Anonymous
Kik Scammer/Bots, Whatever The Fuck 2017-07-13 04:31:52 Post No.18512063
[Report] Image search: [Google]
Kik Scammer/Bots, Whatever The Fuck 2017-07-13 04:31:52 Post No.18512063
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: 1436894060430.jpg (53KB, 555x555px) Image search:
[Google]
53KB, 555x555px
Kik Scammer/Bots, Whatever The Fuck
Anonymous
2017-07-13 04:31:52
Post No. 18512063
[Report]
[View this topic]
So, I was on Kik when one user showed me a pic of her ass and told me to pm her. When I did, she asked for my age (which I lied about) and my face (which I stupidly showed a pic) before abruptly leaving saying that her phone was dying. Am I about to get scammed or get my identity stolen or something?
8 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
She also gave very short answers and the whole thing went down in like 2-3 minutes. It was weird
>>
>>18512071
I think if age and face was all people needed for identity theft there would be tons more due to Facebook, tinder and just about every other form of social media. Also you gave a fake age, your fine. But I admire your paranoia, it will help you one day
>>
>>18512145
Thanks anon, i guess its good to be hyper-vigilant sometimes.
File: IMG_1143.jpg (36KB, 600x600px) Image search:
[Google]
36KB, 600x600px
Depressed cause of alot of things.
Can barely find the energy to work and talk to people.
What do I do?
16 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18511984
either A) do the stuff anyways or B) go get some therapy.
>>
>>18512106
What is in that file?
>>
>>18512121
audiobook and pdf of the Mindful way through Depression. it's a good program.
File: 1453416440779.jpg (14KB, 350x217px) Image search:
[Google]
14KB, 350x217px
If you need constant reassurance to believe that someone loves you, do you even deserve that person's love?
9 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18511971
Yes. but you should learn to love yourself before you ruin everything
>>
>>18511985
Its true... thanks for being honest.
>>
Trust is huge and despite what people may say it is never regained after it is lost. If you do not trust that your partner loves you, whether they do or not shows that you, yourself, have some things to work through. I would say couples therapy but like the other anon said there will be a lot of looking inside yourself and people in need of reassurance often do not like looking at themselves as having a problem. Good luck!
File: images.jpg (3KB, 105x118px) Image search:
[Google]
3KB, 105x118px
How do I combat sexism from my bf's family?
So, bf's family is a bit odd when it comes to gender roles. This isn't even some femnazi rant, I am really not a part of that
Basically, my bf's family has really, really traditional roles for women. I honestly think a lot of the women in his family are quite spoiled, they're encouraged to marry rich, never work a day in their lives, and just sit back like queens because they're worth it.
I came from a very hardworking family. My dad only had daughters and was very adamant on teaching us things that were "meant for boys." My sister and I were tomboyish.
Along with that, I had to move out alone right at 18, learned to do a lot of household tasks by myself, like just things I consider normal, paying my own bills, fixing my own things around the house, taking care of my car, etc.
Well, my boyfriend's family are practically disgusted by this:
1. his mom pities me for paying my own bills and school
2. his sister is much more aggressive and looks down on me. She has made comments like I am worthless, makes fun of me for being poor (i live in an average, plain apartment while I finish school), and claims I don't take care of myself (in reference to my plainish clothes/hair/makeup)
3. his male cousins literally got mad when we were all playing super smash bros brawl and I won. I thought it was just all fun and games, but they really got butthurt over this and refused to ever play with me again. They also dismiss me on any topic of liking video games or star wars or marvel, etc. when those have been my hobbies since childhood.
4. bfs dad, uncle, and mom got upset and talked shit about me for helping put together a gazebo in their backyard. They couldn't hold up all the pieces, I just came to help hold up and support some pieces of wood.
I have never experienced such negativity about things that really just don't matter. They make a big ol' stink about it. Bf is totally not like that. But what do I do around his family?
38 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
sounds like you're marrying into money, so suck it up, buttercup, and enjoy that easy life while complaining about it.
>>
>>18511925
Here's the thing. My bf's parents moved from a third world country, worked their asses off, and they are both nurses at really good hospitals with over 30 years seniority there. They're not super rich, but they have a lot of disposable income because they did things right.
Basically, I think they're the typical immigrant parents that just wants their kids to not have the struggles they had. Which is why I think they push that traditional role real hard.
I'm really not marrying into money, I really think they are setting up their daughters for failure.
>>
Have you tried communicating with him about it?
File: IMG_1846.png (196KB, 225x400px) Image search:
[Google]
196KB, 225x400px
Besides lube and painkillers/muscle relaxants (+alcohol I guess) how do you make penetration easier while not aroused?
My guy wants it way, way often than I do and I don't want to stint him, but getting it in when I'm not wet is next to impossible.
40 Posts / 6 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18511827
How often do you want it
>>
>>18511827
what's wrong with the lube approach?
>>
HAHAHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
enjoy being a fleshlight
File: 157510450.jpg (25KB, 612x409px) Image search:
[Google]
25KB, 612x409px
>be me
>24
>family in a bad situation
>im the only person that provides everything for my family
>renting a house we cannot afford
>rent pay is constantly late
>bills is constantly late
>outside of the house looks complete shit
>landlord is fed up
>demands no more late payment
>demands to fix up shit
>working all the time and have no time
>mom works under the table job but she lost her job few days back
>she used to helped with foods and bills
>im constantly stressed
>my sanity and health is lowering
>stuff from the past I used to did are coming back to haunt me
>im getting more and more fucked up
>this is gonna be my life for the rest of my life
>never had a life in the first place
tl;dr: I work all my life while I try to sustain my family. Im constantly stressed and now everything is falling apart on me. I always payed shit late and cannot keep doing this. Im soon to be kicked out because I cannot do this.
what the fuck can i do...
11 Posts / 3 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18511822
Ditch your family, or become homeless with them, pretty simple
>>
Hey friend, I actually have so much respect for you. I couldnt imagine doing a 100th of what you do. Deep down you know they appreciate you.
Idk how to solve this though.
>>
>>18511822
>under the table
Your mom sucks penis?
File: 1499443607203.jpg (57KB, 500x500px) Image search:
[Google]
57KB, 500x500px
Am I approaching dating the wrong way? For a long time I've looked at it as: you meet someone, you have instant chemistry, you date excitedly.
But it seems like people around me look at this shit like buying a new car. You've got a budget, you have a checklist of things you want, you compromise on the color and model because you need transportation. Am I supposed to just pick whoever fits the most of the traits I think I'm looking for, and try to make it happen?
26 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
I think your problem isn't so much of picking out the car, but finding the right dealership. You can either be in the "dating" group of people actively trying to set up dates using tools made for doing that, or you can be someone who is looking to make connections with the people around you. I think that's where you're going to find people that start hitting the points on your checklist.
>>
>>18511817
Well, I don't really want to have a checklist, is the thing. Sure, I have a general idea of what I want, because I'd be stupid if I didn't, but I want to meet someone who I never expected in my life, I guess.
I guess I'm just asking if that's unrealistic, especially since I'm 30. I see people pairing off since they had these ideas of a family or whatever, but it's clearly them saying "this is the best I can get," which is an exact phrase I've heard from 3 people.
>>
>>18511882
You probably already have an inner "checklist" so don't worry about the specifics. Just be active and find people to make connections with. When you're doing this, you'll find that you start meeting people you never thought you'd ever meet. This is the same when it comes to relationships.
File: 1393269766360.jpg (94KB, 593x885px) Image search:
[Google]
94KB, 593x885px
Why do people that tell you their your friend face to face don't reply even once when you send them a text? I always respond to their first text at least so they know I got it.
10 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Your idea of what a friend entails is different than what other people think.
Once you see this, thats step 1.
Next step is to be ok with people not texting you back.
>>
>>18511800
So you're saying I expect too much from people?
>>
>>18511807
Yeah :/ unfortunately, the life of no expectation is dull, but its up to you to choose between dull and painful.
So sometimes my gf comes over, kicks her shoes/boots off and I see she is wearing oddly paired socks.
How do stop this from bothering me. mind you all of my socks are black but I never mismatch the styles and brands.
I don't even know why it catches my attention so much but I have kind of thought less of my gf ever since so first saw this.
like why would you do that, it looks so lazy and irresponsible. am I being unreasonable?
11 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
>>18511779
that actually sounds cute.
ever thought that she does this on purpose? if so, shes got one funky personality, im married, but i wouldnt mind picking her brain if you know what i mean
>>
Yeah this is a "you" thing man.
You could just do her laundry and fold the socks for her so they are tucked into each other.
>>
sounds like you have ocd. don't let it bother you.
File: the pillars of RAGE.jpg (630KB, 3300x2538px) Image search:
[Google]
630KB, 3300x2538px
How do I deal with a 5 year long good friend that's suddenly turned into an idiot?
He refuses to believe that he is wrong on anything for even a second until he gets btfo by proof.
He refuses to believe that he's being a huge fucking scumbag by trying to get with a girl (that had recently just gotten out of yet another abusive relationship) not even a few days after her friend rejected him. (They are now going out, good for him but still-)
He refuses to believe that going to work with her is a bad idea because he wants to spend literally ALL his time with her despite already living with her.
He refuses to listen to any sort of advice that requires him to slow his roll because from his perspective he wants to live happily with absolutely no sadness and living life at full speed has had no downsides so far.
I couldn't give a shit if he spends less time with his friends so he can be with his girl, I just want him to know that he isn't always right, life will eventually blindside him if he doesn't stop to think, and life can't be lived happily forever after without having some downtime to appreciate the highlights.
15 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
I'm kind of going through the same thing with a friend.
Don't criticize his girlfriend. It never goes well.
>>
>>18511766
>How do I deal with a 5 year long good friend that's suddenly turned into an idiot?
You don't.
You stop wasting your time talking to a brick wall. What the fuck is it to you who or what he sticks his dick in... What the fuck is it your business to protect a woman who's gotten out of an abusive relationship... Sounds like you want to call everyone who goes near her a scumbag so you can try your sleaze on 3-6 months down the line. Ofcourse going to work with a partner or fucking your co-workers is a stupid idea... But what's that got to do with you... You obviously have different priorities to him and her. He lives with her... so exactly who are you to her... He lives with her... maybe flatmates or relationship... So what... Why do you know better than this person... He knows that he has to be quick to get girl before beta sleaze comforts her after her cool down period.
Have you ever had gf? Who's to say you wouldn't do the same thing for a woman you considered yourself compatible with.
>>
>>18511859
Didn't I say in the post that I didn't give a shit about the gf? It's his attitude towards not listening to his closest friends who've had more emotional and romantic experience than some guy who can't stand being away from something that makes his dick hard for more than 5 seconds without acting like a crybaby.
File: hqdefault.jpg (15KB, 480x360px) Image search:
[Google]
15KB, 480x360px
Do I go to uni and spend the rest of my life in debt or not go and spend the rest of my life feeling insecure about my intelligence?
9 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
Something I'm realizing is that it is entirely possible to learn anything you want, at any level you want for free online.
If you wouldnt do it for free you wouldnt do it if you spent 100k on uni.
Follow your passion and life will fall around you.
>>
>>18511698
You won't go into life threatening debt if you go to CC for your first two years and transfer to a state school. Apply for scholarships (I was a shit student and still got free money) and you can come out with even less debt or even none at all. I graduated with only $20k in the hole and had a job starting out at $50k.
So in summary choose a marketable degree and don't go to pointless expensive out of state schools. Otherwise pick up a trade, manual labor sucks though, been there done that.
>>
Try community college first. Try and figure out what you'd like to do. You'll also be surrounded by other people working for their futures and you'll have plenty of people to turn to for references/advice/questions. It's extremely cheap, you can transfer to pretty much any school, and you get 2 years to buffer before going to a 4 year if that's what you want. You even get an associate's degree to help you get into an internship/entry-level position.
File: 1475025932600.jpg (62KB, 500x351px) Image search:
[Google]
62KB, 500x351px
Am I being lame if I don't want to hang out and play video games with friends after work because I'm stressed?
I'm fine with like an hour or two of happy hour at 5, but my friend keeps insisting I should hang out after 8/9 when I want to eat & get ready for bed.
12 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
No.
Yes.
There you go all of the answers anyone can give you. You're welcome.
>>
>>18511727
you really don't understand what this board is for
>>
>>18511686
Nah desu i do the same thing. Sometimes it drives people away though, but I'm willing to make that trade.
File: ness_by_supersm4shwarrior-d9v4fl7.png (16KB, 291x463px) Image search:
[Google]
16KB, 291x463px
Please help me /adv/.
A year ago I got really drunk and had sex for the first time with a complete rando at a bar. Two weeks later I got some itchiness and one or two bumps (red) around my groin. In fear of an STD I went to three doctors. Two of the three examined me, and they all guessed it was chlamydia. I took two STD tests for chlamydia and both were negative. After antibiotics symptoms went away regardless.
Now I have a regular partner who I have unprotected sex with. Whenever I shave (this has happened three times before) I get three-four red bumps (most with a hair sticking out, not close to each other at all), itchiness, slight burning, swelling. I do not know if I have herpes and shaving causes my outbreaks or if they are just shaver burn. They do not look like pictures of shaver burn at all. I have had sex twice since then and none of my partners have said anything to me.
I need advice because I am pushing my partner away from sex because I want to protect them. I am not sure if it is an STD. I have been to doctors before, and I do not have time to go now. I want to wait till the bumps go away before having sex just to be safe. What do I do?
13 Posts / 2 Images
View this topic
>>
File: Mazda_RX-5_superlight_version[1].jpg (2MB, 3872x2592px) Image search:
[Google]
![Mazda_RX-5_superlight_version[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/yPzE6fl.jpg "Mazda RX-5 superlight version[1]")
2MB, 3872x2592px
I would love to talk to her about it but I can't because literally ALL of our friends are mutual. I do not want them all to know, which will be inevitable.
>>
It sounds like razor burn, nigga. Also, small polyps appearing on your penis from time to time is not uncommon.
First of all that doesn't sound like chlamydia, I don't know what doctors you saw. It sounds like it has a passing resemblance to herpes, but those sores would be much, much more dramatic.
I really, really doubt it's an STD, nothing you said stands out as one. Try trimming your pubes for the time being and see if that helps. If you're still paranoid, you can always take a test down at the clinic.
Source: I'm an EMT and I used to have a lot of sex. Not exactly my area of expertise, but they like us to know who is, and who is not, ok to touch.
>>
>>18511682
I am mostly worried its herpes. I would hate to pass that on. It can come as single isolated bumps, right?
Anonymous
INTERESTING FIND ON A ROOMMATE'S LAPTOP 2017-07-13 02:26:24 Post No.18511627
[Report] Image search: [Google]
INTERESTING FIND ON A ROOMMATE'S LAPTOP 2017-07-13 02:26:24 Post No.18511627
[Report] Image search: [Google]
File: curious.jpg (31KB, 530x624px) Image search:
[Google]
31KB, 530x624px
INTERESTING FIND ON A ROOMMATE'S LAPTOP
Anonymous
2017-07-13 02:26:24
Post No. 18511627
[Report]
[View this topic]
How would you react and what wouId you do if for some reason you went through a friend's (who draws a lot and isn't a weirdo) computer and found in his "Images" folder an "Art" folder containing another folder titled "Inspiration/Models" which itself contains 2 folders:
1) titled "Beauty" and containing a "Beautiful women" folder which is filled with tens of thousands of images of women (non-nude and also nude/lewd yet no cock on any pic) and containing many other folders titled by women's names containing themselves hundreds of other images making that "Beautiful women" folder containing a total of about 30000 images
2) titled "Cuteness" with 2 other folders inside, 1 being titled "Cute animals" which is filled with thousands of pictures of dogs and various other cute animals and a 2nd titled "Cute little girls" which is filled with hundreds of images of little girls (non-lewd/non-nude) and containing many other folders titled by girls' names containing themselves hundreds of other images making that "Cute little girls" folder containing a total of about 3000 images
?
What if that "Art" folder contains, besides these two folders ("Beauty" & "Cuteness"), many other well-organized folders with thousands of scultpures, paintings, drawings/sketches (humans and animals) and also hundreds of screenshots (of body parts and facial features) taken from the images of the two folders ("Beauty" & "Cuteness")?
What would you be thinking exactly in your head? What if you suspect whatever you may suspect but find absolutely nothing compromising? Would you pretend you never went through his computer? What would you eventually tell/ask him?
233 Posts / 12 Images
View this topic
>>
Just reference photos stop trying to start issues.
Stop snooping in other people's shit yadayadayada
>>
He also always deletes his internet history even though he's unaware that I know his laptop's password and 4 days ago I found this website in his bookmarks (in an "Art" bookmark folder among other photography and drawing/painting websites), I haven't fully gone through it yet:
https://girlsportraiture.wordpress.com
Thoughts?
>>
>>18511642
I always go through people's stuff, even family members'. I'm just too curious.
File: sadrobot.jpg (101KB, 1440x1080px) Image search:
[Google]
101KB, 1440x1080px
A really good friend / coworker (we don't work together directly anymore but for the same company) and I have been going through a rough time (he's been going through a rough time with his girlfriend and was taking it out on me) and we agreed not to talk for a while. I was optimistic that we'd be friends again soon, but I saw on the job postings at work that he's moving 1000 miles away.
What should I do about this? i'm worried that if I contact him, he'll lash out at me again, but I'm also really hurt he didn't give me a heads up. I don't want to let the friendship just die and never see him again, but is that the best course of action?
11 Posts / 1 Images
View this topic
>>
Anyone? Has anyone had someone you were really close to just disappear on you?
>>
Tell him how you feel.
>inb4 some reason why you can't
Do yourself a favor and rid yourself of this future regret while you have the chance. Worst case scenario you clear up what you needed to and he moves 1000 miles away.
>>
>>18511697
Eh, at one point a month or two ago, I texted him because I wanted to ask an unimportant question thinking it was no big deal (we had texted a couple of times before) and he freaked the fuck out about how we agreed not to speak for a while (I had thought we just weren't going to hang out for a while...didn't think texting would be a big deal especially since we had had a few text conversations since). I told him to calm the fuck down and I wouldn't text him anymore.
I'm really confused by his behavior and it's made me kind of afraid to contact him again. His girlfriend is bipolar and has apparently been having lots of episodes lately.
Sucks because we have been friends for 10 years.