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do all guys think about other women during sex?

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>>17974997

Personally If I'm in a relationship for longer than a year and I'm not particularly in the mood then I might just to get me there faster, but most times I'm focused on the person in front of me.
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>>17974997
Is the pic you?
If so a) you're an attention whore but also b) you're hot
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>>17975001
just a pic I found on 4chan

>>17974999
what do you think most guys do?
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>>17975005

I have no idea, probably something similar depending on how into the girl they are. I would say in a majority of long term relationships it would happen on occasion. I think the worst culprit for this would be monotony, so if you change up positions, technique, location or anything like that they will be too focused on the present to start fantasising about other girls.
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>>17975009
fair enough
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Nope, if I'm having sex it means I'm dating that particular woman, so my focus is entirely on her.
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>>17975013

Until the 500th time where your brain wanders to fucking your celebrity crush, or that cute girl you saw the other day. It's harmless.
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>>17975024
what?
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>>17975025

The focus is on the girl you're with until it gets stale and repetitive..
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In a long term relationship, I would say it's very common to think about someone else while you're having sex. I would imagine women do it too.

I've been with my partner for years, I still love her but sometimes I like to imagine I'm fucking a different person, especially if I'm not really in the mood and she wants sex.

In those times, I usually roll her over and fuck her from behind so it's easier to pretend she's a different person. Most times I'm thinking about women I work with.

It's totally harmless, no worse than having sex dreams about someone.
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>>17974997
I think about Eleanor Roosevelt.
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>>17975009
This
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>>17974997
I think the better question is, about women they fantasize when they masturbate? that should ramp up insecurities further
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not if they're gay. also I've been in a relationship for 6 years and I always think about other girls.
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Of course they do. Moe cannot exist in the 3D form.
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I'll fuck you OP it's been 10 years since I've gotten laid. I'll promise to think only about you. But you have to drink my nut out of a glass.
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>>17974997
>>17974997
You probably should've put 'most guys' instead of 'all guys' because there are always outliers to every situation.
For me, it depends. The last girl I dated before my wife was really fat. I loved her personality, we had a lot in common, etc.
And while she had a beautiful face, I was not attracted to her body at all. So yes, I did.
Now onto my wife. She's my ideal woman physically speaking (emotionally, personality and humor wise etc too, but that's not the point) so no, I don't think about other women when I have sex with her, because she's a 10/10 and I have no reason to.
So not only does it depend on the guy, but the girl too and how attractive he finds her.
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Sometimes, especially if it's going on too long and I need to hurry up and finish

When I'm jerking of 99% of the time it's not to my SO though
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>>17975036
I can agree with this to some point, however it doesn't happen to me because my lady and I are into sadomasochism (not the gross DD/LG bullshit tho) so it's always exciting.
But yeah if you have vanilla or regularly vanilla, same old sex every time I could deff see a lot of guys getting bored. I could see the women getting bored too.
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>>17975320
how do you have erection for having sex with a girl that is not attractive to you?
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>17975324
Not that guy, but you'd be surprised, I can manage to get an erection even if I'm looking at the mirror.
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>>17975328
>>17975324
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Do it all the time. Imagine a girl who is of similar proportions, and bang your there.
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If your in a relationship and fantasizing about other women you need to grow some balls admit you fucked up and move on.
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>>17974997
Not me..
Remember
- not all men are straight
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>>17975375
>If your in a relationship and fantasizing about other women you need to grow some balls admit you fucked up

what
fantasizing is harmless
as long as I dont act on it
I mean I'm a healthy guy, and there are many attractive young girls at my school who are very friendly etc I think about bending them over and fucking their brains out but it's not like I would actually do that, and it's not like there's any romance involved in the case we accidentally do it.
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>>17974997
Nah, I just focus on the pussy that I fuck at that moment.
The imagination can go wild when masturbating, though.
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>>17975024
Right
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>been in relationships for 5 years
>don't watch porn
>almost never masturbate
>when I do I fantasize about my SO to get off
>have never thought about anything but him during sex

Why can't guys be like this?
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I don't and I've actually tried, I just lack the imagination and am a very visual person.

I even have trouble getting off when having sex without the lights on.
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I lack too much imagination, even when I fap I focus on the feelings more than the imaginary setup. So no, i don't think about something else.
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Depends on the mood and if she is putting the work in. I'm more experienced than my partner but sometimes she just doesn't know what I want and if she has already cum I'll think about someone else so I can finish cause if I don't she gets bummed out. Which is quite sweet tbf. pic related.
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I mean if you ask me if you have to do this then something may be wrong with the relationship. Not being able to enjoy intimacy with a person is a pretty fucking big red flag man.
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>>17975745
same fucking hell.

if i start fantasizing about another person it means i'm loosing my love for them
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>>17975745
I don't know but it's sad.
BF can only get aroused if he watches porn beforehand. I'm not even ugly. Guys are sexually weak.
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>>17976153
Yeah he needs to cut down that is...really sad.
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>>17975745
>>17976132
Lol. The fuck is it any of your business whats in my head when I fuck you, or at any point in time? You sound like posessive thots, God help any poor man who gets involved with you.
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>>17976163
See this is what I mean
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>>17976153
That's not normal, anon..
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>>17976153
He should consider NoFap. It's really great, boost confidence, drive and general energy. Masturbation is healthy and a fantasy life is totally fine but he should absolutely not need porn when he is with another person. (Just for emphasis: I don't mean you are doing anything wrong)
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>>17975745
that's the kind of men you like or the kind of men that likes you. what can we do?
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>>17976224
wat
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No.
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>>17975317
underrated
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>>17976153
>""""""I'm not even ugly""""""""
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>>17974997
>44 replies
>ctrl+f "yes"
>0 results
Guess we've just found 44 men who are either liars or who's gf's are watching them post.
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I do, but I wouldn't want it to trigger anyone's inferiority complex.

here's an example

>I'm having a hard day
>I really love my gf and she's doing great in bed, but I am just not feeling it
>I think of fucking a three armed tentacle girl or my ex in the face in order to cum
>everyone involved is happy

that's pretty win win and not anyone's fault. just because someone isn't ready to orgasm doesn't mean that you are not very attractive to them and good in bed. everyone has their down days.

the idea "my partner thought of someone else in bed so I must be unattractive to them or bad at sex" is kind of an insecure leap
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