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Someone I knew killed themself back in April and I'm still not over it. I am really close as well

>>18664578
Time anon, time. The scar will be always be there. You might not remember it everyday but it will be always be there with you.

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>>18664578
dude I am right there with you, just didn't give her enough love and affection and she peaced. Didn't even see it coming and realized what I'd done way too late.

In this world women move on from you in the blink of a fucking eye. There are no second chances. There are no do-overs. There are fifteen other guys within 5 miles of you who will do everything for her you did plus her laundry that she will get with in a heartbeat as soon as you start slipping. And she'll do the same thing to them too until her biological clock makes her stick with whoever she's with at the time. Fucking women. We just have to move on and enjoy the time we had, and look to the future.

Easy come, easy go.

I've just been dumped after about 6 years. I always feel these relationships but I hardly feel much for people's deaths.

I got over the last one to the point where I feel nothing at all (we are still friends) after 3 years.

Maybe we should go gay for each other.

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you sound kind of dumb, so good college is probably out of the question.

yes, you can take SAT multiple times. you can take the ACT as well if you prefer.

high school classes are easy as fuck, just make yourself do the homework your retarded jerkoff.

you can get a GED if graduating looks shakey.

also nobody gives even half a fuck about highschool GPA after you get into college, which is easy if you get a decent SAT or ACT score. just actually make yourself study you retarded waste of space. stop jerking off and study.

also get off my lawn underage b&

>>18664598
I'm 18
And you're not wrong I already graduated man that's the problem
I want to get into a good college and am willing to put in the work but I don't think there is anything besides AA transfer program to fix it

Go ask the nerds at /sci/

>>18664575
Not a bad idea actually.

>>18664565
I dont know about surgery but, i do have a tiny hole just there where you aay in your pic. I can even blow air from there. It doesnt have a name afaik

Yeah.

Do you have a compulsive need to use 100% of your time productively? It's okay to just fuck around once in a while. You're only human.

>>18664551
Won't be a waste if you meet people online and build nice friendships. You can learn new things

If you enjoy it, no.

>>18664533
>my real intention is being in a relationship with her
there's your problem. the friendzone should be your goal in the first place. wanna know why? because, unlike men, who by instinct, want to spread their seed as much as they can, women want only the best seed to fertilize their egg. good women are gonna wanna get to know a guy first before hopping into relationship territory, and that's why so many fail. because they want to spread their seed too quick.

so maybe she will develop feelings if you keep on this path. hope you can get your cutie wootie, anonsy.

>>18664533
No, women aren't machines you put kindness coins in and get sex out of. She won't magically start loving you somewhere down the track.

The only way this will end is;
a. She gets a boyfriend, you start to resent her and eventually leave.
b. She works out you like her and have been lying about your interest in friendship this whole time, she will start to resent you and eventually leave.

Don't waste her time with your fake friendship. Don't waste your time with your fake friendship.

>>18664541
I don't really want it to be so quick tho, but yea I get your point. My friends also told me the same thing but I asked here again just to know what others might think about my situation.

>>18664518
She's either loose, your dick is small or both.

>>18664525
It was pretty tight

>>18664550
Plus I'm 8 inches long and 5 thick.

Given he's 31 and you're 21 then how overweight you are directly correlates to his interest and response times. I hope this helps.

>>18664513
>Am I looking too hard into this
Prob so. He has a life and doesnt need to text everytime. Certainly he is not required to post "omg cute selfie!!!!" on ANY of your IGs. Simply liking them is enough.
t. 30 yr old guy

should probably trust your gut on that maturity difference thing. i'm 19 and wouldn't go out with anyone over the age of 23. that's 10 fucking years, dude. me and you, we're only adults by law, we don't know what the fuck we're doing out here. but that dickweed you've been hanging around? fuck, he knows his way around the adult block, to the next town over and probably a bit farther than that. he could easily take advantage of you, and the fact that he's going for someone as young as you when he's 31 motherfucking years old should be setting off all kinds of alarms.

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Accept that some people can be lesser than trash and move on. Watch some liveleak if you can't accept it. Some people are human waste and honestly DO NOT deserve to live. Doesn't mean you have to ruin your life by removing them from this existence. That's not your job. I've dealt with bullying myself, maybe not to such an extent as you, but honestly some people are garbage, wisest would be to move on. Surround yourself with positive people. Forget about scum. They're not worth your time and energy. Cheers my man

What happened, OP? What are the experiences that you have trouble putting in the past? Whatever you're going through one of us might've been there before or know someone who has.

>>18664507
Save up 5000 dollars and go live in-a-woods.

Or just let it go and focus on something else. Your bullies will probably grow up into nothing and just 90 years from now you'll both have been dead for about 10-5 years.

I was bullied a lot in highschool. I ended up just ignoring them, focusing on my own friends and becoming a better person. Eventually everyone hated my bully for being such a cunt to me that I basically turned the whole school against him be virtue of just being friends with a lot of people. My life was pretty terrible for about a year. I know that's uncommon but keep striving to be a better person and just leave them in the dust.

>>18664504

>social script

Freestyle, man. Enjoy interacting for the sake of it, don't go into it with an agenda.

>>18664549
But I'm an autist. If I free style it I'll talk about the worst crap in the worst way and not be able to respond to them effectively either. Last time I tried freestyling I lost a job because I joked about a customer having a gun to a girl

Just b urself

>>18664498
I also am like to insult/point out the flaws of the person I am having an issue with at the time, and really talking about things in a serious yet polite way after they've hurt me is hard for me. Arghhhh this is really hard to describe, I'm sorry if everything is too vague and I seem too far gone I just don't know what to do.

>>18664498
FUCK ARE YOU ME
I am one insecure bitch.

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>>18664484
What's up, doc?

When ever you see a spider web, run through it. Eventually you won't be terrified, just mildly annoyed

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>>18664484
Get a bug pet and understand them.

>>18664476
An engagement ring.

>>18664476

Plan a really romantic day.

1. Make brunch and have it together (don't be lazy or cheap, put some effort into making it)
2. Go out in the afternoon to a nice location like a zoo or some park. Make sure there stuff around to see and wonder.
3. Have a nice dinner at a nice plane in the evening. It's not as important that the place be expensive, but find out if they have really tasty food and quiet tables for two.
4. Have some scented candles and smooth music ready for the evening. Go in to chill and cuddle and reminisce about the past year. Don't expect sexy time to happen, just relax and try to enjoy it.

If things derail from your plan, just be there for her. The most important thing is that you show her that you didn't forget and that you are there for her, now and for the upcoming year as well.

Also, all of the above is a pretty generic date. Feel free to improvise on shared interests (Like climbing? Go climbing in the afternoon...).

>>18664476
Introduce her to something new that you guys could do together

>>18664473
She was hoping you'd ask her out and when someone else did she had less reason to speak to you.

>>18664485
Like I said, I know for a fact she's not with anybody.

>>18664503
Then ask her out. What are you waiting for?

If they want to fuck you and they fuck you then they will leave. If they want to fuck you and don't get to fuck you then they will leave.

>>18664460
If he likes you, he will stay. Why are tou thinking like a 16 year old?

>>18664478
Why do you say 16, we're both in our 20s but I'm slightly older then him