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Oh yeah dating is definitely out of the question for you. No one wants to date a BPD fuck. You guys are literally selfish clingy, manipulative assholes.

But i highly recommend avoid eating sugary foods as they can make your mood swings worse. Also see a doctor to get on meds to stabalize your mood and anxiety

>>18019862
>selfish clingy, manipulative assholes
Thank you very much.
>avoid eating sugary foods
checked, why tho?
>get on meds
I'm on venlafaxine right now but for depression, should I get antipsychotics? I heard their side effects are much worse

>>18019866
Fuck anti psychotics. They remove any feelings of happiness or well being

Not normal

>>18019840
You might wanna go to the hospital, bro. Sounds like a nasty batch of LSD, other shit slipped in there that shouldn't be in it.

Are you bleeding?

>>18019853
My teeth really hurt when I took it.

It was about 5 days ago and I'm still a bit dizzy and getting weird flashes and things

I cheat all the time on my wife. I'm well past the point of feeling bad. The women I hook up with are just as much to blame if you want to apportion blame too.

>>18019834
>but I tell myself that "it's not a big deal because it doesn't mean I don't love her".
There's always a risk that she would find out and it would destroy her. By taking that risk, you don't care about her happiness and well-being.

>So how can I treat them better?
Stop talking to women if you can't handle it. Or simply don't do monogamous relationships (although, even with poly, you can still technically cheat by continuing with this behavior). Don't get into relationships, I guess.

Easy. Kys.

lol its funny how uninformed you are about abortions. Do some research because abortions dont increase risk of cancer or infertility. There is absolutely NO evidence of this. Many women have multiple abortions and end up having kids later on in life.

Also:
>I really love her
>if in the future she cannot become pregnant again or gets cervical cancer, I don't think I can support her anymore

You contradict yourself VERY hard here. If you love her then respect her body. What if she doesnt want children anyway? What if she wants to adopt? Also she cant fucking control whether or not she gets cancer later in life? Wtf lol she has a higher chance of breast cancer than cervical cancer, but i dont see you taking any initiative to have her surgically remove her breasts to prevent it?

The way you talk sounds like you feel entitled to her body. Its hers, not yours.

Also women have a higher risk of cervical cancer if they get penetrated by a penis vaginally. Not only that, HPV greatly raises her risk of cervical cancer. Guess who has HPV? 45% of men. Her abortion isnt giving her cancer. You are.

>>18019816
Would you rather she had an abortion from a past relationship or a kid from a past relationship? I honestly don't see the problem accidents happen so she's not necessarily irresponsible plus I'm fairly sure those health risks are a load of pro-life shite.

>>18019830
Need to clarify I was solely talking about cervical cancer here.

>What if she doesnt want children anyway?
She does, we both do

>What if she wants to adopt?
Neither of us do

Of course I know an abortion doesn't lead to infertility per se, just increased risk. And since she was pregnant before in case she does become infertile it's caused by the abortion (provided I am not infertile myself)

I don't see how loving her and not wanting to accept not having kids due to her own doing are mutually exclusive. Best case scenario nothing changes and we live happily ever after, seeing the chances of lasting side effects are relatively small.

>The way you talk sounds like you feel entitled to her body. Its hers, not yours.
Nothing I said implied that. I agree with abortion being the best course of action. But she is not entitled to me sticking around

>>18019810
women.... you'd do anything not to admit your feelings...


just fucking act on how you feel, and be the "non perfect person" you're so afraid everyone to judge you to be... and don't give her the fucing go ahead, or your relationship's well over and done already.

also consider that she might not exactly fucking be the brightest, at 22 for prioritizing sex that way over you.

maybe she don't care baby.

men care way better than women, it's just the truth.

>>18019810
She's a hoe fo sho, OP. Dump the bitch. She doesn't respect or love you.

>>18020186
Haha I told the bitch yesterday to dump her man whore bf yet she still goes on why? Idiocy attention whoring?

>>18019807

>How the fuck do I push my boyfriends parents into getting their shitty daughter institutionalized?

>Is she just a lost cause? Should I just encourage emancipation and have them kick her out of their house?

You don't do anything. If they ask for you advice, give it. If they don't, shut the fuck up. Its their daughter and unfortunately they'll never give up on her no matter how much of a headache she is.

None of this is really your business.

You obviously want to punish their daughter for her behavior. It sounds like she has some serious issues.

And this is actually whats causing them not to admit her to institution. You cant present the solution as a punishment. They see their daughter as having an illness and dont see punishing her for it as justified.

You have to present the idea to them as a form of aid/help. When you push the idea on them, emphasize how admitting her would be helping her and comforting. Make them dance around the idea of highly trained professionals possibly "curing" their daughter. Make it seem like her behavior is destructive and harmful to herself and say it pitifully.

>>18019807
Sexually tease your bf, don't have sex with him while doing so for the next few weeks. While doing this suggest doing something about her but be subtle about it.

>>18019703
It depends on the person.
I like when my boyfriend puts my legs on his shoulders and he hits my vagina walls just after the entrance. Same with doggy.

>>18019703
90% of the success of a bonk happens before Tab A is inserted into Slot B. Get the foreplay right, and it hardly matters what angle you enter from.

The best angle is when the penis isnt in the vagina at all

lol i can already tell that women have faked their orgasms around you to get you to stop

Angle doesnt matter dumbass. Foreplay does. Also some girls like their clit stimulated in order to reach orgasm

Yeah, I know how you feel.

>>18019650
This is likely depression and it will take a lot of work to fix. See a therapist and just force yourself to interact.

>>18019650

what is that picture of?

Why not neither?

Why not both?

>>18019568
Here's a really wild thought - how about trying a weekend sober?

>>18019568
OP I really don't understand you. You outright say you know the answer and yet still ask? Why? Not trying to disrespect but it sounds like you are just looking for a reason to get drunk more, am I exaggerating or is that right?

You are who you choose to be OP

I am an extremely violent hateful person but I work hard every day to go against my nature and be a good person so which am I?

Everyone wears a mask.

>>18019510
Not sure what you want mate
Having friends who get you is great
I've got a few
That's all you need

I got to the gym with a couple.We talk the straight shit
It feels good

What do you want?
For us to tell you that you're a fake with no real connections to anyone?

>>18019537
The problem is the mask is fucking me, it's hard to feel real sometimes
>>18019541
My question is

Will they hate me when they find out after all this time spent together, a majority of the things I said and did don't reflect who I really am or that they'll be ok with it? Should I tell them at all or just continue with situations like this till they naturally figure it out?

>>18019477
http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/the-lost-girls-it-seems-that-the-global-war-on-girls-has-arrived-in-britain-9059610.html

>there are more lesbians than there are gay men
You keep telling yourself this is the reason why you can't get a girlfriend

>>18019477
Only 4%-6% of the entire worlds population is gay. It's LITERALLY impossible that every single girl that rejected you is a lesbian. You're probably ugly, an asshole, or both.

>>18019408
>Part 2/2
Let's not forget that, especially in the mid-twentieth century, and the entirety of the twenty-first century thus far, women have chosen to breed with certain groups and ethnicities who could not be any more a consistent and formidable degradation of the make-up and anatomy of not only the woman's ethnicity, but *our* ethnicity. Our ethnicity, which isn't so backwards and adherent to the dominance, and progress, of the human race, when we're talking about the world stage that is human evolution. Choosing to breed with certain types of "people" who are nothing more than left-overs from a bygone era. An era that left most of them to die off, and for good reason.

Yet women are choosing to breed with those bygones. Perpetuating certain breeds of humans who, throughout evolutionary history, are basically pollution to our viability and biology. Who shouldn't be called human, since they're so low on the list, it's insulting to think of them as the same as us. And prejudice aside, you can look at crime statistics, you can look at current wars and conflicts, the increasing nature of them, and realise just how detrimental to our species. Their continuation just means degrading us both physically and mentally.

But still, women choose not only to breed and advocate for their existence, they subscribe to politics, ideologies, and philosophies that promote such dangerous ideas and ways of thinking; ways of thinking that are just simply wrong. Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. And straight up promite the decline of the species.

And the worst part is: almost all women support these ideals. Almost all of them commit these crimes. I can't remember the last time I met a girl who was a case member of this bullshit. I just can't. I don't even know where to find them even more. But almost all women align to these politics and ideologies. And it's going to cost us so much in the coming years and destroy us.

>>>/pol/

>>18019410
ssshhhh babby its okay there are plenty of racist girls out there for you. You probably even have a cousin or two - keep that bloodline pure as the driven snow

>>18019364
Yeah but she wants your peener tho

We can't really give you answers because you didn't really ask a question.

"JUST FUCK HER DUDE" seems like a fairly good response to this questionless story.

>>18019364
Ehum... kill her?

>>18019323
Yeah that's pretty bad my dude. Notice how apologetic and weak that sounds. Never again.

>>18019326
I think my problem is that this is completely sincere and an accurate representation of how I've felt.

Meaning I'm an apologetic and weak person. That's pretty depressing.

Duuuuuuuuuuuude

How old are you? Vericose veins can be a sign of things like heart defects, but most of the time it just means you unfortunately have shit genes. Massage doesn't help. There's some debate weather exercise helps, does nothing, or actually makes things worse, but it's generally thought that things like walking are okay but things like weightlifting make them worse. It'd probably be worth it to talk to a general doctor, especially if it keeps hurting, but what they can do usually isn't worth it and you're probably just going to get more as you age.

>>18019287

I should add, even though it's very unlikely, you could have a blood clot. You mentioned being sick and less active, if you've been sitting or laying for long amounts of time it's a possibility. If you have an swelling or discoloration then go to the ER.

>>18019287
>>18019293
I'm 20y male
125lbs 5' 9"

My dad has vericise veins which i think were passed down to me.
I have a pair of compression socks and shorts that seem to help. I'm not sure if i should wear them while sleeping though.

I don't think I have swelling or discoloration yet thank god.