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Well after my most recent gf and I broke up, I went on to try dating different women. In the last couple weeks, I had gone on a date with on lady and had a good time, and saw her a second time on Sunday and also had a good time...it ended with sex though..
The tricky part was Saturday night I had a nightmare about my ex being with someone else, and it really disturbed me. I asked about talking to her the next day, but I fully expected the conversation to go nowhere, so I went ahead with my scheduled date with the gal I mentioned.
I saw my ex yesterday, and we talked about what I wanted to simply get off my chest (I even sat like 10 feet away from her during that time). We ended up feeling the same way and decided to patch things up by moving forward really slowly...so I had to break the news to the other lady last night that I couldn't see her anymore, and I ended up really hurting her, and I feel fucking horrible.
I think I made the right choice for me, but I feel almost physically sick over it. Do I just need to accept that only I am responsible for my own happiness, and I can't be held responsible for how others feel?
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>>18508300
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>>18508300
As I said a lot of times I'm here do you not talk to your exes in there's a reason y'all split up. Y'all get the shit off your chest we are still together. After that it's a doggy dog world just don't visit your ex or think about them or talk Them.
Fuck exes and the fuckboys/fuckgirls who somehow think that person is "the one". There is over 7 billion ppl on this planet.
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>>18508349
Thanks for replying, but that is a bit late now.
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My girlfriend of 2 years told me last Thursday that she doesn't love me anymore. She said to me in person and over text message that I was the perfect boyfriend, and that she still finds me physically attractive, but has very little in the way of romantic feelings towards me. We were very close and spent lots of time together (did not live together but visited around 5-6 times a week), we were open with each other and talked a lot. I always asked her how she was feeling, how are her parents, how was her day. I always told her how much I loved her and appreciated her. We argued sometimes but not viciously. I know I can't make someone love me but what are my options here besides "just leave her if she doesn't love you".
As for pic related how do you interpret this? How should I interpret her saying that she wants to love me again but she doesn't know what's wrong.
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I'm not implying btw.
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''I found someone else but I can't straight out tell you or else you'll resent me''
Sorry for your loss mate.
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i guess that's why I suspect this too
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My gf of 11 months just confessed that she feels no sexual attraction and might be asexual. She says she likes me physically but just doesn't care about sex. I str8 up asked if she was having sex outside of the relationship and the answer was no.
I'm 19 and I care about sex a lot. Is it repairable, or am I fucked?
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>>18508287
She's lying. She'll drop you and be on Chad's dick within the week. Sorry dude.
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>>18508287
Can you think of anything you might have done to turn her off to having sex with you? Maybe something she said she was fine with but you had to ask first? Also ask her if you can go through her phone, if she has nothing to hide there's no reason she wouldn't let.
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>>18508287
Depends. She might not care about sex but may be willing to have it with you (some ace people don't mind having sex despite not feeling the need to). If she doesn't want to have sex and you require it, that's a clear incompatability and you should break up with her and move on
>>18508311
I agree with the first half, but personally, were I in this situation, asking or being asked to go through the person's/my phone would only sow more distrust imho. Think carefully beforehand if you plan on doing this.
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A lack of friends is easily the most crushing pain I feel now that my depression and anxiety have lessened. I haven't had an irl friend since leaving high school and moving away. I'm now 26 and don't want to live like this. I'm making gains in every aspect of my life other than social.
While I don't have any social hobbies, I do have a couple choices I could make to try and branch out.
1. I could join my local Toastmasters club.
Pros: I place a massive amount of value in eloquence, love debate and public speaking. Easier to get started/join.
Cons: Only a couple people my age group, with most of them being older so not much in common probably. Dressing up is annoying. Preparing presentations takes time I don't have a ton of.
2. Try to join a game group or two at my local table-top store.
Pros: People my age. Might enjoy DnD, Magic, etc. More flexible with time, i.e. You MUST do x y and z to participate.
Cons: $$$ to get started. Might not enjoy table-top games. harder/awkward to join.
Ideally I'd like to join a Japanese language meetup, but there are none even remotely close to me.
Thanks for reading this mess of a post. I can elaborate on myself and my situation if anyone wants.
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>>18508220
>Only a couple people my age group, with most of them being older
So? You can be friends with older people
>so not much in common probably
Well if you're going to assume this, then you're failing in making friends before you even begin.
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>>18508236
I live in Florida. I've been chatty with older people since moving here and it's really exhausting and depressing. I don't think it's bad of me to prefer friends my own age. That's not -ruling out- others, but it is a preference.
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>>18508246
>I don't think it's bad of me to prefer friends my own age.
I agree, it's not
>That's not -ruling out- others, but it is a preference.
Your post makes it sound like you're ruling it out.
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is MGTOW the only reasonable way these days? 2017-07-12 12:33:20 Post No.18508179
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is MGTOW the only reasonable way these days?
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this post sums it up well what I think. i dont want a virgin gf, i want a completely non slut gf in the future who wasnt fucked in a club bathroom for a bag of coke.
>inb4 there are girls like this
yeah, the internet (even just the tinder sub) is filled with girls who strictly state "no hookup" in their profile, even say it before the date but end up fucking the guy 4 times in a row that night. and they don't just do it to that person, it would be foolish to assume that
I'm already focusing on my career and improving my looks, I have hobbies, I would say I'm alright looking but forgetting women seem to be the only way these days
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>>18508179
All you need is average qtie and forbid her to ever talk about her sexual past and exes altogether. Once you realize that there is more to life than sex, you will be ok.
I suggest you to read less memes, less pol and go outside more. Who cares girls sleep around before they mature (pol says settle down with beta provider). Their pussy is the same and you have no way how to prove they havent slept around anyway.
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> i dont want a virgin gf, i want a completely non slut gf in the future who wasnt fucked in a club bathroom for a bag of coke.
So, basically you want something less than one standard deviation from the mean in either direction of the slut z-score scale, where -1 is virgin and +1 whore. You realize that leaves close to 70% of the field in bounds and playable, right? There are plenty out there. They're also mostly not on Tinder: Tinder is for the 15% on the whore side of the axis beyond one standard deviation. Your samples are going to be horribly biased because the population you're picking from is skewed all to hell.
Drop Tinder. Drop all the online dating bullshit. You'll meet better women in coffee shops or church or the airport or in other traditional spots where human beings kill time in meatspace.
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>>18508202
>Who cares girls sleep around before they mature
self-respect? how could you honestly love someone who begged to be choked in a bathroom before to a random guy she met 30 minutes ago? it removes intimacy, which is a big part of a relationship
>>18508204
almost 30% of the relationships comes from tinder these days. everybody is using it
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Wife wants to name our son after her dead ex-fiance.
I married her 4 years after his death.
What did she mean by this? I pretend I am cool with it, but I am really not
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>>18508105
Tell her you're Not happy with it.
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>>18508105
My second first name it's after an ex of my mother, she told me about it several times on my childhood, it was not even my biological father, I'm browsing 4chan, tell me if that doesn't fucks you up.
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>>18508105
She cant cheat you with corpse. Stay cool.
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How do I stop caring so much about other people's opinions?
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>>18508062
A) Embarrass yourself so much that you burn out your ability to care
B) Become so much better than them that you can't be arsed to care
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>>18508062
Other people opinions are more important than yours, because they are a group, and you don't.
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>>18508083
I disagree, I think you're wrong. And since I am another person, my opinion is more important than yours.
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How do I get a gf?
The loneliness is fucking crippling.
Even if I did get a gf she probably wouldn't love me bcus of tinder.
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>>18507939
Dont talk to tinder girls
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>>18507972
90 percent of girls use tinder though, I can't compete with guys on there ffs I am 5'11
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>>18507979
Myth and speculation. There are non whores out there
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Its really hard for me to not find a reason to kill myself.
im not sad or depressed or anything, but honestly life doesn't seem like it holds much.
All i do is
-Hold a 40 hour s a week job
-engage in pointless hobbies (even if its like an instrument or a sport/fitness one)
-rinse lather repeat
-die
Im not looking for foward to any career prospects that i can realistically reach, and relegating passions to mere hobbies sounds horrible depressing.
People say you need to develop goals, but if these goals have no end point they seem really arbitrary and i lack desire to pursue them
Also the idea of "having fun" seems kinda pointless , like i need to distract myself with friends/hobbies/drugs/whatever to just ignore the pointlessness of it
Im thinking maybe suicide might un-ironically be a solution for me. Do you think this could be the case?
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Bro i have the same feelings.
You arent wrong man. I felt the same way like. I felt like there is no reason to achieve success when im just going to die, or the thought of dying just stopped me. But at the same time i wanted to kill myself... but i know i dont.
Trust me you have depression. I also use weed and cigs to help stave off unhappiness. You are thinking too hard. You should look into existentialsm or the theorey of the absurd.
You need to just exist for the sake of existing. Your parents and everyone you know will be crushed for you to kill yourself just cause you felt like it... you have a mental illness just like I. Ive mind over mattered it for me. Trust me. Shit may look grim but time can change a lot.
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I've graduated from highschool this year, but I don't have any friends. I don't intend on college yet because I'd like to find what I want to do before making such a heavy investment. I like anime, how do I meet and make friends who also like anime and vidya? I don't know where to go or start.
I'm conventionally very attractive, and while I never went out of my way to talk to people in school, the people I did strike up conversations with were drawn in by some charisma I have. I don't have these friends now though, I am all alone. Please help.
[spoiler] unrelated, also tfw no chuuni gf [/spoiler]
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>>18507833
Tinder, okcupid, facebook, meetme, badoo, omegle, online games, social events you hate.
All you have to do is to talk to people and ask them about somethingvthey like to babble a lot.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
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>>18507860
What about people solely in my area? I can carry on a conversation perfectly and I've been told by several people that I'm more helpful and better at talking than therapists they regularly visit, I just want to find a place near me where I can meet dummies like me who like animu and manga and vidya
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>>18507875
You can check craigslist for local meet ups.
Where I used to live there was a vidya / bookstore that a bunch of nerds hung out at. Maybe look for something similar in your area.
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I'm kinda in love with a married wife. First met her a few months ago, things went on and i have fucked her last week.
I live in a small village with some 3000 population (Alps), and we all live in the same village.
Am i fucked? Sht I know I am.
I mean, she would leave him for me, but then.. you can't imagine how it is in such a small village.
She's fked, I am fked, my parents, her parents, we are all fucked. You know what i mean.
Your opinions?
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>>18507779
Fuck her brains out until she divorces her husband and then fuck her some more. After she divorces him it'll give you a chance to move out of that hick town and start a new life.
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>>18507791
That was my plan but I and she can't/won't move because it's kinda a paradise where we live.
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some things will inevitable get fucked, but you want few things to get fucked (like for example the women).
So now decide what you are willing to let be fucked and act accordingly: your relationship with the villagers, your parents, her relationship.
Decide what's important and fuck the rest.
...you fucker.
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Cat bit me. Was in engine block. Was either crush him or grab him. He bit. I'm in ER right bow.
Did I make the right decision should I get rabies shots.
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Doctor here, please avoid full moons
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>>18507707
If it's a pet cat I wouldn't worry. But if you're in the ER already just ask the staff there.
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Kek
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Bitch did this to me like 3 months ago and it's never going away, people are gonna think I'm nuts.
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Girlfriend's doctor found malignant cells on her ear 2017-07-11 09:47:41 Post No.18507680
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Girlfriend's doctor found malignant cells on her ear
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My girlfriend called today and said she's got cancer. Her doctor had taken a biopsy of a sore on her outer ear a few weeks ago and they just got back to her today. Apparently, the reason they took so long is because they've never seen anything like it before. They sent the slides and photos to a medical conference and none of the doctors knew what was going on, either. Now it's being sent to a university in California. It was just on her ear as far as they know, but they just have never seen this type of thing before.
What the fuck? Please, tell me someone else has experienced something like this. She says she's really scared but she just jumps to worst case scenarios, and that she's hopeful they just need to cut a chunk of her ear off.
I don't know what the hell I'll do if they come back to her and tell her she's only got a few months or weeks to live or something insane like that. She's too fucking young, she's only 23 years old. This is insane.
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It's cancer, that is a big thing - skin cancer though on her ear, and yes, hopefully and WORST case scenario she loses an ear. She was going to die someday either way. Don't be scared and don't scare her.
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>>18507685
I've put on a brave face and haven't freaked out in front of her. She knows I'm worried.
The thing I'm mostly scared about is that the doctors, the people who are supposed to know about this shit, have no clue what it is and have never seen anything like it before. They put it up at a conference and none of the doctors THERE knew, either. Now they're sending it off to a research center at a university. That's the part that has me silently freaked out.
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>>18507685
>Please, tell me someone else has experienced something like this.
Obviously, 10 million people die of cancer every year. It's the second most common cause of death after heart disease. And yes it effects young people too.
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I want to lose weight
I'm 170cm and 60/61 kg, I have some fat in the stomach and chest region and nowere else tried to exercise and it didn't work tried diet and didn't work at this point I don't know what to do
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Learn to love your body as it is. You're at a completely healthy weight.
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>>18507653
But that's 130 lbs. That's a little under what you should be at 170. Are you male or female?
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>>18507687
Male
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Is this considered moral 2017-07-11 09:40:37 Post No.18507649
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The girl that wanted to date me snagged herself a boyfriend while I was too chicken-shit to make a move (she was waiting). Found out she still likes me and I'm positive I could steal her away from her current boyfriend.
The question is, should I? I used to wanna have something serious w/ her but I'm not anymore. I get the vibes she just wants to fuck me until she finds an upgrade, which I'm fine with because I'm currently an upgrade to her current boyfriend (srsly, I feel bad for this dude if he thinks he's in a serious relationship w/ this girl).
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Steal her away, fuck her than dump her for being a slut.
If she fucks you while having a bf she would do the same to you with someone else.
The morality is all on her since she is the one cheating plus you are doing the guy a favor by letting him know early that his girl is a slut.
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>>18507649
You can get the girl to confirm she is going to cheat on the guy than tell him with or without actually doing it.
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Waiting for you to make a move? What is she, 12? What kind of boring person would do that? Listen OP, you don't need to get dragged into that kind of immature bullshit. Move on.