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Auditory delusions are not the only criteria in diagnosis of psychotic mental disorders. And even in its own, it must be last longer than 1 month if i remember correctly to be meaningful.

>>17975196

I had no auditory delusions, it was just a feeling of extreme 'embarrassment' from the base of a song.

I remember my father played the song three times when he was in his bedroom. The first time I had a sense of nostalgia since I hadn't heard the song in 9 years. Everything was fine though.

The second time was the next week on my own. I heard the beginning again and It made me slightly uncomfortable for whatever reason. I decided to search up the song with shazam and when I listened to it on my earphones I experienced such a high amount of discomfort and embarrassment at the base of the song that I turned it off.

I wondered if it was because I didn't like the music (cheesy, gay, unpleasant), too loud, weir genre But it wasn't a bad song or a good song at the time. It was Sting (who I didn't know I had a few songs from him at the time)

It was just that experiencing that intense feeling (not good but like a 'mind hijack) from music is something I have never experienced prior to that day and after.

>>17975205

Oh and the third time I was REALLY annoyed because I was tired of hearing the base again and didn't want to get embarrassed by hearing the music constantly so I told him politely to turn it off.

>>17975128
>I have been talking to her less since I've gone off to school because I'm very busy
>how she's the only person who will ever actually like me. She says she thinks I should drop out,
Her reasons are so hard to figure out desu senpai

Also, while it's not extremely likely
>too unrealistic with life
It could also be that you're getting in a huge debt in a major that won't let you find a job afterwards or something else in those lines and she's just genuinely worried about your future

One way or another, the easiest way is to fuck her so well that she melts and starts being dere all the time

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>>17975128
>she wants to be with you so much she shittalks you just to get you to come back
It's love.

>>17975788
Seriously though, if the good times lasted 8 years but the bad ones have only started this autumn, I'd say that it would be a shame to let go of such a good friendship over something like that

Take the pressure off yourself by thinking oof it as just meeting friends. Just because you talk to someone doesn't mean you are down to fuck them.

Apparently you are no stranger to charming so just do that. If you get talking to someone for ages or dance with or kiss them then ask if they wanna go back to yours.

If you are not an autismo it will come surprisingly.naturally if you aren't punching above your league.

>>17975109

getting laids like going hunting. just because you follow all the steps doesn't mean you'll actually catch something. and even if you do, it doesn't mean it will be a quality kill.

so you see, getting laid is a lot like killing women.

Pure luck

Right place, right time theory is legit.

The better looking you are, the better the odds of getting laid. +1 D6 roll for not being a sperg.

Just make sure there's alcohol. In my experience it'll do 90% of the work for ya

-Alcohol, maybe weed if you know the attendants and neighbors don't mind.
Imo. the most important is beer and wine then come the clean spirits and "party-drinks" such as vodka and jager. Energy drinks are next, and whiskey, cognac and fancy stuff should be an afterthought.


-No MDMA or cocaine, attracts the wrong kind of people when it comes to house parties.

-Make some space so people can dance. Just keep in mind that if only 4 people dance in a huge ass room the party will look lame as fuck.

-No boardgames (kek) or activities that require concentration or take longer than 15 minutes to complete. Beerpong or some shit is alright, monopoly is not.

-Make sure you have ashtrays or you'll have a bad time.

-If the party starts to die down do some shit that will keep the guys up. When I had a garden I used to light a bonfire or shoot small fireworks when it was christmas/NYE etc.

>>17975040
This, and girls.

>>17975007

you say you have good social skills

but also say you have no personality?

wut

Connection error, cant post the rest of the text ?

I have no real personality though. I mimic everything I see, sometimes
purposely but most of the times involuntarily. If I spend more than 20
minutes with a person who stutters, I will involuntarily begin to stutter.
I mimic everything, from feelings, to behavior to physical traits. I am
very bad at understanding emotions and most of the time I try to see how to
person reacts so that I could put his reaction into my brain and use it in
the future. I'm also both leftist and a rightist, it all depends on the day
of the week.


I'm very good at social skills, but I'm very antisocial myself. It's all
just a mimic I've learned from someone in the near past.


These things ruin my life. I can't fit into any group of people even though
they think I'm one of them, it is just me acting. I jump from one thing to
another, switch my jobs and acquaintances too often. If I watch a movie
about a mathematician, the next day my math skills will become much better
than the day before and I will change my career views. My brain is genius
in this field. It can boost my skills in such a short time that I can
basically learn anything in just a few hours, as it re-programmes itself.


Most of the people consider me a genius but it's not that I am intelligent,
it's just that I can learn thing fast and imitate absolutely anything.


I tried doing personality tests, but every time I get different results.
What is my chameleon condition called ? How can I have a normal life ? Will
I ever find out who I truly am beneath the surface of fake behavior and
immitation ?

>>17974997

Personally If I'm in a relationship for longer than a year and I'm not particularly in the mood then I might just to get me there faster, but most times I'm focused on the person in front of me.

>>17974997
Is the pic you?
If so a) you're an attention whore but also b) you're hot

>>17975001
just a pic I found on 4chan

>>17974999
what do you think most guys do?

What I find with anything like this is that the less you use, the better. I used to do a lot more, but it made my skin really weird. All I do now is use a facewash to wash my face. After I wash my face, I moisturise, an eye cream around my eyes and a face moisturiser with a drop or two of BioOil mixed in, since I have pretty dry skin. Other than removing my makeup at the end of each day, I do very little and my skin is pretty clear except in the week leading up to my period.

Grill here. I don't wear makeup, so I have a pretty simple routine. My skin is dry as fuck, especially in the winter. Only thing that really works for me is using a mild soap specifically for your face, NEVER acne treatment, acne stuff is very drying. I like CeraVe PM moisturizer, I use it as a daily moisturizer, it's heavier than the daytime one but it works for very dry skin.

Sometimes for spot treatment I'll use a tiny dab of benzoyl peroxide for a bad pimple, let it dry out and wipe it off with a damp tissue. Dry skin always makes my acne terrible so I keep it very, very simple. Seems counter-intuitive but acne soap always makes things worse.

>>17974960
>BioOil
BioOil makes me break out like crazy. In general all products with paraffine make my face go stupid.

Right now I don't do much, I wash my face at night with some delicate soap and then moisturise.
It actually reduced the breakouts and made the dry skin a bit better, but it's still not great. I still get breakouts, even if less terrible ones, and my skin kind of "absorbs" make up. It feels so dry and so uncomfortable after 2-3 hours, most days I don't even bother wearing it.

>>17974961
>benzoyl peroxide
I've read about that. Maybe I'll try.

>Seems counter-intuitive but acne soap always makes things worse.
I noticed. It made my skin so ugly.

>>17974917
Just tell him in your own way you see him as a father figure and that he means a lot to you. Then go from there.

How do I know if he sees me as a son?

>>17974917

Whoa.

I can see you didnt had a dad or any uncles or brothers and you dont know how this things work.

You dont ask for any confirmations from another guy.

If he is like a father to you and you want him to know - when you 2 are chilling and having philosophical talks just tell him that. Dont expect anything in return though.

If he thinks of you as his son or protegee after some time of thinking this over he will tell you.

Male bonding isnt like in the movies where one dude tells this other dude that he is like a brother to him.

Its like this:
dude 1: You are my brother
dude 2: yeah chill, want some more beer?

2 monts passes
dude 2: hey dude 1, I see you are in trouble let me help you out, after all its what brother so don they?
dude 1: yeah thanks brother

>>17974878
Yeah, I've heard of some... But no idea.

Bump, interested as well

>>17974878
Bump

>>17974878
Speed reading is almost always some tricks for skimming. They get you from one corner of the page to the other, but not with much absorption or understanding. They might be useful for casual reading, like of magazines - but then the whole point of casual reading is to fill up time, so you don't want to speed up.

What you are looking for is efficient reading - the ability to read at whatever speed and to get most of the meat out of it without having to keep going back. Google "study skills" and "efficient reading"

It is hilarious
But just ask her why she began to do this shit

>>17974854
Just go, in a soft voice, na na na na na naa naa na thunder

>>17974854
This happens to me sometimes when I go more than 48 hours without listening to AC/DC. Thrown on Back in Black in the background every couple days or so and you'll be fine.

>>17974853
have sex you pussy

>>17974857
Even if I do it. It won't fix it. I'd just get attached to the girl. Either that or she does. Flings are just too messy in the lesbian scene.

>>17974853
I'll fuck you whenever you need to do some drawings, OP. Where are you from? We can keep it a secret from your gf too, no strings attached.

Just tell them it's over. I don't think they'll insists on the reason. If it's friends talk about it with them they are your best support

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Fuck up her life

it sounds like you're already doing the right thing. Block her and stay away from all her social media, hurting her won't do you any good in the long run homie. I'm sure it hurts but give it some time-one day you won't even remember her face.

get a steady job, something that gives you money every month
then move in

getting payed by everything is very comfy
and he will be prince charming at the start
but you are 2 different ppl, no matter how much you love eachother
and you will have differences
and he will rightfully think he pays for everything, he has the final say
and you will resent him for it

just a bit of money so you arent completely dependant on him

He's offering this to you because he cares about you and wants you to be safe and happy. Don't reject it out of pride or because you think you'll be inconveniencing him. He's reaching out, you need to trust him enough to take his help. Especially if you think you see a future with him: how can you build a future with someone if you push them away when they try to do something to help you? Don't be foolish.

You seem like a very empathetic person so there is no doubt in my mind that if you move in with him you will understand what you can do to not be a burden. Keep your belongings and living area neat, be considerate to the roommate, and since you're not contributing to rent, see if there are other ways you can help out with keeping the apartment clean, taking care of chores, etc.

Only been dating a year? I wouldn't move in together. I get it's for convenience, but it's like the same principle of getting a joint bank account with or marrying someone after only a year.

Bump, any help?

>>17974754

it's not going to workout

why?

you spent all this time mentally masterbating over her

blowing her up into this big deal where you need to find the magical thing to say

she doesn't want this

she wants a guy whom is comfortable and feels entitled to talk to her without making it a big deal

she should be the one second guessing herself
, struggling what to say to you

and going on

4chan or yahoo answers posting questions like these

with that being said, start getting experience with girls in general

that is how you start becoming good with girls

by meeting lots of them

then you'll know exactly how to get her
but at the point you won't even care because you'll likely will have met another girl by then

>>17974754
That's a tough one. Ask her about something from your class that you don't get, even if you get it. You have to break the ice with her before you do anything, you have to get to know her at least a little bit. At least that's what I think. Do you even know if she has a boyfriend? Where do you go to school just out of curiosity

>>17974666
That's a funny story, Satan. Maybe it's your demonic hell energy or something?

>>17974675
I have no idea what this means. Is this an /adv/ inside joke?

>>17974702
You got 666 trips