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Used to have lots of internet friends when I was a teenager, now I'm 26 and hardly anyone talks to me

What's up with that?
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>>18661593
Life bro...
everyone has their own shit
People are concerned about them selfs cuz in this world , we are alone.
Maybe one day you will find a good friend
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>>18661602
There is nothing going on in my life other than studying/working 12 hours a day and listening to music/watching anime/reading manga so it's hard for me to understand
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And I'm only working/studying that much because there's nothing else to do

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Since three or four days ago I'm suddenly depressed as fuck. Nothing unusual happened, I simply woke up one day and boy, do I feel like shit.

Anyone here ever experienced anything like this? Simply wake up feeling like shit for no apparent reason?
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>>18661589
Yess, but I'm a femanon so usually attribute ir to hormones.
Making excercise, focusing on work and mindfulness has really helped.
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>>18661589
I get that sort of feel but only for a day. I think it's due to doing practically nothing for the entire day.
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>>18661620
This is very accurate. Go out, do some biking, meet people. This would change your mood for the best

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So i just got out of jail and im starting to wonder if there is something more to my problem mentally... I got a dwi after binging really hard for no reason when i visited my ex we are trying to work things out.... I got pissed at something she said and then left the house... before that just about anything will set me off im paranoid as hell of people sometimes and others im perfectly fine confident and chill. As of the past few years ive made all the people that care about me dissapear I have really strained relationships and dont know how to get better.
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>>18661568

You have obvious self control issues.

Start examining why you do what you do, thinking before you make decisions, taking longer to make them.

Try writing what you plan to do down and then looking at it again in 5 minutes.
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>>18661568
Did you not see a conselor/therapist when you were in lock-up?

Can't tell what to do. Turned on by my dad everytime I look at him. Try to get advice but no one helps. While parents are away jerk off to family portrait and cream. Help
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Unless you're a trap, give up
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google francis bacon. gay painter who was attracted to his father, you might find it interesting.
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See a psychiatrist they'll get that Freudian shit sorted out no dramas.

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My mom is scaring the shit out of me and I don't know if its me who's crazy or her.

It's a day or two away until my sister goes back to College and I finish my basics before I'm off. My mom has already shown that she's going to miss us and stuff, just as any other mother would.

She's had her small outbursts before, she always seem temperamental, but it wasn't until recently(by a couple of months), that she's been lashing out pretty hard at small things, and typically tries to drive the fault towards our Dad.

It doesn't happen often, maybe twice a year or something along those lines, but today it happened again but what went afterwards had me feeling unsettled.

We were having dinner and everything was going great, I was telling a story about some shitty customer at work, we had some pasta with some Rose' sauce or whatever it's called, we all were having a good time.

My mom and sister were drinking wine, not really a big deal. My dad looked a teeny bit uncomfortable, and I didn't notice until later, but it's important. So basically, my sister offers my dad some wine and poured some of my mom's into my dad's glass. He said it tasted like Kool-Aid, proceeded to drink it. We all finished up and my dad and I were cleaning the table.

As we were shooting the shit about the crummy customers where I work, that's about when my mom came in saying she's sick of my dad "making people uncomfortable about drinking". She started snapping about him and said he took her glass so she wouldn't drink.

My dad was equally baffled by how she came in out of no where pissed off like this, as was I. Along the lines, my sister started crying and blamed herself for pouring Dad my mom's glass, and my Mom, as usual, tried to urge both of us that all of this was my Dad's fault(Despite the fact she escalated the situation.)

After some emotional spouts and stuff, my sister was still crying and my Mom was still consoling her by trying to shift all of this onto my father.
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Sorry this is so long, there's details I don't wanna miss.

Basically, after all of this happened and I went elsewhere to forget this bullshit was happening, they made me come downstairs and my mom, unfortunately having control over my Dad, had all of us do this fucking roleplay shit where we recreate us coming home like the whole dinner never even happened.

She tried to talk to me like this whole emotional bullshit never hit the fan, and the whole tone scared the fucking shit out of me. Like, the slightest mistake I made would set her off again. I felt like barfing when my sister and to a lesser extent, my dad, played along. It seemed so fake and unnerving that I just said I was going upstairs to play Xbox.

As I was going up, my dad gave me this goofy "this is no big deal" expression, but I honestly couldn't believe he would react to something like this that way. It feels like they're suppressing a bigger issue here.

So am I crazy? Or does my family (or just Mom) have some deep seeded issues they're trying to suppress?
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I don't know anyone that would get angry at something as simple as a comment of wine tasting like koolaid, I think your mom is making a big deal out of nothing. But that's me.
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>>18661592
She went on to say something along the lines of "You think I have a drinking problem" and "Stop making my daughter uncomfortable about drinking!"

She then said she's been building this up all her life and shit, and I just don't know anymore.

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How do I get a gf
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The amount of times this thread is posted on here is comparable to how many times dick rate threads have been posted on /b/.
Mods almost need to make a sticky giving lifestyle advice to these fags so they dont shit up the board with these threads.
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>>18661526
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>>18661531
That doesnt help

I've gotten really close with this girl from college and I think she likes me. We've been talking all summer over text and I want to ask her out but is that something better done in person. Is it rude to ask someone out over text.
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I've honestly never understood why people think this is taboo, I've never cared in my life. The majority of conversation these days takes place via text and screens anyway.
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>>18661522
This. Why would I care?

Anyone else straight but get called girly (or gay-sounding) often in private?
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>>18661483
>he doesn't know
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>>18661486
Don't know what?

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I've been having trouble remembering things and my memories feel like they don't belong to me or like they are stories someone else told me. I also sometimes say or do things and not know why. It kinda feels like I'm sometime just not myself not like I'm unwell like that I'm not always the person living my life. Who do I talk to about this or how do I manage it?
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>>18661475
sounds like depersonalization
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>>18661475
Sounds like some kind of depersonalization or disassociation.
When did it start and was there anything extremely stressful to happen to you recently? Did you abuse any drugs?
If it is extremely worrisome to you I would go to see a psychologist.
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Time to go down the checklist:

1) Are you eating healthy nutritional foods?
2) Are you eating enough?
3) Are you getting at least 7.5 hours of sleep a night?
4) Are you consistently getting sleep at the same time every night?
5) Are you balancing work/school and social life to your liking?
6) Are you exercising at least a few times a week?
7) Are you keeping yourself busy with productive activities/hobbies (reading, music, learning languages, etc.)

Probably more than one thing in this list is being neglected if you're experiencing depersonalization. Usually a really stressful situation/occurrence can cause you to stop taking care of the basic needs in this list. Start taking good care of yourself and it'll greatly help. If this doesn't work then seek professional help (a last resort).

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Went to a week long camp early this past june. Met a girl. pretty qt, seems into me. we flirt all week, end up getting her number and Instagram. Great at starting conversations in person, shitty at starting conversations over the phone. texted her once a week after camp, haven't texted her since. She lives like 2 hours away.

It's been almost three months since last contact. Can i salvage the situation or am I shit out of luck?
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>>18661460
what is the harm in trying
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>>18661460
I'd give it a shot, try talking to her and if you run out of things to say, tell her you suck at phone/online conversations and ask her to do something fun with you (in public). Worst case scenario she doesn't respond or says no, big whoop

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Apply A typical television newscast has three cameras. The center camera directly faces the news anchor’s desk. The other two cameras are both angled 45° away from the center camera. Suppose each camera has a field of 60°. What is the total angle covered by the three cameras? Explain your reasoning.
How would I do this problem without drawing it out?
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Why not draw it out? You'll be sure, then.

First blush guess: 90°. Reason: 3x60° FoV of each camera, minus 2x45° rotation about focus (the front desk) due to overlap = 180 - 90 = 90°. However, I have done it in my head while being buzzed. Ergo, check it to be sure.
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>>18661458
Do your own homework

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im so close to beating the fuck outta my dad. he a fucking alcoholic. he always makes my mom cry and starts family problem. what can i do to stay calm.
im so close /adv/ so fucking close.
>pic unrelated
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Do it. Assert your dominance as man of the house. Don't go overboard on him, but if he really deserves to get smacked, put him in his place.
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As someone who had an alcoholic abusive dad, I can tell you it ain't worth it man. It feels good in the moment but then you have to live the rest of your life paying for those 30 seconds of justice. The world just isn't built around vigilante justice. He'll press charges and you'll be in jail, then you'll have to do a whole bunch of stupid shit to clear your name, all the while cursing the world why you ended up paying for your dad's behavior. Don't go down that road. Instead, talk to your mom and let her know you are on her side. Later on maybe convince her to leave if that's how you feel.
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>>18661466
>do it! you're a man, aren't you?

stellar

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Spring boarding off a question someone asked yesterday, what's the average number of times for a guy to give his girlfriend oral in a month (assuming they see each other every day or close to it).

You can answer for the opposite, too, but there's already been several answers.

Total includes foreplay.
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>>18661439
when she wants it
if you loves her
how she likes it

if some element about it is bad, like you have TMJ or something, then take an ibuprofen or do some stretches. if the problem is flavor then use a wet wipe.

assuming you worked hard to get your partner and please them (down to the way you speak, if you're like most people) it would be stupid to leave them very unsatisfied in a single department, especially since then they can just look elsewhere

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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guy asking girls. is it weird to want to know my girl's menstrual cycle? do you think she would be disturbed or offended if I asked.
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Literally just posted this in the old thread before this one was made.

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>>18661441
No. I think knowing that information usually comes a few months into a relationship. It's completely normal to want to know.

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For the past year this person has used and exploited my sister and her alcoholism, moved in her house where her and her child live. Cut her off from her family and about a year later its starting to fall apart. Even trying to have her child taken away.


He will be evicted and the insults he threw at me and my parents only through gas on the fire. He's the kind of pussy who wants to get hit so he can sue you. So he runs his mouth. I kept my cool and stopped my Dad from curb stomping him.


So I do have his MOST personal information, I'm sure you can guess what.


What can I do with it? I have ideas but want to hear others. This has gone on for a year and I'm sick of it. He deserves this.


Obviously I wont do anything tell some time passes, but I have a long memory.
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>>18661417
sites like 4chan and facebook will hand over all of your information. you made an incriminating public post on the same IP that you do everything else on. most terrible things you can always do to a person are very illegal. I think you need to live your own life and accept that things happen you can't change.
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>>18661436
>you made an incriminating public post on the same IP that you do everything else on.
No, he didn't. And the IP won't do anything.

Plus, publishing someone's public information (address, phone number, place of work, etc) is protected by the first amendment.
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>>18661417
>MOST personal information
His dick size?

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