Does going Chad-mode work for getting a long term gf?

>>18537328
not unless you marry quickly and trap her

No, because you have no idea what Chad mode is.

>>18537339
What is chad mode to you?

>>18537356
There is no Chad "mode". You just are Chad. You become Chad through determination. Once you are awesome, know you are awesome, and everyone sees you as awesome, you are Chad.

What did you think Chad means?

>>18537394
There are plenty of non-Chad awesome people. Being Chad is different.

Chad mode usually is:

-Being irrationally confident
-Putting yourself first under all circumstances
-Not showing any weakness or backing down unless you stand to benefit from doing so
-Never directly taking blame, always deflect or downplay

Being a Chad is similar to being a successful politician.

>>18537412
lol I wish more people are like that. Life'd be much easier

>>18537412
You're describing someone who is basically a selfish asshole. Not Chad. Someone like that could be Chad but also a total loser.

>>18537424
You might be onto something.

>>18537424
I mean you need a bit of charm and attractiveness to pull it off but that's basically the quintessential Chas

>>18537328
I would rather cut my face than use r9k vernacular, but the short answer is yes. I would recommend you take on the positive traits you associate with Chad, and to leave the negative ones to someone else.

>>18537503
Exactly. Focus on the positive. Don't fall for the "be an asshole because assholes get all the girls" meme.

>>18537328
Nice picture, by the way.

>>18537505
Id just take it all in then shed things as you feel like. Being an overconfident asshole will get you infinitely more girls than being an insecure beta. Then you can work on being an agreeable person, or stick as an asshole if you like it

>>18537531
>asshole if you like it
that depends on your life goals

>>18537544
Well, at least in the corporate world being an asshole is still better than an insecure beta. Especially if you're not very physically imposing and/or soft-spoken naturally.