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>>18558601
Get a line of credit through your bank/credit union. They'll be happy to give it to you and you can use that to build up credit easily.

Credit is a meme. You do not need nor should you strive to get it. Those who are credit worthy are those that pay in cash. Being credit worthy means that people and businesses trust that you will pay, and are happy to give you a bill. Having a credit card is having a middle man who is credit worthy that will charge you interest and sue you for non-payment in the end.

>>18558601
If you make 10k a year, you shouldn't own a credit card.

>>18558488
Seems like your gf is crazy

>>18558488
so you were married to a dude

>>18558499

She' usually fairly reasonable, I don't know what got into her..

>>18558509

More like a tomboy. She's always had that boyish looks

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move to California

>>18558457
Do you want a white country? There arent many left. America is pretty decent but good luck immigrating. Russian territories would be the the best bet but they are 2nd world countries.

Tu vis ou?

what are both of your genders ?
> male or female

How do you know this person? Whats the backstory? Youve told us literally nothing. Give some context dude the texts dont really matter that much.

What bothers me more, OP, is that she doesn't like the fact that you're not the same people you were a couple of years ago. TF, no human stays the same person in their life. If they did there would be something mentally wrong with them.

You change over time due to actions, happenings etc.etc. That makes you a richer person who fills their brain with happenings, thoughts, experiences, life lessons.

I had a hard time accepting that my bf was not the same guy he was 3 years ago. I learned that that is actually a beautiful thing. I witnessed him grow and develop a vision for his/our life in the future and research who he actually is on a personal level.

As for the question if you should get back with her, If you really really feel like you can't live without her, you could explain all this.


Although I really do not have more info on your relationship or whatsoever.


I wiiiiish you the best of luck OP!

Self bump. If I need to provide more information I can i just want some opinions

>>18558405
I personally think it's unfair. My ex tried to get me back for weeks and it was excruciating watching her try. I didn't want her to continue to feel so bad, and the guilt is painful. But I had thought this through and knew how I felt about it all.

But if she wasn't sure, and still wants to talk or something... Maybe?

>>18558459
People can change for the worst though. That's when it comes time for a breakup. They get complacent, they stop focusing on maintaining the relationship, you discover bad traits about them... Something.

>She and a few others would insult my looks etc. really ruined my self esteem

You have no self-esteem, then. If you rate yourself well, you would have seen that as simplistic and friendly banter, and would have answered accordingly.

>>18558033
>needy and melodramatic
You are really clear with us about what you are looking for in friends. You want someone to take an interest in you.
The problem is that most people arent looking for this type of friendship. They want light conversation and seat fillers.
Finding this deep and meaningful friendship is usually a long process of clicking and getting close over months or years.

Do something about it.

If you're fat, lose weight.
If you're personality lacks, ask someone why you suck.

People are shallow, and like to involve themselves to attractive and confident, but not arrogant, people.

If you want to change yourself don't stay on /adv/ and complain. Just think of a solution, fuck everyone else and just go with it.

put benis in bagina :DDD

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>>18557675
>literally every living organism on planet earth "knows" how to reproduce
>be born of species that killed entire other animal species and became an apex predator on earth capable of inventing tools that propel your species into outer space
>suddenly lose the ancient knowledge of how to reproduce
>resort to asking for advice on reproduction on kantonese mahjong-playing clubhouse

I want to be good lmao

Where are you meeting these women? Bars?

>>18557651
>Where the fuck are they
Probably not at a party or a bar, genius.

Yes, really, they do exist and in surprisingly high quantities if you know where to look for them, however in my experience they tend to find a nice boyfriend (not a "Chad Thundercock") and stay in a relationship for years at a time. So you either have to get lucky and meet them in the brief inter-boyfriend gap, or have extreme patience and stay friends with them for ages until they (hopefully) break up

>>18557418
>Europe
She got blacked, it's over OP.

>>18557418
I try to look at the best in people but no one here can tell you exactly what is going on with her whether it's legitimate stress or infidelity.

Ultimately the answer lies with you and how much you care about the relationship. I'd be suspect that's for sure.

Let her have fun, you'll have her later anyways.

>>18557184
CRAWLIN'

>>18557184
All I've learned from people dying/killing themselves is that people all of a sudden love you, even if they hated you(or your music for that matter) before.

You know what to do OP.

>>18557188
IN

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>>18557167
Here's a partial list of genders if you don't know your opposite gender[s].

Is it normal to feel guilty for allowing oneself to feel lonely? I feel like a asshole for allowing myself to want someone to be around, and just immediately think how other people would have lives of their own and would want to do so much more than spend time with me, and to want to constrain someone like that is to treat them as an object. Even when I have to talk to people for work I am filled with this sense that they have zero interest in what I am saying and wish for me to go away.

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>>18557196
Humans are social. It's normal to not want to be alone all the time. Sounds like you have some self esteem issues. Don't worry, you're most likely not annoying and people probably do enjoy your company. Don't be afraid to have friends.

You have to decide that is what you really want, and force yourself to do it. Nobody can do these things for you.

>>18557099

I want you to do this.

Go to bed now. Set your alarm clock for 6am. No matter how tired you feel at 6am, GET UP. get up, throw some clothes on and before doing anything else, go walk around at a brisk pace for no less than 40minutes. Go walk all around your neighborhood. It will wake you up quick from blood flow and you'll feel good. Once you get home eat some breakfast and shower. It'll be before 8am and you've already gotten some exercise, ate, and done hygiene. You've already accomplished something, and you will FEEL like you did too. You will feel like you have a lot of time. So, clean your room!

Every time you complete a task, no matter how small and simple it is, it will make you feel accomplished. That will lead you toward your goals that you listed.

>>18557099
1. You don't need a gf.

2. Literally just do it. I was NEET for 2 years, doing nothing all day every day. The only reason I'm not still one is because I decided to do something one day.

Pick something on your list and make it happen.

I feel bad for your parents man, you're a huge fucking burden on them.

Get a real job and/or at least fucking work full time you freeloading sack of shit and move out. Move away even if the city is too expensive for you.
What the fuck is wrong with you that you're content living like this, have you no sense of pride or morals?

>>18556395
Just give them money for rent even 150$ Or so will help them out

I'm in an identical scenario.
>24
>less then 2k depending on min. wage hours i get
>no rent

but what i do pay is my mom's phone bill and half the car insurance. we share the car. so i pay roughly 200. 150-250 is good.

>>18556228

just google it.

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wait... have you just not relieved yourself for the past ~8 years or what?

sit down, grab the shaft, and just go up and down. maybe mess with your balls or something with your free hand

>>18556070
>1) What do you do from now until then?
Fap uncontrollably. Or rape my neighbour.

>2) What is your biggest regret?
Until now I thought having crush on my best friend was a regret but now I feel like it's normal and I should move on. Other than that, I don't have any. And yea! I was always a disappointment to my parents.

> 1. go to bar , tell cougar type women with nice tits i'm dying show her proof ask if she will go to my apt with me so i can suck her tits till morning , suck her tits till morning , die
> 2. i regret not taking more chances

>>18556070
>1) What do you do from now until then?
Thank the sweet lord for the relief that will soon come
>2) What is your biggest regret?
Being born into a white middle class american family and then somehow fucking everything up