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If you're having suicidal thoughts, see a therapist ASAP. You might want to look up Dysthymia in the mean time, you fit several of the symptoms.

>>17974302
I was seeing one but it never really helped much.

I'm laid off right now with no health insurance so I can't afford to go back.

I'm reading up on Dysthymia right now, thanks

>>17974287
When I felt my absolute most depressed I felt like my body had died and my brain just hadn't realized it. Like if the power steering goes out on your car. You can still turn the wheel, but it's a billion times harder. I felt like I was piloting around this big lump of dead flesh and having to pretend I was okay.

Everything you said sounds like straight up depression plus a little anxiety. I went to a therapist for about six months, shopped around with meds with my doctor, and can happily say I'm a functioning human being bout 95% of the time. You should definitely see somebody

Did she have sores? If she did have sores then she had an active infecetion and her rate of transmission is incredibly high. If she didn't have any, then its incredibly low. Just get a fucking test if youre worried. I'd say if its been this long, youre probably good.

>>17974288
She didn't have any sores. I'm planning on getting a test soon. The only reason I haven't already is because I heard that for the tests to be conclusive it's best to wait for over 4 weeks (which it's been much longer than)

>>17974284
When I got herpes, small symptoms showed up pretty much immediately, and was full blown signs herpes a week later. Fuck you Ron.

Anyway, my new boyfriend is clean. We have sex everytime without a condom and he's still herpes-free (4 years now). We just avoid sexual activity whenever I'm itchy down there or when I feel like its acting up.

Yes, do wait a while before taking the herpes test so the results can be conclusive.

I also heard its easier for girls to get herpes from guys than vice versa. Something about getting cuts in the vaginal area during sex that allows easier transmission.

>>17974235
bump

>>17974235
Who knows why she moved on

But you should too

>>17974331
Move on? but I was already half-way done with my shrine of her.

Seriously though, I'm more or less over it, I just thought this was a thing but I guess not. There's a girl I like a lot more who's almost the polar opposite of me personality wise and I thought there was correlation with all of this.

"I hate to kick you out, but I got stuff to do."

take off your pants and start jacking it. if he says anything scream and ask him where he came from. call him a sneaky pervert. DO NOT STOP JACKING IT.

>>17974124

you need to man up op

that mooch is running all over you and you don't have the nerve to tell him to fuck off

i'm guessing this is also a problem in the rest of your life

how to fix ? not sure

bampu

>>17974117
What is she fat?

>>17974117
Is she fat or just ugly?

Are you okay with her being insecure and clingy? Cause if you're just tolerating it now, you'll become smothered/annoyed by it later. If so, I'd cut your losses

>>17974086
Bump

>>17974086
Bump.

>>17974086
Probably due to seeing it so much you're becoming more desensitized to it. It's not that you don't think it's fucked up, just that you've seen it before. It's not as gut-churning or anger inducing as it was before because it's not as much of a shock to you that it happens. It's the same as not laughing as much at a joke even if it's still funny, or not crying at funerals even if they are sad. It's not a big deal. A lot of people display this and it's not really a problem.

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It's not weird. It is a little odd if you marry, but when it comes to romance age differences aren't weird.

>>17974045

+5 on you isn't that much but likely she is way more mature than you are & wrapping you around her little finger

this is fine for now but in a few years you too will mature & realize either shes been playing you for a fool or she really is a nice girl

>>17974122
idk I don't want to sound like a walking meme but I've been told I genuinely look and act like I'm around 24-25. And when I met this girl I thought she was ~22 because she didn't act like a 26 year old. So I figure it averages out and is perfect.

She's far too innocent to be manipulating anyone, especially me.

>>17974040
cont.
>they were literally bullying my mom, even though she was doing everything
>without her we'd definitely be dead, or in an orphanage
>we have rich family but they're all fucking jews
>by rich I mean billionaires
>they stole my grandmother's land in Iran, sold it for millions, didn't give her a dime
>mom becomes depressed
>she still tries super hard to give us a good life
She was really pushing this. We would've been much better disciplined. It's the only thing I'd agree with my dad on.
>slowly, yet surely, she fails
>skip to 2016
>we're in ruins
>thanks to trudeaufag, Hydro bills are rising by like 50-100$ every year
>i became super depressed
>grades dropped from a mediocre B to C+/C-
>failed science by 1%, mostly thanks to an asshole teacher who kept me beside the autistic kid in the corner of the room, apparently hated all the persians in the school
>luckily I got the credits for science anyways
>I'd ask for help, he'd literally just chuckle and move along, never answering a single question I asked
>Of course, through these years of struggle I barely ever got to focus on my musical talents
>My singing got cut out thanks to the braces and expanders I got in 2015, couldn't practice much
>My piano skills were at a flatline thanks to inability to afford classes
>My little bit of artistic still also got cut out because couldn't afford classes
And I was left talentless.
I can still sing, but I only really do it in the shower. It sounds good, everyone I know says it's good too, but I don't think it'll get me there.
I'm barely motivated enough to actually get a job either. I don't have many friends, and I live in what is possibly the shittiest place to actually make decent caring friends.

I have only one other talent; Writing. Every poetry unit I have done ended with me getting 100% A's on my assignments. I'm a really good writer. Should I into writing? Or suck it up, get a shit job, and live a shit life?

>>17974040

Okay, everything that happened in your past doesn't. fucking. matter. Time is linear, you only move in one direction, forward.

Second, ask yourself what you want out of life. Really ask yourself. Then come up with a plan to get there.

And you keep talking about "talents." Talent doesn't exist. Hard work exists. If your "talent" was cut short by not being able to get lessons, how can you say you're more talented than some schmuck who did get lessons? You can't. It comes down to skill and hard work.

>>17974040

And, let me give you a REAL big piece of advice, referring to someone that you're trying to get something from as a "loser" isn't going to get yourself very far in life.

Which, it apparently looks like despite your privileges you haven't gotten very far. So there is that also.

>>17973993
"I want you as my fall back while I bounce from Chad to Chad

OP here. This is a dude, I'm a chick. If that changes anything for you.

I can give more background if necessary.

he wants to date/see/fuck other women but doesn't want you to see anyone else but him

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>>17973976

Perhaps your computer or phone is infected?

>>17973979
I swear it happened. I'm not imaging things.

>>17973981
I'm pretty careful and was upgrading a day prior to a fresh *nix distro (debian). Plus the fact that someone is at the same on 4chan on the same thread...mh.

>>17973965
Perhaps find a partner that will show you some loving intimacy instead of what you were forced to experience at a young age
Regardless of traumatic experiences such as this, if you can connect with someone in this sense and have a truly romantic and pleasurable experience, you will start to remove these chains and feel like a romantic bliss/euphoria
That's what I think anyways, love conquers all!

I had attempts of rape as a kid. Ruined my life. Around that same age too. Eventually I told my mom, I wrote her a letter about what happened and handed it to her. She was still dating the guy who did it too, and continued dating him after I told her, which only made my life even more shit. Life went on, eventually it got to the point where either he had to go, or i did. And my mom broke up with him.

Life goes on, and on.

>would it be in my best interest to an hero?
yeah, probably. unless you're lying about the symptoms and that you've been seeing professionals for years you should just give up and die

>>17973931
>needs advice on how to stick with someone who she gets along with and not go for guys who treat her like crap

1/10 since I replied

It's only one year of difference...Why would it even affect anything?

Why would you do that during high school, to begin with?

Also, do you really need an answer? How thick-skinned are you?

>>17973927
kill her (see:poison her stash), adopt your siblings, inherit house
youre welcome

>>17973943
Wild but she lives in subsidized housing and I wouldn't be inheriting anything as she doesn't have a will and I have about 4 other siblings (I am the oldest however.)

>>17973943
Plus I don't particularly want to have my mothers blood on my hands as I'm kinda concerned with universal karma.

>>17973593
What are your hobbies?

>>17973631
Guitar, video games, but I don't like those as much as I used to

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>>17973647
I'm quitting my job, I'm constantly stressed because of it.
I don't have enough time for myself, I work all fucking day.
Work, sleep, repeat.
I'm tired, I can't concentrate, or even hold information at this point.

The pay was excellent, I can't deny that, I bought all the stuff I needed.
But I just can't keep doing this.
There's a little part of me that is scared/ sad because I don't know what to do after I quit, if I'll ever find another job.
But I just want to Leave that place, take a deep breath and just relax, do the stuff I enjoy.

Hopefully die soon...

>>17973515

Both strains could give you paranoia. Sativa is has a greater liklihood to do so.

it's pretty hit and miss from person to person as far as I know. Leafly's a pretty good resource re: weed effects tho. And the above poster is right; indicas (in my experience) are far less likely to cause paranoia/anxiety.

If you get a weed with high cbd you're less likely to be paranoid.

Also just take it really easy, don't smoke much and slowly build your tolerance.