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>good looking
>tall
>rich
Dude. You'll be drowning in pussy faster than I can fill out this captcha.

Tinder is not a bad idea. Make sure your picture and writeup are good.

And first of all, stop using the word "normies". It gives the impression that you think you're some kind of special snowflake who's somehow superior to everyone else. Don't ever step foot on /r9k/ again.

>>18663513
You would think so, right? But how do I make it happen / where do I meet women? I'm not really socially outgoing so actually meeting them (and then breaking the ice) is the biggest issue as far as I can tell.

>>18663514
Advice on what women are looking for on Tinder? And yeah I don't browse /r9k/, just a convenient descriptive term.

>>18663490

Stop comparing yourself to other people. It's the number one reason people are miserable. Compare yourself to you. Then step by step become a better you by compeating against yourself. There will always be someone out there that is smarter than you, better than you, healthier, better looking and so on. It's just how it is, I accepted that fact and am now the person I have always wanted to be.

>>18663487
It's good that you are opening up and talking about your issues. It's okay to have depression and bad thoughts, just don't act on them.
You have a job and are trying to improve you self. Those are good steps.

>>18663487
If you have a good relationship with your family, why would you want to inflict emotional distress and trauma on them?
Transcend your past and destroy the pedestals you place this girl on. You'll save yourself the pain of even more emotional sabotage if you just look to the future and set goals- maybe set personal targets for your career path, or physical milestones. Cultivate personal growth and more importantly recognise this change. Witnessing yourself evolve physically and emotionally will no doubt help towards your anxiety and depression. Maybe also dabble in other activities such as reading- my wellbeing has increased tremendously from reading, especially philosophy.
"It is not worth the bother of killing yourself, since you always kill yourself too late."
-Cioran

>>18663556
This. You're on a good path here, please don't give it all up and cause your family grief. It's not worth it, OP. Trust me on that "causing your family grief" part.

Yeah the guy is a scumbag for going after a taken girl, but why aren't you mad at your gf for kissing a guy in the first place? Being under influence is not an excuse.

>>18663481
Sorry to break it to you anon, but ur gf is the main reason, why would she hang with him if she knew his intentions from the first place

>>18663481
As a guy in the military, I'll tell you how you can really fuck him. Figure out what unit he belongs to, give them a call, explain to them what's going on. I wouldn't want a shitbag in my branch scumming around with underaged girls, and I guarantee his leadership don't either.

plz be my gf

Marry me

>>18663473
>Have anger issues
>Emotional as fuck
>Can't cook for shit and don't know how to do basic shit like laundry or oil change... Obviously not wife material
>Low IQ
>I hate how boyish I act and talk like... a tomboy in other words
If you do not have neurophysical defects, those things can be changed by simply having the mindset, discipline, and training.

You can have an orgasm without cum, but not cum without an orgasm.

>>18663476
that's not true. it's possible (also for guys) to cum without having an orgasm.


anyways, i guess they were talking about a girl having an orgasm or squirting.

>>18663478
My bad, thanks for correcting.

>>18663468
PhD in chemistry here.

What is your text book currently?
I had Organic Chemistry by Carey, 6th edition

Read the book and I mean read it before assignments or tests come. Don't speed read or whatever the faggot kids are doing these days, really read it aloud if you can, really understand the words and figures. Read it before lecture, stay ahead if you can, if not read it as soon as you are done with class. Do not fall behind. I liked Carey's book because it had questions scattered throughout that reflected the material just read and was easy to read in general. Of all my books that's one of the few I kept from undergrad and I still thumb through it from time to time.

Go to office hours. My professor had group office hours with like at least ten students present asking questions or going over problems. Even if you don't have questions, go and participate and take it in and keep getting refreshed.

Do not use a laptop or type the lecture notes. Write that shit down with your hand on paper. You can transcribe it later electronically. Your brain does a much better job retaining information like this.

Lastly, make a separate notebook from lecture. This notebook allows you to catalog chronologically from lecture reaction mechanisms in a neat form.

Don't use flashcards or memorize. They shit is so gay and completely ineffective. Really understand the trends as to why one leaving group is better than another or why one charged state is more stable than another.

>>18663582
As for online resources try these

http://www.chemguide.co.uk/index.html#top

http://www.organic-chemistry.org

And for general simplification of scientific concepts:
http://hyperphysics.phy-astr.gsu.edu/hbase/hframe.html
I love the shit out of that website and actually used it to write a lot of my initial introduction paragraphs of my dissertation.

>>18663582
>>18663587

Hey OP here,

The text book I'm using is Organic Chemistry by Carey 10th edition.

Would you recommend using another addition.

Thanks for the advice.

Probably

>>18663467
In our dreams, any part of our memories and experiences can show up. Additionally, dreams often forgo normal logic. It's only natural, then, that sometimes we'll dream about scenarios that involve aspects of real life but still are illogical / very different from what would reasonably happen.
Also imo it makes no sense to worry about whether you're gay or not before you are in love with a member of the same sex.
However, the following
>>When I woke up I finished fapping to the dream imagining I came on his face.
>But for whatever reason that trap really turns me the fuck on
sounds alot like you have a crush on or at least want to fuck him/her/whatever. Make of that what you will

>>18663467
I think you're at least bi. There's nothing wrong with being bi.

>>18663440
You have three options
1) Get a free ride either because of previous academic achievement of because you are a minority
2) Kill yourself and pray that in your next life you are born rich and/or a minority
3) Suck it up and get loans but go to the cheapest university you can find (public obviously) and then through merit try to reach the stars.

be a mechanical engineer or electrical engineer

oh you said other than plumber or electrician
try physics dude there's a HUGE market for string theory

>>18663440
hvac guys are pretty cool

Tell them you can't afford to pay for their pills anymore.

Drug addiction is a disease. You're not just living with a person, you're living with addiction manifest. Their mind isn't rational or empathetic. Helping an addict is a full-time job by itself, especially if you're trying to get them clean.

If you're in school, there's not much chance of intervening in your parent's life. That kind of effort isn't feasible when dealing with school as well.

It sounds like you're already giving up all of your money, you should look for a shitty apartment and get some roommates so you can stay in school. It won't be easy, and it won't be fun. But it's the only way to get out.

>>18663430
But then the withdrawl will keep them so bedridden that they will end up pawning my electronics, and never keep their promise to get them back.

>>18663405
>sports chad

OUT OUT OUT OUT

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For you, there is no bright side right now. Not every moment of your life can be happy and joyous, and the bad times test our resolve.

You've fallen off your horse and then got kicked while you're down. It happens.

>goddamn do I feel inferior.
>I AM inferior
>protagonist

You're not the protagonist. You're a man who has been hurt by someone they loved. That doesn't mean you're inferior, it means your life has taken a different turn than his. You played the game and you lost. The only solution is to keep moving forward.

>>18663405
Men who have lost everything are closer to the most terrible and painful aspects of themselves, and therefore more capable of wielding them in the best of ways. You have everything in the world to gain.

>>18663401
Why do you want to live in NK?

>>18663401

How would we know? Also why?
I mean I guess?

Okay so like first you had to travel there, you can actually do that by applying and use a traveling agency. So while you are traveling there you had to find some way to swear your alligience to the regime and offer to serve? I guess...

Read this
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alejandro_Cao_de_Ben%C3%B3s

It is possible. A few NGOs have people working there. Contact them. Usually they want some skilled people, such as nurses.

>>18663400
Ausland

I'm Australian, and I would pick Canada, if I were American.

Canada Land. It's closer to America and progressive. Or go to Aussie land which is more conservative and everything wants to kill you. Although Aussie might be more fun

>>18663388

Use lube when fapping and practice pulling the skin back gently
Pull the skin back everytime you take a piss
Pull the skin back everytime you shower and stretch it a bit while flaccid and slippery

You will have a normal penis within a year if you practice consistently

>>18663388

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/mens-health/178155-stretching-fix-tight-foreskin-phimosis.html

Some good advice in this article.

>>18663388
Whatever you do, don't let anyone convince you to get circumcised. You can go to a doctor and get a special steroid cream that will help you loosen that shit up.

>>18663366
>>>/lit/
?

>>18663366
ARCHRONICUS is a great book .

i can give you a list of the books that had something in it that stuck with me and that i think should be common knowledge.

>drive by daniel pink
>the 5 love languages by gary chapman
>you are a badass by jen sincero
>how to stop worrying and start living by dale carnegie
>nonviolent communication by marshall b. rosenberg
>the 7 habits of highly effective people by stephen r. covey
>daring greatly by brene brown
>the life-changin magic of tidying up by marie condo
>mindset by carol dweck
>the miracle morning by hal elrod
>psychopaths by kevin dutton
>everything written by david schnarch
>mating in captivity by esther perel
>the subtle art of not giving a fuck by mark manson


those are just a few i picked when scrolling trough my "read" list. i got a lot more recs if you need them.
i got more in the departments of sexuality, creativity, raising kids, drawing, cooking, writing and reading.