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what was it that destroyed your confidence so completely? what have you done to build it up again?

Have you ever been interested in a girl? Have you ever asked one out for a date?

>>18663344
Same boat as you. I simply don't care anymore. I'm too awkward for the type of chick i like and i don't think it would last anyway.

Being single also means you can do whatever you want.

It's not 100% wrong. It would cost you less and require much less effort.
But it's morally wrong so... Yeah. Plus, you might go to prison.

Just find a gf or PAY FOR SEX.

It is easier to get laid nowadays than it has been in the past. You do not need to impress a father to marry his daughter or be insanely rich to do it. Be halfway decent looking and have a nice character and you are done.
And if everything fails a prostitute costs maybe 200 bucks for an hour.

Don't listen to the /pol/ meme about how materialistic modern women are. Just today I talked to a russian guy that talked about how much easier it is to get an eastern european girl if you are rich because they don't care about looks or character. "Traditional" women are far more materialistic and hard to get.

Also, getting convicted for rape is easier than ever too. The conviction rate is 58% which sounds low but the conviction rate for every reportable crime id 57%.

>>18663331
dude just buy a hooker. Dont ruin some poor girl's psyche

>>18663347
>>18663369
How narcissistic of you

>>18663322

What is wrong with you loving you more than everyone else? In what way do you find this annoying? What do you want to change?

>>18663407
I would like discussing more but something came up and i have to go

>>18663303
ask /an/

"Do cats shed eye lenses like some animals shed skin?"

LOL. No. It's a contact lens.

>>18663316
That's the most reasonable explanation. But I haven't used any in over a year, and I don't remember ever losing one. Hmm.

>>18663296
>decent money to live alone
Any job will be enough to live alone.
Give an example of the salary you are looking for.
Also what are you good in?
Right now with nothing to go on I would suggest the military or working in state government.

>>18663313
Not good at anything, mediocre at most things, less than average I'd say, but math I'm just flat out retarded at.
Yeah government job sounds nice, I read that studying homeland security will get you far in important gov jobs, FBI, CIA, and toher alphabet soups too

>>18663341
Those are federal jobs and they tend to have aptitude tests. State jobs are easier and you will only be competing with people who are local to you. You wont get a job at the FBI unless you did something else before that was impressive like police or military or even network security. Are you trying to get a degree first? I assumed you meant straight from high school.

>>18663259
Why would anyone name anything "Cox"

ITT: Burgers and their worse-than-third-world internet.

Alright Anon, if you want to stop eating well it is really simple all you have to do is 1. Place a bucket in your toilet 2. Take a shit 3. Next time you get hungry eat from the bucket. You won't be hungry long after you take the second bite! good luck now Anon may this help.

>>18663254
something that i guess is healthy and that keeps me full for a shitload of time (like one time i had this for lunch and didn't feel hungry until near dinner time) is oats mixed with a variety of seeds (pumpkin, flax, chia, poppy, etc. you can try with whatever ones you like) mixed with plain greek yoghurt with a bit of honey as a sweetener. sometimes i add raw almonds or a banana or whatever to it.

be prepared to shit like 50 times a day tho

Treat everyone around you as though they are inept children.

Don't dog your mates

depends on how you act like a cunt, to whome and why

>>18663180
Yes but try jacking with it first. And take a half the first time because a whole is too strong for someone young is my experience

>>18663180

The first time usually ends in disappointment.

I tried it. First time half a pill - did nothing. Next time whole pill - still nothing special. Just a regular hard-on.

My therapist told me it might be a sign of low testosterone. I gotta get myself checked but I'm lazy. You should get yourself checked too maybe. Maybe our brains are just not producing enough of a certain hormone or something.

I very much relate to your post in every way. Idk how normal people manage to be happy and have the will power to chase things. I know "everyone (else) has their ups and downs" but being like us is not normal.

It's common knowledge that once you leave this place, your life begins.

But remember, you're here forever.

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you need to accept what you are. you like things that are usually associated with females. and thats alright, its your life you can enjoy it in anyway that you please.

It doesnt matter if its gay or metro or numale. if you like it thats what makes you.

Just enjoy the things you like in life. it doesnt matter what others think. For example, when youre somewhere and interact with someone for 2-3 minutes. Do you think about their life story? what they like? what they do? what has happened to them? where they are from?

No you dont think anything about them and you forget about them the moment they are out of sight. thats how others care about you. so stop caring about what we think. all the brain power that you put into thinking what others think about you will always be wasted. In the end we dont think about you and we dont really care what you do or what you get into.

and yes you are a numale.

>>18663166
Just start waxing your boipucci

just don't give a fuck and do your thing. people who care about what's girly and what "men are supposed to like and dislike" aren't worth your time of the day anyways.

my husband likes music that is a fucking lot more girly than everything i would ever listen to. he likes dressing nicely and taking good care of himself. despite me finding it awesome to have a good looking man, i think his taste in music (and alcohol) is damn cute.

the girl that fits you will think you're perfect, just the way you are. all others aren't a good match anyway and you lost nothing of value. you don't want to end up having to play a role your whole life, right?

>>18663132

You don't know what bass is kiddo.

Just get a b and w zepplin and be done with it. Build a boominator if you're wanting to be cool, still no bass.

And don't let me hear you asking about which dock you need for bass again. Your neighbours are gonna fucking hate you for turning up a zepplin.

>>18663132
Charge 3 if you're looking for something more budget friendly but also has really good sound quality

very broad question that's not easily answered without knowing where you stand.
the best answer would probably be "by working on being a sane and mature person yourself".

ofc there are a lot of nuances and many processes you need to be aware of to actually lead a healthy relationship for decades, but explaining them all would definitely be too detailed for the limited space of adv posts.

i can give you a few keywords.
>real intimacy
>inevitable injuries and how to deal with them
>colaboration instead of collusion
>learning to not depend on outside validation
>commitment
>ability to sooth yourself
>sexuality
>taking your partner seriously
>ability to be in controle of your emotions

if you want to seriously learn about the dynamics of long term relationships, read into the works of david schnarch. you'll thank me later.

>>18663073
Three basic rules
1. Have facts to back up your opinions.
2. Respect the people you're talking with even if you disagree with what they're saying. The first person to insult the other has lost.
3. Know which fights to fight and which to let go. The second group cover 90%of cases. Most people chat and even debate just to fill up time and enjoy each other's company. They don't WANT to get into serious debate. So a "Well, anyway, that's what I think, but let's talka bout something else" will gain you more respect than fighting to the death every time.

>>18663073

Stop caring if they respect it or not. Just express yourself and don't give a fuck or be needy for their approval. The fact that you shared your opinion should be gods gift to them. If they don't give a shit, stop sharing your opinions to them and they can fuck off.

>>18663052
Formal conversion involves meeting with a rabbi and taking some lessons in Jewish tradition and values from him, followed by a formal ceremony.

But is formal conversion really what you want? You can choose to follow Jewish values on your own, and everyone is welcome at most temples if you like the rituals.