[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 2732. page

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

File: 1457081815638.png (151KB, 400x400px) Image search: [Google]
1457081815638.png
151KB, 400x400px
Would I be a scumbag if I took something back from someone who took the thing from me, and that this person, albeit propping up their lifestyle, depends on this thing since they would refuse to realize the reality that they would need to reduce their propped up lifestyle?
55 posts and 5 images submitted.
>>
>>17977720
>Would I be a scumbag if

Your a scumbag for posting this jumbled mess of a sentence here
>>
>>17977720
>Anonymous website.
>Still fucks around and plays the pronoun game
How about youu just say what the fuck is happening.
>>
File: 1482703669686.jpg (72KB, 905x768px) Image search: [Google]
1482703669686.jpg
72KB, 905x768px
>>17977726

File: 492226-1486-15.jpg (30KB, 260x259px) Image search: [Google]
492226-1486-15.jpg
30KB, 260x259px
is it a curse to talk about your Fortune Tarot Cards that you drew
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>17977715
How are people literally this retarded.

Tarot cards, and psychics in general are bullshit.

Go get three tarot card readings and watch how wildly different they are.

I bet your dumbass believes astrology too, and doesn't even know over thousands of years since astrology signs were thought of, the night sky has shifted and our astrology sign are all one off now, but you probably believe your horoscope all the same like a retard
>>
>>17977752
wow i asked a simple question everyone has their beliefs which is why there are so many different gods and religions

i was hoping to get a mature answer but you're reply was plain fucking autistic
>>
>>17977715
You know that's a game right? Like Uno? It's not meant to be taken literally except when they're trying to scam you. Literally have a handful of friends that are Tarot readers and I heard it from them.

File: Mytho.jpg (29KB, 647x285px) Image search: [Google]
Mytho.jpg
29KB, 647x285px
>Meet a guy
>Instantly click
>Date him for 2 months, start getting attached
>He is wonderful, always there for me, very loving etc, absolutely perfect guy, even my friends adore him
>He tells me he has lung cancer
>Get depressed by this situation, spend my time reading on cancer
>Be there for him, whenever he wants to see me I call an uber and go to his place
>Pay him stuff
>He doesn't want to tell his family about the cancer so as not to worry them
>After 4 months of dating we were supposed to spend a weekend together
>On saturday morning he tells me he is hospitalized in a clinic with internal bleeding, his grandpa is with him
>I'm destroyed, he does not want me to visit him there
>Next day I call his grandpa because I'm worried
>He tells me "Oh Paul is at home, he's fine, wtf are you calling me for?"
>What.jpg
>Call the clinic, he never went there
>My whole world is destroyed, I cannot believe what is happening
>Call him, he does not want to confess and starts lying about his grandpa not wanting to worry me
>Threaten to leave him, he gets verbally violent, then starts crying
>He confesses that he does not if he has cancer, he lied about the clinic because he was not feeling well and did not want to see me (another lie)
>I realise he has also been lying about his job (he said he had a small company, but I checked with the administration and his company does not exist
>I don't even know where all his money comes from
>He doesn't not want to tell me
>Dump him, even though it is hard because he is still the same person

How the fuck will I ever recover from this ? How the fuck do these kinds of people even exist ? I'm under shock, I don't know what to do...
31 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>17977713
HAHAHA, TOP KEK! How do you fall for a scam like this?
>>
you dodged a huge bullet there.
wonder what else he was lying about?
probably a prudent move to get std checks, etc.

I don't know why these people exist either, I hate liars. It seems so illogical, pointless and a massive waste of time (his and yours).

Again, dodged a 155mm artillery shell there. Don't look back, if you do, you're stupid.
>>
>>17977719
Probably the fact that he said he owned a small company. And everything else he lied about.

If he made up this much shit you can be sure his personality is an act. Like he's filling a role to escape his real life.

File: IMG_6788.jpg (122KB, 675x1200px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_6788.jpg
122KB, 675x1200px
What is this "ok" hand signal that literally everyone on the alt-right post on their twitter?

Pic related, just one of the many
12 posts and 3 images submitted.
>>
File: IMG_6789.jpg (132KB, 804x603px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_6789.jpg
132KB, 804x603px
More

I'm not making this shit up, its in every pic they appear
>>
>>17977678
>>17977700
they are dtf
>>
File: IMG_6790.jpg (80KB, 479x750px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_6790.jpg
80KB, 479x750px
>>17977700
>>17977678

It might come from the Korean llbe hand sign see pic

It basically means you are a beta and can't get women

File: Relationship-Problems.jpg (36KB, 680x454px) Image search: [Google]
Relationship-Problems.jpg
36KB, 680x454px
Guys i seriously need help.
I had a fight with my gf. I made some fair points (i.e. that i can't promise that i won't see my female best friend a few times in a year). Problem is, i put it in a very hypocritical way. Biggest problem - we had it via cellphone. When we stopped she acted like she's sorry and that she knows it's her fault. Problem is, next day i tried to contact her and she ignored me. She texted me 2 days after the argument, only because i was so worried that i asked her to just let me know if she's ok. She told me that she felt like she was "the worst thing that happened to me" and basically keeps me away all the time. Since we're not living together and we can only see each other on weekends, i decided that even though she finishes late and i wasn't supposed to visit her i'd do it anyway. I woke up today and saw a text from her saying that she doens't want me to come over today or tomorrow. What the fuck am i supposed to do right now?
10 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Respect her wishes that she doesn't want to share you with your female friend.
>>
>>17977688
I had that female friend since childhood, I am willing to compromise, but she basically told me she doesn't want to see me.
>>
Shameless, bump. Should i ignore the fact she told me not to come over and go anyway?

File: 1450419359214.jpg (4KB, 111x125px)
1450419359214.jpg
4KB, 111x125px
How the fuck do you make friends online?
6 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
You don't. You only find people who want your nudes.
>>
You don't.
Everybody online is a piece of shit.

You just make friends with people in real life, and then bring them on the line.
>>
File: 46.jpg (102KB, 250x250px)
46.jpg
102KB, 250x250px
well, if you're in a game it's easy. You just say something arguable and people will eat the bait. For example, in my case i talk about the EPL, i just say something to everyone, something like "Who is the best team" or some bullshit. People will eventually start arguing, and when you reach this stage you just give up and start discussing something else. Later you just become friends and you gradually just become closer and closer, maybe start the game together or something idk. Otherwise it's easy, coming from an expert.

it's easy desu

File: sadfroglargecutout.png (127KB, 2048x2048px) Image search: [Google]
sadfroglargecutout.png
127KB, 2048x2048px
Why is it near impossible to find the right person for you?
22 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>17977637
Because there is no right person for you.

There are plenty of people who are highly compatible with you. But they will all have flaws, they will all do something that will annoy the shit out of you, they will all be different from your ideal in some way. Your relationship will suck sometimes, and you will grow apart, and perhaps there will be other people you want more in certain phases.

The point is - you should love them for who they are, accept and respect them with their flaws, and work on your relationship when it doesn't work.

There is no right person that you meet and have a super easy relationship with.
>>
>>17977641
>There are plenty of people who are highly compatible with you.
i.e.: The right person.

>The point is - you should love them for who they are, accept and respect them with their flaws, and work on your relationship when it doesn't work.
Why is it so hard to find partners that actually do this? Instead of flaking when things get rough.
>>
Sometimes it's easier to build and craft a table than it is to find a tree that's grown into one in nature.

You just have to chose the right wood.

File: private-number-android.jpg (21KB, 338x600px) Image search: [Google]
private-number-android.jpg
21KB, 338x600px
so while i was driving i got 2 phone calls and i didn't answer them because well its illegal to. I pulled into the petrol station to fill up. So i checked my phone and it was a private number. I asked my mates if it was any of them and they said no. And now i'm just Obsessed with finding out who it was. I want to know, im waiting for them to call back. Im just waiting for something good to happen in life
7 posts and 3 images submitted.
>>
just reply for heavens' sake, and where the hell is it illegal to pick up a phone call from a private number??
>>
>>17977610
He was driving...
>>
File: Vengeance.gif (231KB, 200x408px) Image search: [Google]
Vengeance.gif
231KB, 200x408px
well either ignore or pick up the call next time

File: Eye_of_Horus_Right.png (6KB, 200x154px) Image search: [Google]
Eye_of_Horus_Right.png
6KB, 200x154px
Yesterday I was playing with a friend, it was peaceful until this girl with her boyfriend come at the place, she starts talking with two two nerds like her, hearing her taste I can't just believe a girl with similar taste exists, so I throw a look at her, quite nerdy looking, but still beatiful. Then I say to myself "she got a bf, stop looking at", but the more I hear her talking, the more I find myself glimpsing at her, till' I watch and I see she noticed I looked at her and she has stopped talking and watches me, this repeats for 1.30 hours or less, I watch her, she is already watching me.

Why best girls are already taken?
10 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Because you are not good enough for her and you never had a chance.
>>
>>17977577
Still I don't get the point of the looks exchanging if not to only piss me off.
>>
>>17977575
>she noticed I looked at her and she has stopped talking and watches me

This sounds like you're creeping her out

File: download.png (5KB, 211x239px)
download.png
5KB, 211x239px
title

I'll greentext the details where necessary this is going to be super convulated but whatever

so I've butted heads with my mom my entirely life.

>mom is stupid fucking by the book straight laced moron and had me her OLDEST at 36
>have 2 little bros
>dad dies when i was four
>youngest bro is literally months old
>mom gets ass tons of insurance money and never has to work

I'll fill in the details if asked but this is the present situation

>29
>living at home
>shitty job (i like it but that's besides the point)
>had sex twice like years ago
>COULD have been an alpha with easy double digit fucks
>had to be cursed to being birthed by this worthless sorry sack of fucking god damned shit
>hate my mom with every fucking shred of existence
>literally considering beating the absolute fucking shit out of her right now

Now for why I hate my mom

>for reasons, my little bros where raised (if you can even call her efforts that) competeley different
>they become redneck/bros/whatever
>im reclusive and like music and video games
>mom tries to force mormonism into every fucking oriface she possibly can
>little bros? nope, theyll just fall in line as long as i do
>this little plan doesnt work because tfw too intelligent to be brainwashed by mormnism
>literally dragged and forced to go to church by church leaders under authorization of my mom
16 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Now for why I hate my mom

>for reasons, my little bros where raised (if you can even call her efforts that) competeley different
>they become redneck/bros/whatever
>im reclusive and like music and video games
>mom tries to force mormonism into every fucking oriface she possibly can
>little bros? nope, theyll just fall in line as long as i do
>this little plan doesnt work because tfw too intelligent to be brainwashed by mormnism
>literally dragged and forced to go to church by church leaders under authorization of my mom

She doesn't do anything. I mean literally ANYTHING. She sits on her fat fucking ass watching tv. She never got a job just for fun. Never got hobbies. Doesn't have any real friends besides a couple mormon friends. She watches shitty fucking talk shows all day featuring artists/musicians/actors of media shes doesnt even consume because dur hur not mormon its sinnful.
>>
Then there's this, she absolutely freaks the balls out over money. It's little the ONLY thing that inspires passion in her. So much so that my brothers and I never even THOUGHT about asking about money situations due to the fact that she goes absolutely ballistic in defence of her shekels. That's cool until she made that most absolutely stupid fucking financial choice in her fucking life that we could have talked her out of. She had enough dolla bills, in, the, fucking, bank, to pay off, her HOUSE, in FULL. And I'm not talking about a cozy little place that only has 5 years left on the mortage in a not shitty part of town. Im talking about a NEWLY BUILT 3000 THOUSAND square foot HOME in a NICE area LESS THAN FIVE YEARS into the mortage. She let herself get talked into investing that and lost... ALL OF IT.

Im the first fucking college graduate with a useful degree (accounting was even studying for the CPA) in the EXTENDED family. He'll im the first out of all my cousins to graduate high school in a legitmate way (im the third oldest cousin and the first killed himself for context). She doesnt give a fuck about any of that because durpueprher not mormon. In fact the ONLY thing in my life she seems to be vested in is money. She doesnt ask about ANYTHING I do unless it involves money. For example, I left the light on in the room where I work on my paintings, interrupts my piano playing to asks me about some obscure bullshit. She's never once shown ANY interest in either of those yet this happened. My co worker asked if i would cover his shit and he'd cover mine. Since this afters my "hours" and in turn how much i get "paid" she starts getting worked up over this fucking situation that doesnt even affect her.

tldr im brooding in my room on a friday night when i would be working and im thinking about beating the shit out of my mom wat do
>>
Are you sure you're 29?

File: clowns..jpg (249KB, 1600x900px) Image search: [Google]
clowns..jpg
249KB, 1600x900px
I've been having really shitty luck finding jobs in my city. I use the govt job help finder thing and its useless.
I'm losing motivation to do anything. I feel so fucking stupid. How do I stop myself from being a couch potato neet? I'm 29 I got 2 years warehouse and factory experience but, nowhere is hiring and no I don't want to go to craiglist. It's all scams and stupid bullshit.
26 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>17977531
Lower your standards in terms of what you're looking for.
>>
>>17977636
Fuck you his standards sound low enough already.

This bullshit apathy is one of the worst parts.
>>
look for what kind of jobs are in demand in your area
figure out which of those are the easiest to do/learn
learn
apply

File: IMG_6746.jpg (80KB, 600x710px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_6746.jpg
80KB, 600x710px
I feel this sentiment is really uncommon for 4chan

I grew up in a tiny town in Idaho. I met my only girlfriend and now fiancé at the beginning of high school, never experienced dating and grew up with the same people with identical lives. I started browsing 4chan out of sheer boredom.

I'm now in South California for 2 months for work, and damn do I feel like I missed out on living.
>everybody has casual sex with stunning hot girls
>weed everywhere
>a cool concert every week
>endless amount of places young people can meet up and hang out
>meet black, asians, latinos and from every country in the world.

Despite 4chan constantly bashing this type of existence, I wish I grew up in this lifestyle, it looks so infinitely funner than my regular life.

Anyone on the same boat?
10 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>17977530
Hedonism is the highest virtue in life OP. When you die you will fade into eternal nothingness.
Having ideals about some uptight, bitter society that acts according to arbitrarily chosen social norms that make everything look orderly and innocent is pointlessly restricting and therefor the biggest waste for a life you only get once.
>>
>>17977554
I feel the same way.

If you're not hurting anyone why not have fun?
>>
>>17977554
*If you never have children, you will fade into eternal nothingness when you die. Hedonism is obviously a childless, futureless ideology by default just by its inherent selfishness though, so it really goes without saying.

File: 4324235312.png (7KB, 220x180px)
4324235312.png
7KB, 220x180px
I have to admit, i still didn't get over my ex.

It's been exactly 1 year and 4 months since she dumped me and never contacted me again, and i STILL didn't get over her. It still hurts /adc/, i loved her so much, so much, she was everything i wanted, she was my pretty ginger girl, i thought we would be together forever but she dumped me and left me completely shattered.

The pain has been diminishing, but from time to time, i remember her, i dream that she called me and said she wanted to see me again, but i know it's NEVER going to happen. She's gone forever and i must accept that, but why is this so hard? Why did it have to be like this?

I'm so pathetic, i don't know what to do with my life...
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Yesterday i dreamed with her yet again, i dreamed that we randomly passed by each other on the street, and then she turned to me, gave me a hug and said she missed me and wanted to be with me forever.
Then i woke up and started crying like the pathetic loser that i am.

I miss her so much, why you did this to me, F?
>>
Its ok OP i still love my ex and its veen 8 years.... youll get used to it.... just coninue to live life....its the only option u have these fwelings might never go away.... accept them as your curse /illness/ and take the necessary steps to be able to live with it
>>
>>17977525
such is life my friend.

please dont settle for the bitter glass of life.

direct this pain to something and fight through. it will hurt more than anything but you will be at a better place after.

you will be thankful to yourself if you do.

it happens to the best of us OP. good luck

File: images.png (1KB, 119x119px)
images.png
1KB, 119x119px
"Stagehand. Not looking for a relationship. Plain and simple. Really just looking for a cool friend to vibe with who wouldn't mind the occasional hook up."

Pretty much what I'm after as well. I'm just too busy right now and want the intimacy, but don't want to have to dedicate my time to an actual relationship.

Haven't messaged her yet (About to head to bed, 3am) but tomorrow how do I navigate a conversation when it is both pretty obvious we'd just be using each other for sex? Of course I imagine we'd hang out a few times, but when's the right time to just say "Hey, wanna come over tonight and fuck around?"
6 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>17977480
just write "I like your bio. "
>>
You say that's what you want, so that's you... WHy not the 'you' within do the talking?

Trust yourself on that. Be bold and listen to your inner voice. 'No filters' and have fun, man.
>>
Update. Assuming I'm all good to go. It's kinda odd though, because I'm gonna ask her to hang out sometime, but it seems a bit "beating around the bush" when we both know it's just gonna be fucking.

File: moe moe.gif (35KB, 491x450px) Image search: [Google]
moe moe.gif
35KB, 491x450px
Alright, so I have this guy friend who I was kind of interested in, and one day he basically asked me to be his gf. But I said no because I don't feel like I'm good enough for him. I'm worried that people will see us together and think he's a loser because I was the best he could get. I know he doesn't care, and I've considered just going for it, but I know I wouldn't be comfortable with him if I felt like I was always bringing him down. We're still good friends, but I feel like I've pulled away from him a bit, because I'm afraid he'll think I'm flirting or leading him on or something.

Is it possible to stop feeling like such a loser.
18 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>like a guy
>he asks you to be his gf
>you say no because you aren't good enough for him


God fucking damn OP there is a 4 letter word that begins in c and ends in k that suits you perfectly.
>>
Yeah it's very possible.

Ask yourself this.

Why do you feel like a loser?
>>
>>17977408
Doesn't sound like you're that interested in him if you don't try to be with him.

Pages: [First page] [Previous page] [2722] [2723] [2724] [2725] [2726] [2727] [2728] [2729] [2730] [2731] [2732] [2733] [2734] [2735] [2736] [2737] [2738] [2739] [2740] [2741] [2742] [Next page] [Last page]

[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.