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Keep fighting. All struggles seem futile at first. But it will all pay off in the end

>>17971234
Considering you likely weren't involved until you found out who Bernie Sanders was in your community college political science class, I'd say there's no harm in forgetting about politics for the time being.

I'm gay, half Afghan and half Mexican, but I'm not too scared. I'm mostly worried about welfare cuts and insurance stuff bc I'm poor. I think all the racist stuff is kinda overblown. Clinton was all about deporting Mexicans and bombing muslims too, lol.

What in particular are you worried about? Do some research on the specifics of his policies and the likelihood of him actually implementing them. He's gonna do some bad shit but there is also a lot of fearmongering going on.

You can't get to her physically but now you have the chance to hurt her emotionally.

Why complain?
At least you know you're also in for a wild ride.
If she isn't still fucking those dudes then fuck em.
Get you sum.

>>17971142

everyone wants a girl to be wild, but only with them. but the men who expect this are never anything special themselves. they can do whatever they please, but expect every girl they date to find him to be the only one they do that with.

that being said, its a really different situation when your own friends have done that to her.

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Smoke weed

>>17969980
I do, occasionally. It doesn't help.

>>17969971

Unless you're an abo you can just tell yourself to stop being such a hypocrite and it will pass with time.

Any pics of this chick? I'd love to join in on that double damage thiccfest. Girls are normally more comfortable around eachother.

Where are y'all from?

Predator is a cool series, go for it

>>17967179
Not shagging two obviously experimenting fat chicks and bailing.

Never gonna make it.

>>17954358

I'm late 20's been single for a really long time. It really sucks not being able to give/receive any affection. I'm not bitter or anything I know it's my own fault I'm like this. I'm not really attractive in any way, I'm very negative and unhappy, not exactly good looking. I sort of accepted long ago I'm going to be like this for the rest of my life so I should get used to it. But it's a very hard thing to deal with. I'd just to hear something good about myself from some one at least, I find it hard to understand why the few people who talk to me do so, they think I'm funny I guess but I only try and be funny as I think I have no real value outside of being a clown

I'm 25, successful, and I've been told by 2 of my female friends that's im decently attractive, but even still I don't FEEL desirable. because of this, I've never had a girlfriend.

As far as the future goes, I anticipate more lonliness. Granted that feeling is so normal now it's almost "comfortable".

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>24
>Pic related

Usual courtship.

>>17975073
Thanks for answering

>>17975059
>I dislike courtship and consider it to be nonsense

Your previous paragraph was about how you're too emotional to take it in the ass without someone courting you beforehand. Make up your mind faggot.

>>17975057

Jesus christ, have you been in a relationship before? It just sounds like you enjoyed the attention a lot, it was a month dude just move on.

You were never in love with her, she just made you happy because it felt real for a moment.

>>17975061
yes i have

i know it's wrong

i still feel this way

>>17975063

You have closure, she told you she never felt that way about you. Just remove evidence of her, block her etc and try your best to move on. You'll feel the same about another girl down the track.

>so I could go to her FB page and check up on her from time to time.

you can start by cutting that shit out

you cant' control your thoughts
because they're influenced by your feelings

so the solution is to disengage from the feelings by accepting them and letting it go

it really is that simple

anything else is mental masturbation and seeking a way to fuel your self pity

>>17974995
>seeking a way to fuel your self pity

You know, now that I think about it maybe you're right. It's not like I talk to anyone about it though, so maybe not? I just find myself thinking about the situation that happened between us from time to time and I think it's fucked that I haven't completely gotten over it by now. I'm glad it's over but sometimes I get the stupid retarded thought to message her on that alternate account

>>17974998

> It's not like I talk to anyone about it though, so maybe not?

you're talking to yourself about it over and over for the past year and a half

>and I think it's fucked that I haven't completely gotten over it by now.

the only way to get over it is to stop engaging these feelings and let them go, people spend decades hung up and depressed about something because they continue to hold on to it
by trying to justify what it means
why it isn't fair
how things could have been etc

all of that shit is just fuel for the drama which literally drains you

>get the stupid retarded thought to message her on that alternate account

don't do this

messaging her because you want to bring fun and positivity in her life is fine

messaging her because you want her to make you feel better about what happened and sponge good emotions off her is not

be honest with yourself
which is it?

This is like saying you didn't drink the kool aid at some cult suicide party and you still found the supreme Egyptian overlord.

>>17974898
which is why I'm trying to find out if there is even a name for this sort of thing or at least an uncommon occurrence in former suicide people

>>17974902
I have no idea dude, that is fucking insane. Glad you're happy now though

Usually with about 6ft or strong rope.

>>17974882
Think of something else? Instead of making an entire thread about it? Try not being retarded?

>>17974882
Embrace it whole heartedly

How old are you?

I'm in my 20's

Assuming you are male. It seems like you're washing your face too much at one time. I got rid of my acne by washing my face whenever it felt overly oily. If I was at work and it felt oily, I'd wash my face a lunch or on my breaks. Also, I never used any face washes with those beads in it. Too abrasive. I used a moisturizer that is incredibly light.

Bump. I'm at my wit's end

Kick him out. He'll either kill himself or find motivation. Either way, problem solved.

>>17974601
Is there a serious chance he'd kill himself?

what is it that you don't think you communicate well?

It's more of an anxiety issue. I know what I want to say but then what I never get to convey it in the way I want to because I'm anxious

>>17974591

Whoops forgot to tag>>17974609

>>17974489

you just do it. there is no secret handshake that makes you WANT to run.

motivation msotly comes from within. you can also try looking at fat hate threads every fucking day, or writing 'you're fat, go exercise' or setting phone reminders.

you can make it more fun by dancing too, dancing burns more calories andi s more fun, especially if oyu have a partner. i turn on music and then just dance around my apartment.

im 115.

>>17974489

also exercise doesn't do MUCH for losing weight, its mostly a food thing.

i know meat is love, meati s life, but consider not having meat except for dinner. in fact, consider limiting meat to say, three times a week.

look at these stats
>1 pound of chicken: 800 calories
>1 pound of greenbeans: 141 calories

think about it. and even if you soak it in sauces its still less than 1/4th the calories of if you soaked meat in those sauces.

greenbean alfredo, califlower spaghetti, asparagus fries, all good and good for you.

i also do 'home made chipotle' where i just get some beans, soak them in chipotle peppers adobo sauce, then just add in a little guac, a little sour cream, a little pico, and thats all you need. beans are a meal.

Have I been to the GYM today?

>Yes
Then I don't need to go.

>No
Then I need to go.

Repeat until expiration.

What you need to do is not just perform a task in hopes of an outcome, but find a way to enjoy the task. The outcome will take time, and you will not visibly be able to see it for many months due to dysmorphia.

If you cannot find a way to enjoy any form of exercise and have fun, then you will fail any routine you set for yourself.


SO. Get interested. Screw running for now, just go outside and walk for 30 minutes or so. Running is bad for heavy people, anyways. Instead, spend time reading and trying things. Look for ideas, and get a plan together before making a schedule.

Learn how to manage your diet, and the significance of calories as well as nutrients and vitamins.

Your body is as it is because of the things that you do, and the way that you live. It is a reflection of what you have been doing up until this point. So, it stands to reason that if you want that to change, you will also have to change in turn and learn how to properly manage those aspects of your life in order to grow as an individual.

Good luck, Anon.
P.S. Check /fit/'s sticky, it contains quite a useful bit of information. Any questions regarding vitamins or minerals can be found on the National Institute of Health's webpage if you google any vitamin or nutrient followed by the key (nih).

>>17974359

tumblr is great cuz you can force your way into the tags of other people by making it slightly related. tumblr is amazing for content creators cuz people have tags they explore daily and you're just pushing yourself in there daily.

the best approach is a varied approach. use multiple hosts and have say, your website be the only one thats up to date. the others should always be a few chapters behind to convince people to check it out.

the best way to advertise is to have some fan comics. something beautiful / dramatic that people can find from their fandom, then see you do originals.

i created 6 new episodes of sailor moon for fun, millions of views, and when i created my own original series afterwards a fraction of them went on to watch that, about 10k

>>17974359
Post them on 4chan

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>>17974369
I think that multiple media approach is probably my best bet to be sure. Did you happen to host your original series on your own site?
>>17974370
I've thought about that and would like to as I get a lot from these boards. Im just not sure which board would be the best to post to. /ic/ seems try and chase away threads dedicated to self content sharing, and while my style is manga-based, wouldn't be acceptable for /a/, which leaves maybe /i/ or /jp/ but again not sure ..