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>>18662114
If you're at risk of hurting yourself right now, then yes they'll stop you from doing so. But if you want something long term, you'd be wasting your time there.

>>18662114
You can, but they could put you in a psych facility. It happened to me. I wanted zoloft or something, that's it. Didn't have a doctor, so went to a random clinic first. Rather than write a script, they told me to go to ER/hospital where they have a psychologist. So, I did because I really wanted something to help. They put me away for a week or so. They only let me go when my insurance stopped paying (there was a cap to mental health stays, and boy were they sure to milk it). It was traumatic, honestly.

If you're really on the edge, by all means go to an ER. If you just want a little help, find a psychiatrist, or possibly start with your primary physician.

the chemical action of depression is as yet unknown. negative on any chemical test. depression is always diagnosed by expressed mental symptoms. however you seem to be wondering whether your depression is chemical vs something non chemical. it is not.

i recommend seeing a neuropsych. they take a more physically oriented approach towards depression and will prescribe you a monoamine oxidase inhibitor or serotonin reuptake inhibitor.

regarding therapy I would not worry about future employers. most countries have laws protecting patient privacy. however in many places in USA it may hinder your ability to by a firearm.

>>18662083
Also how do they survive prison?

>>18662083
Yeah. It'll be harder but it's not unheard of.

Those people generally have social issues and other personality problems that make it near-impossible to hold down a normal life.

>>18662068
See if your college has a furlough policy. They probably call it something else, but essentially it allows you to drop out for a term or a year with the guarantee of being accepted back in. You can use that break to sort out your thinking about what you want.

not your personal army.

What? Is this supposed to be an argument or something?

>>18662071
"Those kids didn't have proper guidance and stability"

So therefor because of the way they may or may not have been brought up (they're adults now) led them to make criminal choices? What would it matter, they're adults. Everyone is taught responsibility and to not burn houses down?

>>18662054
Come to South Africa, fight darkies and live cheaply, win win.

Do you have a degree or skills in demand? You can't just move to any country you want.

>>18662085
I have a chemistry degree but have no experience and have been a NEET for 4 years already. I think I should go to a country that has a lot of brain drain like one in eastern europe or SE asia. Not to mention employers will be happy that a westerner respects their country so much that they decided to move there.

>I don't know why normies have such a problem with me. I was just reading my favorite manga, Super Lolicon Panty Peeker, while hanging out at the park. I wasn't doing anything wrong and suddenly a cop is asking me what I'm doing in front of the playground.

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>>18662048
bump because of thugga thugga baby

>movie theater
>work behind the snacks
>see people who are there by themselves
>always freaks out the co-workers
>"what's with this guy? why is he only here by himself?" and other remarks along the lines
>followed by theories that they're pedophiles or serial killers despite literally nothing to suggest that
>semi-regularity with them
>aurora happens
>increased security and vigilance
>now co-workers call the police on lone attendees
>make the police go in the theater, in the middle of the movie, to arrest the guy
>eventually let him go and apologize for not having just cause
>can sort of see how traumatized the guy was
>never see him again
>co-workers do this enough times that the police ask us to stop

People are so fucking judgemental.

link. I have really long hair https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyTLRK9VerKFXHjXdeSPOiw

Why not just tie it in a ponytail?

>>18662062
I would but I think a lot of grooming standards are involved. Plus I haven't seen even anything longer than shaggy hair on a police officer.

Bump?
Anyone?

1) You should definitely see a doctor and explain this with as much detail as you can. It sounds like a panic/anxiety attack, but of course this is interpreting your text throught the internet.
2) Do you have family/friend you can trust to walk you to the office and sign up? They don't have to stay with you in the actual session, but someone to hold you to going through with it. It is really hard but that first step is well worth it. Life is really difficult when you're alone and sometimes you have to rely on yourself. If there isn't anyone nearby at the moment, muster up any courage and go without thinking. You won't regret it. Once you get in, you can also see if they can help with 1) if you indeed are having panic/anxiety attacks

stop watching porn

do you feel worried about getting caught during sex?
erectile dysfunction can be your body thinking it's not safe to fuck, for a variety of reasons like her dad killing you if he finds out or a fucking sabretooth tiger lurking nearby. it's obivousky not related to actual reality but our bodies are wired for a very vicious and dangerous environment.

there's another cause for ED that is rooted in low self-esteem. basically your body assumes you're not the "alpha" of your tribe and that this girl isn't "yours", meaning that if you get caught fucking her you risk getting beaten up by the bigger, scarier monkey that usually fucks her.
again, very archaic and might or might not make sense to you.

>>18662116
cool post anon. I'm w my gf and her friend but her friend is on her period and I'd if a bloody threesome is possible

>>18661883
Dont use the washroom more than once every 4 hours, people will notice that you're a freak

If you're vegan don't even bother going. If you have fantasized about being with either of the hosts romanticly, never make eye contact which will be hard because they are the hosts after all. Dont shake anyones hand during meeting them for the first time if they're eating hand food because 1. They don't have time to wash their hands again before continuing and 2. Your hands will too be greasy from their gross greasy hands. If everyone else is standing and Your e the only one sitting, stand up, this will make you blend in more and disguise the fact you Are either lazy or an antisocial freak. If you know nothing about grilling then don't volunteer to try out the new grill or hold the grill master's tongs while he fetches a beer. Only offer to fetch a beer once through the gathering and do so near the middle end or else you'll be the beer mule the whole time. Don't be too loud but also don't be too white, no one likes either of those people.
And most important, don't have fun because you won't anyway since you felt the need to ask adv on 4chan for a gathering that doesn't even require advice but instead just basic human knowledge.

>>18661905
Of course i intended to say "quite" not "white" but either or works. Seriously.

there is no easy ticket, whatever anyone would have you believe. personally, I would go for the experience of living abroad. it's not like you'd be wasting your time and you could hone your computer skills there too.

Travel. It's one of the luxuries of being young without much priorities attached.

Someone's butthurt.
We get a small sense of joy from it, or sometimes we don't even realize and might even had intentions to follow through but for whatever reason didn't.
Aren't we fickle?

Because some men
>flip out
>get abusive
>try to backpedal
>get even more persistent, thinking that somehow it'll change their minds
>get creepy
>try to guilt trip them
>just don't take it well, plain and simple

It's easier to ignore a guy than it is to say no.

>inb4 not all men do that
No, and not all women do it either.

Nothing you can do. Welcome to the world of dating. Girls are extremely fickle and will stop replying to you for no reason at all. That's why you must keep up the numbers coming in the dating game until you are solidly in a relationship.

Beat it out of her...

No serious why is she your problem? We pair up to be happy and to make each other better. Fuck her and she can ruin someone else's life

>>18661821
Those are all non issues the real issue is she cantold handle being in control of her life and taking responsibility and not being a victim all the time. My girlfriend had the same issue and I can tell you it's a personal choice. She had to choose to be different. All you can do is be patient and hope. If you are patient like I am then one day you will probably be happy together, until then you adapt or you could give up and there's no shame in that

Also chances are you have issues too which is why you feel like she's your only choice. Maybe I'm projecting

Pic related?
If so then it's very ironic.

Self harming is a sad addicting thing, she needs professional help with your support on the side. If you don't feel strong enough to be with her then of course youre well being is your first importance when it comes to things like this. Someone suffering from bad mental health can only start getting better by helping themselves first.

My bf doesn't know what to with me either but I think we've come to the conclusion that I just need him to calm me down and distract me from the problems he's unable to fix in the moment because again it's not his nor your responsibility unless you are the problem (?)

>>18661815
Nope. You could get the best grades imaginable and you'd still be unemployable if you have no social skills.

>>18661848
this pretty much. every major requires you to be able to sell your ideas. if you can't you end up as one of those that graduates with a good education but ends up working in restaurants 5 years later.

>>18661876
So am I really fucked? I love literature but I picked CS to avoid talking in public but it all seems pointless now