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Mental Health Status? 2017-07-25 07:31:45 Post No.18554038
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Mental Health
Basically, here's a short summary
>be in high school
>barely passing any classes
>falling asleep constantly
>doc says I'm depressed
>throws me on antidepressants
>helps me not sleep so much
>fast forward 6 years later to now
>off meds for about 3 weeks now
>withdrawal symptoms subsided about a week ago (thank fuckin god)
>holy shit my mind won't stop running
>sleep schedule is fucked to hell and back
>my train of thought is more like a bumper car rink of thoughts
>can't fucking concentrate on shit for more than a minute without getting bored and/or fedup
>mood swings from the point where I'm punching my bed for being a piece of shit to crying because someone looks sad on TV
>one moment I'll think one thing is a good idea, the next i'll think it's terrible
>constantly analyzing the things around me and can't calm my mind enough to sleep so I usually end up passing out from lack of sleep more than anything
>talk much faster and keep messing up words more and more often (swapping letters I.e. hissing cat -> hassing cit)
What the hell is going on? This is the "sober" me? I feel like I'm losing my mind every fucking day what the hell?
Is there any kind of mental illness similar to what I described that can be treated?
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Best thing you can do is seek help. Can't imagine how you must be feeling bc I don't have this level of difficulty but I know what it's like to get fatigued, moody and have chaotic, garbage thoughts. I get help from a psychologist and take some herbal supplements for anxiety and focus.
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As for the last bit, just be very particular about when you go to sleep and when you get up
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>take antidepressants
>get ADHD in its stead
wew lad
lay off the pills
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I broke up with my ex a few days ago. She said that she doesn't love me anymore but she loved me when it all started. I asked her what I did wrong and where I fucked up and she said that she's just fucked up and that it's probably because of her. She couldn't have just lost emotions for me like that, right? Where did I fuck up, why do they usually say this?
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>>18554036
because they know youd get mad if they tell you why
not enough something usually
money, dicksize, manners, humour, romance, manliness whathaveyou
they think they can do better so they "fall out of love"
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>>18554041
Pretty much this.
Don't talk, don't argue, get over her. This is just the way women act.
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Same feeling anon
Nothing we can do but suffer, I'm afraid
It seems painfully wrong that i can't speak to her about our feelings anymore, hug, kiss, eat something together, cook, dance
When will this pain go away
I've never had a friend my whole life, I'm self critical, and general not very talkative with strangers. But now I've met someone and can't for the life of me make small talk. I over think everything so much and the first time we met was totally ruined by my nerves and not being able to make conversation. How do I talk normally and what can I say when I have nothing to say?
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>>18553950
first step is admitting you've had friends before.
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>>18553950
Meditation
You need to train your self to slow the thoughts down. That is the first step. I've been in your shoes anon. It was so bad that sometimes I'd be on the verge of a panic attack because I'd speed up my thoughts more.
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>>18553952
I actually haven't. The one friend I thought I had was forced to hang out with me by his parents because they thought my parents owned a summer home.
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Hi /adv/!
What are some jobs where I can work for only 15-20 hours per week? Not very concerned with salary, minimum wage is okay. Preferably jobs where I don't have to talk to people.
Just want to work for 1 or 2 years to save up to buy expensive stuff then just stay at home after that. Also, I'm getting a business degree soon ish which may or may not be relevant.
Picture unrelated it's a burrito.
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Drive truck
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>>18553949
Can't drive.
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>>18553943
>jobs where I don't have to talk to people
Security guard is a good one. My brother worked as one in the mall, and most of the time, you don't have to do shit or talk to anyone, just either stand around and pace walk, or if you are lucky, just sit behind a screen and watch the CCTV recording all day for something suspicious.
If you are one of those socially awkward types who are not only worried about socializing but not being around people at all, I suggest learning a language and becoming a freelance translator. I'm an eastern euro and know english as second language, and translating between the two languages sometimes enables me to earn hundreds of euros online, pure freelance, everything 100% online.
Actually, any freelance you can do from online is a good job for an hermit. I personally wouldn't recommend it though, I have worked hard at freelance in the past and the loneliness really gets to me. I like jobs where even if I am alone, at least there are people around me so I can at least pretend I am "being social".
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Texting a human female on the world wide web 2017-07-25 06:04:38 Post No.18553924
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I recently started talking to this girl on Kik who goes to my school. Shes been sending me a few non-lewd pics very recently but usually only responds (slowly) in a short time window (like 1 or 2 hours). Also everytime I suggest meeting up she sort of seems to ignore it the same way.
>I suggest a meet up (admittedly i can be a bit jokey/light about it)
>No response for the rest of the night
>The next night comes
>"Hey"
Should I keep trying or just lay off meeting up and try to build rapport (or just quit)? Am I just not smooth enough (or not "alpha" enough)? I'm pretty confused
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>>18553924
Just drop her she sounds like an attention whore. I don't think it's your game, just a bad fish.
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>>18553924
I know girls like that. They are usually manipulative and use you as a back-up plan. Probably she is already going out with a guy and is only using you so that if that relationship should backfire, she can show to her bf that she can quickly into next one and has nothing to lose.
I suggest you get with a girl who is less into mindgames, OP.
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>>18553933
Bummer. Should I keep her around? Could there not be some kind of casual relationship here?
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Not sure if this is a weird situation or not /adv/ and also im not sure what to do.
The last saturday i met with a friend and his group of friends, i was kinda the "oddball" since i was the only one that only knew one person in the group, so i barely interacted with the other people.
The thing is that there was this girl in the group that had similar tastes with me in random stuff, and she was pretty cute. So after we parted ways, i asked my friend if he could introduce me better to her. A thing which he "cant" do, because he is a friend of an ex of mine and he feels he is betraying her.
To put it simply, i added her to facebook after other girl friends told me that it was the correct move to go with. And she didnt accept (i added her on Sunday night).
So im not sure if she doesnt know im the guy that she met on saturday, if she simply is not interested, or if she thinks im just some random that added her because why not.
Im not sure what to do now, should i try to contact her somehow telling her who i am? wait? do nothing and move on?
Im pretty bad with women so im not sure what to do.
Pic unrelated.
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>>18553876
>friend of an ex of mine
Way to fuck this up, OP. You don't date friends of your ex, unless you want to build an extremely complicated social life based on intrigues and dramas.
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>>18553889
Nono, the friend i have in common with the girl is a friend of my ex, not the girl herself.
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>>18553906
Then why couldn't he introduce her to you?
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Restarting a Relationship 2017-07-25 05:29:04 Post No.18553838
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I'm so fucking confused guys. I met this girl back in April and got along really well with her, like really fucking well. This was the first time the prospect of having a girlfriend seemed real, even though I'd had hook ups before. There was a genuine connection there that I hadn't ever experienced before. After a couple weeks I ended things though for the following reasons:
We're two completely different people. Different tastes in music, food, hobbies, intellectual interests, everything. She's a home body who hasn't left the same 150 mile radius in her life and I just got back from a trip 10,000 miles away. She lives about 45 minutes away but never made any effort to come to me, I always had to drive to her. She smokes too, which I find totally disgusting. She also has trouble with sex (physically hurts her) and so she doesn't, and she actually shrugged her shoulders and said "meh" when I ate her out or tried anything to get her off. I have clear direction and passion and goals in my life and she doesn't. I know the relationship wouldn't last, so I ended it before it could start.
But we've kept talking over skype since then, and as time goes by all the reasons I just listed seemed more like excuses for not trying. I miss touching her, kissing her, but mostly I just miss her presence. I miss just being around her. She's still completely into me and everything, too.
Should I meet with her to really discuss things, maybe try to work things out? All my issues with her still stand, and I know the relationship won't last. At the longest it'll last for 2 years and then I'm getting the fuck out of the state, maybe country, for good when I finish school.
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>>18553838
EVERONE WANTS THE EASY WAY OUT. It's easy to get back with her. But please read over your own post. Your are completely incompatible with this person. If you get back with her. A month or two will go buy and then you will realize why you left in the first place. For the love of god anon. Cut contact with this bitch. Think with the head that doesn't ejaculate ya?
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>>18553838
Sounds like you two are very different indeed. That's a recipe for disaster, unless you find something admirable about she being different. If you get into this deal and ask her to change her habits for you, I can guarantee you she will find it extremely uncomfortable.
It's up to you if you want to be in relationship with her, but it's probably better to not get too serious about it.
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>>18553875
>>18553878
It's the lack of trying that's getting to me. I barely even fucking tried. I didn't try to figure out our differences, see if we could make compromises on anything, see if maybe the differences were just surface level. I saw them and immediately quit.
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Probably fucked up bad. But whatever. So I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. And well. She fell asleep and normally my phones too far away so I just use hers for me basic internet night searches or YouTube. And then there's a message from some guy saying. Hey when I can I see you again it's been ages. So I decided to open up the texts and see what's up. And I see that he messaged me a while back. Like a few months ago. Nothing happened just literally. He sends get remember me. And she's says yea I do. That's It. Then this message. And then another message from another guy saying. Hey you don't care about me anymore cause now you have a boyfriend. So I just did what I thought was right. Blocked them both and erased the texts. How bad did I fuck up here guys?
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>>18553834
You didn't fuck up, you just forgot the basic rule that girls will always have X number of random orbiters, typically clingy dudes they met briefly, probably a long time ago, who still go on about hoping to get with her, but she's hardly interested in them, I guarantee.
Don't confront it to her unless there is physical evidence of her meeting a guy, nobody likes someone else reading their texts, even if it's their partner.
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>>18553834
>And I see that he messaged me a while back
>messaged me
>me
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>>18554075
I typed it out last night as fast as I could so I didn't realize ant typos. My bad anon.
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How do I stop holding grudges? It's ruining my relationships with other people.
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>>18553809
Did someone in your youth hold grudges like a parent. This could be a learned behavior.
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>>18553809
You have to be more specific. What do you mean by holding a grudge? Bring an example.
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>>18553811
It's a possibility but I'm not sure. A friend or lover does something wrong towards me and I'll be filled with hate for a couple weeks or more, it's incredibly hard for me to forgive and forget.
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attracted to my daughter's friend 2017-07-25 04:51:33 Post No.18553743
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attracted to my daughter's friend
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I have been having sexual feelings for my daughter's friend, who is 17.
I would have dreams about fucking her intensely, seeing her suck my dick, or making passionate love to her.
I am a moderately tall and attractive guy, I still have my hair and don't have a beer belly like most of my friends do.
I am separated with my wife and currently single, I had sex about three months ago with a younger coworker of mine, but since she transferred into a different city, I have not been getting any action at all.
Anyways, last night she came over to my house to visit my daughter and slept over. I did the worst thing and stood by her as she slept, I wanted to do nasty things to her then and there but it was wrong so with some self control I left after standing there for about two minutes. When she showered in the morning and used the bathroom she left the towel she used in the laundry basket, and I start sniffing and smelling the towel she used and got seriously turned on and masturbated to the thought of fucking her.
I've only seen her for about a month, maybe a new friend of my daughter's, but these thoughts will not go away. I was wondering if I should hold in my sexual urges, or go with it and try to seduce her when she turns 18, but there are so many wrong things about it.
Maybe it's because I have not been getting sex for a while... what should I do?
I can't stop thinking about her and have been really, really horny.
I'm going to the gym, hopefully I can get some good advice when I get back.
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k e v i n s p a c e y
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>>18553750
kek
>LARPers exposed
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>>18553743
If you do this and your daughter finds out, and she would, she would never trust you again.
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So I hit a scatch ticket for 1 million dollars and I have no idea what I should do with it. I'm more afraid about people coming after me than the prize itself since I live in a shitty area. What the fuck should I do?? I'm so lost on how sudden this is.
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>>18553722
Give me 20,000 please. Other then that just let it sit in your bank account. Live like you didn't win a million. Don't tell anyone either. Then when you actually want to do something that requires more money use it. Most people that win a shit load of money burn through it quickly. Try investing it and make more money. But as a rule of thumb don't touch it for a few months. Use it wisely.
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Just don't mention pancakes and you will be just fine
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>>18553722
Don't tell anyone. DON'T TELL ANYONE.
DO.
NOT.
TELL.
ANYONE.
Use it to invest in your future by going to college if you haven't and check /biz/ and reddit also has a personal finance subreddit.
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Overly friendly or flirting?
Currently a grad student and this girl in my class is showing an unusual amount of interest, but I'm engaged.
I don't want to misinterpret anything but lately, she has been opening up to me, telling me about her family, etc.
I catch her checking out my crotch multiple times a day.
She talks about how she wants to go watch a movie but has no one to go with.
When we're in a group, she looks at me whenever she laughs.
She exposes her leg and bends very provactively to show off her thighs.
I feel like I'm falling for this girl but I know I won't do a damn thing.
Why is that girls get thirsty over taken men??
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>>18553666
STOP BEING A FUCKING PUSSY AND ASK HER OUT. Honestly are you just going to let time bend you over and fuck you in the ass? Or are you going to be a fucking man for once in your life, flip time over and give him a good pounding? Remember this you little pussy. Everytime that sloot comes near you remember your alittle pussy bitch who is to scared to live life. Because your fee fees might get hurt. Can you please donate your cock and balls to someone who will actually use them? Please and thank you mr cuckerdson
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>>18553680
Engaged
>ask her out
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>>18553666
she definitely wants to fuck you
they do this because they enjoy taking men from other women. ironically, if you did fuck her, she would likely lose interest shortly thereafter
Do my gums look fucked up? They are a little puffy, but I'm scared of going to the dentist.
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>>18553592
Look alittle enflamed on the bottom, floss.
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>>18553592
Take a couple swigs of alcohol or you go in or smoke some weed to ease your anxieties about the dentist.
Also realize that if you never go to the dentist you have a very real chance of losing your teeth and having to go through surgeries up 10 times worse than a cavity shot.
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>>18553592
Just keep flossing or start to. Rinse with warm water with a lil bit of nacl
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how easy is it really to meet up with girls off tinder in big cities? I paid for a premium tinder account and set the passport to NYC and have like 70 matches in a week or so. seems too good to be true.
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>>18553578
Matches are easy. The meeting up with can be hard if you're looking for something serious or even to get laid. You have to undersyand that everyone has a shitload of matches
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>>18553584
right. i'm from a small town and can manage to get dates, but matches are hard to come by (especially cuz i'm not trying to date the typical uhhhhhhhh "small town" girl)
but 70 matches seems like wild
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>>18553578
It's really easy to get matches. But from personal experience, I'd say to try to talk with everyone you match with.
Most girls won't talk back. Some will talk but not showing interest.
But for every 10 girls there will be at least 1 that is willing to meet you. Don't ask her out straight ahead, but instead talk to her for some days.
Talk about things she likes, but without interviewing her
This is a retarded way to talk to girls:
- What do you like?
- Carrots
- Why?
- Because they're orange
- What more?
- Uh, I like cats
- What's your favorite color?
The best way is to make her talk about things she likes without asking a lot?
- So I read in your bio you like cats
- Yeah! I love them! I have two kitties
- Nice! Whats their names?
- Daisy and Natty
- Cute! I love cats also, but I don't have any
It's really that simple, just get a random fucking convo going and if the girl sticks to you for a couple days, ask her out.
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So, my wife died and we had been married for 12 years. I'm not on here about that because those were the best years of my life. It's been 2 years now and I've tried dating again. (in my mid 30s). Ok, seriously, what the actual fuck is up with women now? Every one I've been on a date with is figuring herself out, or is bat shit insane, or is just looking for casual sex, or talks about their bad relationships constantly, or has tons of kids with different fathers, and I could go on but seriously? I mean I expected a culture shock but these women are just like the embodiment of what the media portrays crazy women as. Help or advice?
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The good women are not single in their 30s
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there is a reason why MGTOW exists. But hey you're bound to find a good fit eventually. I know plenty of girls that are successful, on a good path to a bright future, and are just flat out "too good" for me, and they have higher standards wanting a guy that makes more money/looks better. Each generation is different and while there is a sort of degradation factor, AKA "western society collapsing" there are still good girls out there, just a bit more uncommon I would say.
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Do what you enjoy doing and do it well.
Keep yourself clean and keep your eyes peeled.
Do everything in your power (that doesn't involve anyone else) to make yourself happy, and there's a strong chance you'll end up making friends.
Friends are the type of people you get in a relationship with.