>be me
>match guy on tinder a little over a year ago
>he's cute, going into nursing
>talk for a while, try to set a date up
>"let's go to this baseball game"
>I agree
>day comes and he's been in the hospital for a little while, health issues so we can't go
>okay, fair enough
>few months later
>"let's go to the racetrack"
>me: okay
>day before, can't go because of a cyst
>fast forward to this past two weeks
>see on Snapchat he's in the hospital again
>we decided to finally meet up since he was closer by than usual
>brought him candy, he showed me around
>held my hand, kissed me
>cute as fuck and we had a great night, even if we were in a hospital
>says we need to hang out again ASAP and asked what we should do next time
>I leave, he kisses me
>try texting him the past few days and got little to few responses, now nothing
Guise am I being rational here? The last I heard he was being moved to a specialist medical facility. I don't want to annoy him but I'm really worried about him too.
TLDR: met a guy after months of going back and forth, he's in the hospital, seems to like me but hasn't really talked to me since I've last seen him.
Am I being crazy or??
>>18587064
If he's regularly going to the hospital all the time, maybe he hasn't responded because he seems to be on the fast track to dying.
>>18587095
KEK
Long story short, he had cancer. This time round they thought it moved to his lungs but they aren't sure what it is now, hence the specialist.
>>18587104
He might know he's terminal or likely to be terminal and is trying to stop himself from getting involved with you to avoid hurting you.
But I just assumed a ton of shit so if you have more info that would help
>>18587104
This is going to make me sound like a shitty person, but for the sake of preventing major heartbreak, it might be wiser to move on from him and find someone else.
>>18587169
It was testicular cancer but he said it cleared up. He seemed fine when I went to see him, so I pray to god it's not terminal.