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Going to make this as simple as possible:
-Had a fling with a girl over the summer
-She had a boyfriend she didn't want to be with anymore
-I caught feelings
-Things fizzled out
-I still think about her all the time
-Start dating another girl in November to help ease the pain
-Things fizzle out after a month because I half ass the entire thing because my head isn't in it, because obviously I'm thinking of the first girl
-I tell first girl how I feel
-She says she's sorry she dropped off the face of the earth, she's been a basket case the last few months
-Says she's still down to hangout sometime
-I'm not holding my breath, I think she just doesn't want to tell me to fuck off and hurt me
-I come to find out the second girl still wants to be with me
-I'm considering getting back together with her but I'm reluctant because I'm faced with the "What if..." of restarting things with the first girl
What do I do? Do I just go with the second girl? I did like her. Just not as much.
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Dude take the first girl up on her offer to hang out. Figure out what's up with her. If it's a no go, go for the second girl.
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Guess I'm just worried about coming across as clingy or desperate. I'm not either of those things, but when you like someone you like someone. She was exciting and fun. I just don't know how to initiate it in a way that won't look fucking pathetic.
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>>17977117
THE FIRST GIRL SAID SHE HAS BEEN A BASKET CASE. Woman don't even make it difficult to decipher if they are crazy as fuck or not. Just drop her and focus on the girl that is actually interested in you
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>tfw girl you're stalking on twitter now has a boyfriend
Is there a more soul crushing feel? What's the best way to circumvent this depredation?
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>>17977067
Kill yourself immediately.
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A nice glass of scotch and getting off Twitter.
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>>17977067
stop stalking people on twitter you fucking creep
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I'm a girl and I really want to have lesbian sex. I have a boyfriend and I've talked to him about this with him. He says its fine, he doesn't need to watch/participate. I mean obviously he'd like to but he says he is okay with me doing my own thing once.
So how the heck do I go about this? I feel like finding someone out in public wont really work, so obviously finding someone online is my option. I just don't know what to put, or what app/site to use. I feel like if I put "looking for only casual hookups" its going to scare people away. I should probably freaking know how girls work considering I am one but I'm pretty clueless on what the best way is to go about this.
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>>17977040
bump because I'm in the same position and curious as well.
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I don't really think your boyfriends are fine with it
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>>17977040
Enjoy burning in hell, lesbian piece of shit.
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A couple years ago, I turned my step-brother in for raping his ex-girlfriend.
My step-brother was an addict and substance abuser. His father was and remains a recovering alcoholic. My brother's problems with substances started at twelve, and progressively got worse. He graduated from marijuana, to alcohol, and into pills before he was a sophomore in high school.
I don't know the cultural acceptance here on /adv/, however my brother was smoking cannabis frequently, possibly daily from age 12 to 13. We came from money, and we were heavily neglected by our parents. My brother was unable to quit smoking marijuana or stop using painkillers until he turned 19.
When he was 19, he sobered up at the demands of my parents for 1 year. Soon after, he met his soon to be ex, and fell into heavy drinking. After the broke up (They dated 8 months, his first long term relationship) he began heavily cannabis, pills, and jumped to stealing from family to support her addiction.
This woman was a hell spawn. She encouraged my brothers behaviors, and told him that his sobriety was a problem. After they broke up, my brother was able to get off opiates, but was drinking almost every day.
My brother sobered up, and stayed clean for six months, went to AA, and got help. This cunt made contact with my brother again, and further pushed herself on my brother. On my brothers birthday, he met with her at a hotel room, and raped her. He beat her, and penetrated her multiple times, she spent time in the hospital. At the time my brother was using steroids. I mean he was a mess.
My brother told me the intimate details of the case. My brother was accepted into MSU, but his drug use problems continued. He continued drinking, smoking, and abusing adderall, while living in Lansing.
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I turned my brother in, and gave them all the information. He is now a convicted sex offender with two 4th degree sexual misconduct charges. He's not a felon, and he's on probation for the next five years. He is on the registry, however if he finishes his probation spot on, he'll have a hearing where he can petition to get off the registry.
I have a hard time sleeping at night. I know I did the right thing, but I feel I ruined his life. I feel that I failed to protect him growing up, even though the two of us were both greatly emotionally abused and neglected. I feel if I did not turn him in, he would not ever be sober, and would die. His addiction to xanax, opiates, and drinking nearly killed him a couple times.
My family has disowned me for turning him in. They never would send him to rehab, or get him the help that he needed, however they had no problem filling his pockets with cash, and giving him the keys to a new car. Instead of parenting him and teaching him discipline they just told him too stop, and rarely went further.
I feel guilt because I feel that I was the nail in his coffin, he will be eternally fucked because I put him in jail, and made him into a registered sex offender. I don't know how to address these feeling or what to think. I haven't spoken with anyone in this detail about this since the incident, and I want to go help him, but I know he or my family will not want to hear it.
Can someone please help or guide me finding some form of personal absolution.
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>>17977041
you are a terrible person
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Wtf no, you're not terrible. He raped someone and nobody could help as much as the hrlp he is going to get in prison.
He committed a crime. You didn't turn him. He did it yo himsrlf and now have to accept the consequences of his addictions.
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Who here has traveled to Thailand?
More specifically, who here has traveled to Thailand... for companionship? I really want to go and have some fun on this rock before I die. I haven't been laid in years, and I find thai women very attractive.
I've never traveled abroad, and I'd be going solo as none of my friends are in a position to join me. Please share your experiences with me, I really want this trip to be enjoyable! I have a couple general questions... if not stupid ones, please bear with me.
>20+ hour plane trip
How tolerable is this in coach? Business class is really expensive...
>Guest friendly hotels
Are there any nice ones that would allow you to bring a "friend" you've met (regardless of what they're wearing) along with you? Or are hotels mostly "family friendly" and don't allow you to bring visitors back to your room? Are hotels that aren't family friendly really safe to stay in?
>Currency... stupid question...
I'm assuming you either bring your own cash and stash it in a safe in your hotel room, or have it wired to somewhere like http://www.bangkokbank.com/? Anyone have experience with this?
>Safest way to enjoy companionship in Thailand?
I see so many tourists in photos along the stretch of Soi Cowboy, and I would imagine this must be fairly close to where Tourists are lodging. If you're seeking companionship (paid or otherwise) wouldn't there be places to help facilitate the most comfortable, safe, experience possible? I don't think there'd be many returning visitors if they were all getting mugged and murdered daily.
http://time.com/4250811/travel-safety/
>Ladyboys...
Not interested, but have you run into this problem? Do you take note of the 10s and shoot for an 8 just to be safe?
I know I'm missing a bunch of crucial stuff, but its friday after a long week.. I'm staring at snowbanks, and I'm daydreaming of that picture on the left. Please help me fill in the blanks so I can leave this winter wasteland!
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> not going just for tbe 10/10 boipucci
Get a load of this faggot!
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Remember you are going somewhere to fuck their bitches because your government printed money and got their economic position that lets you do it. You have to expect a little risk and conflict because of that.
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>>17976989
Objectively, none of these women are attractive
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I'm 23, somewhat short and got a young face, I feel like I'd be perfect fetish bait for older women into younger guys. I also happen to really be into older women.
Any suggestions on a good way to meet them? For sex, not a relationship.
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>>17976975
tinder. bars.
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>>17976980
Tinder never works, and they added all that paywall bullshit, plus I've never seen a woman over 30 on there.
Bars sound like a good waste of time and money.
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>>17976975
i'd like to know as well.
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whats the consensus on asking out a college teacher?
there's a college teacher I met today who I'm taking her class, she seems like she's 25 or probably even younger, and she's absolutely cute.
is asking out a teacher you have a class with generally frowned upon? should I wait until I no longer have her class?
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>>17976962
She can't date you because it's a conflict of interest and she can be fired
Shit dude, just flirt with her and wait until you pass
Then fuck her brains out
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>>17976984
welp there goes that.
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>>17976994
Yeah dude, but it's just a bit of patience
Remember that she's an academic type
Total loser
Studied all the time
If she's not in a relationship, she's desperate for one
Prime opportunity
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>be reasonably attractive, just shy of an 8/10, 21 male
>meet cute girl in college who sits next to me in class (18 year old, looks like pic related, but brunette)
>near the end of the semester finally work up the courage to grab her phone number and organize a date.
>first date goes well, eat at a burger and beer place; she laughs at all my jokes, knows more memes than me
>watch movie afterwards, mild flirting here and there
>puss out and never get physical with her, don't hold her shoulder or hand, no kiss at the end after I drop her off, just a hug as we both awkwardly leave
>she texts me 15 mins later saying she enjoyed spending time with me
>been texting every day since the date
>now it's stopped to one or two, then nothing
>find out she's super popular online, hundreds of thousands of followers
>second date coming up in two days
>sushi place that's nice, just a booth for the two of us
>what the fuck am I supposed to do, this will be my second date, EVER!
>I eventually want to have a girlfriend boyfriend relationship with her, but google says sex first?
>experienced dating anons, what would you do in my shoes? What "moves" should I do this second time around?
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>>17976939
do what you should've done on the first date. for fuck's sake don't go into sex on your 2nd date.
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>>17976947
>"what your supposed to do"
Care to elaborate? I wasn't getting physical because I didn't want to come off as desperate or creepy
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Shameless self bump >.>
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I get really anxious over climate change. 2017-01-21 04:48:29 Post No.17976934
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I get really anxious over climate change.
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So I know I sound like a total pussy, Climate Change really scares the shit outta me and whenever I hear about it I always get really anxious and depressed.
I worry about the acidification of the ocean and the deaths of millions upon millions of animal species and how shitty life probably will be for humans in 50 years and there's nothing we can do. The government of The US isn't going to do anything about it for the next four years and will actively continue/reverse the progress we've made.
Does anyone know what to do? Are my fears valid?
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Very valid feelings. I kind of want to move up to Oregon and buy a big ass blot of land, get some solar panels, rain barrels, and plant some crops. That way you can live fat when it all falls down.
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>>17976946
>implying OP can take care of xerxeself
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>>17976934
You'll literally be dead before things really change
Look, climate change (small letters) is real. It's happening. It's always happening. It literally cannot ever be not happening
We're coming out of an ice age, still even now.
Things will be getting warmer.
Humans may have made things 10X faster, but you know what? That's still a 1000 years till change is noticeable.
The biggest change in the last 100 years is, get this, less than 2 degrees Celsius.
You'll be dead before things really change
The big drama now is just virtue signally.
Look at me. I care about the future. If you don't ,well you're FUCKING KILLING EVERYONE
The extreme nature only makes the virtue signaller all the more virtuous
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What pic number should i put my shirtless pic on tinder? 2017-01-21 04:34:04 Post No.17976899
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What pic number should i put my shirtless pic on tinder?
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Im not sure if it should be like the first or the second pic on my profile.
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>>17976899
Or if i should just let the "smart photos" thing check. I feel like that might make me muss some matches though
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>>17976899
>shirtless pic on tinder
Oh God, please tell me you're in shape.
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>>17976899
second
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I can't do a uni assignment, enjoy movies, games, etc without obsessing over how long they take. I can't stop focusing on having them over and done with than actually putting effort in to enjoy it. what do?
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>>17976865
stop to smell the flowers.
if you need to, put a reminder down. i write things like 'dont forget' on my hand. you could write 'enjoy yourself'. and everytime you see it you stop, take a deep breath, and enjoy the moment.
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Sounds like a case of mild OCD to me. I think sometimes our brain just has to focus on something to worry about.
Shit sucks, just have to get on with it and try not to worry. If it's any consolation, if it wasn't that then you'd probably be thinking about some other bullshit.
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>>17976882
edit: of course I mean OCD bullshit, not constructive thoughts. Good luck.
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Can't distinguish between reality and dreams 2017-01-21 04:18:14 Post No.17976862
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Can't distinguish between reality and dreams
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>get vivid but boring and realistic dreams
>keep mixing them up with stuff that happened in real life
It's been happening more lately. I didn't mention to my friend that I got a new job because I sore I told him already. I had a dream one night where we got a new dog that night and I came downstairs expecting dog
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>>17976862
Stop smoking weed.
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Learn reality checks
Counting your fingers is good
Reading is ok
You can't do either in a dream. make a habit of doing it while awake and then you can reality check to confirm dreams to be dreams.
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>>17976862
I'm going thru the same thing, wtf is this all about? I coulda swore I did things, or ppl said certain things. The other day I was talking to a girl and I fell asleep texting her, and I coulda swore she told me to go talk to other girls, me assuming she had a guilty conscious, I blew up on her the next morning, to soon realize she didn't even say that, it was all a dream. Shits fucked. I live a boring life btw... Am I going insane?
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Hey guys, I live in Brazil, my aunt in Canada told me to choose a gift up to 100 canadian dollars. So i wanted her to bring me a vape.
Things you should know:
I want a vape to smoke weed, mainly
I want something portable
I don't really know much about e-cigs
So, what vape should I get? Where in Canada? (She lives in Toronto but she can order online too) Also, teach me more about vapes to help me make a good decision
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Normal vapes and vapes used for weed are two completely different things.
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https://quitsmokingcommunity.org/vaporizers/
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>>17977693
And you don't want a 100 dollar weed vape
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My gf wants meet up with her parents soon. How do I make a good impression and not fuck up?
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>step 1: be yourself
>step 2: hope you are not a faggot
>step 3: ?????
>step 4: Profit!
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bUrself
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>>17976805
b urslef, m80
Unless you're a fag/idiot/nigger/wigger/beta, in which case you should kys
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I was recently falsely accused of sexual assault at the institution I attend (long story short, everything we did was consensual with physical evidence to back it up, they still filed it afterwards to I presume not get ostracized by their friend group). I've gotten through the whole process and I was found not responsible, and knowing that this is in their behavior, I decided to file a complaint with my Title IX coordinator for non-compliance with college officials.
However, after doing this, I feel a tremendous sense of guilt and paranoia, fearing that other people are gonna close-mindedly believe "oh he raped somebody and got away with it," along with knowing the stress they are going to deal with not knowing if they will be expelled or not first hand.
Basically, even though my friends have told me I did the right thing by filing a complaint, I still feel really guilty or that I'm bullying somebody. How do I get rid of this feeling?
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You don't get rid of feelings, you manage them in a healthy way. You feel guilty. That sucks. You know logically you've done nothing wrong. The real heart of the matter is that you worry what others think. In a way that's trying to control others. Controlling others is impossible and a waste of energy anon. You can control/manage your own thoughts and response to your feelings. It should be enough you know what you did was right for you. You took care of yourself. Be proud of that.
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>>17976799
I just understand the impact it may have on her friends and family, and the idea of somebody else having to go through what I had to just kills me.
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>>17976860
That impact is very real yes, yet it's not your responsibility. That's on her from falsely accusing her. Let them deal things. They'll be fine.