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How do i get my sexual drive up?
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>>18018816
wwere gonna need more details
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>>18018816
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=how+to+fix+my+libido
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>>18018829
I cant get it up for men irl, but my straight friends get a boner whenever a woman talks to them
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Has anyone here done freelancing on the internet?
can you live off freelancing on the internet?
I'm going to be a programmer, if you need some info.
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>>18018783
yes, some people can.
>im going to be
worry about that when you actually are.
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>>18018793
got any more info on that.
I'm studying CS but I wonder if I can work freelance over the internet and travel a lot.
that would be my dream.
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>>18018795
the problem here is that you assume it would pay enough to be a part time job, when most programmers are working overtime to meet deadlines, especially if you're a freelancer doing stupid shit instead of working on a real team.
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Getting her interest back 2017-02-04 12:46:06 Post No.18018766
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Getting her interest back
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I met this girl in November, we went out once in December after a few weeks of great texting (I've never texted so much with another person before, not even my friends). The date was to a formal party and we had a great time, we danced and drank all night. She even told me how much of a great guy I was compared to other douches she had seen in the past. Afterwards I invited her again but she had a busy schedule. We both went on separate holiday trips, but I tried to keep contact through texting/snapchat. That's when she started showing less interest and the texting got much worse than it was at the start. I asked her out again in January and we went bowling with some friends of mine, it seemed she had a great time. The week afterwards I tried texting her again to see how the mood was, at first she was very responsive like when we met, but then she became very apathetic and suddenly stop replying me. I invited her over to a party a few days later, which I later found out she was already invited. She replied to the invitation in a way that seemed to me without interest and didn't appeared there. It's now been a week without having any contact with her. My plan is to give her some space for a few weeks and maybe try again. I might send her a small bouquet of pink roses on Valentines. What do you guys think?
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>>18018766
I don't think three dates justify flowers in Valentine's. But to be fair, we don't celebrate that where I live.
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>>18018775
>adv
Well, I live in Mexico. We do celebrate Valentines, its actually kinda normal to send flowers here, even anonymously. There were only two dates, but she's a very kind of girly girl so I think she'll actually like it. Plus I'm planing on only like 6 roses, not something huge.
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>>18018789
Maybe she will like the flowers, but it seems she is not interested anymore. I would try to move on, meet other girls. If she really liked you once she might try to get your interest back once you see she moved on.
I'm guessing I can still be drafted into war even with asthma?
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What draft? If you're American we don't have conscription anymore, technically, because it's not really enforced. Besides there are plenty of people who have already volunteered for the Armed Forces.
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Nah. Combine it with a mental illness of your choice and top it off with documented sucidal ideation and you'll stay civilian for life.
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>>18018750
Oh, nevermind then. How about just speaking in general terms?
Will dating someone who has completely different political views work out in the long term? Is one person basically forced to cave in to the others views for the relationship to work?
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why would you want to
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>>18018669
depends, hwo often do your political views impact your real life? do you campaign for your party? do you go to events hosted by your party? do you talk about politics just to have arguments?
for most normal people it doesn't really matter.
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>>18018678
I just rather know ahead of time before I sink too much time into it
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Should I even bother anymore?
Basically, 23 yo virgin. Started talking to a girl for the first time in my life... went on 3 dates, I kissed her and we went back to her place but she really wasn't going for sex. Fine, that's okay. Today she sends me a long ass message on how she really likes me but my inexperience with women really bothers her. She said that it was either me avoiding women or women avoiding me and that she didn't find that very healthy. She couldn't wrap her head around the thought that I was 23 and hadn't been kissed yet. Truth is I've had terrible social anxiety and crippling insecurities all my life so I never bothered trying to find love. Now I feel like no one will give me a chance... Fuck me
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>>18018595
woman will tell you not to give up but as a man I'm here to tell you you should give up.
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>>18018595
One girl says "no" and you give up? Can't say that speaks very well about you, man.
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>>18018601
Fuck
>>18018602
I know, I know. But I never took into consideration that women care about shit like this
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I need to get out of this house, I can't save up for a year to do it, I can't afford the down payment+ first months rent and furniture to be able to get my feet off the ground. My father is a compulsive gambler who just went out and lost 500 of his 700 dollar check and expects me to pick up the pieces, I need to GET OUT NOW.
What can I do /adv/
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if it takes you a year to come up with a couple months of rent I've got some bad news: you can't afford the rent.
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>>18018616
The down payment is equal to the first three months rent, plus I need to get expensive furniture like a bed.
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>>18018654
>plus i need to get expensive furniture like a bed
you dont though, just sayian.
people are addicted to comfort and will generally choose comfort over happiness. i know people who have spent years of their lives sleeping on piles of clothes in rooms wiht three other dudes because it was all they could afford.
but it was better than where they came from.
the choice is yours ultimately, though it does beg the question, will your father really press charges if you bring your bed with you? or are you and your dad sharing a bed...
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Help me out guys, so my sister's boyfriend's little brother brought his girlfriend's dad to my dad's house asking to borrow money. My dad is retired and lives comfortably and they know this. It angers me that they just want to take advantage of him, he ended up letting them borrow one thousand dollars. I KNOW it won't be that last time, it triggers me because I have NEVER borrowed money from my dad I don't want others taking advantage of him. Do I just gotta stay out of it and let it happen?
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>>18018548
Give it some time, man. Borrowing isn't taking advantage. See if they pay it back before you get pissed.
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>>18018553
I won't go asking about it because it's kinda none of my business, but then again it's my dad. How do I talk to my dad about it?
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Forgot to add, they askedbto borrow for one week. it's been a few weeks. I think if I ask my dad about it he'll just say not to worry about it. What do
I might have borderline personality disorder:
>already diagnosed with major depression
>became extremely attached to a girl online
>bothered her and got insecure that she ignores me
>threaten with suicide if she ignores me
>she ignores me, write that I love her
>get major headache
>after a day everything is normal, write her that I'm okay and that I go on
>now I'm not attached anymore
Except talking to my psych about that who will probably only give me other meds like antipsychotics.
What should I do? I know there's no cure for bpd, so I want to know if there are things that I can do by myself to contain my emotional instability.
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>>18018501
seppuku
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>>18018508
that's not funny I'm really pissed since it's hard to control when writing with other people now. I feel like a mix of self-hate, self-love, optimism, pessimism, no emotions, too much emotions, extrem anger.
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>>18018516
Maybe you should get your delicate fragile feels to a doctor and fuck off of 4chan
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Anxiety with toy collecting 2017-02-03 11:14:29 Post No.18018492
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Anxiety with toy collecting
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My mom came in and saw pic related, and I don't know why but I suddenly got extremely embarrassed and tried to get her out of my room.
I instantly told it was from an anime, then she immediately ask how much so I told her that it was £18 for each (actually £30) and she said "thats dear, isn't it" (WTF)
Then at half ten (at night!) my dad reminded me to brush my teeth, then suddenly my mom comes in asking me to show my dad the figures.
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(Also I used collect mlp but I sold it)
Why is this happening, please any advice.
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It's not the toys on their own, it's those plus the idea that you can't look after yourself. If you were a professional young guy, smart suit, semi-high end apartment this would not happen. You could put them on some corner somewhere, say they are collectable, say you like them, no one would care. It's the fact that they think you're slightly dysfunctional that gets them saying wtf.
Unless they are really old fashioned, some some pink toys to your 70 year old grandma and she might not get it.
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>>18018492
Don't have an anxiety attack over them caring about what you buy. Your parents probably waste money on stuff you think is stupid but they like. Everyone either collects or invests in something that others might find funny or werid just brush it off really, it shouldn't matter to them what you buy, it's YOUR money.
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>>18018584
I know but It still bothers me, like what should I do when my dad sees them tomorrow
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Stealthily breaking up 2017-02-03 11:06:13 Post No.18018469
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Femanon here, I need help getting my friend to break up with her boyfriend, without her knowing I did it. First off, I know it sounds shitty.
I've been friends with her forever because we were in colorguard in high school together and have been best friends since. She's been dating a guy for 5 years and for the past year her relationship has gotten shitty. It wasn't anything too great to begin with.
Her boyfriend sleeps all day, works at Publix at night, and has zero aspirations. She only sees him twice a month or so and he denies her sex sometimes. He barely pays attention to her at all. He makes her feel bad and it's time she moved on. I can't outright say anything because she's very protective of her relationship with him even though she's miserable.
So I need a subtle way to break them up. She's my best girl and I hate seeing her miserable.
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How about you dont stick your nose in other peoples relationships, and let her decide whats good for her
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>>18018469
>he denies her sex sometimes.
Oh the humanity! The poor woman!
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>She only sees him twice a month or so
who cares then.
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Well to kick things off, I'm 18, raised with the church all my life, and my belief of the lord and whatnot are basically nonexistent. My mom got onto me for starting to smoke and she later found out my Traps/Gay porn on my gallery and she kept going on and insult me in a really harsh way. I feel like i've let my family down, what should i do /adv/?
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Stop smoking. Never start again.
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you already realize that what you're doing is wrong, and you already realize that the guilt is not enough to stop you
you need to stop what you're doing for *yourself.* this guilt is not doing anything to help you. it's only making you feel worse, which will effect your whole situation even worse, leading you down an even darker path.
ditch Christianity entirely. it tells you to live for others *instead of* yourself
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>>18018420
I've been trying to stop smoking but it's difficult. So far I've been 3 days clean
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there are feelgood idiots who pretend someone's actual sex is irrelevant. (that's not even part of the trans movement, calling some's birth sex completely irrelevant)
I wanted to know if this person was "born a" male or a female, but I wasn't allowed a clear, honest response
(I was asking a friend, not the person directly)
what type of stupid shit is this? would it tickle this friend if they tricked me into some bisexual experimentation, or do they actually believe the person's true sex is irrelevant?
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>>18018415
Well, it probably is irrelevant to anyone who's not fucking them or alternatively their doctor. Why is it any of your business?
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>>18018425
if a blind person asked what race someone is, would you refuse to tell them?
you're not part of this stupid ideology, are you?
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>>18018427
It really isn't anyone's business though. Just like if you got lumps on your weiner
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Relationship with a bipolar girl 2017-02-03 10:45:31 Post No.18018408
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Relationship with a bipolar girl
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My girl and I have been on/off for eight years. She's diagnosed bipolar, but not medicated. Every six months or so she has a particularly bad depressive period and decides to leave me.
Normally, I pretty much just let her go. I know she'll be back, so I just try to stay in her life enough to make sure she isn't doing anything too stupid.
But this time I need her not to go. My mom is dying. I can't go through this alone. I need her for me to lean on.
But yesterday she told me she wants to leave me again. All the same stuff she always says. Loves me but isn't in love. Needs her independence. Wants to be alone.
I really need to keep her from leaving this time. What would you guys do?
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>>18018408
>Loves me but isn't in love. Needs her independence.
Sounds like a cuck scenario. I'm so sorry OP, that's the last thing you need when your mom is dying.
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It's not something you should have to put up with. Tell her if she goes this time she's not coming back. Remind her historically what always happens and you're sick of it. BPD or not childish games need to stop.
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>>18018408
6 months with you OP and 6 months with Chad it sounds like
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Birth control and sex 2017-02-03 10:27:38 Post No.18018352
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Legit question about birth control, for the females or men with experience.
So ive been with a girl for about 4 months, during this time we'd play around and without even doing anything sexual she'd be really wet in her pants. It was always consistent, we play she gets wet. Not even foreplay, just being wet all the time. She decided to get birth control to be safe for when we finally have sex, and we played, and got the foreplay going, and it was almost to the point of tedium to get her to be even slightly wet.
Does birth control just make it impossible for girls to maintain their normal level of arousal? What the fuck? This is going to make sex a fuckin chore. We didnt end up having sex, for other reasons, but even so it just seemed to take forever to get going.
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>>18018352
thats why they invented foreplay and lube. if she aint wet keep going till she is. bc doesnt stop pregnancy. condoms reduce the risk also
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>>18018352
For some girls, yes. Experiences with birth control are highly different from girl to girl. She could try to switch pills if that doesn't work for her.
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>Does birth control just make it impossible for girls to maintain their normal level of arousal?
Short answer: it can.
Get her to try another type of BC.