.
If you can get your hands on some mupirosin, you might need a prescription- it's a topical antibiotic.

That or you could try neosporin and hydrocortisone.
Start taking a few acidophilus tablets every morning.

>>18508983
Alright, thanks.
How do I know if its infected? It doesn't hurt or anything, no pus and it's it hasn't gotten worse.

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>>18508766
Don't do it, your opening Pandora's box by wanting to fuck your wifes sister. It can only end badly.

>>18508780
This.

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>>18508766
Assign a probability to the likelihood that sis wants to fuck you.

Tell us this probability.

Go back and time and tell yourself not to be a cunt.
She's never going to forget it.

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If you're really committed to not fucking up again, just make up some story from your past where you dealt with cheating and you saw the signals again and went haywire. Basically, apologise and rationalise

>>18508743
Literally tell her what you're telling us now. Beg if you have to and show your love because you're completely at fault here.

>>18508710
Do you at least enjoy the job? Just research some more locations and save money

>>18508710
If you have a high paying job, you should have no problem finding a decent apartment. Yeah, decent is 2 grand a month for a 1 bedroom anywhere in San Fran, but hey, you said you're getting paid a lot. So you can afford it. Look harder.

hey anon you are not alone. i lived there for many years high paying job and was in first 10 poeple at a place that went public. i had to leave for reasons you said and a few more. most of my friends have to. i coudnt stand most of my fellow tech works who all lived in a weird tech/social bubble talking about 'disruptive tecchnolgies' and 'unicorns' and jealously talking about other people stock prices/options. the hard truth is 90+ of all the companies are bullshit doing nothing innovating so its not exciting and they are trying to pump and dump an ipo. its the worst form of capitalism. i ended up going back to school to do phd and do tech jobs on the side. god after being in san fran, spending several years on a university campus with so many pretty girls without all the hyper materialism was awesome.

if you are young starting off ill tell you this: only stay there a few years to get some resume credibility and up your skills. then leave.

i wouldnt take a job there without making 150k minimum.. at 100k you can barely live but unless you are making 300k+ you will not be able to get ahead. and thats just fucking sick. its insane. better to be in a city that is less greedy, less fake self-important assholes, and better quality of life making 80k-100k where you can buy a place and live with real humans... and where you aren't afraid thatthe pretty girl at the bar will instantly hate you once you tell her what you do for work hahaha.

You shoulda put him in his place

>>18508545
Are you fucking retarded?
You're being insecure right now by asking this useless shit here. Some people have real problems and you're posting this. This is what he means by you're insecure. Stop giving a shit about what people think of you. No one really cares for you except maybe your SO and family so why bother yourself with the opinions of dogs who will disappear from your life soon anyway

>>18508565
And if you let this meta info tilt you even more op you are a even bigger insecure faggot, mhmm!

any friends you can arrange a situation with? Couple hundred for a room or even a couch?

>>18508535
>I may have broken my leases but I was a good tenant in every other aspect.
Yeah but the fact that you're liable to just ditch the place early makes you completely undesirable as a tenant. Why would a landlord rent to you when they can rent to someone who doesn't have your history?

>>18509119
The only friends I have up here are the ones I'm staying with right now who are likely going to get evicted by august or september
>>18509137
That's totally understandable and a fair point. With the current financial situation I'm in now, even if I wanted to bounce out of nowhere, I have too many monthly payments and need to stay here for at least a solid year while I rebuild my savings and get more job experience. Is there any way I can explain myself or prove to the landlord I won't fuck them over?

You can't unless you get him to trip with you.
Tell him to not knock it until he tried it and tell him to do some research on psychedelics.
There is no reason you should be doing it every couple of months, even that can have long term consequences on your brain. Not bad if you eat an eighth or take a few tabs a year though.

>>18508556
I wish I could man. The weird thing is that this is a guy that tripping reminds me of intensely. The kinds of conversations we'd have, he seems well suited to it. But he seems pretty opposed. Who knows.

There is just not enough evidence on the long term effects of psychedelics for me to try to limit it based on that. There are people who have spent their lives tripping many times and never went into that whole permanent psychosis thing. I tend to think that those people were going to end up crazy with or without psychedelics. Schizophrenia being degenerative adds to that in my mind. And if I am a schizo, I'd rather find out sooner. In my experience, trips only go poorly when either you are in the wrong mindset, or the wrong environment, or with the wrong people. And I know what I'm getting myself into for the most part by now, so it all seems honestly safer to me than anything else.

A trip every now and then to explore myself and the world around me is awesome. I'm going to keep it up.

>>18508592
I guess i see your point at least you know the risks.
Some people oppose drugs because of too much propaganda and not enough knowledge.
If you can't get him to accept it you should probably not mention it around him.