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You fucking idiot, why did you break it off? Wtf does doubts mean? Expand and tell us why a girl you met gives you doubts? Is it insecurity? Wtf?

>>18556466
She broke it off out of nowhere and wanted to get back together not even 3 hours later. She said that she just had a really bad day and didn't mean to take it out on me but I took her back for a couple weeks before I was convinced by some friends that she was cheating on me (Which to be fair was fucking stupid because she's a virgin, Christian, and never cheated).

Now I'm fucking alone and she won't even reply to any of my messages

>>18556486
Its a bitch.

It takes time, do everything you can to be active and constructive without them. having a part of your mind not want to move on is a drag but undoing that is not easy for some of us.

I need meaningful connections with others. (conversations, hanging out, friends, etc) build up my self worth (i dont need them), remind yourself why your not with them anymore.

I am not a proponent of distracting yourself by meeting some one right away. that can lead to the same mistakes you may have made in the last relationship. make effort to make it better the next relationship.
good luck

>>18556443
Sounds toxic. Let me greentext summarize:

>Yall good friends and went on a couple dates.
>She "lied" to you she had a bf
>Reason was she didn't want to hurt your feelings
>If she told u bf lie sooner, that means your hopes will go up and you will treat her to more expensive shit.

My question is: what do you get from this? Seems she gonna use you to spend stuff on her. Be real with her and call her out on this. If she want a sugar daddy she gotta give up the ass.

Don't chase after someone who doesn't want you.

>>18556617
Like I said, we're good friends. She hasn't ever asked me to buy her things and I haven't bought her anything, except dinner on the date. It was one date and she told me the lie to spare my feelings.

No, as long as you weren't late in making a payment your score should go back to normal when its updated.

Go get you a store credit card like home depot, kohls etc. They generally have high limits will contribute to your overall credit limit, making this less likely ro happen again

> if I recall
When ever you take money off a card / use money they want you to pay it off over time , what they suspect will happen if they allow this is people like gamblers will go withdraw 2k then pay it all back the next month if they win if they lose well shit, basically it's an anti-gambling thing

>>18556407
as I understand it, it should be better next month because they only look at the last month and going over like 50% of your credit is very frowned on.

>>18556354
You done fucked up the moment you bought a Crapple product.

>>18556354
Also, for what it's worth, I tried using itunes and restoring/updating it, but I just get error 3194

what type of iphone is it?

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You have to become high test.

>>18556296
Set some goals and meet them.

>>18556296
Tell the ones cucking you to go fuck themselves.

>>18556293
Stop trying to change the things that make you you. There's nothing shameful about sex.

>>18556293
I think you should do whatever the fuck you want. it's your body, as long as people you fuck respect you, fuck on. hell, fuck me.

>menaretrash.mp3

>>18556293
It is called hormonal birth controll. It kills or at least lowers libido for majority of girls. Go to your doc, let him check you and prescribe you something.

If you mention to him your high as fuck libido and wish to lower it, he can get you somethibg what has this side effect more common than other types.

Good luck girl and consider yourself lucky. There are many girls who hate or simply doesnt enjoy sex at all.

>>18556274
Because even the most fucked up individual can be capable of living a happy life. Unfortunately, it's easier said than done, so instead of putting forth the effort to better themselves and their lives they take the easy route. No shame in taking the easy route.

Well I personally think I can try and save them then one day convert them into being my gay slaves

>>18556278
Honestly people (guys mostly, look where we are) make a lot of fuss about being ugly, short, etc. But the real threat is mental illness. Once your mind is gone, it's gone.

How can you fix that?
>inb4 therapy
>inb4 medication
>fucking medication

Just tell them you don't swing that way and be glad people are complimenting you in the first place. There are people who would kill for even a single compliment for once in their miserable lives.

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>>18556213
I get compliments from girls as well. Getting it from a guy okay but if its too much its something else. No hate on the guy but how do I let him know that I'm not interested?

My main problem is that I pretend that I have a girlfriend, but I do not. I dont speak about my love life much among my colleagues. I think thats the reason why the girls consider im attractive, because they think Im in a relationship.

Is it about time I get one?

>>18556253

Couldn't hurt.

Anon has 100,000$ cash just lying around
> why are you here again ?

>>18556179
I have $125,000 in mutual funds and $30,000 in my bank account. I am 28 years old and have been in the military for 6 years. If you aren't actively saving money then you are really far behind.

>>18556189
> implying you should waste 3 years of salary on a 6 month relationship , anon do what you think is right go live with her pay her 500$ a month or so since it will be a place you are living whatever you pay in rent now and after 6 months ask for the contract so you can see how you and her get along living together.

Sounds like you need a job.

>>18556174
I have a part time job right now. With the money I wanted to fund hobbies I'd pick up, but I suck shit.

>>18556181

Most people can live a fulfilling and meaningful life with no talents (speaking for myself). Not to mention the reason most people seek out a hobby is because they are bored. Find something you like to do and just do it. If you keep living with the notion that everyone expects something out of you, you won't be able to enjoy what is right in front of you.

If I sounded harsh there, I don't mean to be.

Bump, did I do anything wierd? Just looking to know if I could've handled it better.

Just tell her that it's fine and just keep being friends...She even told you that she still wants to hang out with you and you clearly feel the same about her. Nothing ruins a friendship faster than wanting it to turn into the chore of a "relationship."

Enjoy what you have.

Ohh god that sucks.

I will answer your question with a question:

How the FUCK would we know any better than you?

The problem is that there are so many potential answers as to why, that this question is almost impossible to answer.

It could be as simple as not wanting to have sex for religious or commitment type reasons, or it could be as complicated as her having trauma over some horrible event (like rape or something) happening to her in the past.

My point is, you might need to give us a bit more information.

>>18555960
>>18555960
Well I'm more hoping for a woman's perspective

>>18555973
Ya I appreciate that. She's not religious, I asked her if she was ok having a short term (she's only in town another month) relationship and she said yes. She didn't freeze up like I would expect a traumatized person to but I don't know anything about that stuff

You actually pay attention to her. 100% serious.

>>18555877
/thread

>Hatfield et al. (1993) identified the traits of the dull personality type, including:

>Passivity - Dull people aren't really there, they just exist.
>Tediousness - Dull people use a boring communication style including slow talking, long pauses before responses and rambling.
>Distracting behavior - Dull people are side-tracked easily.
>Low affectivity - Dull people rarely look others in the eye, have expressionless faces and talk in a monotonous fashion.
>Boring ingratiation - Dull people try too hard to be funny, to be nice or to impress others.
>Seriousness - Dull people never smile and appear somber or cold.
>Self-centeredness - Dull people are preoccupied with themselves, with the past or with personal problems.
>Banality - Dull people talk about trivial or superficial things, are interested in only one topic, and repeat the same stories or jokes again and again.

Yeah its extremely illegal this shit happens all the time. Whats to stop his friends sister from getting a divorce soon as she gets citizenship and milking him for half his shit and alimony?

Its a bad idea. Theres a reason they are offering 15 grand.

>>18555873
Really good point about the divorce and alimony

>>18555865
Fucking armenians man. Shit like this is why everyone around Glendale hates you guys.

> inb4 he wastes thousands extra
just go online you get the same fucking degree and its cheaper some even offer you course credits if you know the material already so you can literally if your smart skip a whole year or 2

>>18555843
Hospitals don't accept 2 year degrees anymore. Bachelors and Masters are in demand for nurses.

>>18555846
> nurses
i swear you better be a women