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>>18555796
>I really just want to fit in and to be like everyone else now
You really dont.

you sound like me.

are you attractive, can you be my gf?

try finding friends on the internet, sites with people you like. just react on comments or posts like this and if they react, do the same. perhaps the relation will last. those friends will teach you how to make friends irl, with words and by practicing with 'em

>>18555754
She's concerned about you because you're always acting like such a sad sack.

She's trying to boost your confidence because she thinks you need it right now.

That was her intent in sending this message.

Is that yik yak? I thought that app was dead?

>>18555780
Sarahah
>>18555765
But I'm like never sad and I don't seem sad

>>18555693
Put penis in vagina

these things cannot be explained, you either know what to do through social conditioning or you don't

so your best bet is to gain experience points and go through trial/error until you learn these things

>>18555714
how is it possible to do trial and error on a lot of girls, when every girl is different? how can i come up with a set of universal formulas if the subject changes each time i perform the experiment?

>>18555681
Some phones send group messages to everyone individually.
also you could just ask, why are you sending this to me?

>>18555712
>Some phones send group messages to everyone individually.
it's not the case because I see him being active on groupchat all the time and don't get private messages from other members
asking him what you suggested could come across or rude or mean

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>>18555679
not seen any particular name associated with this one, it kinda just goes by itself

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>>18555793
Kek

>>18555533
Don't be a dick then.

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>>18555533
It's good OP that you are able to self-analyse yourself and practice some common sense humility that lacks for many in this world, but there is no good in beating yourself up over it.

I used to do this. From ages 16-19, I was depressed, angsty and hated myself because I quit some afterschool club where there was a young girl that I only later realised might have been into me, since she random kissed me on the cheek once and I was the only guy in that class. I hated myself for quitting that club and never ending up in relationship with her. I listened to sad music and vividly imagined me still back in that tiny arts/crafts club, laughing with her and complimenting her taste in music or some corny stuff like that.

Of course, I know what you are thinking, OP, and yes, I have done worse shit in my life too. I once dated a girl, and when we were making out, she slipped on ice, and I was laughing at that instead of helping her up, and that creeped her out and she never contacted me again. Even more later on, I've done shit like where I was really drunk on a bus once and stared at some old lady (some uncontrollable behavior) and later bus driver yelled at me for smelling from alcohol and wanted to kick me out in the next stop. There's some more, but leave it at that.

I've not felt actually much regret at the later ones, because the adolescent regrets were so fucking intense that my ability to fuss over later stuff has diminished.

What I am getting at, is that you should acknowledge that you were in the wrong and genuinely feel sorry for the people who had to put up with this, but don't beat yourself up forever. Just learn from the mistake and don't repeat it.

>>18555533
Check em

You seem to be treating having a gf as something that completes you, a necessity to being happy, when actually having a gf should be a bonus to an already happy life if its to be successful and enjoyable. That's why oneitis is so dangerous, because it compromises your entire life and wellbeing for the sake of a vagina. Do you have any friends? Go out and meet other people so that if it doesn't turn out well you still have other possible life routes open.

>>18555542
>You seem to be treating having a gf as something that completes you, a necessity to being happy
No, I don't view having a gf as anything like that. I honestly just crave romantic physical intimacy.
>Do you have any friends?
Like I said in the OP, everything else is going very well for me and I have plenty of friends, but they can't provide this one last thing I'm looking for.

>>18555557
>been feeling very lonely lately and I need to stop it

You don't sound happy, lad.

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>>18555483
Graphic designer and artfag here,

Unless it's 14th century and you are hired by european royal court to draw portraits all day, art is hardly about making money. Art is what you pursue in spare time, or do as volunteer to some cause, show off to others, to decorate spaces, to win a competition, to please the art teacher or to feel like Da Vinci for a minute there. Trust me on this, I have done plenty of painting, drawing, traditional graphical techniques, sculpture and other stuff that classifies as "art" to most people. Hell, even drew a young nude woman in art school for one anatomy drawing session.

I think what you mean is how to make money from creative expression? Because creativeness can extend to many fields. You can be a mathematician, business, marketer, event organizer and still exercise plenty of creativity in a sense that it's up to your unique way of problem solving how you make a solution happen. "Art" or making music is no different - you want to create a beautiful thing and you need to know the rules, technical skills, buy equipment, have access to an audience and have connections to make an exhibition or a gig happen.

Don't worry about "not being able to draw", there's youtube tutorials these days where you can learn to draw pieces to look like monochrome photography in it's accuracy of detail. Hard part is, how to make creativity something that you sustain. Certainly, even if you draw like a God, you still struggle to get paid, because either there are 100 middlemen who rip you off from your fair share, or you just flat out find that nobody will buy art that is less than 10 dollars.

Try to be more creative in what you do best, OP, and you will be a very good "artist", truly. World needs more people who think creatively and find creative solutions, and less people who can draw a watercolor piece but who are prudish and boring in personality.

Pic semi related, part of the 2D vector series by me for art school final exam project.

>>18555483
why do you need a hobby to make you money?

>>18555554
I looked at the pic, at first I didn't notice the details because I thought I was looking at a photograph of a table placed at a window.

It's amazing!

Yeah I have that same issue, no games are exciting to me anymore and the ones I played daily seemed like chores. I think the reason it happened to me is because I realized that these games are getting me no where in life and that I wasn't bettering myself by playing them. But then again that's all I used to do all day, I don't know what your situations is though

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>>18555450
I used to like gaming a lot when I was a teen, but I dropped it like a year ago in my early twenties now since it begun to feel like a huge waste of time.

I am not a moralfag or anything, I smoke cigarettes daily and like to binge drink alcohol occasionally, but with videogames, I have started to feel that time spent playing them can be used on learning something new, or talking to someone on internet. Besides all that, when I do try to pick up some of my favourites (Mass Effect series, Total War series are some of my biggest favourites I have replayed a lot) I find myself getting bored and playing through the game begins to feel like a chore. I have tried to get into new games but my computer is old as shit and doesn't run the new ones, and the new ones that do work have no meaningful content and are either kiddie-tier or super simplistic. I have enjoyed some online games in past but when I have tried them in my 20's, they are loaded with cheaters, hackers, scammers or total newbs who spout stupid memes or beg money constantly.

This is not a sad thought, I feel pretty content about ditching this habit, but it feels like a part of my childhood is in the past now, which gets me nostalgic sometimes.

>>18555450
I still buy games but in same boat OP.
Fallout 4, ryse, ghost recon wildlands, starwars battlefront, ARK just some of the games i bought didnt finish and dont play. When i move think im just gonna sell all games and shit. Do wanna try VR tho

>>18555344
dI'd it for years, no one cared so far
don't overdo it and download all pokemon episodes in one night and you should be fine
but I guess the more famous one that air on western TV might get you in trouble easier

>>18555359
did*

>>18555344

No one cares. No one will come after you. The absolute worst case nuclear holocaust tier scenario is you get a letter in the mail saying "pls stop and gib me monies or else >:( !!!!!" which you can throw right in the trash because its not enforcable.

They dont really care about downloaders to begin with. They care about people who upload/seed.

it means chew some gum (sugarfree) and go for a walk

>>18555313
It means every day after the three day hump you'll get a little better

>>18555313
>peak
A peak is a point that is both higher than everything before it and higher than everything after it.
So unless it's very poor phrasing, what's meant is that it gets worse and worse until about three days in, but after the third day (roughly), it starts getting better again.

TL;DR: if you're at day 3 and feeling horrible, you'll likely start feeling progressively better from tomorrow on.

>>18555232
Move on man, you blew it. Plenty of other girls in college though.

>>18555232
to much of a beta pussy to get it. you go for it dont fucking ask. well chin up champ, move on to the next whore. dump the friendzoned slutbag

>>18555290
>>18555301
really? she quite clearly said she didnt want to romance guys.
and if she did she couldve made it more obvious right?

Stop speaking over texts for starters, man up and go speak to her.

Don't let this dude cuck you. Stand your ground.

She asked for your permission, she obviously knew she's in the wrong but asked you, so that when you said no, she could turn it around and make you out to be the bad guy.

Be a man and stand your ground.

You're not stopping her from seeing her friends, you're stopping her from developing romantic relations with another man and cucking you.

>>18555217
sounds like she's 12, let her go

>>18555217
You are 100% wrong, but why does she type like that???

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>>18555207
looks like a good thread but i got nothing to contribute with

nevertheless, bump

>women are very emotional
>women want men not boys
>they want an attractive man
>they are just as dirty and unhygienic as men
>vagina tastes and smells worse than penis (bi)
>they don't want to see a man show weakness. period

> I make 100,000$ more than you
He is just a bullshiter

>>18555204
What

>>18555208
Tell him to show you his check next time around or stop talking all that bs about how much he makes etc