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>>18557029
Sometimes she laughs about it, and sometimes she doesn't realize she's done it.*

Take her with you to places. Go on walks with her and talk about her past. The interaction will help her memory, grow closer to you, and improve moods of both of you.

I wish you the best and hope a bright future for you.

>>18557047
We go to places all the time. She loves telling me about the town we live in, and flowers and gardening, and stays connected with people she grew up with on Facebook and in real life. She's a regular at a buffet in town and usually knows every old face in there. Her memory seems great.

Her older brother has Alzheimer's and he's in a home somewhere, completely gone. I don't know.

>>18557003
I'm drinking too.
There's a reason for it.

But I haven't tried to kill myself. Nor cut myself.
What's up your butt?

If you know theyd be better off without you, then you know what you're doing wrong.

Instead of kys you should apologize to them and attempt to right your wrongs.

Some random guy out there doesnt want you to.

Love you man, we all go through it, you're not alone. I'll try to keep my eye on the thread.

Use it for spiritual growth

>>18556993
Hold your piss to train your bladder

>>18556993
it's definitely just diabetes dude, not lack of masturbation

>>18556993
I've recently stopped fapping probably 6 or 7 times in the past month and I've definitely been pissing more too. But I've also been having really bad anxiety and panic attacks too and I just chocked it up to that, also my brother is diabetic so Ive been testing my blood with his tester and it's been normal

>>18556972
Bump

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>>18557114
Thanks baby, have some OC

>>18556972
Be careful around the police. Your white skin won't save you there.

Also be prepared to get raped by somalis.

>>18556955
>I also have my own life to worry about

Solved your own problem OP

With a boat comes repairs, fuel, etc.. and it's not even your boat. Are you really going to treat this friend like this til the end? You gotta draw the line somewhere.

>>18556965
I know for a fact though that if I were in his shoes he would give me the money. Also he basically kept me sane through a bad trip/freak out and I feel like Im just abandoning him if I don't do this

bump before sleep!

>>18556904
Sounds like you're gay and want to fuck him, faggot

Anyways, I used to be him. There was this girl who I used to be close with, like he was with you.
He wants your (boi)pussy but he knows he cannot ever have it and hates himself for wanting just a fucking voice

>>18557079
I'm not a guy but thank you for your insight.

>>18556885
Go do the things you are afraid of. That's the bottom line. Keep doing them until you're not afraid anymore. That's how Chads do it. They do it as 12 year olds. You were such a faggot that you've waited this long to get it done.

Also
Go lift weights
It doesn't matter how you end up looking, the act will make you more confident.

>>18556894
Sounds like a solid plan

>>18556894
This. You just have to power through and do everything you're scared of until you're not scared anymore.

Other thing you can do OP is work on what you don't like physically while also doing the above. Why do you hate your smile? Teeth crooked? Yellow? See a dentist.
Practice your smile and expressions, I'm not gonna lie I do it all the time. I wonder how I look in certain situations so I recreate it in front of a mirror, if I felt I looked stupid I'd rehearse that scenario again until I felt I looked fine. Does it change the way I looked as it was happening? No, but it gave me better feelings knowing I would potentially know how to look in the future. It's a little bit of mental gymnastics in your favor, its a weird thing but if it helps you cope then it helps you cope. Again though, it's not a substitute for the real treatment.

You're laughing as a coping mechanism I think, because I do the same stuff. But I'm not a psychologist.

I've been there at the 'flirting with death' point, and besides the 'its not wurth it durr' response, you shouldn't set your sights on suicide yet. You're just at a very low point in your life, less so for yourself and more for those around you. Things get worse before they get better.

I can't guarantee that things will get better even in the recent future, but they will eventually. And you're doing better than most are in these situations, I don't think I'd have it in me to seek out a therapist.

I'm not old enough to comment on the stresses of actually being an adult (I'm in college), but if anything, take some time for yourself. Some time off work. Ignore everything else. Find the thing that makes you happy (to a reasonable extent, try to refrain from the overly self-destructive shit), and indulge in it.

>>18556866
>Anyone else's life ever fall apart in all areas?
Replace your January story with seven years, and four years and make them my only friend. Ever. I was one month away from proposing as well, I had to return the ring for what I could get. We are still friends, but they have completely changed and ignored me for almost two months. Which is what all good friends do when someoen is not doing well. I have dated other people in the past mind you, I just never opened up to them because I am so blunted. One of my relationships ended when the person I dated hung themselves.

Work? At my work (which I moved away from home for, and only started at to build up a future for my SO) I am made to do everything because no one else knows how to do their job. So I am trapped in a very high paying extreme stress job I hate, in a place I hate with no way out. Sure I have a degree and am considered book smart, but the cost of that is I do fucking everything.

My family? I have a bipolar mother who showered me with love as I was a crutch for her issues which I dealt with constantly. My father is an alchoholic who is disappointed in me. My uncles are all alchoholics. My aunt is manic and she randomly stalks me and other family members and threatens our lives when she randomly shows up at our workplaces or homes. Grandfather was a pedophile, and my grandmother was a sociopath who showered me with gifts to cause her other grandchildren to feel neglected and left out to punish her children who birthed them. She also tried to kill all her children when they were growing up.

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>>18557009
You mentioned a therapist? I have been in and out of the mental health care system my entire life. At age three I was diagnosed with a severe case of generalized anxiety disorder (still have it), I was one of the youngest cases they saw. As I child I was also diagnosed with an attachment disorder, and OCD (grew out of OCD). As a teenager and adult I was later diagnosed with; psychosis, major depressive disorder, conversion disorder, panic disorder, and aspergers syndrome. I have been in and out of psychwards and institutions my entire life, and when I was born the doctors recommended an abortion.

Why life is a waking hell daily, do I want pity? No. Does my story help you? No, it simply provides you with perspective.

You will do fine, you are going through a rough patch but you are otherwise normal.

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Do you actually talk to people when you go outside anon.

>>18556851
Well, how is a conversation supposed to start when you're out and about? For instance, if a girl on the bus is wearing a tshirt you recognize, do you talk to her? If a girl is at the library reading a book you have read to you talk to her?

>>18556865
In this day and age people would find it strange. Most dating is done through dating apps nowadays. Why is a girl gonna respond well to a guy approaching her in public when she already has 100+ chads matched with her on tinder?

You can get rid of your cat. Cats are ecological terrors and are awful animals in general. And they make shit-tier pets. And people who own pets are almost always just using animals as a proxy for children because they're too dumb/scared to go have real offspring. Just my two cents.

>>18556770
stop being a NEET, cats can sense that you're a loser and are trying to help you by getting food for you.

Don't let your cat out without supervision, for starters, because it's incredibly dangerous and unhealthy for your cat.

You can help her adjust by cracking windows when it;s nice out to let her smell. Cracking them will prevent her from "punching though them" but still let her smell.
You can also leash train her and take her for walks. But I assume you have a cat and not a dog for a reason. If you have the money or capability, you might try fencing in your back yard with a tall fence she wouldn't easily jump over, build some sort of curved overhang so it makes it harder for her to get over. At least then she can only catch what comes into your back yard.
Also play with her often. She's not hunting for food, she's hunting for sport. She's bored, play more and maybe she won't feel the need to hunt so much, or will be too wore out to do so.

>>18556753
Do you live in Illinois?

>>18556773

No. New York. Do you know someone with a similar situation?

>>18556779
Sounds like something states do when going through a budget crisis.

Normally if this was happening in the private sector you could complain and get your money. I don't know if you have any recourse here. I guess you could complain to the local news and they can do a story.

maybe think about quitting pot, drugs and alcohol are not good.

>>18556673
I threw all my crap out already. I'm quitting after that stupid shit

>>18556591
If you perform good enough he won't even care, otherwise just keep to yourself until/unless he mentions it.

Spotted the newfag

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>>18556570

Execute order 66 on the new fag.

It happens to all of us my man, there's no use in fearing it. It should really be something to embrace, finally being set loose from our mortal coil to return to the ether; I mean you were dead for how long before you were born?

Death just doesn't really scare me as much as it should. Would you really want to live forever? Life should be worth living, don't let death stop you.

I fuck guys in the ass , so I'm pretty happy

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

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Reminder that Mad Men is the most redpilled television show in history.

>>18556543
He wants you asshole for sure BUT you need to ask yourself if you wanna be with a cheater

If you dont care if hes a cheater go for it give him the blowjobs

If you care then play it cool and if he trys to do a move on you and he is still in a relationship then forget about him il say

you better alone than with a retard PLUS if a guy is hitting on you then chances are that your attractive enough to get the attention of other guys

Pro tip: dont fall for guys that come and tell you nice things to the ear because thats what it sounds to mee reading you text