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I'm 22 years old. Decently attractive, beard, muscular, etc. I work at a store where I know a lot of regular customers. There's a really big group of girls from the nearest high school that come in every other day. One of them always flirts with me. Pretty bluntly too, like when I found out her friend shares my name, she said "Yeah, I've got a thing for guys named x", saying "I'm way better on alcohol", or telling me she comes just to look at my pretty eyes.

I got her Snapchat a while back but never really did much with it outside of snapping her every so often because I started seeing someone exclusively like two days later (not anymore though). I'm really thinking about throwing her some dick. Even though she's legal she's still in high school.

Is that weird? I don't wanna seem like another grown man who used to work with me AND egregiously hit on her. I mean lots of girls come in to flirt with the baristas so I don't wanna label myself a creeper by making a move on a high school girl. What's the most tactful way for me to get inside of her?
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who the fuck cares

Who's going to know? Her friends? Fuck off nobody cares what high schoolers think. Give her the dick.
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>>17977395
I mean she was fairly vocal about that other dude.

I think the primary difference between him and I though is that he was a dork and I'm not outed as one yet. She also didn't really seek out contact with him too.
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I hope you know that 100% of your appeal to her is that you're older than her and can get her and her friends alcohol.

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/adv/, I work in accounting/audit so I'm used to working with different people in different clients/offices.

I'm in a special project and this week I just met this one girl. Let's keep in mind that I'm an outgoing autistic robot and that I have very kinda different hobbies and tastes that I don't share with anyone I meet,

Now, this co-worker girl is special as fuck, she's introverted like me and she likes comics and manga and the same rock music and same sports and vidya and alcohol shit like me.

Naturally, when we speak I can speak very fluently to her, and I feel very confident when talking to her and she laughs when I say jokes and shit.

Now, the problem is I'm just 22, I just moved out of parents house, I got myself a senior position, "decent" money for my age, I rent my own place with a roomie, I'm about to get a car.

SHE is 30, already divorced, has her own place and car, she might be a manager soon, already has a 9 year old kid, has mentioned she doesn't want kids, I'm under the impression that even though she's introverted she still wants Chad Thundercock and I'm no Chad Thundercock.

Like today I went partying with other co-workers, and she said she was staying "home reading books".

How should I handle the situation? I really wanna give it a chance. Maybe I wont' work with her more after the next week.
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>>17977368
>she's introverted like me and she likes comics and manga and the same rock music and same sports and vidya and alcohol shit like me.
Do you actually like her romantically? Because you could say this about someone you just have intentions of being friends with too.
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>>17977377
Yeah I think she's hot.

>Because you could say this about someone you just have intentions of being friends with too.
I mean yeah we could be friends but this is new for me, I'm an autistic robot,, one that's like drinking heavily and doing psychedelics though.

I don't live in America or Europe where my tastes or hobbies are common, so this girl is kinda special.
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>>17977380
>I'm 22 years old. Decently attractive, beard, muscular, etc. I work at a store where I know a lot of regular customers. There's a really big group of girls from the nearest high school that come in every other day. One of them always flirts with me. Pretty bluntly too, like when I found out her friend shares my name, she said "Yeah, I've got a thing for guys named x", saying "I'm way better on alcohol", or telling me she comes just to look at my pretty eyes.
Well from what you've said, there's really no indication that she wants to date you or anything. She probably sees you as a kid brother or something, if I'm being honest

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Currently staying at a big chain 5 star hotel with my mom. Someone tried to break in, broke the door handle, and bled all over the porch. Security took forever to arrive after repeated calls. What should i do now? Is this grounds for compensation?
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What's there to compensate for?
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>>17977355
Complain about how upset you are and how unsafe your poor mother feels after this horrible thing happened and security failed to respond. I bet they'll bend over backwards to offer you something to make you happy.
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>>17977412
This, also imply that you are semi important and you might feel to talk to your friends on social media about how horrible and shocked you feel, and that the hotel security was very bad/ hotel did not react in a manner as which was to be expected for a five star hotel.

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Does anyone else just feel like they're waiting to die?

I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't feel good or bad. Don't have any desire or care for anything. Everyday is just get up, do nothing and go back to bed.
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In a manner of speaking, we're all waiting to die. We're really all just visiting, temporarily.

You must have enjoyed something at one point. What did you used to enjoy?
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I know that feel op. When everyday is exactly the same and there's no goal or achievement to be worked towards
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>>17977353
Op must be asleep... I would like to feel like I'm achieving more, but I don't feel any real sense of reward. Maybe because I'm impatient? What about you?

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So laying it out:

-I want to make a trip to the good ol' US
-I study at university, I have a somewhat signifficant job in my country, so I guess I'm elligible for a tourist Visa
-The real reason is that I want to meet my sweet heart from my LDR
-Hold your chuckles

-Do I tell the American interviwer that the reason is her I want to visit, or insert the "vacation" excuse?
Will they deny me the Visa if I tell the truth about her and us?


Please help adv/
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I'm not even American, but do you really think they interview every person who applies for a tourist visa...?
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>>17977320
Yes, a interview is mandatory here before they decide if they give you the Visa
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Fuck,

Most important for a visa is having a return ticket. They want to make sure you actually leave. Sure you could bounce in between.

Which sandnigger country you from tho?

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships and fart guy
Fuck off
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Is acne a big problem for a guy, even if he is otherwise fairly attractive.
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>>17977290
No I wouldn't say so, unless it's very severe
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How common is it for a girl to have a specific "type", meaning, the specific look of a guy that would make you instantly very attracted to him, without talking to him at all.
I thought this only happens to really young girls but I'm in gradschool and this semester I go to some class of an other department and there's this thirsty chick who kept sitting near me and look at me, I think I distract her from the lecture.

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So I am on my last year of high school, there is a winter formal coming. All my friends are going with dates, I'm a beta fag and dont have a date, they all say I should still go. But I feel like I will just be a third wheel, please give /adv/ice. (Pic not related)
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Ask a girl who also doesn't have a date but her friends do to go with you.
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>>17977259
I'm like at the bottom of my school, plus i feel like its supposed to be something you experince with a date and someone you feel a connection to, or am I just over thinking it?
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>>17977255

stop equating relationship status with whether or not you are successful or happy. you're in highschool, have fun. im not saying you should or have to go, but dont equate being single with success or manliness or anything

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If she went out to have coffee with me for three hours and said she had fun and would do it again then it's safe to assume she likes me, yes? That was my first date ever so I don't really know how this goes
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Yup!
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>>17977239
Neat, do i hug her after the second date to show my intent or something? I've never gotten this far
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Pretty safe assumption.
If you have already had your post date texts, give her about 24 hours before initiating another text convo. You can reply if she msgs you before then, tho, but try to give her a minute or two wait after her texts.

Dont seem desperate or clingy if uou want to close the deal.

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>tfw can't cum when someone else is involved
>definitely not in person
>not during phone sex
>not even lewd texting
>can cum by myself without porn in around five minutes

Help? Seriously, this shit is not okay.
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>>17977216
need more info plz.
why do you think this happens? do you get nervous? does this happen even with people youve known for a while/have been involved with?
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>>17977242
The first time I had sex was six years ago with a girl(male) I met online. I wasn't able to then and thought it was the condom but never had the opportunity to remove that from the equation. I was also very nervous which definitely didn't help. Since then my sex life has been non existent save for fapping. At least until this December when a female friend I met towards the end of summer became more than a friend. We have had a few phone sex sessions and, again, I'm nervous. We just had one that lasted an hour an twenty minutes. I only was able to finish because the call dropped. Now that I'm typing this out it seems like this is probably the anxiety.
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Its the nerves

Keep trying and get more experience

You probably are also the type that has to know the person realy well to be able to get off

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My boyfriend won't really have sex or do anything with me anymore.

I give him blowjobs on the regular, on my own volition or because he asks.

When I ask for him to go down on me or even gesture for him to touch me, he kind of just... doesn't. Pretends he doesn't hear me, or just half-asses it.

He often chooses porn over me, and masturbates to porn in front of me. I get kind of sad, and he becomes insecure and angry at me when I am look "sad" and then I'm put in this weird position where I lose no matter what.

We live together, so I decided to leave as often possible to give him space but I get no sexual satisfaction. Every time I ask why he doesn't he gives me a hundred excuses ranging from exhaustion to "no one has ever satisfied him" and makes me the guilty loser, which is fine, it's my fault whatever, but all I really want is someone to go down on me and love me.

What do I do?
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Talk to him. Tell him that your needs aren't being satisfied and that you dont feel its fair that you give him what he wants and he doesnt return the favor.

Personally I'd just fuckign leave him. More than likely hes cheating on you already or doesnt find you attractive for whatever reason. idk why people let their partners do this kind of shit to them when theres plenty of people who will give you what you need out there.Its pathetic.
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Leave him. Bad sex is a huge reason that relationships degrade. If you've talked to him, explained the source of your sadness, but he still places blame on you, then he's not likely to change. That "no one satisfies me" is also very bad. He doesn't see you as a long term fit, so try to go before he kicks you out.
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As the previous anons said, you should just leave him. Obviously he isn't going to change from what you told us. Sex is important in a relationship, you shouldn't be dating someone who refuses to be sexual with you, whatever the reason.

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wat should I name my new gunia pig
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>>17977163
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>>17977163
Godspeed You! Black Emperor
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>>17977163
Moresby.

The capital of Papua New Guinea is Port Moresby, so you want you little guy to feel like he would run the place.

>Last two girls I've hooked up with I've found out they have had 50+ sex partners

This is just a coincidence, right? That isn't the norm, right? Most other girls I'm with I think are between 0 - 10.
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>>17977156
Fuck no that's not the norm.

Get yourself to the clinic.
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>>17977156
No, that;s not the norm. Get yourself checked for STIs, quickly.
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OP stop lying on /adv/

We all know you're a faggot.

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TL;DR Last January I had to sell my gaming PC for IRL bullshit reasons and haven't played any games in a year.

I'm getting $5,000 in college grants in two weeks and I'm not sure if I should build a $1,500 or $3,000 one.

All I want it to play at 60+ FPS on my 144hz monitor with settings on 'High' but not 'Ultra'.

I'll also be using it for school and work, of course.

What say you /adv/?
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>>17977155
1500 will get you:
i7 6700k
GTX 1080
16 GB DDR 4 RAM
Case of choice that isn't retarded
HDD of choice that isn't retarded
OS of choice, probs windows 10
A good motherboard, such as a Z170
a CPU cooler of choice that isn't retarded.

If you buy a premade you're dumb.
if I had 1500 dollars i'd instantly buy all my parts and wait for them to come in, and I'd have a kickass gaymen PC.

it will play 1080 at 60Hz on ultra.
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Unless you are a paid, competitive gamer, you don't need 60+ FPS.
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>>17977179
>>17977194

Thanks, comrades.

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I'm a bisexual girl, and I want to have a proper gf. The problem is, I am too scared to ask girls out, since there's such a high probability they're straight and a lot of female friendliness could be misconstrued as flirting.

Online dating seems to only lead to hookups, or SJWs.

Does anyone know how to meet and actually ensure a girl is gay (or bi) before asking them? I'm shy and don't like doing it anyway, and the only girls who are clearly gay (i.e. butch) I don't find attractive.

I'm not unattractive myself, about 8/10 (not butch or anything, feminine). How do I find them /adv/?
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>>17977130
london???
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>>17977134
Australia, sorry...
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Say to girls "I'm actually into girls" If they say "me too" you're in. If they say anything else other than they are a lesbian they are straight or don't want the attention from you

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when is it appropriate to make a move on a girl if you feel you have been flirting with her and its going well
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>>17977118

depends on the move. you can ask a girl out without knowing her more than thirty seconds in my experience.

but lets put it this way. if shes into you and you ask her for dinner is she going to say

>I TOTALLY WOULD HAVE SAID YES BUT YOU ASKED THREE DAYS TOO EARLY AND THATS NOT APPROPRIATE, NOW I HAVE TO GO TO THE SECRET HOT GIRLS FACEBOOK GROUP AND TELL THEM TO NEVER DATE YOU TROLOLOLOL'

point im trying to make here is appropriate doesn't really exist. you like a girl, you make a move.
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>>17977123
okay here is my full experience
>go to karaoke with 3 friend
>its just one big lounge with tables and stools for drinks we sit next to two girls her and her sister
>they tell me to come over because my other friends left to go choose a song and while they're gone we talk flirt
>she plays with my hair for a bit just ruffing it up cheers for me when i sing
>offers me a sip off her drink
>go outside to tell my friend that his song is up next
>security thinks i'm drunk despite walking normally and forming proper sentences so they make me wait outside for 15 minutes
>two girls leave but the chick i was flirting with gives me a hug before she goes
>during that time my friend hooked up with her sister twice
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>>17977182

okay. like i said in the first post tho.

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