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I'm a seller on eBay and a buyer is trying to rip me off.
How do I instead rip them off?
He is trying to force a refund claiming that the item is "not as described"
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>>18587192

Just tell him to send the item back at his expense, after which you will give the refund.

Standard procedure; no one gets ripped off. What's the issue?
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>>18587192

>instead of trying to resolve this
>how do I fuck someone over?

Way to get good advice, person. 0 details, and petty revenge as your motivation. You're really gonna go places.
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Reminds me of a time I sold something without a tracking number and they said it never got there, just disappeared, so they pretty much got it for free.

I saved their account and saw later they sold the exact game.

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I want him but I'm fat, ugly, lazy, stupid and don't even live in the same country
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>>18587152
i need answers about this too
same problem
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>>18587152
The only problem is the "stupid" part. Fat, ugly, lazy, and not living in the same country aren't even a challenge.
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>>18587528
I disagree im dumb as fuck but i could never be in a relationship that required me to drive more than 45 minuets

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so I have a good buddy at work 2 years of knowing this guy. get really close as friends. We make jokes back and forth for these two years. I make the travel to this guy's place almost every weekend to hangout. So I message him at work one day and make a joke about the Lincoln Park guy hanging himself. this is our jokes. omg savage bro. etc

so he basically says how this guy's music helped him with bullying as a kid etc etc. How he can't joke about it. sure. I get that.

so now this 'friend' ignores me at work and it's super awkward. 2 weeks of no talking. meanwhile this guy has been a dick to me on several spots in our friendship. has freaked out at me when times are stressful at work. He use to walk by my desk and flick off my hat at times even when I'll tell him to stop.

not really sure what got up this kid's butt. I'm 29 and he's 23. so maybe a difference in age. sucks tho feels like I lost a good buddy at work. we have our differences. but at this point I'm not sure what to do.
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come to think of it the guy is a dick. but now i gotta deal with awkwardness at work.

feels like fucking high school.
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>>18587148

just go grab a beer with him. you're older, you're supposed to be the one keeping things stable. you felt awkward after you insulted his hero and so you've been distant. this is on you.
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tell him to join his idol if he's gonna be a giant pussy all the time

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Is my hairline receding? Or do I just have a big forehead. I'm 20 and its been this way since I was like 13/4
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>>18587132
post pics of corners
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>>18587584
Family history of baldness is a good indicator.

The answer to your question: Yes.

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why the men in my family are self absorbed when it comes to actual interactions included me but the women are not
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>>18587116
That's a question you ought to be asking yourself. Use your gray matter. Fuck, man.
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>>18587129
i cant actively think for myself and i've been isolated enough to not have material for thinking anymore
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>>18587141
It sounds like you have larger problems than wondering why you're self-absorbed. Good luck.

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There is something maybe someone could kindly answer or give me an explanation about.

>me and my ex together for almost a year.
>broke up and separated for some weeks.
>got back together again.
>broke up again after some months cuz we realized it wasn't working out.
>we both love each other but life circumstances made it not possible for us to be together and solve our problems.
>tell me it was too late.
>she said she loves me but is not "in love" with me anymore.
>she wish we had met one year later when she had finished school for real change in her life.
>she told me she wanted to be single and meet other guys from now on.
>she told me she did not want to talk to me or meet me for many months or even a year.

After we had broke up we talked for some hour about things like this and when it was time to say goodbye:

>sitting in my car.
>tell each other that we love each other and will always do.
>starts hugging.
>she gives me a small kiss on the cheek while hugging me.
>I ask her for a kiss on my lips (didnt tell her why but I just wanted to see if she would do it & it was nice to remember feeling).
>she agrees and kisses me on my lips.
>after this she pulls me back to her face and kisses me AGAIN by her own choice.
>tears starts pouring from my eyes.
>final goodbye and leaves the car.
>still thinking reason why would she pull my head back and kiss me again by own choice...

She's gone now but sometimes I still remember this time in the car and wonder...
After telling me that she loved me, hug me, why did she choose to accept to kiss me and especially after that pull me against her to kiss me AGAIN by her own choice?

To me it felt like she still loves me deep in her heart but she's just scared to be vulnerable again with me.

Thanks for an explanation... It drives me nuts sometimes not knowing what this meant.
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Kinda sounds like when me and my ex broke up.

It means exactly how it feels. She loves you, she always will, but she knows in her heart that you guys cannot be together. Whether it be from a lack of understanding or trust, maybe she doesn't see a future with you. It's best to remember the times you had together and move on
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>>18587092

>she said she loves me but is not "in love" with me anymore.
>she wish we had met one year later when she had finished school for real change in her life.
>she told me she wanted to be single and meet other guys from now on.
>she told me she did not want to talk to me or meet me for many months or even a year.

That means "I found someone else who's better than you" or "I'm moving away after I'm done with school" so she wants to get distance and start fresh, and not have you contacting or bothering her while she's with someone else.

The last kiss is "you're a nice guy and emotional about this, but sorry I'm moving on. I care about you, but not enough to sacrifice my career/desires for." And that's with me assuming that she's actually a nice person and not callously cheating on you for no good reason.
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>>18587135
Do you think that if she loves me and says that she will always do, in the future she will give it a new chance? Do you think that she would contact me after one year?

She told my friend "If we are meant to be together, we will be and will always find a way in the end."

But to me it just sounds like fucking bullshit like any of your ex could tell you...

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Why am I depressed?

Here's some context of my life
>literally just turned 18
>enlisting in the armed forced
>got a couple months break before I'm fully enlisted

Here's my average day:
>wake up around 10-12pm
>make some coffee and either go running or go lift at the gym
>once every 2-3 days ring my only two friends and go to their house to play some vidya and hang out
>if I'm not doing that I stay at home browsing 4chan / reddit / YouTube or playing vidya for the rest of the day
>jerk off and eat occasionally too

I don't understand why I'm so incredibly depressed. I can't shake it off either.
I feel incredibly alone and like I'm missing out.

I think my issue is, I don't have enough friends. I do have more but we didn't keep in contact after leaving school.
I want to hang out with them but I only have their phone numbers and cause I haven't spoken to them in a month I don't know how I'd invite them to do anything.

Other than that, I supplement vitamin D and ZMA.

I don't really understand why I'm as depressed as I am
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Also I sometimes fap to traps and hate myself for it
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I really do not know

Maybe you are going through life too lazily, not like Dio from "Casshern Sins"
>Quote by Casshern about Dio
"Even though there is life, no one here is living it. Life is overflowing from you and these people are merely drinking their fill, but Dio and all the people I've met on my journey aren't like that...they're..they're more...they were blazing with fire...they were torches burning with life."

By fapping and browsing these site, you're not a torch blazing with fire like Dio, who only survived to achieve his goal (after which he died from losing meaning in life, becoming totally peaceful)

You maybe want friends right now.
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Positive thinking. Look it up. It's basically lying to yourself but your subconscious listens. It works. Also if you work hard ebough you can replace your depression with exhaustion.

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I'll be quick,
I'm 18 and was just charged with underage consumption. What can I expect for a fine?
In addition, with the police tell my college or do I not need to worry about it? Thanks
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>>18587087
I don't know about your school but I can tell you this, when i was 17 I was charged with distributing alcohol to a minor. The minor was 19. Total bullshit but the whole thing cost me about 250. Mind you she passed out in the street and the cops caught me trying to stuff her into some strangers car kek.
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>>18587121
Lol but they don't require a court appearance correct? Just paying the fine
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>>18584231
the breakdown
>finds out a major part in what attracts him to you is fake
>sees it as a signal of severe vanity and menal unstableness
>calculates risk/reward
>decided you are not worth it

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Yes, I did it! And still going strong WAH!
So, what now? Just continue No Fap?
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>>18587084
Great job man! It's great to see someone cum ou- come out of an addiction or something they have shame in doing. I'm proud of you man! I'd say continue No Fap because you might get sucked back in if you do Fap again.
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>>18587084
Good work. I'm only a measly week in but I already feel better about myself for it. I wasnt even a conscious decision to refrain from wanking, I was just too tired cominng home from work each night and kept passing out asleep. Now I'm gonna try to continue it for as long as I can.
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Should've fapped on the 31st
Good job man

I'm trying no fap for August
Went 20 something days in July
I fapped like 4 days straight
But started clean on August 1st
Its easy on days I work cause i just prep from work n get home exhausted
Days off im just browsing 4chan and get turned on with the easiest of images

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I just found out that my girlfriend of 4 years who I planned on marrying had been cheating on me with 5 other guys over the years. I got very close to her family over time and our families even met. If I broke up with her I would devastate my family, but jesus christ...FIVE other guys? I have seen 3 of the 5 before. I am so depressed over this and I feel weak.
Help me guys. How do I bring this up to everyone? How do I break up with her? I found out by one of the guys telling me.
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What's so hard about telling people that you broke up because she'd cheated on you multiple times?
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Assert dominance, fuck a girl in front of her and make the your possible fiance eat out her vagina while you fuck her asshole and record the whole thing, then post to 4chan.
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just tell them like how you told us

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>be me
>match guy on tinder a little over a year ago
>he's cute, going into nursing
>talk for a while, try to set a date up
>"let's go to this baseball game"
>I agree
>day comes and he's been in the hospital for a little while, health issues so we can't go
>okay, fair enough
>few months later
>"let's go to the racetrack"
>me: okay
>day before, can't go because of a cyst
>fast forward to this past two weeks
>see on Snapchat he's in the hospital again
>we decided to finally meet up since he was closer by than usual
>brought him candy, he showed me around
>held my hand, kissed me
>cute as fuck and we had a great night, even if we were in a hospital
>says we need to hang out again ASAP and asked what we should do next time
>I leave, he kisses me
>try texting him the past few days and got little to few responses, now nothing

Guise am I being rational here? The last I heard he was being moved to a specialist medical facility. I don't want to annoy him but I'm really worried about him too.

TLDR: met a guy after months of going back and forth, he's in the hospital, seems to like me but hasn't really talked to me since I've last seen him.
Am I being crazy or??
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>>18587064

If he's regularly going to the hospital all the time, maybe he hasn't responded because he seems to be on the fast track to dying.
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>>18587095
KEK
Long story short, he had cancer. This time round they thought it moved to his lungs but they aren't sure what it is now, hence the specialist.
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>>18587104
He might know he's terminal or likely to be terminal and is trying to stop himself from getting involved with you to avoid hurting you.

But I just assumed a ton of shit so if you have more info that would help

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Should I be worried? This made very sad but I don't know exactly why.
What's going on? I'm inexperienced in relationships...
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I would break up with her. If she wants the same with other guys it won't be a good relationship.
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>>18587005
She is about to cheat or already has
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>>18587005
Probably a prelude to her wanting "open relationship" or she already cheated and wants to ease her quilt

It's a standard negotiation tactic really, give a bit of leeway for "free" and then later demand something she wants (probably open relationship) and using the previous as leverage

I graduated university a month ago with a master's. Since then I've been looking for a job and I found one, in my field.

I know I should be happy, I like it (translation) but this is a home job which doesn't really involve human contact. The problem is, I need human contact. I was hoping to get a normal 9-5 job where I would sit in the office and have to wake up at a normal time everyday, but I got rejected from a few after interview (not sure why).

What should I do? I think I'll take this job but I need normal human contact and daily routine. Currently I'm a mess that can't get out of bed before 2 pm and I hate it. Maybe I should join a club? I want to start lifting regularly. I used to train martial arts but my feet problems got worse to the point where I couldn't go on and since then I feel like a part of me is missing, both on the physical and mental level. I feel less capable, less complete, less of a man. I hope the gym could help with that plus I want to improve my body.

I also want to join toastmasters to hone my social skills and meet new people. Is it a good idea? Has anyone here tried it?

I want to get a bit stable in my life before I startlooking for girls. I think my self-confidence will increase once I have more control over things and am on the right track.
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>>18586999
>I got rejected from a few after interview (not sure why)
You didn't ask for feedback?
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>>18587018
nope
they just sent me a mail that I was rejected
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>>18586999
Ah man OP, I can literally feel your feels through your post. If I were in your position, I would look for a friend to be a gym partner to help make me motivated. But obviously that's not an option for everyone, right? I almost exclusively work out alone for that reason.

This might come across as shifty advice, but try to go to a bar once or twice a week. Going alone is totally ok. I'm not a terribly anti social guy, but I'm not very charismatic and consider myself a bit awkward. But, after a couple drinks, I loosen up, and have met some decent people at bars. It might be worth a shot. I guess this is also bad advice if you don't drink, I do quite a lot.

I thought people were joking when they said that a smell was so bad that they could still taste it. It has actually stained some salieva in my mouth twenty or thirty minutes later, that's how horrible it is.

It was a smell that was familiar, and later I realized where from - it was the horrific smell of sweating junk and unwashed asshole. It also, horribly, contained some of the savory quality of mackerel.

How do I tell my sister that she reeks when she's on her period?
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>>18586950
Yo bisch, clean dat pussy up Boo
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>>18586950
Your sister? Fuck anon what the hell.

That's disgusting. It sounds like she just has poor hygiene habits in general. Tell her of this new invention called soap and water.
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>>18587033
It's difficult to know how to broach the subject though. I mean, this is specifically the smell in the bathroom after she's used it. How do I say "your cunt sweats a horrific stench, please wash yourself out thoroughly"?

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Hello /adv/.
I was born with an above average intelligence and because of that, I learned how to read, write, and simple math at a very young age. School was a breeze. K through 9 were nothing but boring to me, as I thought the things I was learning were boring or I already knew them. Because of how easy school was for me, what happened is that I created this habit of laziness, since I could pass every class with A's without studying ever. As years of school went by, I've become less and less interested in school and my grades started going downhill fast in 10th grade. 11th grade was even worse. While I was struggling with most math problems (I used to be a king in math back in my "golden years") because I didn't study nor did I know how to study, my friends and family who frequently told me I was intelligent and had faith in me got perplexed when my grades started going down. My class coleagues, who knew me for being able to speak very well, also couldn't understand how I had such bad grades with such high apparent intelligence. By the end of 11th grade, I started to think I was just plain dumb. I still think I'm fucking dumb. I got so frustrated that I asked my parents to do an IQ test. The results came in. I discovered I had an IQ of 135. This let me even more confused. As I've found out, school is more of a game of memory than a game of intelligence.
Right now, I'm 18 and heading into 12th grade (the last grade in my country), and I have a complete shit median high school GPA (3.0 GPA translated to the american school system) because of all the bad results I've had over these last couple of years.
My question for you /adv/ is: What can I do? I'd love to get into top unis like anyone else but with a GPA like this, there's no way I can get in (in my country, only GPA matters in the college application).
Also, what are your thoughts on the school systems implemented in the western world?
Finally, did this ever happen to any of you guys?
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>>18586931

You're basically repeating my life story, only I had worse grades. Your 3.0 GPA looks stellar next to my 2, 2.5, because I spent all my time sleeping through class because it was boring, and hating myself for being single the entire time.

The only difference is that ACT scores (basically a big ol' test taken during the last two years of high school) is a bigger determining factor for colleges. Even though I have "high intelligence", and I was sick the day of the tests, I still managed to pull a halfway decent score.

The western world doesn't really depend on grades anymore, but money. If you have money you can do whatever the fuck you want.
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>>18586940
>because I spent all my time sleeping through class because it was boring, and hating myself for being single the entire time.
I know right? I also feel miserable for not having a girlfriend, I'm very selective with whom I talk to so I end up not being the most popular of people around. It also sucks when most people around us are fucking dumb as all hell.

>The only difference is that ACT scores (basically a big ol' test taken during the last two years of high school) is a bigger determining factor for colleges. Even though I have "high intelligence", and I was sick the day of the tests, I still managed to pull a halfway decent score.
Here where I live, your score is calculated using the median of your grades in the 10, 11 and 12th grades + a Math exam (which is 50% of your final grade). Basically, since I suck at math right now, If I fuck up the math exam, my grade goes from 3.0 to 1.5 (assuming I get a 0% score in the exam). My math grade of the 10th and 11th mean is at 2.0 GPA.
I can't sleep at night because of that fucking exam dude, it's still a year away but I feel the sense of impending doom upon me.

>The western world doesn't really depend on grades anymore, but money. If you have money you can do whatever the fuck you want.
Yup. Money and connections. But I still believe there are some remains of meritocracy in our society.
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>>18586931
I had like a 1.5 gpa in high school. Went to community college for 2 years then transferred to one of the best public universities in the U.S.

What are your goals OP? Just getting into a top uni in your country? If GPA as important as you claim, even if you get a 4.0 average your senior year, your highest possible GPA is probably a 3.2 or 3.3, so that's out of the picture.

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