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>>18016659
The criminal history and mental health history btw

>cops called on me for cussing out my mom and half brother, and shoving my step father onto his ass
>bipolar disorder from 10-14, it's undiagnosed now
>mugged a guy while drunk as a "joke" no charges pressed as he blew the joke out of proportions and we were best friends.

>>18016659
If you think being a criminal is a bad thing or even a risky thing, then you categorically are not a sociopath. If you really want to join the military, first acquire some civilian skill that they need. If you are valuable enough they will not care about an old fake mugging and a domestic dispute. Go ask a recruiter: what would it take?

>>18016687
I had inpatient care bro, that shit's the biggest red flag. The best part about this is that I can still own fire arms and all that good shit because I was underage when I was admitted to the ward. I even lied.

Sociopathy is diagnosed, it's one of the 3 (three) things I got tagged with when I left the hospital after 3 weeks iirc.

Sociopathy, bipolar disorder (now defunct), and oppositional defiant disorder.

>>18016654
she sounds like a garbage woman anyway.

>>18016654
Move on.

She might be better later, but who cares? She doesn't want you now. She doesn't get you later.

>>18016658
She isn't, she made me happier over the past few months than girls I've dated for years, she was so kind to me and went out of her way to make me happy. When I say this came out of nowhere, I mean she told me she loved me last night and woke up this morning with a completely different attitude towards me.

Eating too much fruit can be unhealthy yes

apples are red and so is blood. do you want to die? then dont eat apples.

>>18016606
There is sugar in them, but you would have to eat alot of apples.

>>18016588
Go to clubs
Talk to people
Pick up a hobby

Simply introducing yourself to someone might lead to a phone number.

I once got some people's numbers and started hanging out with them because one of them added me to a group chat. Making friends leads to more friends.

>>18016608
in college btw
>>Go to clubs
>xD he's at a club alone look at that loser

>Talk to people
>xD this fag has to talk to me because he has no life

>Pick up a hobby
?

>>18016509
>so tried to kill herself once since with our relationship ended,

She's making that up. Women will make stuff like that up for attention

She broke up with you? She doesn't get to be sad, at least not openly. Not your problem.

>>18016511
she had depression and tried suicide before dating me, basically i was her cure, her own parents told me this.

Short answer: yes
Long answer: yeah boi

>>18016489

> can losers become successful

yes.

>examples?

real life people. if you're looking for someone famous thats asking for a lot. you could say that about most any famous person though, but you didnt ask to become world renowned, just successful.

>>18016489

has anythign that has happened so far been so significant that it would stop you from doing what you consider 'successful'?

>>18016480
That shit is fuckked up. And her story is spicious

Bitch has issues m8

I would have been upset too.

Worse things have happened to me though, and I've had to pull out of my burn out brain the most undeserved forgiveness. Kind of shit my heart simply wasn't ready for. First and last time though, let her know that shit was not at ail funny. Needlessly drains stability and peace of mind.

To be perfectly honest, it would be best if she didn't have a snapchat or fb or any of that social media garbage. It's just an attention whore safe box.

>>18016475
First of all, you shouldn't get into relationship thinking about long-term.
it comes by the time.
Second, if there's a major difference in mentality, then it'll be a problem.
Third, don't date clones. (people who are like you). Date people who completes your life, makes you see different things, experience new things.

If all these 3 check in, then you probably should pull the plug.

And, how long you've been with her?

The other thing is, people say being in a long term relationship when you're young fucks up your independence, and being able to be young and stupid

As someone who's been with the same person since I was 15, I can tell you this isn't the case, you just need to be with someone you can be young and stupid with. The only difference is you can't fuck a bunch of sluts, but there's honestly nothing particularly fun about that. So don't think you're missing out by not being single.

Not saying you should have or shouldn't have broken up with her, but if that's really the only reason you ended it, have a serious think.

>>18016475
It sounds like you made an impulsive decision, but that doesn't necessarily mean it was the wrong decision.

She is better off w/o you since she was looking for long term. You are better off w/o her since you wanted to slay some more pussay before settling down.

I think you did the right, and in the long term it will be better for you and for her. When you meet other girls in the future, this regret that you are feeling will fade, and when you are 30years old you will forget that she even existed.

OR

You can have a shitty life and forever regret it, but this last part is more of a comedic relief. We both know you will have a good life.

She's using suicide threats to keep you hostage. Get her help or call the authorities if it gets bad enough, but she's doing this to control you. If you don't want to be with her you are under no obligation to get back with just because she may threaten to kill herself. You can do what you can to help her, but you should not feel trapped because she might do something stupid.

>>18016468

she had depression and tried suicide before dating me, basically i was her cure, her own parents told me this.

she's on a mental health clinic right now but she still wants to kill herself and vanish from the world.

>>18016536
she had depression and tried suicide before dating me, basically i was her cure, her own parents told me this.

she's on a mental health clinic right now but she still wants to kill herself and vanish from the world.

i try to help her, but she has me blocked so there is nothing i can do via talking with her, she only unblocks me when it's time to send me some random message

>>18016435

Hey, live life at your own rythm.

Be glad you got it together, that's pretty fucking huge, and set yourself short term goals.

One day at a time, but you already beated the worst.

>>18016435
>mtf
>depressed
>lonely
>what's wrong with me?

Surprise, you're fucked in the head...

>>18016453
yeah. i am lots better now. but it usually doesn't feel like it? and i still feel like i don't measure up to the other people i know. still an outsider. still kinda lost. and i'm very behind.

>>18016464
hope you don't mean i'm crazy because i'm trans. so tired of that nonsense.

>>18016406
You are no longer a baby. Do you drink from a bottle? Are you breast fed? Do you still use a stroller?

Why would you want him to? That's incredibly ghetto

>>18016414


No it's not idk I love it , it makes me feel good

Everyone's gonna die one way or another, and there's nothing you can do to stop it. You can only delay it for however long you can. However, you're not very likely to die in your sleep unless you have very severe sleep apnea or you have some sort of disease. I would look into getting some anxiety meds and maybe a therapist if your anxiety of death is affecting your life.

>>18016410
im 22 years old and i dont have any kind of disease, it really scares me to dissapear and leave behind everything i know and love

i had that phobia when i was a bit younger somehow i stopped caring and moved on but now 2 weeks ago it started again

Remember Death will always cum for you. That means he's the bitch taking it, you're only job is to try and enjoy the ride. You have one job. Why are you wasting time by being scared of something meaningless for everyone? Death is boring you may just come back afterwards and do this all again. Maybe try to make this round different for yourself?

But 'you' say in the video you posted that your first video hit 90 views. How is this your first video if you've already posted others?

You're just looking to have this guy roasted, aren't you?

>>18016401
no its actually me, I wasn't actually counting that first video it was a test for the reach

If I wanted to roast someone I would go on /b/

>>18016397
You have a bad accent and crappy music. Could not watch. Your dog is cute though.

If you can, get a personal trainer to introduce you to it. As far as I'm aware, gyms have to have people that can at least induct you to the equipment there.

Read a couple of the PDFs on /fit/ and work out a basic routine for the week and stick to it.

Alternatively you could do bodyweight fitness for a while, once you've got the hang of that you can move to lifting in a gym.

Importantly don't over complicate it. The only people that really need to go into detail are people that do it for a living; professionals.

You can lift weights properly and safely but you have to read about them, watch demonstrations on YouTube and have no ego when it comes to the weight you use. Even if you have to squat 80lbs and look like a bitch to start with it's better than looking like a stupid bitch when you hurt yourself trying to squat 135lbs

Buy Starting Strength

>>18016383
So I've heard /fit/ is cancer though

>>18016353

lol, yes.

That's what I thought.

Sounds like she is a complete narcissist

Steer clear OP