Is lifting heavy things up and putting them down a good way to forget the pain of nogf?
Will I forget about it eventually?
Yes.
It will make you more invested in yourself and narcissistic (which isn't a bad thing sometimes), and you'll feel more confident about yourself.
It will also help you get a gf (eventually), but it shouldn't be your goal. The goal should never be a gf, because it will make your attitude unattractive.
You first. Bitches later.
Yes ,when you are happy with your own progress and hobbies..it wont matter.And when it doesnt matter that's when you will be unconsciously more attractive to potential gfs..
>>18506950
If no woman wanted me when I was a bright eyed 20 year old college student with hopes and ambitions certainly none will want me as a burned out 27 year old wagecuck. I want a hobby that I can obsess over to the point of not thinking about anything else.
I need to confirm but don't know how
Do you like DICK and MEN?
Try doing stuff with other guys, start with kissing then move onto sucking dick and fucking/getting fucked if you like the other things. If you have a gay friend that you know maybe ask him boys are really horny and if he doesn't have a boyfriend and you're fuckable he'll do it. If not just go to a gay bar and get with some boys or something worst thing that happens is you don't like it and never have to do it again and people won't find out.
Tbh you'll never know unless you try it. If you think thats the path you want to go down, do it! Do whatever makes you happy and satisfied. If it does, good! If girls do good! Like I said whatever makes you happy
I'm an incoming freshman who was just recently assigned his roommate, we've only been talking for a few days, but there are some problems already. For information about him, he's a pretty hardcore Muslim who currently lives in Saudi Arabia (the school we're going to is in the U.S.)
>Pretty avid against drinking, won't allow alcohol in the room at all. I was planning on drinking every once in a while.
>Asked me if I was taking out loans, and when I said yes, he said I should cancel them and work in college.
>Seems subtly trying to convert me
What do?
convert to islam
>>18506888
CONVERT INFIDEL
And he is right about the loans tho.
But on the other things - Don't allow him. Tell him "Go out when we drink. You can't force us or forbid us." Stand your ground m8
Is the military a good career?
(Preferably would like to hear from people who have experience, rather than people who don't and will just say "LOL FIGHTING FOR THE JEWS" or something)
I'm going to guess it's emotionally taxing because:
1. Away from home
2. Will be problematic to any kind of relationship you have, since you're away from home
But I dunno, I'm not a military dude
>>18506874
As long as you're not in a relationship and don't mind 1. being away from friends and family 2. getting deployed to some shithole and 3. getting maimed/killed in said shithole I guess it's not too bad a choice
>>18506874
>becoming a zogbot to die for israel in the middle east
ok bub
I asked a girl out, she said yes.
I did see the signs she wasn't interested and the chemistry suddenly disappeared, yet when I asked her friend, her friend said she was.
As time passed I saw the signs clearer and clearer, and I decided that I'll try conversing with her a couple more times and then break it off.
Today, I talked with her friend again, and her friend finally told me the truth - "She's not interested".
I said "Yeah, I already noticed. But at first she was, what happened?"
"I dunno, she just isn't"
I just found out another friend of my KNEW that girl isn't interested. So both of them lied to me (or at least, didn't tell the truth) and they just didn't know how to approach the situation, so they just kept me on low heat.
It's making me furious. Furious they didn't tell me the truth right away, instead of making me hope (and repress that hope A LOT since I saw the signs). I'm furious they made me go through so much nervousness and anxiety of talking to that girl. I literally had to smoke because of that. I could barely take it. And they knew.
What do I do? Do I finish listening to their reasoning and then decide what to do? Do I go berserk right away and cut ties immediately despite not knowing the full picture?
Help me /adv/, I'm so fucking MAD.
It's the type of anger that you can't contain. The kind of one where you just can't digest the situation.
B U M P
Stop being a bitch over nothing.
>healthy weight
>exercise
>barely defined waist
how do i accept that my short banana body will never evolve into an hourglass?
also do corsets/waist trainers actually work?
>>18506869
Stand in front of a mirror, after a time you'll either accept your body with your flaws and actually look at yourself with a smile because it's not important to look perfect. Or you hate your body enough to move your ass and change your lifestyle to achieve the body you want.
Feeling wanted helps too, and if experience taught us one thing, it's that there is no form of the body that Man (at least one person) won't sexualize.
>>18506932
yeah idk about that first one. how do i change my lifestyle to get a smaller waist?
hello /adv/
i need halp.
how to get girlfriend?
yours sincerely,
robot
>meet people, some of them will be girls
>establish communication
>oh, a girl there is cool and we have some sort of chemistry
>ask her out
>go on dates and have fun
>suggest you become a couple
There you go anon. Important thing to notice, this isn't a task like in some RPG or game where you go from point 1 to point 2 to point 3 etc., what I wrote down is the ideal type situation I guess.
1. girl talk to you
2. you say "goodbye i do not care about you girl!"
3. girl love you
Send dick pic
Is anyone available to just...talk? I feel like my depression (or at least depressive tendencies) is flaring up and I'd really just like to talk about some things so that I can have a nice birthday weekend...
Sorry if this is a little attention-seeky for adv
>>18506641
Talk away, I've got a long while. Also, happy bday :)
>>18506641
Same here, feel free to just openly vent! You should have a fun B-Day!
>>18506641
Everyone has worse days.
Mine just passed. Sometimes you just need to let it all out.
I'm an autist, so emotions tend to be really confusing to me. I have emotions, but they're kinda disconnected from my thoughts. I don't let my emotions ever cloud my judgements, I make sure to be calm and think things through. But people treat me like I'm some heartless monster because I don't know how to react emotionally to situations.....
Is it really such a terriably thing to be emotionless?
Yeah youre an autist because you think you are emotionless.
You never feel happiness, fear, jealousy, indifference, sadness, anxiety, anger, etc.
Stop lying to yourself you cunt you're wasting your own time for no reason.
If you really were emotionless you'd have no desire whatsoever to live let alone post some garbage on a website.
I dont even see the purpose of thinking this of yourself.
Were you beat? Are you supressing emotion?
There's so much wrong here
>>18506562
? after etc*
>>18506562
I think I'm an autist because that's what my Doctor and Therapist told me as a child. I was diagnosed at the age of 4, and re-diagonsed in High-School (I'm 18 btw).
I feel emotions, I defintely do. I'm just disconnected from them, so that they don't influence my actions. What I think and what I do isn't really influenced by how I feel, and so people see me as emotionless.
>have an itching desire to find out some info about something I deeply care about
>find out answer through proxy with a question
>get answer that is 180 degrees of what I was hoping for
>absolutely regret asking question and now feel incredibly disappointed
How do I make this feeling go away? I've learned from my mistake already.
Binge drinking helps.
Meditation
>>18506423
What did you learn op?
My bf is cute, good to me and loves me very much. I just don't think he's that smart of fun to be around. I dont get this feeling of "I'm really proud he's with me". I recently found myself avoiding dates with him because I have more fun stuff to do and I'm afraid it won't get any better. What do?
Break up with him so you're both able to look for better matches than each other.
If you don't care about dignity or honor, keep him around and cheat and stuff.
>>18506404
Realize that being single is valid option you can choose.
>girls value isnt determined by her bf
Break up. Simply as that. I bet you are horny teen anyway.
>>18506404
>"I'm really proud he's with me"
Me too OP and that won't change. I want a guy that everyone wants or wants to be like but he's mine.
>Chad friend goes on my tinder profile
>I have no tinder game
>he talks to a girl I matched like a month ago and gets me a date on Friday
>she's coming over to watch films and fuck
>I didn't handle the conversation
>now I have no idea what to do
HELP
How can I disguise the fact that I'm a massive autist
>>18506374
Bump
just b urself Anon
>>18506374
I just came up with this; get a headset and a mic and have your friend listen to the conversation and tell you what to say. What could possibly go wrong?
How do you teach a child to read?
My cousin is going to the 4th grade this fall and he can barely make out a word and doesn't recognize half the alphabet. He has a terrible attention span and absolutely no interest in anything other than playing with toys or videogames, and does his best to avoid everything that has to involve reading.
How do we get this kid to start fucking reading?
Pic not related
Late bloomer, perhaps?
>>18506346
Not on fourth grade.
And, for OP-
I'd suggest forcing him with positive reinforcement.
"You won't get toys or vidya until you do X and X. Once you complete them, you'll get some candy too."
>>18506335
just give him an alphabet and have like a jolly rancher on each letter and he can have them once he reads the letter
Been watching sopranos and various mobster movies and think I now have an Italian fetish
what are Italian women like to date and where is the best place to meet some?
do they tend to date non Italians?
ayyy move to jersayyy baba booey
>>18506266
This, aint too crazy bout italians cuz of the sterotypical nose.
>>18506263
I hate that when americans talk about italian girls they don't really mean us but italian american.
I hate you a little bit OP. Just a tiny bit.
Hi all,
Close friend of mine has been diagnosed bipolar. She's really struggling and phone calls can be very difficult.
Anyone suffer? Or known someone? How can I best support her? Does hearing about stuff in my life help, or should I prompt her to talk? She can be one word answers sometimes and it's hard to carry that on.
Please help!
>>18506242
School be hard and difficult. My ex was a schizo and I had no idea until she told me to stop talking to the person to my left. It's only us in the room. Shit was crazy in her personally just snapped it was really draining. Missing you could do is support her to go visit a doc and get some meds. The meds helped but I couldn't stay any longer in the relationship. Two months with her, the first month was great and the second one was TOXIC!!!
>>18506365
Not in school. I'm working and she quit her job. She's a friend, not anything more. I want to support her. She's kind of rejecting the diagnosis, but she's taking the pills, not sure how long she's been on them.
I expect it's going to be draining and take time, but I will help her. I just need help on how.
get as far as fuck away and never look back. can't fix crazy.